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... Send *ountry Woman a private message | | | *ountry Woman's profile:OK, I wanted to just let everyone know that for now I will not be on the site as I have realised that I need to take some time out for both my own sake and also for my family. I will not delete myself from this site as I totally believe in it whole heartedly as the thanks over the years that I have received from people I have tried to advise has been amazing and given me so much in return. This site helped me get through the loss of my dad in 2007 and I think I hid my grief a lot then but now I need to find my place in my life and need to dedicate all my energy on that goal and also supporting my family as well. Don't ever be afraid to talk to the wonderful aunts and uncles on this site and remember that if Andrew had never started this site so many people would have never had the fantastic advice and help that they needed so much. I will return you can bank on it OK.
A bit about me now I think, hi everyone as it suggests I am a Country Loving woman who has grown up in the countryside and feel very at home in lovely wide open spaces and birds singing in the morning. I am 44 years old and I lived in a semi rural area for over 19 years, my relationship with my long term partner of almost 20 years ended in June 2005.
I still consider my ex as my best friend, we have good and bad days like most people but I try to stay as amicable as possible for my daughter's sake and my own, sometimes things have not always been great during our break up but life goes on.
Even though I am not in a relationship right now, hopefully 2010 may be the year that I can start to dip my toe in the water again on the relationship side of things. Just need the body to wow now, that may take a little longer unfortunately!!! lol
I think that at 44 years of age I have lived a bit and had all sorts of things happen to me so I can only say from my own personal point of view and would never qualify myself as anything other than a helper hopefully.
My motivation in life is seeing my daughter smile and laugh and just being a mum makes me get out of bed every day. I listen to my friends and have some of these since primary school. I like to think that I am a good friend and if I can help someone I will.
I think if someone needs professional help then they should try and get it and I will advise that if it appears that way.
I do believe that life is for the living and we only get one chance of actually enjoying it as too much time is spent on the trivial things of life but after my dad got bowel cancer in 2000 your life takes on a totally different perspective. My dad passed away in Feb 2007 and so I have had personal close bereavement not so long ago and even though people tell you to get on with your life, the reality of it all is not always so clear cut. Although I had to take some time out from this site for me to help my mum and sister I am back to talk any time or try and help. It helps me too if I hear that some of my advice has helped someone deal with a difficult time in their lives as well.
I hope that my advice which is from my personal life experiences help some people and I welcome any response from anyone I try to help.
I hope in some small way I can at least help take away some confusion or hurt from those who are suffering with break ups or all sorts of other problems.
I am not a doom and gloom sort of person and most days have a smile on my face, I totally understand about money worries and the seriousness of how far that can go, even the possibility of repossession, so even if your worries are not relationship based just send me a note and I will see if I can help in any way OK.
Take care and bfn.
Country Woman
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He wants to know my every move, he's a bully and I can't take it any more...
Q. I realy need somebody's opinion. I'am was engaged with this man for 16 years. We have a 4 year old son and I have 2 teenage girls from a prevouis marrage. I broke my engagement 6 months ago I asked him repeatedly when are we going to get married and ...
A. 25 November 2008: Personally sweetheart is there any way you can move right away from this man as he sounds quite unhinged in more ways than one.
When he is threatening you and your children you need to watch out for your safety and theirs, get as far away fro... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's ex, using their child as an excuse or does she want him back?
Q. I need some advice! I'm finding it really really hard to deal with my partners ex! He just cannot see her for what she is, a malicious controlling bitch! She's now taken to texting him daily, he claims that it is about his daughter but surely ...
A. 1 November 2008: I know it isn't easy but rise above this woman pushing all your buttons, make sure your bf wants to be around you by doing all the little nice things she never did for him, what's his favourite food or film to watch etc.
When you are with him then... (read in full...)
Should my man be spending Christmas with his ex (for the sake of his kids)?
Q. Hi guys - I'd be very grateful for your advice on something that's bothering me, but I'll just set the scene first. I have been with my boyfriend for a year. I'm 30 and he's 40. We don't live together yet, but we spend about 3 nights a week to...
A. 27 October 2008: No unfortunately old habits die hard and the fact that he may enjoy doing the odd jobs around the place means that he may not end up having to fork out extra money to the ex to get some jack the lad who comes in the do the little jobs around the ... (read in full...)
Should my man be spending Christmas with his ex (for the sake of his kids)?
