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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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Even though I've had my tubes tied, could I be pregnant???
Q. I'm 44 and had my tubes tied but hadnt had period in 2 months. i also had some slight bleeding after sex, when i wiped it was light in color and only when i wiped it last thru the day and was gone the next day but happend again after the next 2 ...
A. 10 September 2011: Call your gyno and go in for a blood test if you think the pregnancy tests are inaccurate. ... (read in full...)
How do I approach a girl for a date?
Q. so my best friends bad are playing at this pub tonight. the girl i really like is going to be there but she has a boyfriend who is a friend so i want to get her out of my head. i think that cause its a pub i could try and talk to girls and set so...
A. 10 September 2011: I'm actually surprised this wasn't mentioned..
But I like it when a guy approaches me says "Hello" and asks me if he can buy me my next drink. If I accept that's an invitation to strike up conversation, and "yes, I'm interested". If I say "No than... (read in full...)
Does what he's saying mean that he's been cheating?
Q. Hey everyone, I have a quick question. I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years. 9 months out of the year its long distance when he goes away to school. The other months he's home which is half an hour away from me at most. Anyways...
A. 10 September 2011: "But recently we got into an arguement and the gist was basicly me telling him whatever he does behind my back I can do too and him saying he's not doing anything. But afterwards he's been saying things like no one is taking you away from me and we ... (read in full...)
Have I lost my virginity to a cucumber??
Q. I am a 19 yr old girl who has always prided myself on the idea of being a virgin when I got married. I got super horny tonight, though, and used a cucumber. I didnt notice until afterwards that I had bled. Does this mean I have lost my virginity? Or ...
A. 10 September 2011: I actually know a girl who went to the hospital to get a pickle removed from her vagina because she too was using a veggie for masturbation. So it's a BAD idea to masturbate with produce.
To echo everyone else, yes you are still a virgin.
For ... (read in full...)
I need a car, parents won't fix it, I can't get to a job or work without going through alot of trouble!
Q. I Need Some advice!!!!!!!!! So I need a job real bad. My dad has 2 cars and 1 cost 200$ to be fixed. Both my parents Have jobs so I told Them if they fix the car I will pay them back with my first pay check. When I had job I offered my dad the amou...
A. 10 September 2011: Good luck kiddo, you'll work it out. And though the pay and hours suck, you'll enjoy working at the mall (well not around Black Friday).
Welcome to the real world, it only gets tougher from here on out! ... (read in full...)
My ex has forgotten when my birthday is. Do I have a right to be peeved or am I making a big deal of nothing?
Q. My ex and me were together for just under six months. It's been several months now since we broke up. We've tried to be friends since then but it has been difficult for me because she ended it and then got a new boyfriend soon after. Anyway, t...
A. 10 September 2011: Have fun on your date!
And for your sake I do hope you continue to ignore your ex's phone calls/texts. It's the only way you will truly move on. ... (read in full...)
Why does my wife wear sexy panties at work and granny panties at home?
Q. I'll try to keep this brief. She wears sexy panties and thongs to work but granny panties at home and sometimes, about 50% of the time, wears no panties to work. When questioned about no panties she explains she wore the same ugly pair because she...
A. 9 September 2011: Sounds familiar...
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-does-she-dress-hot-for-work-but.html
What answer are you looking for? Yes, she's having an affair? No one on here can tell you that.
Does it sound like she is? Possibly. She dresse... (read in full...)
Should I dump my b/f because he isn't sympathetic when I'm having my period?
Q. My boyfriend isnt sympathetic when i am on my period, should i dump him ?. He calls me moody and says that he wont put up with the way i am every month when its my time of the month. I get severe cramps and it really gets me down. I know men dont ...
A. 9 September 2011: Unless he has a period himself (which isn't possible), then he's never going to give you the sympathy you want. Guys will never comprehend periods and what it all entails.
In all honesty are you really that bad around your time of the month? I... (read in full...)
My wife thinks I have a small penis!
Q. I have a troubling issue in my marriage. To get right to the point, it has to do with penis size and my wife's perception. I am about 5.75 by 5 around and I always thought fairly average. When my wife and I talk it is clear that she thinks ...
A. 9 September 2011: How long have you been married?
Is this the first time this statement has come up? Because it doesn't seem correct for her to always have an issue with your size, then carry on to marry you when she's not completely sexually satisfied.
Do y... (read in full...)
