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... Send *ountry Woman a private message | | | *ountry Woman's profile:OK, I wanted to just let everyone know that for now I will not be on the site as I have realised that I need to take some time out for both my own sake and also for my family. I will not delete myself from this site as I totally believe in it whole heartedly as the thanks over the years that I have received from people I have tried to advise has been amazing and given me so much in return. This site helped me get through the loss of my dad in 2007 and I think I hid my grief a lot then but now I need to find my place in my life and need to dedicate all my energy on that goal and also supporting my family as well. Don't ever be afraid to talk to the wonderful aunts and uncles on this site and remember that if Andrew had never started this site so many people would have never had the fantastic advice and help that they needed so much. I will return you can bank on it OK.
A bit about me now I think, hi everyone as it suggests I am a Country Loving woman who has grown up in the countryside and feel very at home in lovely wide open spaces and birds singing in the morning. I am 44 years old and I lived in a semi rural area for over 19 years, my relationship with my long term partner of almost 20 years ended in June 2005.
I still consider my ex as my best friend, we have good and bad days like most people but I try to stay as amicable as possible for my daughter's sake and my own, sometimes things have not always been great during our break up but life goes on.
Even though I am not in a relationship right now, hopefully 2010 may be the year that I can start to dip my toe in the water again on the relationship side of things. Just need the body to wow now, that may take a little longer unfortunately!!! lol
I think that at 44 years of age I have lived a bit and had all sorts of things happen to me so I can only say from my own personal point of view and would never qualify myself as anything other than a helper hopefully.
My motivation in life is seeing my daughter smile and laugh and just being a mum makes me get out of bed every day. I listen to my friends and have some of these since primary school. I like to think that I am a good friend and if I can help someone I will.
I think if someone needs professional help then they should try and get it and I will advise that if it appears that way.
I do believe that life is for the living and we only get one chance of actually enjoying it as too much time is spent on the trivial things of life but after my dad got bowel cancer in 2000 your life takes on a totally different perspective. My dad passed away in Feb 2007 and so I have had personal close bereavement not so long ago and even though people tell you to get on with your life, the reality of it all is not always so clear cut. Although I had to take some time out from this site for me to help my mum and sister I am back to talk any time or try and help. It helps me too if I hear that some of my advice has helped someone deal with a difficult time in their lives as well.
I hope that my advice which is from my personal life experiences help some people and I welcome any response from anyone I try to help.
I hope in some small way I can at least help take away some confusion or hurt from those who are suffering with break ups or all sorts of other problems.
I am not a doom and gloom sort of person and most days have a smile on my face, I totally understand about money worries and the seriousness of how far that can go, even the possibility of repossession, so even if your worries are not relationship based just send me a note and I will see if I can help in any way OK.
Take care and bfn.
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Am I somehow in the wrong? Girlfriend gets emotional when I try to talk about sex!
Q. hi i am having a problem with my girlfriend. recently i told her that i wanted to talk to her about our sex life. i feel that we do not have as much sex as i would like which averages about once a month. i talked to her nicely about it and she...
A. 27 April 2008: I'm sorry to say that saying you are not that skilled and you should try harder is not the right answer here.
I do agree with Natasia in as much as taking her to a female doctor to discuss this problem. You should go together and talk openly a... (read in full...)
Don't marry her marry me!
Q. pls help me,am in love with a sweet guy who is engaged and supposed to marry another girl in 4months,since he met me(about 3months ago) he told me he wants to leave his fiancee cos he likes me more,i can add value to his life and am from his ...
A. 27 April 2008: Sweetheart you shouldn't be sleeping with him if he is already with someone else and possibly sleeping with her, I hope you have been using protection or he has as this could be very serious for you if not.
Hold off the sex completely until yo... (read in full...)
Don't marry her marry me!
Q. pls help me,am in love with a sweet guy who is engaged and supposed to marry another girl in 4months,since he met me(about 3months ago) he told me he wants to leave his fiancee cos he likes me more,i can add value to his life and am from his ...
A. 25 April 2008: I'm not too up on how tribes relate to one another but if the man of your dreams feels that strongly and cannot upset this lady then surely there is someone who is an elder or something of his tribe that he could talk to and ask their advice as he ... (read in full...)
I shouldn't want to be with someone that thinks I would do such a terrible, disgusting thing! But...I feel empty without him!
