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I'm meeting up with him and I'm really worried about it... I'll be sober this time! Any advice to calm me down?

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Question - (2 March 2008) 8 Answers - (Newest, 4 March 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *uperbunny writes:

Heeey, I normally prefer answering these to asking them.. But hey! I'm meeting up with a guy I like on Saturday, we've met a few times before + one night lead to quite a steamy session in the bedroom! I really like him as more than a friend but I'm just nervous that because I'll be sober this time I'm going to be so much more conscious of my body + not enjoy it as much.. I was wondering if anyone can help me find a way to not be worried!! x

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A female reader, superbunny United Kingdom +, writes (4 March 2008):

superbunny is verified as being by the original poster of the question

superbunny agony auntI'm meeting up on Saturday with him!! x

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A male reader, Collaroy Australia +, writes (3 March 2008):

Collaroy agony auntWhat, no update??

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A female reader, superbunny United Kingdom +, writes (3 March 2008):

superbunny is verified as being by the original poster of the question

superbunny agony auntthank you my lovelies! :] x

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A male reader, Collaroy Australia +, writes (3 March 2008):

Collaroy agony auntHi again,

if you are worried you won't enjoy sex sober you will be pleasantly surprised. If you are self conscious about being naked in front of him then wear lingerie and keep the lights out when you make love.

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A male reader, Collaroy Australia +, writes (3 March 2008):

Collaroy agony auntHi,

sex while sober will be infinitely better than sex while drunk. Chances are he will be feeling the same nerves as you. There is nothing wrong in a glass of wine to calm the nerves down, then just let nature take its course.

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A female reader, superbunny United Kingdom +, writes (2 March 2008):

superbunny is verified as being by the original poster of the question

superbunny agony auntI'm just so self concious and worried that I won't enjoy myself if anything happens between us.. Sorry, I didn't explain myself very clearly!! x

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (2 March 2008):

DoubleM agony auntWhat is the worry?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2008):

hey if he is willing to meet again there is obviously nothing wrong with your body !! My advice would be just take things slow and use lots of 4play by the time things get heated you wont be thinking about what your body looks like.. GOOD LUCK p.s you shouldn't use booze to get you relaxed it will lead to trouble

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