Q. Hi guys - I'd be very grateful for your advice on something that's bothering me, but I'll just set the scene first. I have been with my boyfriend for a year. I'm 30 and he's 40. We don't live together yet, but we spend about 3 nights a week to...
A. 26 October 2008: Well believe me if the kids are aware and you go out openly then he certainly isn't trying to hide things but he is also not trying to rub her face in it either.
Yes just try suggesting some time on Christmas Day even if it is evening time and... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's ex, using their child as an excuse or does she want him back?
Q. I need some advice! I'm finding it really really hard to deal with my partners ex! He just cannot see her for what she is, a malicious controlling bitch! She's now taken to texting him daily, he claims that it is about his daughter but surely ...
A. 26 October 2008: Well the amount he pays her each month sounds about normal I must admit but with the changes in the CSA now and them changing to some other name in the news recently perhaps things may change on the amount he pays but I doubt it.
Does any of this ... (read in full...)
Staying with a woman who is great, or looking for a younger model to have children with?
Q. The woman I'm Dating so far has treated me better than any other woman I've ever dated, she behaves like she has won the lottery !! It is very nice, but she cannot have anymore children and to become a father and settle down has always been of the ...
A. 25 October 2008: I think this really does depend on how much older this wonderful lady is and if she has her own children already or whether she wanted her own children but never had the chance.
There are so many reasons for lack of children but that has not been... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's ex, using their child as an excuse or does she want him back?
Q. I need some advice! I'm finding it really really hard to deal with my partners ex! He just cannot see her for what she is, a malicious controlling bitch! She's now taken to texting him daily, he claims that it is about his daughter but surely ...
A. 25 October 2008: This one is never easy to answer but talking to him openly about how his daughter is getting on maybe a place to start.
Ask him if he likes to hear how she is or if he gets bothered by the constant texting, does he voice himself to you about th... (read in full...)
Should my man be spending Christmas with his ex (for the sake of his kids)?
Q. Hi guys - I'd be very grateful for your advice on something that's bothering me, but I'll just set the scene first. I have been with my boyfriend for a year. I'm 30 and he's 40. We don't live together yet, but we spend about 3 nights a week to...
A. 25 October 2008: I have to agree with Ask oldersister in the same way really that you say you see the kids quite often - in what capacity, as dad's work colleague or more?
If the children knew the truth then the ex wife would know by now as children are far from... (read in full...)
I must admit I enjoy sex with men, but also love my wife. should I come out?
Q. I am 37 yrs. old and married with two children. I had my first gay encounter when i was 13, and thru age 23 had about 12 more. after being married about 5 yrs., i had a want to have sex again with a man ( encounters consist of oral and masturbation ...
A. 25 October 2008: Personally I think morally you have an obligation to at least make sure that what you are doing is SAFE sex as it is not fair to jump out of bed with a man and then back into bed with your wife. I would say the same if you were sleeping with another ... (read in full...)
He says that it's not cheating because it is his ex-wife!?
Q. I recently found out that my boyfriend of seven years has been sleeping with his ex-wife. He says that it was the only way to get her to act right, meaning seeing his children and lowering child support. He actually wants me to accept her and the ...
A. 24 October 2008: I totally agree with the other advice you have been given I have to say.
Talk about have your cake and eat it. He has two women in his bed and he is loving it.
God once a cheater always a cheater I am afraid to say, I wouldn't trust him no fur... (read in full...)
The man I'm dating says I shouldn't be jealous because we are not committed, so should I hide how I feel?
Q. The man i'm dating says to me that since there isn't a commitment between us, i shouldn't be jealous. Although i try to hide this feeling, sometimes it is obvious especially when he provokes me. Should i make him to realize that i don't like some ...
A. 24 October 2008: Personally if there is no committment between you and he keeps on provoking you then ask him to stop it right away.
Tell him you are not easily jealous but you feel like he is doing this to provoke a reaction from you and make him feel much mor... (read in full...)
I want to go to the party but my ex and his new gf will be there, help
Q. Hi everyone, I'm due to go to a halloween party next Saturday down my local pub and everyone says I'm still welcome to go, the only problam is my recently ex and his new gf will be there too, I was meant to be going with him but then things have cha...
A. 24 October 2008: I agree with qcumbr1 in as much as you shouldn't feel like you have to stay away from this halloween party, it is in a public place and therefore you have as much right to be there as the next person.
Who ended the relationship btw? I am guessing... (read in full...)
I am scared that it will be too late for me to have children soon and I want to feel not just loved but also desired.