Q. My boyfriend of 5 months just broke up with me four days ago because he thought I was cheating on him. I was not. I tried everything I could think of to prove to him that I wasn’t cheating on him and never have. He knows that I love him and I ...
A. 24 April 2008: Sweetheart sounds to me like someone is doing some meddling and has obviously had a word with him or something. Is there an ex girlfriend around or someone who knows her and who could be saying that they have seen you with someone else?
Just ... (read in full...)
We were one, and I've divided us! Help!
Q. Hello , july 14th last year i met the most amazing woman i've ever known. we live quite a distance away geographically but were closer at heart than siamese twins. i started the relationship off with a LIE! i had unfinished business with an ex that ...
A. 24 April 2008: Like I said before you need to express yourself to her with words as she is not getting anything back from you right now.
She needs you to be the strong one so stop the oh I'm hurt and support her. Tell her how much you love her and you will do ... (read in full...)
Does my husband have bipolar? Can an abuser ever change?
Q. My husband and I've been together for 6 years. We engaged and lived together for 2 1/2 years before we got married and now we married for a little over a year. During our time together, sometime, he was extremely sweet and then next minute, he ...
A. 23 April 2008: Sweetheart once an abuser I'm afraid always an abuser. I can't talk from my own experiences on that one but I did live in a relationship that was extremely controlling and this is exactly what your husband has been doing with you.
You have bee... (read in full...)
After 3 years of relationship he told me I didn't mean anything to him and we haven't spoken since then! Will I ever get over him?
Q. After a 3 year relationship my boyfriend just left me with no reasons saying it was for the best and that i didn't mean anything to him, it has been 7 months and i have never seen him or spoken to him I can't speak to his friends or family as our ...
A. 23 April 2008: I think this is more to do with your bf than you.
You say that you haven't spoken to his friends or family as your relationship was a secret due to your family.
Was there a reason for this, could anyone from your family have warned him off a... (read in full...)
We were one, and I've divided us! Help!
Q. Hello , july 14th last year i met the most amazing woman i've ever known. we live quite a distance away geographically but were closer at heart than siamese twins. i started the relationship off with a LIE! i had unfinished business with an ex that ...
A. 23 April 2008: OOh this is a hard one to answer I must admit.
Have you explained to your woman about your condition or the fact that you are getting it sorted out by going to see a specialist?
I can understand the fact that she is scared and not sure what to... (read in full...)
Are wet sheets normal when having sex or do I really have a problem?
Q. Hi. i know this may sound really stupid but for the last few days when im been having sex the bed sheets are wet after or when we are still doing it. ive not mentiond it to my bf but im really worried as it looks like ive wet myself a little, ive ...
A. 23 April 2008: Yes sweetheart if you are having sex and you are enjoying it a lot then yes you are having orgasms and yes you are cumming!!
It is very normal and you are obviously enjoying the sex with your bf so don't think it is awful, you could always l... (read in full...)
My desire is awakened by his sight although I initiated the break up! How to get over my ex when a child is in the picture?
Q. Hi, Well this is a first for me, but besides from councelling, i don't know what else to do. Me and my ex were together for 6 years. At 19 we had a child together (not planned) and at the age of 20, we broke up. The last year has been a rollerco...
A. 22 April 2008: Right well you obviously felt that something had to give when you decided to break up with your ex.
You have a child together and there will always be a connection with your ex as the time when you made her and spent after she was born was pres... (read in full...)
I hope he is having a midlife crisis and some day he will return home to his family... is it just a dream?
Q. I have ran out of options and can use all the advice i can get...I am a 30 yr old woman with a 34 yr old husband.We have 3 kids, and have been together for 14 yrs and married for 11. 5 months ago he left me and went straight to a 22 yr old girl and ...
A. 22 April 2008: Hmm not sure about whether you are dreaming but you are definitely trying to hang on to the family image that you once had and you have not exactly got very angry by the sounds of things.
Did you see any of this coming, were there any signs at... (read in full...)
Pregnant at 17, any tips to make my life easier and be prepared for my baby's arrival?
Q. I am 17 and 24 weeks pregnant i am keeping my baby and was with my boyfriend for 2 years but recently he decided that he couldn't cope anymore and we are no longer together. Do you have any tips for how i can make my life easier and make sure i am ...
A. 22 April 2008: Make sure you stay active as much as possible without going over the top. Don't do any stretching if it can be helped.
