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When having first time sex how long does the guy usually last?

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10 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - just a general question, when having first time sex how long does the guy usually last?... (16 words

Should I Allow My Boyfriend to Swing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

10 November 2009 (F age 51-59 - I've been in a wonderful relationship with my bf for 16 yrs. People remark how close we are, how loving we are to each other. We do everything together including our work. We have a great sex life and family life. He's always there for me and always tending to my needs. ... (397 words

After a break up, who should initiate a friendship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

10 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Okay, after a break up who initiates friendship? The person whose heart has been broken or the person who broke the heart? My exboyfriend and I were great friends before we dated and we did agree to being being friends. I miss having him in my life, its hard to go from hav... (64 words

Any good websites out there, that teach sex positions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5269 days ago

10 November 2009 (M age 36-40 - my wife and i are wanting to learn some new sexual positions and techniques. can anyone provide me with a website (or info how to find one) how to do so? im new at using the internet.... (37 words

I am love sick for this man. Should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

10 November 2009 (F age 51-59 - I am 38 years old and from the minute I met this man who is 55 I felt a connection. My friend introduced me to him when we went to see him play. He plays Irish music which I didn't even like when I met him so I know it is not a crazed fan kind of feeling. It feels more like a ... (418 words

He is complicated...drinks a lot and ignores me for days! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

10 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - Since the beggining he messed up. Stood me up, would make plans and ended up getting drunk, getting drunk all time,even once when we argued and i left,he spent the night with hes ex (but this happened in the first week we met, not a relationship yet).Anyway, as time passed by, ... (367 words

What other rational explanation is there other than cheating???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

10 November 2009 (F age - Hi Aunts, I have just discovered that my husband has had a 'relationship' with a co-worker. I found out from phone bills, texting and calls. He swears that it was not physical but I also know that he bought her some jewellery (a heart pendant) and maybe other stuff for all ... (193 words

I feel there is still hope for us. Is it really over or am I in denial???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

10 November 2009 (F age 51-59 - I have been with my partner for 5 years, we have been through so much together. I have 3 children and he has been involved with them %100.. we are a family.. My childrens' father is not easy and complicates things like decision making when it comes to their upbringing or pract... (305 words

My boyfriend slept with a girl when we'd just started dating. Is this an issue?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

10 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - my bofriend and i have been dating for a little over 8 months now and i recently found out 3 days after he asked me out on a date he slept with another girl should i confront him about it or leave it alone since me and him are living together now and he says he loves me... (58 words

Why does my wife eat egg shells and tiny rocks?

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10 November 2009 (M age 36-40 - my wife craves and eats tiny rocks and egg shells. any ideas why? ... (13 words

Did he text me so we can be friends?

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10 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - Ok so another small problem. I was seeing this guy for 8 weeks, we had such a laugh together and everything was great. I had met him 4 weeks after I came out of a 4 year relationship and I found him irrestistable. A few years ago, he came out of a really bad relationship... (286 words

What is the easiest way to switch from lovers to friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

10 November 2009 (F - Hi there, my gf and I have just split up after just over a year together. we still love each other very much, have retained the openess, honesty and trust we have built up and still get along very well. the only reason for the break up is that she is not really ready yet and ... (218 words

What should I do next with this co-worker?

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10 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - Where should I go from here. I have never had a boyfriend but I have been having some fun kissing a guy I work with, for experience really, we have both decided that we want to date but as I have never dated anyone before I am scared because we have only kissed at work and I ... (151 words

If a man "bucks" during sex, what does it mean?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

10 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - What does it mean when a guy bucks durning sex? Probbly a stupied question and one I should know but i'm just curious.... (26 words

I am developing feelings for my very good friend!