Q. I need some advice I am 32 years old and have just embarked on a new career after a period of unemployment and ill health. I have been with my partner for five years, we do not live together and when he stays with me for any period of time w...
A. 24 October 2008: Personally I think you are stressing out too much.
I don't know what your illness is but you say that you have been out of the workplace and been ill for some time and right now I think you need to concentrate on keeping yourself well and happy.
... (read in full...)
I can't afford him any more but I can't kick him out either!
Q. Well, my problem is with my lazy, unambitious boyfriend, he went to london for 2years where he had the time of his life, he worked, he travelled europe no that he's back in south africa he's so depressed.... he's been back for two years.... he hasnt ...
A. 23 October 2008: You have a very kind heart and unfortunately that is what he is taking advantage of.
OK so he came from a broken home and you don't and you lived a privileged life but you don't anymore, your parents are not paying for your life now, you are havi... (read in full...)
I can't afford him any more but I can't kick him out either!
Q. Well, my problem is with my lazy, unambitious boyfriend, he went to london for 2years where he had the time of his life, he worked, he travelled europe no that he's back in south africa he's so depressed.... he's been back for two years.... he hasnt ...
A. 23 October 2008: You have had some very sound advice especially from two of my good friends Pepper27 and Emilysanswers.
Two years is a very long time to tolerate an unwilling partner, you have shown him support in both an emotional way and also a big financia... (read in full...)
How can I lose weight without diet or exercise?
Q. Has anyone ever tried diet shakes with any sucess? Im at the end of my tether I have ALWAYS been slender and athletic but I have put on 20 kg in a year and cant budge it. I have gone from full time work to full time study. I also broke my ankle an...
A. 23 October 2008: Well I have tried all sorts of different things and yes shakes work for a while but when you return to normal eating you do end up gaining more weight than you have actually lost, it is a part time fix I guess.
So the exercise and diet things a... (read in full...)
Should I stay with my son's father?
Q. Hello. I have a 4 almost 5 year old son who is my life. I am still with the father, though we have broken up twice since our son was born. I love him but I'm not in love with him, and I think he feels the same way, but we are staying together for ...
A. 22 October 2008: I think it is time to be honest with yourselves, if there is no love or joy in your lives then what IS the point?
It is NEVER easy to break up a family, believe me I know. Children are extremely resiliant and if you talk openly and honestly... (read in full...)
Feeling like the cause of her divorce is making me feel guilty
Q. I'm in a situation that is tearing me apart. I've fallen in love with a friend of 5 years. During our friendship, she was there for me and helped me deal with my divorce 3 years ago. It was very traumatic. I didn't even realize how close we were ...
A. 19 October 2008: Personally I think the best thing to do is to tell her you are there for her as a friend but you do not want to get completely involved in the middle of everything whilst her marriage is in this transitional stage of before the divorce.
Be a ... (read in full...)
Is this guy-bipolar or what? I've held my peace without exploding! Please help.
Q. My daughter's dad have been so negative towards and at me. His words are extremely hurtful however, I've held it in for a long time. I've take it like it didn't bother me. I've gotten to the point where, it was it. I've exchanged words over text ...
A. 19 October 2008: I think you are in the safest place right now, being with your mum as he is not stable at all.
It is fantastic that you have custody of your daughter and soon to be son, don't change that for anything. He is hardly a role model if he cannot a... (read in full...)
Is this guy-bipolar or what? I've held my peace without exploding! Please help.
Q. My daughter's dad have been so negative towards and at me. His words are extremely hurtful however, I've held it in for a long time. I've take it like it didn't bother me. I've gotten to the point where, it was it. I've exchanged words over text ...
A. 18 October 2008: Am I correct in saying you are already pregnant with a second child?
If not, don't rush into anything just yet.
I can't say exactly if this guy is bi-polar or if he needs anger management the only true way of knowing is if he is seen by a doc... (read in full...)
Why do I feel the need to be a mother at only 17? I'm aware of all implications of teenage pregnancy!
Q. Since I was a little girl i've been very motherly, I take care of everbody and I developed my period among other things quite early (10 ish) My dilemma is that lately I have been wanting to get pregnant. I'm aware this isn't normal considering i'm ...
A. 18 October 2008: I knew from a very early age that I wanted to be a mother - probably about 10 and this urge has never left me.
I am the youngest of 2 girls and so I was mothered to a degree by my older sister and still am to this day I guess, even though I... (read in full...)
Could it be true that he slept with the ex? I don't know what to believe after reading her text.
