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Do men like to see pussy lips through a women's shorts?

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Question - (5 March 2008) 26 Answers - (Newest, 15 October 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

What % of men want to see cameltoe on a woman and why do so many prude women have a problem with it ? Jealousy ?

While you judge what looks inapropriate your alright with dresses, tops that display most of your breasts and cleavage and that isn't being a hypocrite ? I think we all wear clothes to feel good and sexy and display our assets that we know men want to see and to show my cameltoe is because Men love it ,just the same as my cleavage, ass, legs,tummy, etc.

My husband loves to see my cameltoe... Do most men ?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2010):

Hi.

I discover C.T. "world" few months ago and my wife accepted it at once. She loves it so much and I get so horny when she walk with me outside and her camel toe is rise out so proudly so all men can see and jealous .O'god I love my wife and adore her, I'm her total slave! any woman who is proud to show her camel toe is goddess. I feel full empathy with this female from the United States age 41-50, (anonymous writes)that brought up this issue. Let me say it this way: Camel toe is the future fashion, this will be every women's "must have" few years from now and this is the main part of the femininity.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2010):

As a man I like it a lot I MEAN I REALY TOTALY LOVE IT YUM !it's also one of the most powerfull things in the world today or ever,I like all the feminine attributes both of my wife and every women but i think you know my favorit.

I've never known a man to find the shape undesireable other than to support a disaproving partner or the kind who get enraged when a man looks at "thair!" woman. But it's OK for them to look. You know the type.

I get a realy happy buz when I catch men looking, jaw on the floor at my wife in her thin little shorts & top, with the well defined shape of here labia bulging through her shorts and nipples prominant(next best), or I'm in the shorts my wife likes me to ware, (I dont own underware) and and I catch a woman checking me out, it's a good feeling, But it stops there, it's enough. I'm also reminded of "something worth remembering" how easy my wife could find someone new and younger (we are mid 40s) if she wanted to. She just says "Do you like that ?". Oh yeh, I reply.

I'm pretty sad that some women (sad, jelous, or maybe phsychologically programed) put them selves on a pedistal of morality so stuffy and up themseves for whatever reason, and make comments, sometimes very subtle ones, to make beautifuly open minded care free happy women feel tarty and/or insecure, about the way they would otherwise dress. They spoil things for us greatfull chaps who appreciate the efforts of these delicious godesses who brighten up our day.

So I say, if you like it, show it off as well as you can, and be very proud about it. So chaps like me who adore women so much we could burst, and love looking, can do without fear, as you clearly like the admiring atention. If someone does'nt like it tuff.you are the normal healthy one's They should keep any negative thoughts to themselves it's thair hang up. A Shame as it is.

This part below is for those confused people as i could'nt get to sleep and went off the rails a bit doing this

If you judge people by the cloths they ware and feel you have to voice an opinion, point or giggle rudely.

Apart from being like a sheep trapped in a corner, a victim of peer pressure and of the fashion desighners who tell us what is correct to ware and when, as well as when to stop and buy yet more.

Had other peoples oldfasioned believes and ideas of right and wrong etched into your brain from an early age.

Now you actualy believe these were your own thoughts. You are admit it or not, most likely insecure about something yourself. Only those who accept it can ever recover and be normal & happy with what they have.

After the hell most of us suffer at school, from our, teachers, peers, bullies, pubity and going through our teens, we tend to lose focus of what is real and what, we are told to believe, or went along with just to get through. It just becomes a blur.

or

If you are one of the monsters who loved to embaris people for entertainmeant. And still do. you will never know how messed up you are. Get help before you die hated.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2010):

oh ya i like to see that...u shouldnt shave it...it turns us on!

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A male reader, olderthandirt United States +, writes (11 August 2010):

olderthandirt agony auntall the men i know love seeing a big fat slit in a girls shorts it screams out "look at me i'mm thick and juicy!"

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2009):

At first I was gonna say something along the lines of... your shorts show your pussy lips???? Maybe it's time to get size up...!

Then I realised I have some pretty short shorts myself... which might even show something...

Yeah I think some shorts are designed that way- to hug to your figure and... show these things...