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10 November 2009 (F age 26-29 - hiya. Its all really getting to me right now. He is a really really good friend. Like a best friend. He is a year older than me. And our families are really close too! I have even stayed at his house for two weeks while my mum has been away. And it has never got too far betw... (229 words

Please help me cope with breaking up with me ex-girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5240 days ago

10 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - I broke up from my girlfriend 8 days ago, last Monday, after an argument. The thing is, I'm still madly in love with her.. I met my now ex through a friend of ours. She kept telling me how well suited we'd be together, so we were introduced to one another. We just seemed to c... (549 words

Maybe I am paranoid or maybe I should trust my gut...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

10 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - hi everyone, i am 21 and have known my boyfriend since i was 15. Now we have been dating for 3 yrs. For some reason i have been having these feelings that he is hiding something from me. i would have never thought of this when i was younger, but now he wants to pursue our ... (119 words

Should I make a move on him when he comes over?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

10 November 2009 (F age 26-29 - So, I have been best friend with this lad for about 3 years now, and we talk to each other about everything. Recently I started to like him, I told him, and he said he would talk to me about it, but he hasn't. But I don't think it's becuase he doesn't like me, are there an... (129 words

Do men enjoy giving women oral sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

10 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Right then... 'kay. I am sixteen and my bf has just turned 17 and is 11 months older than me, and we are just getting into the whole sex thing, and I was wondering: Do guys actually like going down on girls? because I've got a friend and he said it was disgusting and he ha... (100 words

Our age difference doesn't bother us, but my father is not speaking to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

10 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Im 19 and I've fallen in love with robert, a 36 year old. We've been getting to know eachother quite intensively last six months and last week we've had the most amazing sex, every aspect of 'us' is amazing and I can't stop thinking about him. I do have my doubts, and I don't ... (373 words

How should I feel about my workaholic boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5269 days ago

10 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - It is about 3 month i found him . Infact he wanted to be with me .He hasnt said to me what kind of relation he wants yet . I told him to think about it for a week, to know what he wants. I am not sure he loves me .Also he's crazy busy working and has hardly any time for me. ... (179 words

HOw can I control my urge to have a baby?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

10 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Im 16 years old and i want a baby! i have previously been pregnant two times and miscarried both, which left me very emotional. i have always wanted to have kids but over the past 6months i have wanted one more and more and it can get emotional for me. I am currently engaged ... (128 words

My husband and I are on different ends of the spectrum!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

10 November 2009 (F - I have been with my hubby for 17 years (married ten years and have children. In the last 6 months things have just got worse. I admit that I no longer want to be intimate with my hubby and he has got more annoyed saying I need to see a sex therapist or saying that he w... (576 words

I should just go with the flow... right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5269 days ago

10 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I sort of know what im doing but i just need some words of advice or if anyones been through something like this before.. I met this amazing guy on holiday on the last night. He lives about 3 hours away so we obvisley cant get to know each other yet but im going to univers... (346 words

Is my boyfriend worried about prison or not interested?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

10 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - I hooked up with a guy I'd known for a while this summer. We had a geat time and saw each other quite a lot for about a fortnight. I had recently moved back to the area he lived in but was working away a lot so we didn't see each other again til the following month, it has been ... (338 words

Should I believe and trust my boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

10 November 2009 (F age 51-59 - I am 41 my boyfriend of 8 months is 27. I am married (partially seperated). I recently got an apartment with for my boyfriend and I. We seemed to be getting along great, then his friends started coming around. I noticed a change in him. One night we went out and came back... (431 words

What are the best ways to masterbate without toys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5269 days ago

10 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Heyy :) Im a female and im 15 years old.. I like to masturbate quite alot, i want to know the best way to masturbate and the most joyfull without using toys.. please help me... (35 words

I am unfulfilled in this marriage but divorce terrifies me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5269 days ago

10 November 2009 (M age 41-50 - I have been married for 4 year and we have a 2 year old son together. Our relationship has been rocky for a long time. My wife is a good person albeit cold a distant sometimes. Throughout our relationship I have often felt alone and longing for more. In the last year our diff... (226 words

How can I help my friend stop obsessing about her ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

10 November 2009 (F age 26-29 - My friend broke up with her boyfriend almost a year ago and it was for a good reason, a really understandable reason.. but now, she won't stop thinking about him and wanting him back. I have told her time and time again to stop going after him. He treated her like rubbish an... (230 words

What were his reasons for saying all this to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