Q. I was out last night with my boyfriend, and I knew that his ex girlfriend was hassling him by sending texts and calling him a lot. She sent him one last night whilst I was there and I happened to read it. He'd previously sent her a text telling ...
A. 18 October 2008: This is a hard one to call as who knows if this could be true or not.
Does he have the opportunity of being with her when he is not seeing you or do you see him every day?
Has he acted at all suspiciously lately?
I think that knowing your ... (read in full...)
My married lover suggested to abort our child. Does he love me as he says?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend of 4 yrs. He said he loves me very much n he is absolutely jealous over me that even my girl friends are a threat 2 him. I told him last night that I'm pregnant for three months and he suggested that i should abort. Does ...
A. 18 October 2008: Sweetheart you need to do what is right for you. It is your body at the end of the day.
You have known him for 4 years and so this is not just a fling but I do wonder if he and his wife are truly separated or not.
He is either trying not to ac... (read in full...)
I am wondering what this is doing to my body?
Q. Hey, I was just wondering what this is doing to my body. At the moment I am eating nothing all week apart from on Fridays when I have a binge. After this binge I am sick but I only make myself sick three times after each binge, no more and no less....
A. 18 October 2008: OK I take on board what you are saying about the GP aspect but you need to do something and I would have thought that your parents realising you have a problem they would be looking into everything to try to resolve this.
OK you want a future i... (read in full...)
I am wondering what this is doing to my body?
Q. Hey, I was just wondering what this is doing to my body. At the moment I am eating nothing all week apart from on Fridays when I have a binge. After this binge I am sick but I only make myself sick three times after each binge, no more and no less....
A. 18 October 2008: Hi sweetheart
Well this type of eating habit is doing your body no good at all I am afraid.
By not eating all week your body thinks you are in starvation mode and is saving up anything as fat storage because you are depriving it of nutrients.... (read in full...)
Anyone else a single mom with a lazy, controlling, 13yr old son?
Q. Help me out here mums and dads if you can. I have a 13 year old son and an 11 year old daughter. My daughter is probably more mature than my son, but aren't girls usually? She gets up in the morning before him, she makes her own packed lunch be...
A. 12 October 2008: Well at the end of the day just stick to your guns and don't let him see you give in at any point.
Once you make the rules make sure he follows them otherwise you will be back to explaining why you were at the pub and not buying his McD's. ... (read in full...)
Breaking up after 6 years with no real reason? How can she suddenly say it's over?
Q. Hi everyone, I have recently split up with my girlfriend after 6 years together. Everything was going fine, and we even went away on holiday together a month before the split, but suddenly she said to me, she doesn’t love me the way she has befo...
A. 11 October 2008: I think you have a right to contact her to get to the truth of the matter or at least try as you are going to end up wondering what on earth you did wrong for a very long time, I think you deserve a little more than oh I don't love you the way I ... (read in full...)
Anyone else a single mom with a lazy, controlling, 13yr old son?
Q. Help me out here mums and dads if you can. I have a 13 year old son and an 11 year old daughter. My daughter is probably more mature than my son, but aren't girls usually? She gets up in the morning before him, she makes her own packed lunch be...
A. 10 October 2008: I have to say that NO I don't have a teenager who is controlling only a 7 and a half year old daughter who thinks she is a lot older than she is about 15 actually most of the time.
However I do have 3 teenage nieces, twins who are now 19, one with... (read in full...)
I keep blaming my boyfriend for everything and constantly watch his innocent comments for hidden meanings, so I'm worry he will leave one day!
Q. dear cupid... i keep blaming my boyfriend for everything. when we have a drink sometimes things are fine but mostly i get ratty and irritable and actually look for reasons to blame him for sth, find fault etc. i feel awful the next day as he's such ...
A. 10 October 2008: OK, I think the fact that you have suffered an eating disorder in the past has something to do with your own self image and self worth. Your own insecurities are what will push this wonderful guy away from you unless you change your ways right ... (read in full...)
I'm worried that I'm forcing him into marriage!
Q. I am 30 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. He says he wants us to be together forever, but he is an anti-establishment type and he doesn't care about having a marriage. He feels that we are in love and we will be together ...
A. 9 October 2008: I was with a man for almost 20 years and from day one he had always said how he didn't feel that marriage was right for him, I was from a very traditional family. My mum and dad ended up being married for almost 55 years until my dad passed away but ... (read in full...)
I'm married with kids but should I be with the ex-boyfriend?
