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Crush on a male friend, but unsure if he feels the same way

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Question - (7 November 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 November 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I really want to kiss my guy friend. We've only known each other for a couple of months, but we have quite a bit in common and I have such a big crush on him. I'm crazy about him. You have no idea how badly I want to kiss him. But I don't know if he feels the same way, he's sending me mixed signals. He gives me long hugs and sometimes touches my hair but he's touchy-feely and he may be just being friendly. I don't want to mess things up between us... but DANG, I want to kiss him so bad! What do I do?

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (8 November 2011):

tennisstar88 agony auntMmm, I wouldn't get all ballsy and plant a kiss on him. Makes for a serious awkward situation if he doesn't return the kiss.

It's best to talk to confess that you like him more than just friends. See if he feels the same way. If he doesn't then at least you didn't make a fool of yourself trying to kiss him. Good Luck!

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A female reader, Krazybihh1802 United States +, writes (8 November 2011):

My advice to u would be to ask him straight up of he likes u. But if ur worried that things will get wierd if he doesn't feel the same way, it probably will. About a year ago I had a crush on my best friend. Then another mutual friend of ours found out and asked my friend if he liked me and he said yes. Then he asked me and I said yes. Needless to say my. Est friend called me and asked me out. I'm not saying that it works like that for everyone but it does happen. Me and him eventually broke up 2 weeks later. Our friendship was ruined. We're on talking terms now but it will never be the same. So, if u guys are really good friends, don't do it. As long as u guys are friends he will be in ur life.

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