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reader, ajrockz  +, writes (7 October 2008):
he is a GUY. all guys do it!!!
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reader, seamus +, writes (24 June 2006):
Take this from a 22 year old man, every able bodied man masterbates.I'ts just in our nature to relieve sexual tension.every man I know, including me.I'ts not sick or perverse and I'ts completly natural.This should not bother you as it doesn't affect my relationsip. I am now happily engaged to a girl who is well aware that I masterbate.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2006): just ask! but every guy has at lest done it once!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2006): Not every guy or girl masturbates. If you really want to know, check his room and see if he has copies of porn stashed somewhere (snooping around may take away brownie points tho). Mind you, even if he has porn in his room, there is a very highly unlikely chance he doesn't masturbate to them. Another way is obviously ask him, "Honey, do you masturbate?"
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2006): He does. Every guy does.
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reader, Dr T  +, writes (19 June 2006):
He does - no doubt - 110% - perfectly natural - every guy you have met and will meet masturbates.
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female
reader, willywombat +, writes (19 June 2006):
 Why do you need to know this?
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female
reader, Wendyg +, writes (19 June 2006):
 Not come across a boyfriend yet that dont!! Take it as red that he does, all males do at some point or other. Is this a problem to you that he does ? Maybe join in! Talk to him and ask him, if it bothers you, if not then theres not prob. Men get an itch they need to scratch so they go ahead and do it!
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reader, Yos  +, writes (19 June 2006):
 Almost all men masturbate. I would be worried if a man didn't, unless they had a specific medical or religeous reason not to.
If you really want to know, I suggest asking him. And if you really really want to know, I suggest asking him to let you watch.
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reader, Hopeful +, writes (19 June 2006):
 Most men do. Most women do.
Nothing wrong with it - doesn't mean he doesn't love you or doesn't find you attractive.
People do it for different reasons - for some its a tension relief.
Some do it a lot, some people not much.
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (19 June 2006):
 Does he breathe? OK, he masturbates.
Seriously, almost without exception, guys do. About 99.9%of girls too. So you can be almost certain that he masturbates.
It doesn't mean he doesn't find you sexually alluring. It's not a challenge to your attractiveness. It's just a given.
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