His age information isn't matching up with the background check!
Q. I really really need help and advice because I'm so confused at this point. I met a guy online and at the time, his profile said he was 30 and now a year later, he's 31. I believed him. But today I was talking to a friend about stalkerish thing...
A. 9 September 2011: Do you do a background check on all the guys you're seeing/dating?
I'm concerned that you ran one on him..If you have any doubts about him now, then you're going to be constantly questioning your trust in him from here on out (that is if you two ... (read in full...)
We're "Facebook married" but I want him as a legit b/f
Q. So I'm "Facebook married" to my legit crush..one night i was at his house and he proposed to me and gave me a ring and everything..the next day he sent me a facebook marriage request and of course I said yes! we've been really close for over a y...
A. 9 September 2011: So you have this pretend marriage going on? The last time I had a mock marriage is when I played house in kindergarten.
Anyways, if you like this guy more than just your mock husband then you need to speak up and tell him. This play marriage... (read in full...)
I've changed my mind about sex before marriage and want to have sex with my boyfriend, but we just don't have anywhere to go! What can I do?
Q. Hi, im a 19 year old gal and have been dating my bf for 2years 11months i've never had sex before but we fool around a lot. Whn we met i told him i dont want to have sex until we married he agreed and took the sex idea out of his head. SO NOW im the ...
A. 9 September 2011: Do it in a car parked in a remote area of where no one will see you or whenever your parents aren't home.
If you don't have a place to have sex then it looks like you're not going to be able to have it. ... (read in full...)
My Dad is threatening me with the police
Q. I got in a car wreck about 2 weeks ago...my dad is very mad at me. He has threatened to call the cops on me and lie and say that i stole his vehicle when i didn't. Well that is not what bothers me. He has also threatened to call the cops and get me ...
A. 9 September 2011: Almost always a stolen car is reported in the first 24 hrs..your Dad calling the police and telling them 2 weeks later that you stole the car isn't going to stick.
However, you do have something to worry about when it comes to your boyfrien... (read in full...)
I need a car, parents won't fix it, I can't get to a job or work without going through alot of trouble!
Q. I Need Some advice!!!!!!!!! So I need a job real bad. My dad has 2 cars and 1 cost 200$ to be fixed. Both my parents Have jobs so I told Them if they fix the car I will pay them back with my first pay check. When I had job I offered my dad the amou...
A. 9 September 2011: Once a week is better than nothing. Looks like you're going to have to utilize public transit to get where you need to be, or walk, until you can save up enough for a car. I'd also advise ditching your cell phone..getting a car is important at the ... (read in full...)
I need a car, parents won't fix it, I can't get to a job or work without going through alot of trouble!
Q. I Need Some advice!!!!!!!!! So I need a job real bad. My dad has 2 cars and 1 cost 200$ to be fixed. Both my parents Have jobs so I told Them if they fix the car I will pay them back with my first pay check. When I had job I offered my dad the amou...
A. 8 September 2011: Do you even have your driver's license?
Well if you don't have a way to school, besides public transportation then I would be switching to afternoon classes so you can hitch a ride with your friends.
College has already started for the ... (read in full...)
My ex has forgotten when my birthday is. Do I have a right to be peeved or am I making a big deal of nothing?
Q. My ex and me were together for just under six months. It's been several months now since we broke up. We've tried to be friends since then but it has been difficult for me because she ended it and then got a new boyfriend soon after. Anyway, t...
A. 8 September 2011: Oh my, I can barely remember my friends' birthdays let alone an ex that I dated for 6 months!
So she forgot, you can easily forgive her for that. People forget birthdays, anniversaries, national holidays, and even Hallmark holidays all the time... (read in full...)
I need a car, parents won't fix it, I can't get to a job or work without going through alot of trouble!
Q. I Need Some advice!!!!!!!!! So I need a job real bad. My dad has 2 cars and 1 cost 200$ to be fixed. Both my parents Have jobs so I told Them if they fix the car I will pay them back with my first pay check. When I had job I offered my dad the amou...
A. 8 September 2011: I also want to add if the mall job is the ONLY place that will hire you, since jobs are scarce in this rough economy, then you're going to have to ditch the cell phone and save whatever $ you have leftover from your paycheck towards getting your ... (read in full...)
I need a car, parents won't fix it, I can't get to a job or work without going through alot of trouble!
