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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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Why does my dad do this?
Q. I hate asking him for help with anything. So do my siblings. If you do ask, he turns everything around on you. He says things like "Why do I have to do EVERYTHING?" or "You'll have to wait, I'm doing everything else". "WHY am I the only person who ...
A. 2 June 2012: Verbal abuse is irrelevant. Why stay in your parent's home and continue to take that?
You don't need to ask your daddy's permission to move out!
Like Eyes said, unless you are bound and chained in the basement, you're free to pack your things... (read in full...)
How did he get Chlamydia?
Q. I have been with my partner for over 2 years, we have had a few tough weeks. he has been depressed as he has lost his job and feels a failure, which of course I tell him he is not. He has been a bit agitated for a few weeks,today he rang me and told ...
A. 30 September 2011: Oh course he's going to tell you he got it from his previous partner!!! He's NOT going to admit he cheated!!
What did he say when you asked why he randomly got tested when you two have been together for 2 years? You did ask him that, didn't y... (read in full...)
Who do I pick? Ducky, Arby or Dorky??
Q. Help me pleased I don't know what to do! Okay so I have a few diferent guys asking me out and I got no Idea who to pick. 1 guy is my ex BF (call him Ducky) Him and I were dating for like a week then I had to break up with him cuz of drama in my l...
A. 23 September 2011: There's no sense in crying over boys!!! Plus, you're lucky that boys like you. I can't tell you how many young girls we get on here that want boyfriends but can't get one.
So you can't pick a guy, it's not the end of the world. If you're feeling ... (read in full...)
Who do I pick? Ducky, Arby or Dorky??
Q. Help me pleased I don't know what to do! Okay so I have a few diferent guys asking me out and I got no Idea who to pick. 1 guy is my ex BF (call him Ducky) Him and I were dating for like a week then I had to break up with him cuz of drama in my l...
A. 23 September 2011: Since you can't make up your mind then don't pick any of them.
Ultimately it's your choice, and you can choose whether or not you want to listen to your suggestions.
If you're still conflicted..make a Pro's and Con's List for each guy and pic... (read in full...)
Who do I pick? Ducky, Arby or Dorky??
Q. Help me pleased I don't know what to do! Okay so I have a few diferent guys asking me out and I got no Idea who to pick. 1 guy is my ex BF (call him Ducky) Him and I were dating for like a week then I had to break up with him cuz of drama in my l...
A. 23 September 2011: Sounds like you've answered your own question then. :)... (read in full...)
Who do I pick? Ducky, Arby or Dorky??
Q. Help me pleased I don't know what to do! Okay so I have a few diferent guys asking me out and I got no Idea who to pick. 1 guy is my ex BF (call him Ducky) Him and I were dating for like a week then I had to break up with him cuz of drama in my l...
A. 23 September 2011: Happy, Sleepy, and Dopey aren't options as well? Just kidding!
Ducky- You already gave him a chance. Then he caused drama in your life??
Arby- Sweet guy and the only one you haven't dated. Sounds like a winner to me!
Dorky- Real goofball,... (read in full...)
More serious than "boyfriend", not engaged, what do you call it?
Q. I have a question about how to describe my relationship. My boyfriend and I are not yet engaged but are very committed to each other, to the point that we are planning on sharing a house shortly. "Boyfriend" no longer seems like the right word. ...
A. 22 September 2011: I don't think "boyfriend" lacks meaning. He's not your fiance or husband just yet, the only other term left is boyfriend. Which pretty much describes what he is to you. A more serious relationship, but that's to be expected given your age bracket. ... (read in full...)
I need advice on what to wear on my real date with my FWB!
Q. Hi eveyone my fwb has finally asked me out on a proper official date I'm so nervous I was hoping you ladys would give me some advice on what I should wear to make the right impression I've been waiting for this for months I really don't want to mess ...