10 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - ok. i am really confused. my ex, who is also the father of my unborn child, has a gf now. it doesnt bother me, his loss right? anyways, a few days ago we were talking and i told him that he was the best i ever had, sexually of course, and he told me that he felt the same about ... (192 words

He wants to share a hotel room but I worry he'll think I am up for sex and I'm not!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

10 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - I need some advice, me and this guy I work with flirt a lot and we have never been on a date, we have kissed a couple of times, sometimes at work or at work nightouts. He has always wanted more but nothing serious, my response is - not at work. We have been getting on well ... (199 words

Is there any hope he and I will date again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

10 November 2009 (F age 26-29 - Well, my boyfriend broke up with me three days ago and whenever I look at him my eyes tear up and I just can't be around him. We still talk but I just can't be just friends with him. I still love him so much, I need to know if there is any hope that we could get back together, ... (69 words

Things went well...until she blocked me on Facebook! Any advice?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

10 November 2009 (M age 41-50 - Morning all, I'm in a dilemma and I think I did something to blow a potentially good thing. I have been talking with a girl for the last month or so, and everything was going so well -- chatting, chemistry and what not talking on the phone, plus chatting online, so I dec... (657 words

We fell in love on the internet and want to meet. Any advice?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

10 November 2009 (F age 26-29 - i've known this guy for 3/4 months and we are in love with each other and would do anything for each other. But there is only one problem. we met on the internet and we live so far away. were in the same country but about 10 hours away from one another. We both feel that t... (201 words

How do I make this long distance relationship work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

10 November 2009 (M age 36-40 - Hi there, I have recently started a long distance relationship with a girl in America. And me being from the UK. We both love each other very much but we only get to see each other every few months. And we're both finding it hard but I'm willing to cope with it because I think ... (115 words

He's going on another 'lad's holiday' next July and I am against it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

10 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - hello, im a 19 year old girl, been with my boyfriend for about 4 months, we have a good relationship, however he has a big ego he does love himself to bits, he has an extremly good job for his age of 19 and is a good looking guy, however he told me he is planning on going on a ... (316 words

She messages me all day while I am trying to get my work done..how do I tell her nicely, to cool it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5269 days ago

10 November 2009 (M age 41-50 - My GF and I live together and spend each evening together, which is great. However, she has a boring office job and texts me and IMs me all day long, five or six times an hour. I work at home on my computer as a freelancer and HAVE to get work done or else I won't have a job. ... (140 words

My bf is being pressured to date his old gf! Will he give in to that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5269 days ago

10 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - i am dating this guy i have liked for ages and he liked me back. i have one problem. He made out with a girl on camp (before he started dating me) but not long before and well I'm worried that he might get pressured into dating her by their mutual friends. i think he is getting ... (85 words

Should I be alarmed by the timing of her personal grooming?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

10 November 2009 (M age 51-59 - I am a 44 y/o male engaged to a 42 y/o woman...we have been together for 1.5 yrs., our relationship has had it's ups and downs, however, we profess our commitment to each other. She seems to wear her ring with pride. Although, lately we have been in a down swing... My questi... (100 words

My Mum won't come to my wedding!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

10 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hi Im 18 years old and my soon to be husbund is 31 we have known each other for nearly 2 years and have been dating for 16 months and living together for 8, i have had a very difficult childhood,father died when i was 14, mum trying to kill her self, and i also suffer from bip... (122 words

I am struggling to get over my ex-girlfriend; the mother of my child.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4917 days ago

10 November 2009 (M age 36-40 - Hi there my name is james and I'm 22 years old me and my ex girlfriend were going out for 4 years on and off we also have a son together the most recent break up we have had has lasted 6 months. But we have been gettin on good. So I have been goin and helping her out with the ... (191 words

Is this an online romance or am I over-reacting?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

10 November 2009 (M age 41-50 - My wife and I have been married for 7 years, but been together since we were teens. Only been with each other. She is very conservative and not at all into cheating ever. Very honest and pure. A Christian. Recently, she started playing an online game that requires u to chat... (241 words

I am too afraid to enjoy this romance because of past hurt! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

10 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - ive met a guy. hes really into me.. hes soo sweet and funny. hes good looking.. goes uni really ambitious and seems really friendly and i think i like him too cos everytime i think about him i just smile.. he makes me really happy by just talking to him. the thing is i... (207 words

How can I eliminate this harrassment without causing a scandal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

10 November 2009 (? age 51-59 - An explanationa and a question...I had a brief internet fling with a much younger friend of the family. It was never a love thing or even an attraction for me but i think it was more of an ego trip. Our families have been friends forever and he is roughly the age of my chil... (310 words

What should I get my bf for christmas?

