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writes:I have trouble looking at porn every night when I am supossed to be in bed sleeping. Is this wrong. I dream of sex like 12 times every night.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (21 July 2010):
 The morality "police' would call it wrong and "harmfull" If you enjoy it as much as most do it's not wrong just hard to find enough time for. I must admit it is addictive but so is breathing I guess.
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reader, jp21 +, writes (21 July 2010):
 hmm, well i have this issue too. cut your self off at a sertain time, and i now its hard to do that but you have to get some control over it. try to only look at it for 3 hrs max. if you can do 2 hrs then do that. really i look at it less now then what i have in the past like it was always on my mind. its really hard to get full control over it. but i mean put every-thing els first. tv shows, playing at a friends house, going to the park. try to get out more even if its just out in the yard. you could confide in some one like guy friend. who may have the same issue too. a lot of kids go through the same things so to not do it some times you tell a friend what your going through and call them up when you have that arge sexual arge to do that.
but you need to be carefull with that too bec.. they may want to do it with you.
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reader, olderthandirt +, writes (21 July 2010):
It's not wrong it can be a serious distraction though and girls(mostly think it's wrong. So cut back a bit. PLUS, some idiots think it's fun to downlad viruses from porn sites so your computer will get all messed up. My theory is some prudes with computer skills want to ruin the lives of normal porn viewers
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reader, person12345 +, writes (14 July 2010):
 No it's not "wrong." Porn isn't wrong, masturbation is wrong. However, this seems like it's going down a bad path. Every night is excessive. The way you say it, you talk about it like it's interfering with sleep, which is a good start on an addiction to porn. Porn is actually very addictive. If you used it as a masturbation aid, looked for maybe 10 minutes, did what needed to be done and called it quits, that's one thing. But when it interferes with life (sleeping) then it's a pretty big problem. My advice? Cut down on the porn significantly. You could be on a path to addiction and that will mess up relationships later in life. If when you try to cut back it's hard to do, then you know it's become a problem.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2010): If you have ethics watcing porn is wrong because the actors in the film hardly make any money only the filmmakers do, they come from unhappy backgrounds and suffer some physical and emotional abuse from performing sex for money.So, let's get back to your porn watching. I think you definately need to stop, even though you are a young guy with raging hormones and masturbating every day is common, watching porn can cause a sort of hypersexuality and anxiety in you which causes compulsive masturbation and thinking about sex 24/7, in short your brain is becoming addicted. You don't want to rely on that kind of stimulation, you can get aroused all on your own without the use of porn. That is much better for you than hard wiring your brain by repetitive computer porn....Take care.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (13 July 2010):
 Wrong? No, but at your age I'd seriously consider cutting down on the porn. I like porn too, but it can warp your sense of sex and relationships if you aren't careful.
Dreaming about sex is also natural.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2010): No it is not wrong
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reader, jodie-alice-x  +, writes (13 July 2010):
 Masturbation is a normal thing, and is very common in the usage of pornographic sites in young men your age.
But for it to be every night is very damaging to your sexual future, if you base your fantasies around women who are not the normal, with fake boobs ect. then when it comes to you having sex with a normal girl, you may find it hard to get used to the idea that she isn't perfect and find it hard to be aroused by her no matter how beautiful she might be.
So personally, I think you should not stop watching porn because it's normal, but you should definitely cut it down to something to look forward to once a week - because eventually you will get bored anyway.
The best of luck, Jodie. x
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (13 July 2010):
 "Wrong" is a very badly-defined word, and I'm not going to comment on the ethical/moral implications of what you're doing, but watching porn each and every night may indicate a dependence that could lead to addiction.
Addiction is always a bad thing for your mental health and physical health too. 'Thinking about sex' is pretty normal at your age, as is masturbation, but try to reduce your dependence on porn.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2010): i watch porn videos aswell. i didnt mean to start like this but i watch it 5 times a week before i go to bed. i think that many people watch or look at porn but they dont admit it. keep it quiet but it isnt wrong. you are a teenager so your hormones will be all over the place.
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