A. 22 September 2011:
Makeup: Keep it minimal and natural. No need to wear an overdramatic smoky eye. Do foundation, blush, neutral eyeshadow, eyeliner, mascara, and maybe a light lip gloss.
Clothing: Dress accordingly.
-If you're going to a casual movie and... (read in full...)
I"m not sure if the pregnancy test was positive or negative?
Q. I took a pregnancy test the other day. I'm not sure I waited long enough or what. I waited at least 3 minutes before I had to leave, but im still nervous about the results. It had two windows, in one window, there was a verticle line, and in the...
A. 22 September 2011: I'm sorry for sounding rude, but at 30-35 you should know how to read a pregnancy test or at least have enough sense to consult the directions first.
Disregard that pregnancy test, and buy the Clear Blue digital ones which simply state "Pregnan... (read in full...)
How did he get Chlamydia?
Q. I have been with my partner for over 2 years, we have had a few tough weeks. he has been depressed as he has lost his job and feels a failure, which of course I tell him he is not. He has been a bit agitated for a few weeks,today he rang me and told ...
A. 22 September 2011: Chlamydia is known as a "silent" disease because the majority of infected people have no symptoms. If symptoms do occur, they usually appear within 1 to 3 weeks after exposure.
I pulled that little snippet from this link: http://w... (read in full...)
Where do I hide the condoms?
Q. My friends bought me some condoms (I have a new boyfriend- he's gorgeous and very sexy- they were joking around), but I want to hang onto them just in case anything does happen- better safe than sorry! Does anyone have any ideas as to where in my ro...
A. 21 September 2011: Don't hide them too well of where when the time comes to get down, you're tearing apart your room.
I see no reason to hide them as well, if your parents came across them, so what? At least you're practicing safe sex.
If you must stash them,... (read in full...)
Should I trust my partner? Found photos of his ex locked up
Q. Hi, i'v been with my boyfriend for 8 years now and have 4 children together. When we moved house my 4 year old at the time pulled an envelope out and inside were pictures of his ex. I questioned him he said he didn't now he still had them and he ...
A. 21 September 2011: Perhaps your messy divorce is the reason you are having trust issues with your boyfriend?
Tie the knot when you close that messy divorce chapter. You need to be over it and ready to move on before you get married again. ... (read in full...)
Should I trust my partner? Found photos of his ex locked up
Q. Hi, i'v been with my boyfriend for 8 years now and have 4 children together. When we moved house my 4 year old at the time pulled an envelope out and inside were pictures of his ex. I questioned him he said he didn't now he still had them and he ...
A. 19 September 2011: Here's some things bothering me...together 8yrs and 4 children together but you're still not married?? I don't know, maybe you have a different viewpoint about marriage. Also, did your 13yr old son come across the letters or did you?
It's ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my girlfriend about this incident?
Q. Hello there, alright this is serious so please I don't want people telling me about the age of legal sex, I know thank you. I found this girl, she is just like me in almost everyway and we have started dating, and we are really close now, I have no ...
A. 19 September 2011: Should you tell your girlfriend that you cheated? Yes. You may have stopped at intercourse, but with the fooling around you might as well went all the way with this chick.
Don't blame it on the alcohol. You were fully aware of what you were doi... (read in full...)
How To Create Great Conversations On A Date
Q. To have a successful date, you must have great conversation. Conversation creates chemistry. Leaving out just one of these tips, can end a conversation quickly or be the cause of “date destruction”. Here are the top five conversation tip...
A. 18 September 2011: Mmm the phone call days before the day is to seal the deal with a date. I've never had a full blown convo on that day...conversation needs to be saved for that particular evening to avoid awkward silences.
I see your point, it would be wise to ... (read in full...)
Should I insist on a paternity test?
Q. I'm very angry at a friend for telling everyone her daughter is my child. This woman and her husband were close friends of my X wife and I years ago. The girl does resemble me, but I never had any kind of sex with this woman. Now half the town is ...
