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My husband s a hoarder of cars and computers

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28 January 2024 (F age 36-40 - Dear Cupid I am married to my spouse for last 6 years and been together for 10 years. No pets and no kids. I love my husband dearly. We both work full time and share our house workloads. Everything is great, but he has been hoarding cars and computers for years. Sahd he w... (293 words

Should I limit exposure to my family for my mental health?

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27 January 2024 (F age - I am the youngest in a family if four. My sister's are 10 years older than me and brother is 5 years older. All I heard growing up was that my brother wanted a brother and a bike for his birthday. Well I was born on his birthday, but was a sister. He did get a bike though. Also ... (947 words

She is in pursuit of me

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27 January 2024 (M age 22-25 - So about a month ago this girl I was close friends with cut contact from me. We kind of had an argument and then other people said some things/rumors she got upset about. For the past week or so she seems to be for lack of a better word 'in pursuit' of me or more like followin... (326 words

Sister in law has some odd quirks which at times cause hassle!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 30 days ago

26 January 2024 (F age 36-40 - My sister in law has some funny quirks- she is a nice lady and makes my brother happy which is the main thing but sometimes she does things that make no sense and just create more hassle. I’m probably going to be told to mind my own business which is fair enough but I just ... (525 words

He is controlling and I'm worried that the bad outweighs the good

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25 January 2024 (F age 41-50 - I was in a relationship for 8 years, 2 children and a wedding booked when I found out he was having an affair with a woman he worked with. We split up but stayed amicable for our children. 3 years down the line and I went through some serious trauma losing my parents 6 months a... (373 words

Curiosity killed the cat

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22 January 2024 (F age 18-21 - Curiosity got the best of me. I am almost certain she isn’t honest but I feel bad because I don’t think she’s comfortable but I asked my friend indirectly if she was gay. It’s several reasons why I want to know and think she is. Anyways when I asked she mentioned dating guys ... (159 words

Something just feels off about him

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21 January 2024 (F age 30-35 - I started seeing this guy at the end of November 2023. On our second date, he asked me about my dating history and he proceeded to tell him his. He told me he still talks daily to his most recent ex and that she is always asking him to get back together (she moved to another ... (461 words

Fear of buttons

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19 January 2024 (F age 13-15 - i have a unusal phobia it is the fear of buttons,l please let me explain, i do dont believe the buttons can harm me in any way, its just the sight of them make me feel sick, i have been told that it effects around one in 20.000 people, weel anyway i go to school in englad in ... (143 words

Bastard dear Cupid

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19 January 2024 (F age 51-59 - Bastard dear Cupid just read the private messages and emails I have sent you. I will take a legal action against you for posting things without our permission ... (28 words

Feelings for my no strings partner of 10 years

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18 January 2024 (F age 30-35 - Cutting a long story short. I have had a no strings attached for 10 years with the same person. We both live separate lives and have sometimes gone 6 months with no contact. I used to be really happy with the random hook ups, but within the last year my outlook on whatever you ... (504 words

Unhappy with hairdresser should I call and tell her or put it on social media?

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16 January 2024 (F age 41-50 - Been going to the same hairdressers 2 years now, Before that I went to another one for longer. I always get my roots done and a wash and blow dry and it costs £60. The one I go to now is never been as good as the one I went to years ago. This hairdresser never checks my hair ... (506 words

What to do about manipulative friend

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12 January 2024 (F age 30-35 - I'm not in a relationship nor have I been or want to be with the guy in question. We are friends nothing more, although I think he wouldn't say no if I asked him to be my bf. We've known each other for years but lost touch for ages, started hanging out again earlier this yea... (658 words

Should I try again with my cousin?

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12 January 2024 (M age 18-21 - i asked sex from my cousin but she refused en threatened evn to report me. I apologised en let her be. We dont talk as we used bt she shows mixed signals like one time when she made me feel her p*ssy. Should i strike again?... (46 words

Rf wont stop

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10 January 2024 (F age 13-15 - A couple of weeks before we broke up for the christmas school holidays i got an after school detention as a punishment for messing around in class, as i am normally a good girl and this is my first detention i didnt know what to expect, we finish school at 315pm those in ... (204 words

Husband is reluctant to sell our home & upgrade to a bigger one.

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10 January 2024 (F age 30-35 - My husband and I have lived in our house for 12 years. It’s a small 2 bedroom home. This was the first house we bought together and always agreed it would be a starter home and we’d eventually upsize when we could afford it. Not going to lie it was a stressful period for ... (495 words

Guy friend does not trust me around his friends?