Q. I am Married to my husband and have 2 daughters but now i have been talking to my Ex boyfriend. i dont know who i really want to be with i love them both?...
A. 9 October 2008: How long have you been married?
You still seem quite young and I wonder if the normality of marriage is not what you thought it might be?
You don't say anything about your relationship with your husband or how old your children are?
Your ex ... (read in full...)
He wants to know my every move, he's a bully and I can't take it any more...
Q. I realy need somebody's opinion. I'am was engaged with this man for 16 years. We have a 4 year old son and I have 2 teenage girls from a prevouis marrage. I broke my engagement 6 months ago I asked him repeatedly when are we going to get married and ...
A. 9 October 2008: Unfortunately sweetheart your ex is so controlling and so insecure about himself that things will never change and personally I think you have had a lucky escape by not marrying him.
I would say though that you would probably be better off movi... (read in full...)
I need some advice, I'm 15 and might be pregnant!
Q. Ok im 15 years old and i think i might be pregnant... i havent gottin my period for this month and lately me and my bf have been having unprotected sex =/ i know i cant tell my family or friend because they'll all be very upset...and im not ready to...
A. 8 October 2008: Oh sweetheart you really need to get a pregnancy test asap, if you didn't want a baby yet why have unprotected sex?
Your body and that of your bf's are mature enough to make a child so first of all find out if you are pregnant or not, there co... (read in full...)
My husband says if I change things will get better, but he isn't giving me a chance to change, he gets mad when I talk to him and all of a sudden nothing I do is good enough! I can't stop crying!
Q. i dont get it, just all of a sudden its like im not good enough, out of nowhere im lazy,dead weight,i dont dress good enough,i dont have high self esteem and basically it seems as if im not the person he wants to be with at all!!, but he is my ...
A. 22 September 2008: Right sweetheart seems to me that yes you could well be depressed and seeking medical advice is the way to go on this.
Your husband is saying these things perhaps to give you a jolt, not in a diplomatic way but rather callous and that just isn... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is so immature, he pouts constantly like a child, I am at a point where I feel I want a MAN and not a boy! Help!
Q. I'm 20 years old and have been in a relationship w/ my bf for 2 years. Sometimes I feel like it's very serious. Sometimes I just want to leave. There are so many problems that I don't where to start. First of all, sometimes he is so immature I feel ...
A. 19 September 2008: OK so I take your point about his father being around and your father trying to help him but if he is ignoring sound advice from someone who is older than him then nothing will EVER change.
I am somewhat confused over something though, you aske... (read in full...)
I'm sort of with this guy - trouble is, he always has other girlfriends.
Q. ok. so. i'm kinda with this guy. well its all physical, actually...no sex, but pretty much everything else. we've been doing this for a few weeks now, almost every day last week... the problem is, he always has a girlfriend. our "relationship"...
A. 18 September 2008: Well sweetheart if you want to fool around with this guy he will only ever see you as a bit of fun and nothing more.
Internet girlfriend's are not real as they are not right next to you but it is a virtual world so he may give it all the talk and... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is so immature, he pouts constantly like a child, I am at a point where I feel I want a MAN and not a boy! Help!
Q. I'm 20 years old and have been in a relationship w/ my bf for 2 years. Sometimes I feel like it's very serious. Sometimes I just want to leave. There are so many problems that I don't where to start. First of all, sometimes he is so immature I feel ...
A. 17 September 2008: Sweetheart sounds to me like you are banging your head against a brick wall and nothing you do or say are going to change that.
Your bf is set in a rut and is not prepared to put the work in to make his life better. He is jealous when you go o... (read in full...)
We decided to break up as he was leaving town, now we did so even earlier, I wasn't prepared to start missing him so soon! Any advice?
Q. Hi there, My boyfriend is going travelling for about a year in a few weeks. We have been together for 5 mths. We did try and stay together until he leaves but he has said he can't do it which has made me really sad. He has told me that it's ...
A. 17 September 2008: OK I think the fact that he has split with you already is not only allowing you time to come to terms with it but he is trying to prepare himself for this trip, you don't know if he is a little wary about what is going to happen on this trip and ... (read in full...)
Do you think he will ever realise he has made a mistake and come back??
Q. My husband divorced me after 16 years leaving me and the children citing that he wasn't happy and that there must be more to life etc. I was terribly hurt. Since then he hasn't bothered with the children and although he is very well paid it has been ...