This realization kinda annoyed me. I know I definitely won't be wearing those shorts as much now. O.o

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A male reader, john wayne United States +, writes (21 May 2008):

personaly i love a nice camel toe

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A male reader, ren hoek United States +, writes (19 May 2008):

Obviously, I have an interest in the toe, or I wouldn't have found this website. My wife and I are pretty conservative in public, just "the toe" is a special thing for us.

I have no real interest in seeing women's camel toes, BUT...I love my wife's toe. She is smooth, and her toe is perfect. She is petite (all over), and she doesn't dress provocatively. However, when she wears bikinis, her toe is always visible. We never talk about it, but she lets me pick out all her bikinis and panties and I always make sure her cameltoe is easily visible. I guess the best thing about it is that we don't talk about it. Whereever she goes in a bikini (beach, pool, waterpark, lake) her lips look smooth and they're great. How could anyone not love them?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2008):

I feel the same. Being a guy, if a girl wants to show it or is showing it to feel sexy, please do so. I know for me personally, show it if you have it. I find it very attractive as some guys like boobs, I like to see cameltoe. Just a preference. I have noticed most girls think eww and most also think men feel this way but they apparently have not asked men.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2008):

I feel the same. Being a guy, if a girl wants to show it or is showing it to feel sexy, please do so. I know for me personally, show it if you have it. I find it very attractive as some guys like boobs, I like to see cameltoe. Just a preference. I have noticed most girls think eww and most also think men feel this way but they apparently have not asked men.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2008):

I think they are really sexy. My wife has very small lips and can't show a camel toe, but if she could I would encourge it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2008):

Hi Hunny

Im laughing but not at you as this was rather a funny experience I had a few weeks ago, In my beautiful pink tracky AAAAAARRRRRGGGGGGGGGGGG!!!!!! Was my reaction and all night I was pulling my trousers into shape as It irritated me to hell and back...Of course love all my friends found this hilly hairy arse!!!!!!! But its not through jealousy hunny its just my veiw on me!!!!!! And I wish Id popped my black tracky on now :} but my fiance found this very very horny! I just went with the flow for the rest of the night hun with my constant checking my undercairage taken over by a little nifty beverage..My personal view is HEEEEEEEEEEELLLLP!!!!!!!But its entirely up to the person what they wear and if it makes your husband horny and you dont mind then its fine...But my fiance can eat my shorts ill wear my pink track at home but ill keep the black for nights out TAKE CARE SWEETHEART WITH LOTS OF LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

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A male reader, 17Irish17 United States +, writes (20 March 2008):

Personally, I would rather see hard nipples poking a t-shirt (ie Jennifer Aniston) than a camel toe.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2008):

Jealous? Pretty sure all women have vaginas! It doesnt mean we all need to show them to every man, woman and CHILD that happens to be in our vacinity!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2008):

I don't know about most men. I would say it depends on the individual. I am certainly not a prude but I would not want to have a 'camel toe' on display but prefer my clothes to 'skim' rather than cling too tight & don't like them too loose or baggy either. I'm 41 and my daughters once saw me putting on a pair of jeans that were a bit on the tight side & they were horrified because they said I had a 'camel toe' & they waited for me to take the jeans off and then hid them from me cos they were so adamant that I was not going to leave the house with a 'camel toe'. My partner doesn't like it - he prefers sexy underwear underneath a more subtle dressed look. Having said that, some guys may well love it.

At our age, I think a bit of elegance is nice - I'm not saying we have to go frumpy or anything. Personally I'd rather one or two nice guys looked at my face then 20 guys with a one track mind leering at my 'camel toe'. If your husband likes it, keep it for him?? Sexy underwear could show it off quite nicely for him .... We women have a 1000 different ways to attract male attention we don't need to rely on camel toe!! We shouldn't really need our beauty affirmed by men/how many men look at us & some men just look at cleavage etc without even noticing anything else and I find that a bit crass to be honest. We were not put on this earth just to please men!!! Also, it's good not to show everything off at once, so I have always been told, so if we have a bit of cleavage showing, we should not have everything else out etc etc ... Ah there's so many rules aren't there, for women!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2008):

And another thing... If you find you've got a cameltoe through your shorts then you're kidding yourself because you need to get a bigger size lol

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2008):

I have to agree with askoldersister. It's all about class and respect for yourself. If you're happy showing off intimate parts of your body like that to anyone and everyone then go for it. But keep in mind there are always going to be people who laugh inside at you as you walk past.