A. 18 September 2011: Well looks like you can sue. Hey, I'm no lawyer.
I suppose it is hard for me to understand the need to sue for slander, since I'm from a bigger town and false rumors that are spread by people who nothing better to do with their time, don't bo... (read in full...)
Is this happily married woman looking to have an affair with me?
Q. I am a divorced man and met a married woman through ballroom dancing. She was my partner for a recent dance competition, during which I found myself drawn to her. She enjoys dancing with me, is flirty with me. We do a lot of hugging and holding each ...
A. 18 September 2011: A happily married woman doesn't go looking for an affair.
However, a happily married woman is allowed to have friends. Which is what you are to her.
If you find yourself falling for her, then perhaps you should ask to switch partners. There'... (read in full...)
I'm 28 and never had a girlfriend! Now since I finished school and bought a BMW, girls are talking to me now?
Q. Should i welcome each girl that is now trying to talk to me with caution? I'm very skeptical and always have been skeptical regarding women in my life. Now girls are now coming out of the woods all of a sudden asking for things? I got a whole new ...
A. 18 September 2011: You're a college graduate, home owner, and a proud Beamer owner.. I'd say you have a lot to offer a woman.
Be picky about who you date if these women are truly lining up around the block to date you. Weed the bad apples out of the good ones. ... (read in full...)
I'm pretty sure my boyfriend cheated but I don't want to leave him!
Q. Hi, Just need some help with my cheating boyfriend. Im pretty sure he's been lying and cheating on me. I saw the girls facebook and his name is all over it. She talks about him a lot. I'm stuck right now. I was too upset to talk to him ...
A. 18 September 2011: What other choice do you have? You stay with him and keep on constantly worrying if he's cheating or not.
Just because a girl's FB has his name on it, doesn't mean he's cheating. Are you really 41-50? Because a mature adult would wait till the... (read in full...)
This morning I found a stash of ex's dirty panties in my boyfriend's dresser!
Q. Please help.My boyfriend and I have been dating exclusively for 7 months and are talking about building a life together. This morning I found a stash of exes dirty panties in his drawer next to our bed. What should I do?...
A. 18 September 2011: Gross.
Ex's as in singular ex maybe the most recent, or in the plural tense meaning various ex's panties?
Just because there are dirty panties stashed in a drawer doesn't mean he's cheating. It could be women left them as reminders or for... (read in full...)
Suggestions for a short driving vacation from New Mexico?
Q. Our one year anniversary is fast approaching and we don't have a lot of money but want to go somewhere for a romantic 4 days. We live in southern New Mexico so we're not close to California or Florida. Any cool romantic places we go drive to ...
A. 18 September 2011: Try googling destinations around that area. ... (read in full...)
He's in the army now...
Q. this is a question for anyone with experience with or knowledge about someone in the army. My boyfriend is going off to training for the army soon, how often can they call/send letters home? And when they're on a tour, can they contact/write l...
A. 17 September 2011: an*... (read in full...)
He's in the army now...
Q. this is a question for anyone with experience with or knowledge about someone in the army. My boyfriend is going off to training for the army soon, how often can they call/send letters home? And when they're on a tour, can they contact/write l...
A. 17 September 2011: When my husband was in basic, they were able to call from a pay phone on the weekends since they confiscate your mobile in the beginning. He says it has changed now, but when you're in basic training you're working pretty much all day and weekends ... (read in full...)
Can I delete my 'Step Mum' from Facebook ?
Q. My step mother seems to be utterly obsessed with me. She is paranoid that my Dad favours me over her, (we do have a strong relationship but I'm his DAUGHTER not his lover) I was open to her in the beginning when she proposed to him after barely ...
A. 17 September 2011: You can delete whomever you please off of your Facebook. It's FB, not like you're deleting her out of your life. You really can't because she's your father's wife. She'll be around as long as he'll have her.
However, there's no need to communic... (read in full...)