Get plenty of rest when you can as you will need all the rest you can get before your little girl is born so take advantag... (read in full...)
He told me when we broke up that he wanted to stay friends, why is he acting in such a mean way now since I have done nothing to hurt him?
Q. Me and my ex broke up a few weeks ago, in what seemed like an amicable split. I didn't hate him and I stopped my friends badmouthing him even though he broke my heart because I thought that he was a good guy. But now he's just acting like a se...
A. 20 April 2008: Sweetheart askoldersister has definitely got a point the guy is not OK about the break up and he may have regrets but he was the one saying about the age thing and now he is throwing his toys out of the cot, pathetic I'm afraid.
Don't bend ove... (read in full...)
Missed period for 4 months! Definitely not pregnant. Symptoms of something else?
Q. I am 24 years old, and I have one child that is a year and a half old. I haven't gotten my period since the end of December (It's now April) and I have taken 5 pregnancy tests over the course of the last few months, 4 at home one at the Dr's office ...
A. 20 April 2008: Has your doctor suggested any tests at all or have you discussed your fears with him/her?
Periods can go wacky if you are stressed out or travel a lot I know but generally this is due to ovaries and I would get your doctor to check out your hor... (read in full...)
I hear that she is evaluating the option of giving up our friendship as we fight too often, what can I do to change her mind?
Q. Im a guy , aged 17 , i had a fight with my best friend and she was supposed to go with me to my high school prom, she tells me that she doesnt want to be friends any more because we fight too mutch and she is tired of it. I dont want to lose her ...
A. 20 April 2008: Well the feelings you have for her have either got to be put to one side or you basically tell her that it is hard to see her with other guys and that is why when you seem to get closer the jealousy kicks in and yes that is why the arguments start ... (read in full...)
I hear that she is evaluating the option of giving up our friendship as we fight too often, what can I do to change her mind?
Q. Im a guy , aged 17 , i had a fight with my best friend and she was supposed to go with me to my high school prom, she tells me that she doesnt want to be friends any more because we fight too mutch and she is tired of it. I dont want to lose her ...
A. 20 April 2008: Well maybe you could put your thoughts down on paper i.e. a note or an email but maybe handwriting a note saying look you know that the arguments have got her down and the last one was a big mistake and that you value her friendship more than she ... (read in full...)
She's unresponsive to me so why have I been waiting so long?
Q. Dear Mr.Samson Well, I stumbled upon your site through one of the search engines. Went through it and must say that you're doing excellent work. Thought I might as well share my problem with you and the forums here and see if there could be a solut...
A. 20 April 2008: Could this girl be promised to another man do you think, i.e. could her family have an arranged marriage planned for her?
She does sound like a very reserved girl and the only true way of finding out is to perhaps give her a note but ask her to r... (read in full...)
Husband of 5yrs, two children, living seret life of porn and secret e-mail addresses!
Q. I recently had a baby, he's 2 months now. About 3 weeks ago I left my husband for a week so we could get some issues settled so we could continue our marriage happily. We also have one other child that is almost 4 yrs. old now. I'm breastfeeding the ...
A. 20 April 2008: Sweetheart do safeguard yourself and your children and yes you have set a huge trap for him, so clever girl, you will find out one way or another.
Just don't give in to the sex if it makes you feel uncomfortable, you do need to talk to him abou... (read in full...)
I'm getting married in two weeks and I'm terrified!
Q. So I'm getting married in two weeks and I'm terrified. I do love my fiance but I'm not passionately madly in love with him. He is a wonderful man and I think I would regret it if I left him. Can love build? Should I really try and make this work or ...
A. 18 April 2008: Well yes it does sound like pre-wedding nerves, I have never married but I was in a relationship for almost 20 years and I have one gorgeous daughter from that relationship.
No flights that are booked are not the important thing here, what is ... (read in full...)
Husband of 5yrs, two children, living seret life of porn and secret e-mail addresses!
Q. I recently had a baby, he's 2 months now. About 3 weeks ago I left my husband for a week so we could get some issues settled so we could continue our marriage happily. We also have one other child that is almost 4 yrs. old now. I'm breastfeeding the ...
A. 18 April 2008: Hmmm been there and done it sweetheart.
My relationship changed after I had my daughter and due to the fact that lots of things were going on after she was born meant that I had no emotional support so I could not give myself to my partner ... (read in full...)