Q. I Need Some advice!!!!!!!!! So I need a job real bad. My dad has 2 cars and 1 cost 200$ to be fixed. Both my parents Have jobs so I told Them if they fix the car I will pay them back with my first pay check. When I had job I offered my dad the amou...
A. 8 September 2011: Mall jobs don't pay squat. So if you started working there your $ would be going to transportation to get there and maybe have enough for your cell phone bill. You wouldn't have any $ leftover to save for a car or to get your dad's car fixed ... (read in full...)
My Boyfriends Favourite Perfume is his ex's
Q. Hi, I just wanted to run something by you girls and guys, see what you think. When I started going out with my guy we were talking about perfumes and stuff and he said that his favourite perfume was Flowerbomb.(this is a perfume ive always reall...
A. 8 September 2011: " guys dont usually have favourite perfumes, or know the name of a perfume, and definately not him, he wouldnt be able to name any other type and cant remember what he did 2 minutes ago, let alone a name of a perfume."......I beg to differ. There ... (read in full...)
I am falling in love with my flatmate and there is no sign of any level of commitment
Q. Hi I would love some advice. I share a house with a flatmate, for about a year we are both pushing 40 so no one young or vunerable here. We are the best of freinds and get on great, lots of flirting happens and the guy is great fun, lovely to m...
A. 8 September 2011: Ask him what exactly is going on between you? Because at the moment it sounds like roommates with benefits. Which is very dangerous waters you're treading in.
What if he doesn't have feelings for you and doesn't want commitment? Are you still go... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is marrying another girl, which is now making me stressed!
Q. My boyfriend is married with some other girl. She doesn't keep him happy in any way. She is arrogant and doesn't respect him. He himself tells me all this. He is 15 years elder than me. We had three years intense relationship. I suggested him to get ...
A. 7 September 2011: I'm sorry but you bring this upon yourself. You keep on walking, you don't sit on his bike. Tell him to stay AWAY from you, that you don't love him anymore. You DON'T talk to him on the phone at all!!!
In order to get thru this, you have to have ... (read in full...)
I'm just scared in case this effective sperm donor tries to claim MY child.
Q. I had a one night stand with a stranger several years ago... shameful bad naughty me, i get it. It was my one act of stupid foolish wildness that prompted me to be a better person, to never be so silly no matter what life throws my way. I am not the ...
A. 7 September 2011: If you're that concerned then you should consult a lawyer for legal advice..or perhaps if you have a friend who is a lawyer.
Chances are if he knows about the pregnancy and cut off contact, hasn't contacted you since, then sad to say he probably... (read in full...)
I feel unfeminine. Should I get breast implants to fix this?
Q. Ok, I have small boobs, because of my age they won't grow anymore. I have an otherwise curvy build, I have a small pronounced waist and wide hips, big butt and thick thighs. I'm slim, though. My face is well, some say pretty, I'd say average, but ...
A. 6 September 2011: http://www.yourplasticsurgeryguide.com/breast-implants/
1. Educate yourself on the health risks involved, what size you are considering, what kind, and how long will they last.
2. You can google the plastic surgeons in Dubai (gorgeous city b... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is marrying another girl, which is now making me stressed!
Q. My boyfriend is married with some other girl. She doesn't keep him happy in any way. She is arrogant and doesn't respect him. He himself tells me all this. He is 15 years elder than me. We had three years intense relationship. I suggested him to get ...
A. 6 September 2011: You're bringing this stress upon yourself. Not to be mean, but your aren't anything his life. At the most you're a mistress. Is that something you want to be? I think not. He IS MARRIED to another woman. He is TAKEN.
You cut off contact, tell him... (read in full...)
What is going on? Should I get a lawyer?
Q. I told My separated husband, I'm pregnant by someone else. He said it didn't matter. We went on meanwhile he was seeing someone else. He needed his car fix and I gave him the money. Later he broke it off and said he wanted the divorce. Constantly he ...
A. 5 September 2011: Yes, get a lawyer to help you sort this mess out and get custody of your daughter, child support, and possibly the $ (if you have proof) he owes you. ... (read in full...)
We were supposed to be friends but he didnt even tell me he is married and expecting a baby!
Q. I'm having a bit of a crisis and I'm probably mad but here goes. I split with my ex partner in November last year, though we dragged it out until January with sweet I miss you type e-mails (there was never a doubt of still loving each other, j...