Thrush or chlamydia?
Q. Last thursday (9 days ago) i had unprotected sex with a friend i know and trust to be clean of any sti although the proceding events has got me worried. On the sunday i noticed a cluster of red spots on the tip of my penis no smell or irritant...
A. 17 September 2011: With the bumps and painful urination it sounds as if it's chlamydia.
Thrush is nothing but a male yeast infection. There can be white discharge, it will be itchy, and occasionally the tip of the penis can be covered in blisters.
But we're NOT... (read in full...)
Pregnant by fwb what do I do
Q. Hi everyone here is my problem I have a fwb didn't intend to I wanted a relationship with him he just wanted sex so that was that but here's my problem I think I might be pregnant but he doesn't want to be with me as we have talked about this before ...
A. 17 September 2011: First take a pregnancy test to determine whether you are or not. There's no sense in freaking out about how to tell this FWB when you don't even know if you are pregnant. Take a test first.
If you aren't, then perhaps your partner better use a co... (read in full...)
Should I insist on a paternity test?
Q. I'm very angry at a friend for telling everyone her daughter is my child. This woman and her husband were close friends of my X wife and I years ago. The girl does resemble me, but I never had any kind of sex with this woman. Now half the town is ...
A. 17 September 2011: What would you sue for? The only thing that is getting damaged is your reputation.
I believe you should speak with her husband on asking his wife to submit the child to DNA testing. Since he's questioning the child, and you haven't touched ... (read in full...)
How To Create Great Conversations On A Date
Q. To have a successful date, you must have great conversation. Conversation creates chemistry. Leaving out just one of these tips, can end a conversation quickly or be the cause of “date destruction”. Here are the top five conversation tip...
A. 17 September 2011: Can't disagree with the rest but.... on #5 sometimes it's good to touch on the religion and politics just so you know where they stand, that way you can avoid offending their religion or viewpoints.
What if you're Christian and your date is Athei... (read in full...)
This new girl is making things hell for me
Q. Ok so heres the deal, b4 i tell you my story i have to say that my situation has a twist. Its not a black or white story. Ok so it all started a few months ago, i found out my boyfriend was talking to this girl (who doesnt live anywhere near us...
A. 17 September 2011: You would actually get more answers if you posted this as a question, not an article. ... (read in full...)
Guys: How To Have The "Swagger " Walk
Q. So we've covered how to talk and present yourself in from of women, so the last thing I'd like to share is how to have a swagger walk. Enjoy! --------------------------------------------------------------- When it comes to attracting a ...
A. 17 September 2011: -Don't walk like you have something inserted in your rear, with your arms swinging back and forth with a gorilla.
-Don't walk like your on a catwalk.
-Don't walk slouched over like the Hunchback of Notre Dame.
Other than that, I really don't p... (read in full...)
What Women Want Most From A Guy
Q. In a continuation to my series of articles on developing "Swagger", I feel it's necessary recap, include, and conclude with these 8 tips. If there's anything additional ladies that you feel is worth mentioning, don't hesitate to add your thoughts in ...
A. 16 September 2011: I'll answer this if I were still single..
1. A man who ACTUALLY listens. I find it too often that men only listen to what half of women are saying.
Also, I can't sit there talking with a male who agrees with everything I say. What a boring co... (read in full...)
Why does my dad do this?
Q. I hate asking him for help with anything. So do my siblings. If you do ask, he turns everything around on you. He says things like "Why do I have to do EVERYTHING?" or "You'll have to wait, I'm doing everything else". "WHY am I the only person who ...
A. 16 September 2011: Since you're an adult, it's up to you to make that decision to leave your parent's home. No one can stop you. But I don't think you want to leave.
If you're going to continue to live underneath their roof, then I would stop complaining about th... (read in full...)
He sends nasty messages about me to my workmates. How do I stop my soon to be Ex from ruining my life?