I don't think you're gonna gain any respect from women by doing that... and men, well, they're not going to be caring about your face or the kind of person you are. I for one would find it very differcult not to laugh and question your self respect.

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A male reader, Pigster United Kingdom +, writes (5 March 2008):

Pigster agony auntoink oink ... twas i m,lord writes (5 March 2008):

This all depends on whos wearing the toe! if the woman has no idea she has a camel toe then i feel sorry for their ignorance and all should stay clear. If its intentionally done for a partner that likes it and knows others will see it then thats ok! "Every tea-pot has its lid". its just another way of flaunting in public so im gonna sit on the fence with this one and hope i dont find any camel toes sat on it with me!

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (5 March 2008):

eyeswideopen agony aunt"Mumbles" ha ha toooo funny Collaroy! Mumbles are very uncomfortable to me.

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A male reader, SamuraiRick United States +, writes (5 March 2008):

SamuraiRick agony auntIt not something I look for but a pleasant surprise when I do see it. I suppose all hot-blooded heterosexual men like it, and men are generally not worried about the inappropriateness...women are usually the arbitrators on what is appropriate or not. Sometimes I wonder when I see cameltoe if the woman is aware that she is showing...but since you’re asking this question it gives me second thought. In any case it’s hot. I vote yes on the cameltoe.

Excuse me while I take a cold shower now.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2008):

YESSSS!!!!!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2008):

This all depends on whos wearing the toe! if the woman has no idea she has a camel toe then i feel sorry for their ignorance and all should stay clear. If its intentionally done for a partner that likes it and knows others will see it then thats ok! "Every tea-pot has its lid". its just another way of flaunting in public so im gonna sit on the fence with this one and hope i dont find any camel toes sat on it with me!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2008):

Is this another hoax posting? For your husband's eyes only, I can understand...but tell me you don't go out in public like this, dear? Surely, you have other qualities in your person, such as maturity, intellect, wit, and generosity, that you can show off rather than your 'cameltoe'? Come on... dress with style, class and stop being this foolish, older married woman who feels the need to garner stares from other men. just for her own ego gratification. This advertising of your cameltoe and cleavage, will ensure that others will look down on you. and laugh at you. Really...I'm serious. If you don't care about that, then do it, it's your choice. This posting takes the cake...it's worse that the 'spit roast' posting we had last week! And just when I thought it couldn't get worse... sheesh

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2008):

I am not a prude, but I find it a little on the...unclassy side. Makes me think people got dressed in the dark or something...o.O Also, you have to think...do you want other men ogling you while you walk by? There's a difference between a guy thinking 'man she's gorgeous' as you walk by in a tank top and some fitting jeans, and you walking by in booty shorts and a tube top with your whole breast hanging out and your labia visable. What is he REALLY thinking? Probably something like 'man, I bet she's working the corner tonight' or 'what does her husband think'.

Personally, the only person I feel comfortable with showing ANYTHING like that to would be my man. And he doesn't want me showing my breasts to anyone else besides a reasonable amout of cleavage from a tank-top.

If I were you, I'd find another way to look attractive besides wearing too-small jeans or tops. Count on your smarts and friendliness.

Also, if you're a mother or something, it'll really give people the wrong idea.

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A male reader, Collaroy Australia +, writes (5 March 2008):

Collaroy agony auntHi,

It's an interesting question as I know some guys who joke about it : They call them mumbles - the lips move but you can't understand what they are saying.

Personally I love it, My partner has a pair of pants she wears which show her assets very prominently and I love the look of it. Yum Yum.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2008):

I can say that I am most definitely not a prude, but I feel embarrased for women who display cameltoes. Trust me, if you walk around like that, you will get nothing but awkward stares and giggles.

If you want to show this off to your loving husband, please do! But DO NOT assume other people will enjoy it as well.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (5 March 2008):

DoubleM agony auntAs a man, I certainly like it. But I don't know about prude women.

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