A. 16 September 2008: Hmm I read your response and understand how you must feel as my ex went off with someone else but our situation was different to yours as my ex did not get into a fully sexual relationship until after we split.
The lies and deceit hurt the most... (read in full...)
I am willing to accept my hubby's son (product of his affair), but now comes the hard part: telling our daughter that he exists. Not to mention my depression! Help me with my emotions!
Q. My husband has another child as a result of an affair, she (the mother) wants him to walk away from his son, he does not want to do that. I personally don't know how anyone could ever expect that of another human being (especially one that they ...
A. 14 September 2008: Sweetheart I can't say that I know completely how you are feeling but I do know how betrayal feels and how hurt and upset I was when I found out my ex was cheating on me. The lies and deceit hurt more than anything but you have the added anguish of ... (read in full...)
My teen friends are mad at eachother, no idea why, any thoughts?
Q. ok this isn;t about love relationships or sex but about my best friends my bf's austin and bryce wont talk to each other bryce for some reason he wont say is mad at austin and now they wont talk to each other it all started when me and my friends ...
A. 14 September 2008: Seems to me sweetheart that this is could be to do with the girl that Austin danced with and then briefly went out with.
I wonder if Bryce liked her and didn't like the way Austin was so dismissive of her, either that or he really didn't like the... (read in full...)
Should I ask him if he's seeing other girls? He said he's not ready for a commitment.
Q. I've been seeing this guy for awhile now but he's long distance and we only see each other about once a month. He told me at the beginning that he's not in a place in his life to commit to anyone and I said ok but we still go out and things have ...
A. 14 September 2008: Sorry to say this but it sounds to me like he may well be dating other girls as he has ample opportunity to do so as you are not seeing each other all the time.
If he is saying he doesn't want to be committed then I would be quite wary, if thing... (read in full...)
How do I tell him about my weight? He needs to know before he meets me.
Q. Hello everyone, Sorry if my question is a tad cheesy and confusing but I could really use your help. I was on one of those chat lines tonight and met a wonderful guy who lives an hour away from me. He's the sweetest guy I've talked to in a long tim...
A. 14 September 2008: Perhaps you should ask him what does he look for in a woman and see what his answer is.
If this is bothering you that much then you should both have a picture up on this site as it goes both ways, how do you know that he isn't overweight or has a... (read in full...)
My older boyfriend is very controlling. I can't wear makeup, email guys, or leave the house... he thinks I'm looking for sex. Is the age gap just too much?
Q. I'm having an issue....I have been seeing this guy (we'll call him Randy) for a while now, and I'm starting to wonder if the age difference is going to take a toll on our relationship. He's 41 and I'm lets just say younger. Well, heres the problem, ...
A. 14 September 2008: Well sweetheart if he is such good friends with your mum doesn't she see what is going on here and advise you properly?
Are you trying to keep your mum happy by staying with this man?
OK so you can't work due to your condition but surely you h... (read in full...)
I cry in bed when my boyfriend has fallen asleep. Why does this happen?
Q. For the past few months I find myself crying in bed with my boyfriend. He does not know because I wait until he has fallen asleep. It is only when I am in bed with him, not when I'm alone. We have had no problems in our relationship and he has been ...
A. 13 September 2008: It makes me wonder if this is something that happens after you have been intimate with your boyfriend and you could be the opposite to sad i.e. so happy you want to burst as you feel so close to him but as he sleeps it makes you realise what you ... (read in full...)
Do you think he will ever realise he has made a mistake and come back??
Q. My husband divorced me after 16 years leaving me and the children citing that he wasn't happy and that there must be more to life etc. I was terribly hurt. Since then he hasn't bothered with the children and although he is very well paid it has been ...
A. 13 September 2008: Sweetheart you are unfortunately kidding yourself about the way your ex husband is thinking right now.
He has got to the stage in his life where I think he is either suffering from a mid life crisis and feels that by cutting himself free from his... (read in full...)
My older boyfriend is very controlling. I can't wear makeup, email guys, or leave the house... he thinks I'm looking for sex. Is the age gap just too much?
Q. I'm having an issue....I have been seeing this guy (we'll call him Randy) for a while now, and I'm starting to wonder if the age difference is going to take a toll on our relationship. He's 41 and I'm lets just say younger. Well, heres the problem, ...
A. 13 September 2008: I have to say I agree with every other bit of advice you have received from everyone.
Age aside for a minute NO one should be in a relationship if they have to have the upper hand all the time. How dare he delete your email accounts and only hav... (read in full...)
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