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10 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - Well we all know xmas is nearly here. me and my bf have been going out for 2years now i really dont know what to buy him for xmas im 15 his 16 ive brought him a silver chain for his bday last yr ive brought him a canvas of us, teddys n that but can someone help me with somethin... (71 words

Should I confess to having read his emails?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

10 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I had been together for 4 and a half years, 2 months ago my bf dumped me, and went away on holiday alone, but we got back together again. 3 weeks ago though he was on a study trip to barcelona, and i read his emails when he was there (he had only sent me 1 text ... (365 words

I'm so worked up about failing my driving test, has anyone got any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

10 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - Im so down right now and for the stupidist reason....I have failed my driving test with just 1 major fault and 2 minors. Major fault was for doing 40mph on a 30mph road...completly my fault.Its not helping everyone is saying "oh what a shame" I just worked myself up so much ... (116 words

My husband is on a number of dating and sex sites, what are the chances that he has cheated or will do in the future?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

10 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - Hi cupid, I have been married for 7 years and have always been honest and faithful to my husband. My husband is extremely possessive and controlling, he does not even let me wear any thing that I look sexy in when we go out. He gets angry if any man gives me an admiring... (309 words

Will my boyfriend's family ever accept me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

10 November 2009 (F - My bf's parents don't like me and have made no effort to welcome or include me in their family. The thing is, I think it has more to do with his parents than it does with me. I get the feeling that it doesnt matter who my bf dates, no one would ever be good enough for him in ... (727 words

Is it safe to use vaginal cream after two weeks of abortion?

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10 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - Is it safe to use vaginal cream after two weeks of abortion?... (12 words

He cheated on me all through our seven years! And he doesn't feel guilty! What the?!?!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

10 November 2009 (F age - Hi Aunts/Uncles. I discovered my long term partner had been cheating on me all through our relationship (7years). I turned to all of you for advice. Which you gave me and I greatfully took. The problem now is, he says he didn't feel guilty while he was cheating, and he st... (96 words

Why would my ex add me as a friend on facebook?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

10 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - Me and my ex hadn't spoken in over a month. we got into an arguement and told me to just leave her alone so I did. There was no contact between us at all. Well last night she sends me a friend request on facebook. I still like the girl but I'm talkin to another girl now and she ... (101 words

Is it work or age difference that is really keeping him away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5269 days ago

10 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Why does age difference have to be an issue after you turn 18? Say I'm 19 and he's 39? Why does work have to be an issue when your both single and its only a seasonal job so you only see the other in the summer or winter? If I were to work a seasonal job in the winter and h... (177 words

Trying to break up with him, will this be the clean break?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

10 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - how do I know that I'm doing the right thing? I want to break up with my boyfriend of 2 years. he loves me so much that he has been fighting to keep us together. I feel bad for not wanting to work at it anymore. I just don't care that much about the relationship. I care about ... (131 words

I am thinking of rekindling my romance with my ex, how do I tell my family who hate him and end my current relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

10 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - Hi, Right the brief version if this, met guy 19, fall for each other, then he got married, had affair, I broke it off, now I am with someone else, so is he, but his left the girl, wants to be with me, I want him as well, as never loved the guy I am with, his rebound, but is ... (296 words

Am I freaking out over a pimple or could it be something more serious?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

10 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - So I just noticed this bump on my lip a few days ago and at first I didn't take it into consideration since I've suffered from acne for several years now, but it has gotten bigger and it hurts when I put pressure on it or touch it (like how it feels when I try to pop a very ... (135 words

If he was the one interested in me, wasn't he supposed to be more passionate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