Q. My boyfriend (who will very shortly be my ex) is trying to wreck my life. recently he has been very controlling and jealous - for no reason, but now he's just doing evil things to get at me, sending facebook messages to my work colleagues and my ...
A. 16 September 2011: Why give the guy a break when he isn't giving her one?
He's verbally abusing her, and harassing her workmates. You have NO idea how far this crazy person will go.... (read in full...)
Last minute acceptance left no room for me?
Q. My boyfriend was invited to a female friends birthday party he forgot to send the rsvp back in time. However he called her and she stated she did not have anymore space however she will make space only for him. Should I be mad that he is going ...
A. 15 September 2011: Are you saying that he always chooses his friends over you?
This isn't a matter of choosing between you or his friend's birthday party. Were you even formally invited on the invitation? Or did it state he could bring a +1?
If so then I can s... (read in full...)
True or False: Men always think the grass may be greener with someone else?
Q. This is a question for men to answer true or false. If you're female, do not answer. This is an unanswerable question by a woman. Here is the back story, or skip to the bottom for the question. Last night while watching t.v. a character we both...
A. 14 September 2011: False, it's unfair of him to generalize "ALL" men fantasize about being in a relationship with another woman. ... (read in full...)
Last minute acceptance left no room for me?
Q. My boyfriend was invited to a female friends birthday party he forgot to send the rsvp back in time. However he called her and she stated she did not have anymore space however she will make space only for him. Should I be mad that he is going ...
A. 14 September 2011: It's not a wedding, so he doesn't need to RSVP with a +1.
You said it yourself, it's just HIS friend's birthday party. There's no need for you to go.
... (read in full...)
How can I make everyone happy this christmas, and still spend it with my boyfriend?
Q. I know xmas is a few months away but its already causing me stress! I met my boyfriend at uni on the first day, two years ago and we've lived together since. A few weeks into our relationship i met his parents who live in the London area and ...
A. 14 September 2011: The best plan to make sure you see everyone, is to spend half the Christmas day with your mom and the other half with his parents. You can't make your boyfriend spend Christmas with you and your mum. I'm sure he wants to spend time with his family ... (read in full...)
He's worth it... even for a hook up!!!
Q. This guy cancelled a date, said he'd reschedule, seems busy, but I want him SO bad, I don't usually message or call guys but he's so worth it, even for a hookup, should I go ahead and call? A part of me says yes do it, a part of me says no????...
A. 12 September 2011: When you want to hook up with a guy, you ring/text him and tell him to come round to your place after 9pm. That's called a booty call. Your guy will understand that you want him to come over and get it on.
If for some reason he doesn't get it o... (read in full...)
I feel I'm being used!
Q. I have been involved with a guy on and off for about 3 years now! I was completely besotted with him and because I loved him I just let him treat me bad - like he only ever used me for money,sex now and then etc etc... Anyway one day last week I ...
A. 11 September 2011: It's evident you're being used. What's disturbing is you're aware of it and allowing it to happen!
You may care about him, hence why you give him $, but he could really care less about you.
If you stop giving him what he wants ($ and sex... (read in full...)
So why does he call me every other day?
Q. There is this guy. He calls me every other day. not daily. he talks about everything and nothing at all. does he see me just as a friend or something more? i have never had guy friends so i dont know if dey call like dis and talk . ...
A. 11 September 2011: If a guy calls you quite a bit (guys aren't talkers when it comes to the phone), then he probably likes you as more than a friend.
It's best to ask him.... (read in full...)
He sends nasty messages about me to my workmates. How do I stop my soon to be Ex from ruining my life?
Q. My boyfriend (who will very shortly be my ex) is trying to wreck my life. recently he has been very controlling and jealous - for no reason, but now he's just doing evil things to get at me, sending facebook messages to my work colleagues and my ...
A. 11 September 2011: Why isn't he your ex already?
I'm sorry but your possessive, controlling, psycho boyfriend isn't going to dump you, because you're his property.
