I really regret what I did to him, how can I make it right?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have met this guy and we have been together for about a year, and through half the year I sexually cheated on him with my ex and lied. I'm not in love with my ex but i am defintely in love with my guy right now. I was stupid and r...
A. 30 May 2008: Hi again,
oh dear this is a very sad situation both of you have got into. He may very think that things have evened out between you two by having sex with another girl, and to some extent he probably feels better about himself now. But what rea... (read in full...)
I really regret what I did to him, how can I make it right?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have met this guy and we have been together for about a year, and through half the year I sexually cheated on him with my ex and lied. I'm not in love with my ex but i am defintely in love with my guy right now. I was stupid and r...
A. 16 April 2008: Hi,
sorry to say, but after this time if he is still not healing then you most likely have lost him.
See it as a lesson in life, be faithful to the ones you love. He probably loved you so much it was too much to forgive. Remember that in futu... (read in full...)
We're not agreeing on our wedding plans, can you help, please?
Q. He wants a drive-thru wedding, i want a normal wedding.....I dont know what to do.....can you please help?...
A. 14 April 2008: Ummm.. how old are you?... (read in full...)
Why is he so selfish in bed, I do everything - but get nothing in return!
Q. My boyfriend is so selfish in bed, our sex is praciticly a routine. I do everything for him, i want to be a good lover to him and i put his pleasure first. He asks me to wear sexy outfits and underwear when we have sex, which is fine with me. He ...
A. 14 April 2008: Hi,
go for the jugular on this guy. Tell him he is the worst lover you have had . That is the best way to sock it to a guy, let him know that he is bad in bed and he may just show some interest.
But I don't know about this guy, you have your wor... (read in full...)
I put her "under pressure" to join my church and now she need "space"!
Q. my fiancee and i were going to get married. we had a blissful relationship the only problem is i put her under pressure to join my church and gave her an ultimatum she wanted a break for a while to think and i involved her family now she h...
A. 14 April 2008: Hi,
You are paying the price for trying to force someone to accept your own narrow view of the world. So you are going to find it hard to get any sympathy.
I dare say she has called the police as you have overstepped your boundaries and are now ... (read in full...)
Does a woman make a man cum with her body, or does the man make himself cum using her body?
Q. Hi People, On rare occassions wen me n my boyfriend ahve sex, hes more into it den me n i dnt usual put too much effort into it but he still manages to cum. I was just wondering, when men/boys cum wen having sex wud u say that: The woman m...
A. 14 April 2008: I think friction plays a big part in making a man cum early in sex. So in some cases it all depends on how tight the girls vagina is. In my early days, girls tended to be quite tight and I wouldnt last too long. But if you have been having sex for ... (read in full...)
I'd like advice on having penetrative sex please.
Q. A guy that I've been seeing for a while has expressed interest in ME having penetrative sex with HIM. I'm totally open to giving it a try, but I really don't know how to go about it, or what's ideal to do/use the first time. If anyone could off...
A. 14 April 2008: Hi,
There are two simple ingredients in the recipe for penetrative sex.
You need one erect penis, and one vagina. If you cannot figure out the rest, you are not over 18.
A lot of people have tried this, it is most enjoyable :)... (read in full...)
Should I be worried that I am seen as flirtatious and probably giving off wrong signals to people?
Q. My friends are always teasing me by saying how I always seem to have so many admirers, even when some of these people are just simply being friendly to me. However, after one ocassion when someone had stopped by to say 'hi' and chat to me, one ...
A. 14 April 2008: Hi,
dont worry about it. My wife is a flirty girl, always has been always will. No big deal, I think your friend is a little insecure myself.
Be yourself. ... (read in full...)
My husband is wonderful but I can't help seeing this guy outside of work! Anyone else have this problem?
Q. I have been married for almost 2 years (no kids) and am completely in love with a co-worker. He has been married for 8 (2 kids). We both knew we were married and could tell that we had a thing for each other- while traveling for work we ended up ...