Should I worry about my boyfriend?
Q. hi all my boyfriend is leaving today and i wont be able to see him he'll be gone until sunday and even then i cant see him not until monday. he just informed me today that hes going up north with one of his guy friends and his dad to go hunting ...
A. 17 April 2008: Sweetheart this comes down to trust and if you have doubt why is that?
Have you had reason to doubt his word previously or not?
If the answer to that is no then why are you worried now?
How long have you been with your boyfriend? What mak... (read in full...)
Help me save my marriage! Any advice would be appreciated.
Q. i have been married to my husband for 12 years and we have 4 children together. but he constanly tears me down and makes me feel worthless.he is also very controling and has horrible temper. this has taken a toll on our marriage our marriage is no ...
A. 16 April 2008: Honey if you constantly take the bombardments of abuse even if they are verbal then nothing will change.
Do you have these things said to you in front of the children?
Do you ever challenge anything he says to you?
Do you feel so worthl... (read in full...)
My Mother in law is not speaking to me, or anyone right now and I am hurting because of it
Q. My mother in law is not speaking to me again. We had some words. She is not entirely upset with just me. She is got a lot going on. House guest who came to visit and never left, quit smoking, possible job change etc. We live next door to each ...
A. 15 April 2008: I have to agree with the words and advice that Tisha-1 has given you I must admit.
Your mother-in-law is treating everyone the same but right now you are feeling the guilt as you had words previously and so you are blaming yourself.
You are... (read in full...)
Should I walk away from this relationship, as I don't think he loves me...?
Q. Hi, I am in a relationship with my boyfriend for nearly two and a half years. The problem is this, he loves being the centre of attention and when i get attention from men he does not like it. I go to his hometown, the girls are not friendly with ...
A. 14 April 2008: Sweetheart I think you are already answering your own question.
He hates YOU getting attention from men so is jealous and then he treats you like dirt and gets off on all the female attention he gets, it should work both ways.
Unfortunately... (read in full...)
My partner left me after finding beastiality on my computer. I'm terribly depressed and regretful.
Q. my girlfriend found beastiality on my computer as i was looking at it while she was at work. i have never done anything else but look at it. i know it is terrible and gross but sometimes the sickest things turn people on. she left me and told me to ...
A. 14 April 2008: Hmmm the internet has a lot to answer for unfortunately.
Child porn, beastiality etc and all sorts of things that we cannot imagine.
OK she found out about it and now the only way is up, I think you need to discuss this with someone about wh... (read in full...)
I love my BF but he has a bad temper and last night hit me! Is it an excuse that he has problems at home?
Q. I love my boyfriend more than anything and i know he loves me to however he can be really childish and he has a bad temper last night he hit me only on my leg but still he hit me. he has alot of problems at home at the minute, should i end it?...
A. 14 April 2008: Sweetheart listen to Mandy7 she is a good friend of mine and she has a lot more experience in life than you.
I would never stay in a relationship with anyone who became violent, there is never an excuse. No matter whether he is having problems... (read in full...)
I have finally found it in me to trust someone again...but he acts "shady"!!
Q. ok i havnt been with anyone in a really long time(a year to be exact) and not just sexually i havnt been in a relationship period! because i got tired of being hurt and treated badly by guys. well about 3 mo's ago this really nice guy finally got me ...
A. 13 April 2008: Sweetheart sounds to me like this guy is not all he is cracked up to be.
Someone who can get you to open up and then treat you badly is just not worth it.
Did you just talk to him or more?
I am not surprised that you are confused and it is h... (read in full...)
He told me to wait a MONTH after I asked him out! In the meantime, he's dating someone else!
Q. hey guys.... i am absuluty head over heals in love with this guy.... i asked him out...and he said to wait a month. So i waited.... and then he starts dating this other chick... who i really hate!!!! What should i do????? He looks at me in class and ...
A. 13 April 2008: Move on sweetheart and don't let him see you pining over him, he is currently playing games and that is just not fair on you.
Act a bit aloof and don't look at him longingly, believe me I know it is hard when you feel so strongly about someone ... (read in full...)
Am I somehow in the wrong? Girlfriend gets emotional when I try to talk about sex!
Q. hi i am having a problem with my girlfriend. recently i told her that i wanted to talk to her about our sex life. i feel that we do not have as much sex as i would like which averages about once a month. i talked to her nicely about it and she...