10 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - About a week ago a friend told me a friend of him, who I worked with 6 months ago, was interested in me. I did not like him in the first place but I was flattered and now I like him and I want to know more about him. So he added me facebook, and invited me to go to coff... (352 words

I still see something beautiful in our relationship but he just is not committed to me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

10 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - He is the One.I knew it right when I met him the first time. He was trying to forget his first real important Love that HE decided to end because bored and unsatisfied (too young to just stay settled with just one girl). He wanted to move on and just have a lot of fun with ... (897 words

Should I ask him if he wants to get back or wait for him to speak?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

10 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - Just to repost this for more replies from our aunts: My boyfriend of 1 year and I broke up 6 months ago. For 4 months, we remained in contact though he expressed twice that he wished for me to stop contacting him. On the 5th month apart, having settled every unfinished ... (316 words

How can I find out whether we are actually a couple without scaring him away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

10 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I've known T since beginning of Sep. He first asked me out on a group date beginning of Oct, and since then our dates become more and more frequent. He invited me to his company's dinner and dance as his plus one where he kissed me. Since then, we've been spending almost ... (154 words

Am I just using her to get over the pain of losing my girlfriend and my best friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

10 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - about a year ago my girlfriend died. I went into a depression. I think about her every day. I let it affect me too much and ended up losing my job. two weeks ago my friend who I knew since I was 6 killed himself after losing his job. I havnt talked to anyone since. I havnt left ... (376 words

I know nothing about sex! Help

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10 November 2009 (M age 26-29 - hi. i'm 15. the problem is that i know actually nothing about sex. i know very little about girl's body, no clear idea about sexual intercourse. i'm not easy with girls at all. it seems that most of my friends masturbate, but i don't, in fact i don't know how to. i can realise ... (99 words

Smitten after 2 weeks of dating, how do I stop my insecurities from ruining this relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5270 days ago

10 November 2009 (F age 51-59 - I have met a guy I'm totally smitten with after only being together for two weeks. I think he's about to dump me due to my own stupid insecurities and related behavior (constantly seeking reassurance and doubting his motives for being with me). I feel horribly tortured when I'm ... (96 words

My ex and I are still friends and have sex, he is not sure he wants to get back together, what should I do

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10 November 2009 (F age 51-59 - my exs and i broke up..we are still friends and he tells me that he misses me alot and thinks about us and we still have sex. but hes not sure if he wants to get back with me. what should i do? ... (43 words

How do I appreciate good men?

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10 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - why Is it do i only fall for bad guys the guys that dont treat me well? there was a guy that was intetested in me last year and i ignored him cause i still had feelings for my bastard ex boyfriend who ended the relationship cause it was boring" cause i didnt sleep with him" so ... (186 words

I dumped him, now he makes out with me but he has a girlfriend, is he just using me?

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10 November 2009 (F age 26-29 - I dumped this one guy about 1 or 2months ago and were friends now...and the reson why I dumped him is because I felt wierd around him.But now that I know him better I want another chance,but there is one little probleme.....he has a girlfriend now.Every day I get so mad at ... (274 words

Is my boyfriend breaking up with me for good?

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10 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 4 years. We met in high school, and now we're both in college. We've had trust issues because we both have made mistakes in the past. However, our love for each other is so strong that we are inseparable. He's my best friend and we have a ... (355 words

Age difference has become a problem - after 5 years!

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10 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend is 17 years my senior. For most of our relationship, this was never a problem, but lately it has started to really bother me. It has nothing to do with our different interests or anything like that, and he certainly doesn't act his age (not in an immature way) bu... (426 words

I have been masturbating a long time, but I have a problem with orgasm, can anyone help me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5270 days ago

10 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Ok, its kinda a sex question ive been masterbating since i was 12, and i have been sexually active since i was 14, nd im 15, i know weird, but i just want to know why i dont come when i masterbate, i mean i sumthimes do but most of the time, i dont, or it comes out a while ... (151 words

My boyfriend says I am the only girl he has experiened an orgasm with, is this unusal?