A. 5 September 2011: Why leave it up to you to ask for him back? It's a 2 way street. He could have asked for you back instead of knocking up a woman and marrying her, because it's the proper thing to do.
Instead he kept his new life from you and continued to butte... (read in full...)
My mom is having an affair with her married boss!
Q. Hi readers, I'm typing this, hoping to seek great advice from anybody/everybody. I am 19yrs. old, living with my little brother and mother. My parents are separated. My father does not live with us, although he does live fairly close to us. M...
A. 5 September 2011: Why can't you and your brother live with your father?
Depending upon the legal terms (if any), of your parent's separation, your mom may or may not be violating the terms.
Remember it takes two to tango, so her boss is just as guilty as she... (read in full...)
Fiance has no self esteem and is anorexic, now she's pushing me away. What should I do?
Q. my fiance is very beautiful and a wonderful person however she has no self esteem and is anorexic. a couple months back she was doing great with her eating but not so good with her mood. against my wishes and judgement her psychologist and docter ...
A. 5 September 2011: It's time for her to go back to the doctor, and you to go with her. She's not getting better with this anorexia but increasingly worse. If she refuses you going, then I would call up her parents and have them help you out.
Anorexia can eat a pe... (read in full...)
My best friend is a slut and I think she's after my boyfriend....
Q. I'm 15, turning 16 in two weeks. My boyfriend is a really great guy. He's got everything--looks, sweet, sense of humor, caring, and on top of all that, loaded. He would never cheat as he's been cheated on. My best friend (L), for lack of a better ...
A. 5 September 2011: I know you were being nice, but it isn't your job to hook your slutty friend up with a potential boyfriend. She seems to do just fine finding her next prey.
Anyways, it's time to step up and put her in her place. Have a firm chat with her, exp... (read in full...)
She will not cook, will not clean. I do it all, so I ask my self the same question every night, "is it worth all of this?
Q. I dont honestly have the slightest clue on how to piece all of this together but here we go.. Just a little bit of information about my self before we start, i seem to think way too much into things, but i never actually express the way i feel v...
A. 5 September 2011: What's her reason for not cooking? Is she a horrid cook? In that case you wouldn't want her cooking, but she could clean up afterwards.
So what your looking for is appreciation and for her to pitch in. That's understandable. Although it seems as... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is marrying another girl, which is now making me stressed!
Q. My boyfriend is married with some other girl. She doesn't keep him happy in any way. She is arrogant and doesn't respect him. He himself tells me all this. He is 15 years elder than me. We had three years intense relationship. I suggested him to get ...
A. 5 September 2011: Ok that was confusing, don't know where it started and ended.
Whatever, the past is irrelevant. You need to look at present day and what is going on.
He is in an arranged marriage now. Happy or not, I'm sure he has to stick it out to appeas... (read in full...)
Should my brother have told me?
Q. I have been torned up about my ex's cheating thats why he is now my ex...but all through my 22 yrs of marriage I always thought we had a fairytale marriage until 4 years ago ...I was devastated to say the least.....so now we're separated I am ...
A. 5 September 2011: If you knew he was cheating on you 4 years ago, who's to say it hasn't been this whole time throughout your marriage? Maybe you suspected it was going on but chose to ignore it.
Regardless, the next move is yours. You two are separated, I'd take... (read in full...)
Why not cheat? I am interested in all your ideas and suggestions please
Q. I have been married over 10 years. Before marriage had a very active sex life. As soon as we were married, it became less, and less and kept getting less until it was 3 years. I brought it up to him, then we went to counseling, then I brought it u...
A. 4 September 2011: Lack of intimacy and you've tried to rectify the situation in counseling together, he won't take his meds, then I'd say yes that's a good reason to divorce.
No sex would be a deal breaker for me as well. Like Cindy said you're roommates at most.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is marrying another girl, which is now making me stressed!
Q. My boyfriend is married with some other girl. She doesn't keep him happy in any way. She is arrogant and doesn't respect him. He himself tells me all this. He is 15 years elder than me. We had three years intense relationship. I suggested him to get ...
A. 4 September 2011: He's mentally unstable and needs professional help. Please stay away from him, for your own good. ... (read in full...)
Why not cheat? I am interested in all your ideas and suggestions please
Q. I have been married over 10 years. Before marriage had a very active sex life. As soon as we were married, it became less, and less and kept getting less until it was 3 years. I brought it up to him, then we went to counseling, then I brought it u...
