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writes: i ejaculate too quicly and i wondered if anyone knew of any ways to help me. I've tryed all the pill, creams and penis rings but they don't work. I just want a method. Please help me!
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (18 June 2006):
 *knock one off* In the shower before you go to see her if sex is on the agenda. That should slow you up a bit....;-);-0
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (18 June 2006):
 Well yes putting one in the bank can help, but not with all men. What I think might help, is when you get the feeling that its coming stop yourself, When i say this i mean stop the movement during sex, until it passes and then carry on, do this a few times and the more you do it the more you will have control, men do get a kinda warning that that its building up, so the second you feel it stop and pause. Now i know its not going to work for everyone, but give it a go. You could always try this on your own first, stop start and so and the more you do it the better control you will have. I hope this helps, ive known a guy it did work for in the past. Failing that start over again, the more you get back on the more confidence you get and the more you get used to it, you will last longer the second time, but over time you can maybe increase the length of time. dont give into it to begin hold on to it, and hopefully this will in time help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2006): You have not really said much about your background. Are you in a relationship? If you are and you are feeling that you are letting your girlfriend down talk to her about it. Tell her its her fault because she is so damn hot. This will make her at least sympathise a little and maybe you can both relax a little on the issue.
I would advise you to try to get your self pretty fit or in reasonable shape. Spend a lot of time on foreplay before you start. When you are going to cum just let it happen. Then, start kissing her, give her a sensual massage for about 5 mins and then go again. You should find it a little harder to cum right away 5 minutes after going. It may have a lot to do with nerves that you are going so quickly, so if you go once you will probably relax but stop as you may be embarrassed. So try to go as us guys have reserves. If this works after a while your confidence may build up and you will stop going so quickly the first time.
Good luck. I hope it works mate.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2006): As they say, put one in the bank before you have any sex with a partner.
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