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10 November 2009 (F - My bf says I am the first girl to ever make him cum. He says no girl has ever been able to do that for him before and hes always had trouble keeping it up, but with me he hasnt had either of those problems. I am wondering why this is? Im not even very experience in bed, before ... (144 words

What can I do to promote sexual activity with my girfriend?

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10 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - How do i Instigate sexual actions with my girlfriend, I just want to know how i should proceed with the actions, oh and secondary question should i have the condom already on or do i have to put it on infront of her cause that could just cause an unnessicery pause in the ... (55 words

Need some thoughful ideas for my guy for Christmas, please help?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

10 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend is 24 and I dont know what to get him for christmas. I want to get him something that shows I care and put thought into it. I also dont want it to be original but i want it to be something he likes. He loves the redskins and beer lol. He's family guy and loves ... (65 words

Six months and no I love you

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10 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - I know that every relationship moves at a different pace and you can't put a time limit on love. But I think it is typical of most relationships that after six months you know someone well enough to know whether you love them or not? It's not because he's scared to say it... (197 words

Disagreement with girlfriend. Is now a good time to send flowers?

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10 November 2009 (M age - I'd been going out with a girl for a little while but we ran into a rough patch. We're both in our mid-30's. We both have said we care for each other and hope to work it out. She was just about to go on vacation for a couple of weeks and we had another disagreement. I... (161 words

Never been in a relationship, unlucky streak, or is it me?

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10 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - Hi ppl this is my first time but i have a concern thats weighed heavy on my mind for ages now. I'm 21 and thus far, never had a long term relationship or anything remotely close! the past few guys i met all did exactly the same thing, showed loads of interest then ditched me ... (182 words

Please give me some lunch gift ideas!

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10 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I need some quick suggestions. Me and my husband has been invited by one of my colleagues and wife for lunch tomorrow at his residence. I have no idea what I should bring with me as a gift. Specially since it is a lunch and because i don't know them that well at all! What ... (102 words

My boyfriends love of butts makes me insecure!

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10 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I have a petite butt, small and a bit flat comparing to most women. My boyfriend said he loves my butt and he can't seem to keep his hands off of it. I'm just wondering why he seems to love my butt when my butt is smaller and not as nice as most women's butts out there. If he ... (150 words

Boyfriend wants a threesome!

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10 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months now, and very much in love. We were both kind of promiscuous before we ended up together but we are very happy to be in a faithful, trustworthy relationship. The boyfriend has brought up having a threesome, many times. Usua... (141 words

I'm pregnant and my boyfriend does not want to have sex with me !!!

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10 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - Im 17 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend does not want to have sex with me at all. I tried talking to him so he can tell me what are his concerns or fears and come up with a solution. But when i asked his answer was " i dont know" and walked away. then he tried to give me some ... (138 words

Trying to cope with my girlfriend's past

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10 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - I'm having problems coping with my girlfriend's past. We've been dating for a month and I really want it to last but every once in a while it comes up and haunts me a little bit. She was my first everything. I first found out when I asked her how many guys she has slept wi... (241 words

How do I know if I'm a lesbian?

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10 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I always seem to be thinking about how attractive females at my school are. I get turned on by females and occasionaly males. This year I had strong feelings for a female in my class. I had romantic feelings and that tingly feeling. I watched a video which had to girls ki... (132 words

My girlfriend is the only woman I've slept with. Will I regret having missed out when I'm 50?

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10 November 2009 (M age 41-50 - I have been with my GF since I was 18. Now I'm 28. I've never had sex with anyone else. Lately, I'm finding myself very tempted by many women I see and finding myself capable of getting their attention. When I'm 50, will I regret never being with more women as a young ma... (75 words

Why won't my wife go down on me?

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10 November 2009 (M age 51-59 - Why is it my wife wont go down on me yet she has no problem with me pleasing her orally? Before marriage i never had to ask. But now i only gotten head 3 times this decade yet i do her 3 to 4 times a month. Every time i even make a suggestion to she then goes fridged in bed w... (77 words

Why is my ex-best friend trying to provoke me?

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10 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - My ex best friend is doing stuff to make me mad or hurt me/ make me jealous on purpose. She stares and walks my way on purpose, tries to make me jealous by talkin to my friends or other people etc.. Why is she doing that and what should I do? Right now I'm just really ... (76 words

I cheated so why isn't my wife angry?