A. 12 April 2008: OK I think that the way your gf reacted was more to do with the fact that she inwardly knows there is a problem and she is scared to death about how to handle it.
Maybe she has experienced problems with her doctor in the past and she feels sh... (read in full...)
I need hugs and help aunts! Its our first wedding anniversary today and my husband has gone to work and seems to have forgot...
Q. Its our first wedding anniversary today and my husband has gone to work and seems to of forgot. I feel devastated, am i just over reacting, come on aunts i need hugs and help, what do you think?...
A. 12 April 2008: Well Happy Anniversary from me to you and your hubby.
Men are not always the best at remembering birthdays and anniversaries as they just get into a routine very easily and they don't always see things like dates as being important.
However... (read in full...)
Is this bloating in my stomach---normal?
Q. dear cupid i would like to know if it normal for this to occur. i feel and see that my stomach is bloated and whenever i tell my parents they say its normal. i used to be fat but lost weight quickly and look slim a bit. my question is, is ...
A. 12 April 2008: This really does also depend on what you are now eating compared to when you lost the weight,.
If you are going back to normal every day products such as bread and pasta or rice they can give you a bloated feeling. It could be the wheat reaction... (read in full...)
I'm 7 months pregnant and my boyfriend has cheated on me!
Q. Ok So Im 7 months pregnant and my boyfriend has cheated on me. I feel so hurt and angry. He has told me that he has relly strong feelings for the other woman. And He is only staying with me for the baby. What should i do forgive him so my baby has a ...
A. 11 April 2008: Sweetheart don't worry about your bf he is obviously being a stupid man and getting his sex elsewhere, especially if you are not having sex at the moment due to being pregnant as it is not always easy when you feel tired and not on best form.
... (read in full...)
Yuck! I hate my body after having 2 kids in the last 2 years!
Q. I'm 26. I have had 2 babies in the last 2 years, and we do not want anymore. My stomach is really stretched out, the skin is loose and flabby. I have a "ledge" of loose skin that just hangs at the bottom of my stomach. I had really large babies and ...
A. 10 April 2008: Sweetheart, no I don't have the same experiences as you and I am a lot older than you but why are you putting so much pressure on yourself right now.
Look you are a new mum again for the second time and 1 month after your baby is born you are tryi... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant even though I'm on the pill? Help!
Q. hi im 19 years old nd iv bin on the pill on and off over 3 years now,i've bin takin it 6 months now with no breaks in between no missin pills or nothing,taking it as prescribed.a week ago i slept with my ex boyfriend,id taken the 9th pill that ...
A. 10 April 2008: OK so hopefully it will be how to talk to prospective in-laws eh!!! lol
Best of luck to you.
Glad you are laughing and joking again,.
Take care.
Country Woman... (read in full...)
My man's best friend seems to control his life and is always intruding in our relationship, even saying insulting things to me! Is the best buddy going to keep him warm at night?
Q. Well, here is an interesting story that I need some input on. I am a 47 year old woman who has been through, and learned from, my share of life's problems. About three months ago, a woman friend of mine fixed me up (yikes!) with a friend of hers ...
A. 10 April 2008: Hi Randi
Well I think the fact that you chatted with your friend and now know how her husband feels about the way your man treated you is really good.
You have now got things out in the open and as you say if you are fine with everything as it... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant even though I'm on the pill? Help!
Q. hi im 19 years old nd iv bin on the pill on and off over 3 years now,i've bin takin it 6 months now with no breaks in between no missin pills or nothing,taking it as prescribed.a week ago i slept with my ex boyfriend,id taken the 9th pill that ...
A. 10 April 2008: So glad that you are now fine and everything is back to how it should be. Yes a hard lesson learned but it will make you stronger in the long run.
Good luck for the future and always remember we are all here for you at any time, no matter what the... (read in full...)
My man's best friend seems to control his life and is always intruding in our relationship, even saying insulting things to me! Is the best buddy going to keep him warm at night?
Q. Well, here is an interesting story that I need some input on. I am a 47 year old woman who has been through, and learned from, my share of life's problems. About three months ago, a woman friend of mine fixed me up (yikes!) with a friend of hers ...
A. 10 April 2008: I am so glad that my words helped in some small way as you are never sure whether to say how you see something or not and although it may be a little cruel to be kind I think honesty is the best policy.