You are the one who is going to have to dump him and proceed to call the police to get a No Cont... (read in full...)
Can I do anything to get us back together again? He blames FaceBook. His excuses seem flimsy
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost four years. we loved each other so much and it was a long distance relationship. In fall 2010 he decided to end the relationship because he thought we were arguing and he says we were two diff...
A. 11 September 2011: Have you tried googling your name to see if anything else comes up?
What were you two arguing about in the beginning?
I see him breaking up with you because for whatever reason he doesn't trust you. In which if you take the trust out of the... (read in full...)
Is it weird that I want to ask my boss out? Should I? Despite fact that she so reminds me of my sister?
Q. I want to ask this girl out. she is my boss, but then she is so pretty and good looking. But bad thing is she reminds me of my sister, how they act. But like her. My sister has two kids, love her kids to death and wish the other, who is my boss knew...
A. 11 September 2011: So what's your question?
And why do you want to ask your married boss who reminds you of your sister out?
You can't ask out your boss because:
1. I'm certain it's against the company fraternization policy and you could lose your job.
2.... (read in full...)
A am female and have only male friends - is this abnormal?
Q. My best friend is female but she's gay and recently I made another female friend who is also gay. Other than that, all my friends are male. I don't feel comfortable with women - I didn't have many girl friends in school because I was so shy and I ...
A. 11 September 2011: Absolutely!!!!!
I have quite a bit of homosexual and straight male friends. Don't really identify with females in my area because they're too competitive. I'm not looking to win race, I'm looking for a honest friendship!
It's perfectly normal... (read in full...)
He's worth it... even for a hook up!!!
Q. This guy cancelled a date, said he'd reschedule, seems busy, but I want him SO bad, I don't usually message or call guys but he's so worth it, even for a hookup, should I go ahead and call? A part of me says yes do it, a part of me says no????...
A. 11 September 2011: If it's been a long time for you sexually, then go right ahead and tell him you want get together to hook up soon. I bet he doesn't cancel on you then. ... (read in full...)
Even though I've had my tubes tied, could I be pregnant???
Q. I'm 44 and had my tubes tied but hadnt had period in 2 months. i also had some slight bleeding after sex, when i wiped it was light in color and only when i wiped it last thru the day and was gone the next day but happend again after the next 2 ...
A. 10 September 2011: Call your gyno and go in for a blood test if you think the pregnancy tests are inaccurate. ... (read in full...)
Why does my dad do this?
Q. I hate asking him for help with anything. So do my siblings. If you do ask, he turns everything around on you. He says things like "Why do I have to do EVERYTHING?" or "You'll have to wait, I'm doing everything else". "WHY am I the only person who ...
A. 5 July 2011: So what are you going to do then? Live at home until you're 35?? Or until you find a future husband?
You've got to leave sometime. So what if they're dysfunctional? I'm very sure they're capable of functioning just fine without you living u... (read in full...)
Why does my dad do this?
Q. I hate asking him for help with anything. So do my siblings. If you do ask, he turns everything around on you. He says things like "Why do I have to do EVERYTHING?" or "You'll have to wait, I'm doing everything else". "WHY am I the only person who ...
A. 4 July 2011: So what are you asking him with help on??
At 22-25, you are an adult who is capable of making her own life altering changes. You're no longer a minor in your parents care. You CAN leave the nest, with or without their permission. You have a j... (read in full...)
Why does my dad do this?
Q. I hate asking him for help with anything. So do my siblings. If you do ask, he turns everything around on you. He says things like "Why do I have to do EVERYTHING?" or "You'll have to wait, I'm doing everything else". "WHY am I the only person who ...
A. 18 June 2011: Actually all parents do this. It's just acting out sheer frustration. Is your dad a single parent? That could be part of it, he's tired of playing the role of mother and father.
Does your father go to work 5 days a week? Even work over time? Th... (read in full...)
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