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10 November 2009 (M age 41-50 - I had an affair. She ended it. I was no longer in love with my wife. The situation wasn't fair to either of us, so I told her everything and that I was ready to leave (she'd had her suspicions). She broke down and couldn't really function, so I said I would stay and see if ... (288 words

We're both 13 and want to be friends with benefits, but I don't know if I'm ready!

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10 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - My neighbor and I have been friends since we were 2 and now I have feelings for him cause we have been through like everthing together and we probly tell each other more then like a married couple! We are both 13... The other day he suggested that we become friends with ben... (137 words

My bossy boss!

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10 November 2009 (F age 51-59 - I have a boss that is very emotionally abusive towards me. I can never do anything right it seems no matter what. I have talked to her only once about it but it still occurs. I do my absolute best to please her but its not enough. The worst is she dosent even say she is sorry ... (69 words

My ex-girlfriend and I broke up on bad terms. Now she's added me to Facebook.

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10 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - well here it goes. Me and my ex gf broke up a couple months ago after she cheated on me. We tried to remain friends but she messed that up. she started an arguement with me and we both said some pretty hurtful things and she tells me that we aren't friends anymore. Well we ... (112 words

How do I get him to fall for me?

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10 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - so, i am already in a relationship with this guy. but, im not exactly sure if he is even really interested in me. yes we have a ton of laughs but i want to keep him interested and i just dont know how. i guess what i am really asking is how to win him over and keep him hooked?... (60 words

He's sending mixed signals. What should I do?

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10 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hey!! Ok...so I met this guy (he's 20) right at the end of summer and we kind of got together, went out a few times, and i really liked him....and i think he liked me too. SO..then he had to go back to uni (which is in Cardiff!!) and i'm still here at uni in London...but we ... (394 words

Does my cousin fancy me?

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10 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - My cousin is two years my senior but when we was younger he went to live in another City with family... We lost contact for many years and recently got back in contact! We chat about everything and go on camera to one another and we always smile at each other. I dont kn... (107 words

Why would my ex-girlfriend block me from MSN?

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10 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - well i think my ex has blocked me on msn but i know she has deleted me. we had an argument but then she forgave me and told me she would give me one more chance. the reason why she deleted me was because i was getting on her nerves but didnt block me at that time. after th... (238 words

Fallen hard but afraid of scaring her away

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10 November 2009 (M age 36-40 - Hi, I met a girl around month ago at college. We were too shy to talk to one another and a friend stepped in, turns out we had both been wanting to make a move. We've seen each other a number of times now, and we would regularly text and msn, she would shower me with flirtati... (241 words

Do men want a woman to take charge in the bedroom?

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10 November 2009 (F - do men like a girl to take control in the bedroom department? i mean what do guys like a girl to act like a sergent major screaming at them to do certain things or do men like girls who let them take over? i like the man to take control most of the time but not in a lazy wa... (85 words

Need some advice about IUD coils.

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10 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - I have some questions about the IUD coil I am 24 and my partner he is 29, we have been together for almost 7 years. since I was about 14 I have tried a lot of different forms of birth control, mostly in my younger teen years I was taking the pill to help control my peri... (287 words

First time for both of us...what can we expect?

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10 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Alright, here it goes. I am sixteen and have been absolute BEST friends with a boy for three years. We talk about everything; probably more so than a married couple. This past year we have both told each other that we love each other. But we decided dating could ruin our f... (195 words

My bf's mother said I was good for nothing..that I ruined her son's life.!

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10 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - well im 18 years old and i have a huge problem, me and my boyfriend, have been together ever since we were 14 and we moved in together about a year ago. Our relationship with eachother is sometimes great but we have our ups and downs like some couples do. we both love eachother ... (238 words

How do I approach her about having an 'exclusive' relationship?

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10 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - I am at my wits end! I'm gay... not that it really matters for my query! I met the most amazing girl online just over two months ago .... we've talked on MSN and occasionally the phone nearly every single night, we also send each other a few texts each day. We've me... (303 words

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