Look I am of similar age to yourself... (read in full...)
My current partner says my ex shouldn't call me for anything that doesn't involve our kids! How do I handle this?
Q. I have an unusual situation. I have an awesome boyfriend and an ex-husband whom I get along with great. Here it goes... I have an ex-husband and we have three children together. I have a boyfriend that I have been dating nearly 3 years. My e...
A. 9 April 2008: I think you need to lay your cards on the table with your bf and say how much you care about him and the fact that you don't want to sour your relationship with your ex by saying how much your bf can't handle him being back in your life.
He is... (read in full...)
My man's best friend seems to control his life and is always intruding in our relationship, even saying insulting things to me! Is the best buddy going to keep him warm at night?
Q. Well, here is an interesting story that I need some input on. I am a 47 year old woman who has been through, and learned from, my share of life's problems. About three months ago, a woman friend of mine fixed me up (yikes!) with a friend of hers ...
A. 9 April 2008: Yes you are the new hen in the roosters coup so to speak and the best friend is somewhat threatened by you and knows how to press all your buttons.
He is possibly jealous of seeing his friend happy. Maybe the best friend is not as happy at home ... (read in full...)
I'm decided to have sex at 12. Concerned about the pain though!...
Q. help im 12 years old and me n my boyfriend want sex i know people say your too young and wait til your older but i can't wait til im older. we both love each other so much we cant stand being a way from each other. im not scared at all but what hap...
A. 9 April 2008: Sweetheart if you and your bf are set on having sex no one is going to be able to stop you.
However, I don't personally think you are ready at the moment as the fear of the pain/bleeding is what is worrying you.
No it is not something that i... (read in full...)
My BF is bipolar and finds it hard to obtain work, should he lie about his medical history, other suggestions to facilitate the opening of perspectives?
Q. Hi my boyfriends bi-polar and struggling to get work because of his medical history. He seems to be getting more depressed and recently said he as to accept is life is over. Should he lie about his history? Does anyone know where he can get help ...
A. 4 April 2008: Well after having a chat with my sister whose fiance is bi-polar, the norm seems to be that it is a case of non disclosure which is not right I know but even in this day and age it is viewed as a problem.
However, if your bf was applying for work... (read in full...)
I'm afraid of being on my own and so desperate to find another man to fill the empty space.
Q. I've divorced my husband of 22 years. I'm afraid of being on my own and so desperate to find another man to fill the empty space. I've met this man 18 years my senior while I was divorcing my husband. Dating him makes me feel much better that I ...
A. 3 April 2008: Sorry to be blunt about this but NO you are living in a dream world if you think you can come out of one relationship and go straight into another one right away.
I was with my ex for almost 20 years and although we were not married we felt lik... (read in full...)
Do people really ever get over there ex's or even worse first exe'?
Q. My ex cheated on me and we have now been seperated for 8 months. I was in alot of pain as he continued to see her after we split. I always felt more pain as he had stayed with her and I used to think 'if only he was with someone else it would not be ...
A. 3 April 2008: Ooh so sorry for writing war and peace on my reply I realised afterwards, glad some of the advice you have had from all 3 of us has helped.
Just keep thinking positively and believe me it does get better.
Keep smiling eh!!
BFN
Countr... (read in full...)
Do people really ever get over there ex's or even worse first exe'?
Q. My ex cheated on me and we have now been seperated for 8 months. I was in alot of pain as he continued to see her after we split. I always felt more pain as he had stayed with her and I used to think 'if only he was with someone else it would not be ...
A. 3 April 2008: Sweetheart getting over a cheating ex is never easy, believe me.
I was with my ex for almost 20 years and yes he cheated on me and he is now with that person. But he hasn't been completely honest in that relationship so a leopard doesn't change t... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant even though I'm on the pill? Help!
Q. hi im 19 years old nd iv bin on the pill on and off over 3 years now,i've bin takin it 6 months now with no breaks in between no missin pills or nothing,taking it as prescribed.a week ago i slept with my ex boyfriend,id taken the 9th pill that ...
A. 1 April 2008: Yes I can only agree with phiatiger in as much as it would be very unlikely if he didn't come inside of you and you are already on the pill.
I personally think you are stressing out unnecessarily and you need to think about why you ended up sleep... (read in full...)
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