A. 4 September 2011: The number one argument in a marriage is lack of intimacy. Then comes the affairs..
I know that sex declines after marriage, even more so after you have children. Where's the excitement in having sex with the same man for the rest of your life? Yo... (read in full...)
Do we have a relationship or not? He says only his 3 year old daughter keeps him in a relationship with me.
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 1/2 years now and we have a 3 year old duaghter together. Now he's said to me several times over the past 3 years that if it wasn't for our daughter me and him wouldn't be together. The last time he said it was prob...
A. 4 September 2011: Basically, the only reason he's with you is because you two have a child together.
I know if my boyfriend said that to me, I would dump him. There's no reason carrying on a relationship with a guy who just stays with me because of our child. T... (read in full...)
After ignoring me shall I give him another chance? or just chill out?
Q. Last weekend I went out for some drinks with a guy,he is 4 years younger than me so I was a little uncertain whether I wanted to or not. He insisted that he was looking for a relationship and seemed nice enough,so I went. Things really went well I ...
A. 4 September 2011: If he was interested then he would have kept in contact with you especially after the night of sex. But he didn't, it's been you contacting him and silence on his end. I'm sorry, 1 text.
It sounds as if he fed you this bullshit lie of wanting ... (read in full...)
I feel unfeminine. Should I get breast implants to fix this?
Q. Ok, I have small boobs, because of my age they won't grow anymore. I have an otherwise curvy build, I have a small pronounced waist and wide hips, big butt and thick thighs. I'm slim, though. My face is well, some say pretty, I'd say average, but ...
A. 4 September 2011: Do you have the money for breast implants? Or do you have the good credit to get approved for a loan? They're not cheap.
Have you done your research and figured out which kind you're going to get, the risks involved, and what size?
Only ge... (read in full...)
People keep calling me frigid. It pressures me and upsets me. How can I better deal with this?
Q. Im ábout to turn 16 years old and i have never had sexual contact with a boy. Sure ive made out with a few, but never any further. Its not that im 'frigid' or anything i just havent found the right person. However, when anyone hears that i havent d...
A. 4 September 2011: You ignore it!
I got called a prude by girls and guys up until I was 18 and out of high school. After that I lost my virginity.
Prude, frigid, so what? I'd rather be called that than easy, or a slut.
Just tell them you're not going to... (read in full...)
After 7 years he wants a break from us? How am I supposed to take this?
Q. my boyfriend and i been togther for 7 years we also have have a 5 year old little girl... He tells me all the time that he loves me and wants to be with me but within the last week he tells me that he needs a break ... I think i might be takein this...
A. 4 September 2011: Ask him why he wants a break and what does this break entail.
How long will this last?
Is it temporary or are you permanently broken up?
Is he going to see other people?
What about working out a schedule with your daughter?
Is he go... (read in full...)
Guys seem all over me. But I do not dress slutty. Why does this keep on happening to me?
Q. I don't dress slutty nor do I look slutty. But most of guys I meet all say am sexy. I do have nice features and I would say am cute. But of these guys I meet say am sexy and they just come on me so sexually strong. When I go out I wear clothes that ...
A. 4 September 2011: Who knows? If everyone keeps calling you sexy then it must be true.
You don't have to show skin in order to be sexy. Perhaps you carry yourself well and with confidence. Guys find that sexy.
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Should my brother have told me?
Q. I have been torned up about my ex's cheating thats why he is now my ex...but all through my 22 yrs of marriage I always thought we had a fairytale marriage until 4 years ago ...I was devastated to say the least.....so now we're separated I am ...
A. 4 September 2011: Ouch sorry to hear that.
Yes and no. It's not really his place to get involved then again, I'd rather hear it from a close family member than a mistress or an anonymous tip.
I see it as a brother looking out for his sister. He's probably kn... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is marrying another girl, which is now making me stressed!
Q. My boyfriend is married with some other girl. She doesn't keep him happy in any way. She is arrogant and doesn't respect him. He himself tells me all this. He is 15 years elder than me. We had three years intense relationship. I suggested him to get ...
A. 2 September 2011: I'm almost certain that this is an arranged marriage for him. Not sure if adultery is frowned upon in your country though. Regardless, it's not a good idea to carry on this relationship with a married man. It only gets you hurt in the end. Doesn't ... (read in full...)
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