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10 January 2024 (F age 26-29 - My guy friend and I got into a heated argument at the start of last year, where we were not speaking to each other. The generally argument was about his and my behaviour, where I thought he never really cared about me as a person. And he thought (and still thinks to this day) ... (660 words

My mom is dating a woman

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9 January 2024 (M age 16-17 - My mom is dating a woman! What should I do? My mom just introduced me to her "girlfriend" and I'm just not comfortable with the situation. That was a total shock and I'm still trying to process it. My mom said she would move in with us. My younger sister is apparently ok wi... (126 words

I don't understand what she is doing

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9 January 2024 (M age 51-59 - My girlfriend dumbed me coz she says I wasn’t serious about her and I was showing her love. I told her that if that’s what she wanted it’s okay. Then I asked her if she has found someone n she said no. That was on Boxing Day. Then I said if they no one how about we fix our ... (246 words

How do I get rid of the feelings that I have

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9 January 2024 (M age 36-40 - You guys helped me out a lot with my last problem. I was getting ghosted a bunch and kinda had to accept I wasn’t very datable. (quick recap: 35, lives back at home, works at a comic store, wanted to be a comic book artist, never had a girlfriend, paying off student loans) It ... (411 words

I am confused about what he wants

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8 January 2024 (F age 30-35 - Hey everyone and thank you in advance for your advice. I met a guy from the USA while he was working in my hometown ( I'm European). We hit it off on our first date and long story short we've been seeing each other for 2 months now. He recently bought me tickets to go see him ... (662 words

Don’t want my friend tagging along to my birthday weekend!!

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8 January 2024 (F age 36-40 - I know this is going to make me sound spoilt and like a coward… It’s my 40th birthday coming up shortly and my husband is treating us both to an overnight stay in a cabin in a zoo- it’s something I’ve wanted to do for years. A few months ago a friend of mine came... (483 words

Horny brother in law

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8 January 2024 (M age - I have the hots for my younger sister in law, what can I do?... (14 words

Guy I'm dating pressures me

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7 January 2024 (F age 30-35 - Hello, and thanks I'm currently in a dating someone for approximately 8 months. He pressures me to see him frequently. He pressures me to talk on the phone. As an example. I'm sick and have barely any voice he will start texting and I'll tell him I barely have a voice he ... (148 words

Why block me?

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6 January 2024 (F age 26-29 - So this is a weird one, I came across a local musician online. Thought his music was great, had a few conversations with him. Sometimes I got the impression he liked me but I put clear boundaries down of no. I'm here for music and music only. All seemed cool. I'm married ... (183 words

My family found out I don't keep the gifts they give me. How do I handle this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 55 days ago

5 January 2024 (M age 36-40 - My family (my parents, my brother, my sister-in-law and my sister-in-law's family) are terrible at buying gifts for me. They usually buy me clothes that don't fit, items that I don't need or want and other items that are useless to me. I usually pretend I love it, thank t... (403 words

I want to tell my family I have an 18 year old daughter

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5 January 2024 (M age 36-40 - When I was 18 years old, I got my girlfriend, Stephanie, pregnant. She is the same age as I am. Due to different reasons, we choose to put our daughter up for adoption. Her family knows that she had a daughter and that I'm the father. Stephanie's cousin, who is about 15 year... (284 words

Dating problems

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4 January 2024 (M age 30-35 - Do you think it’s transphobic if i don’t date a trans woman? I met this nice girl at a club on New Year’s Eve and we had a nice chat. When I got back and when we were making out I discovered she was trans. I stopped and told her this wouldn’t work. She got upset, said I was ... (63 words

I am not meant to be a mom

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 57 days ago

3 January 2024 (F age 30-35 - Hello. A specialist came to our house today to assess our 2.5 year old, having had some concerns raised by myself and nursery surrounding sensory sensitivities and learning difficulties. As suspected, our 2.5 year old is being referred due to strong suspicions of au... (278 words

Friend's style changed dramatically after breakup

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2 January 2024 (F age 30-35 - Concern over friend Friend recently had a break up about 6 weeks ago. She works at a school and went from dressing very girly/feminine like skirts and dresses everyday. She still wears dresses but now dresses in all black daily and wears literally black lipstick eyeshad... (151 words

Husband doesn't seem to be aware of his mother being nasty to me

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2 January 2024 (F age 41-50 - I have been with my husband 21 years and married for 18 years. We do not have children. His mother has never been very kind to me although my husband cannot see it. He is extremely close with his family and won’t accept his mother could ever do anything wrong. As with most of ... (415 words

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