A. 14 April 2008: Hi,
this post is an advertisement for why people should not get married too young.
You are still in your early twenties and behaving like I did when I was your age, but I didn't have a wedding band on my finger . You do, but you still want to play ... (read in full...)
I hit my pregnant girlfriend and now she is ignoring me! I feel awful...
Q. I hit my girlfriend and she is 5 months pregnant i feel bad and everthing but she is ignoring me and i dont get. I said sorry she was winding me up and i hit her i really need to see what can i do please help i feel awful. PLZ HELP?! she is alot ...
A. 14 April 2008: I was brought up to believe that violence against a female is the most hideous cowardly thing a man can do.
I wonder how you were brought up.
You are a bully, and you even attempted to justify why you hit her. There is not justificatio... (read in full...)
I really need to know where I'm at with this guy, any suggestions?
Q. Okay first I will say I know it was wrong to have an affair, I was married (knowing I was headed for Divorce) he was married as he said 'not happily'. He persued me. It lasted for about 4 months - was not intimate until after a month, he was ...
A. 14 April 2008: Hi,
It looks like he was into the relationship for different reasons than you. You were splitting up with your partner and seeking love, he is staying with his and needs sex outside his marriage.
Two differing motives, and now you are free to pursu... (read in full...)
How can I get the friendly but shy store clerk to ask me out?
Q. How can I get the friendly but shy store clerk to ask me out? I went there yesterday with the intention of flirting with him, but his boss was right there and we didn't have much time to talk. I don't know him very well, but he's a friend of a frie...
A. 14 April 2008: Hi,
good grief, be a little proactive here - go for the jugular. Forget these silly little does he like me or not games - that stuff belongs on the school playground.
First, if you are not to confident, talk to your friend, see if she/he can find... (read in full...)
Why do I need to know who my girlfriend has had a fling with?
Q. I know guys come on here asking for help for problems about dealing with their girlfriends past. I have a similar problem but i don't understand why! I keep wanting to know who my girlfriend has had a fling with, the funny thing is she gave her virg...
A. 14 April 2008: Yes, it is physchological. You are a controlling personality. The fact that you are aware of this is a great step forward.
You need to see professional help to find out what the triggers are that lead to this jealously. You may very well be able... (read in full...)
My boyfriend gives me "advice" and it seems controlling, so how do I set a boundary with this?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have been dating a man for nearly a year now and our sex life is great. I feel love for him and he for me, but this is now feeling strained for me. He constantly feels the need to tell me what to do, how to do it when to do it, how I'm ...
A. 14 April 2008: Hi,
You may very well be one of the few people in the world who can live with a controlling personality.
but you then have to ask yourself is it worth it? Is this person worth all the effort, then ask yourself what will happen if your situati... (read in full...)
"The risks outweight the rewards"??? What is he up to? I thought the sexual banters were leading us to an affair!?!
Q. Just curious..married guy at work,I'm married also, we have been flirting for quite some time, it has moved to intense sexual banter. Recently I had, had it.I wanted to know what was he looking for.He even went on to state that he is responsive vs ...
A. 14 April 2008: Hi,
Is this a joke post? It just sounds like a teenager pretending to be an adult. I hope it is otherwise I pity your husband as you are running around playing high school flirty girl. It is all rather pathetic, and you are getting your just des... (read in full...)
It used to be guys crushing on me, now I am struck dumb with first ever crush of my own!
Q. well i am a really confused teen...ever since high school i have been dtaing like the hottest guys ever,everyone used to try and make up converations with me,want to hang out with me..if i ever liked a guy i used to get him in know time..this is the ...
A. 14 April 2008: I guess whomever came up with the line " treat em mean keep em keen" was spot on.... (read in full...)
We broke up because he slept with my sister, but I want him back!
Q. i really need some help, i dont know what to do about the situation im in.. ive being goin out with my boyfriend for over a year now, (16 months) and i adore him! but last night i found out that he has slept with my 13 year old sister!!!!!!! he is ...
A. 14 April 2008: O.K. if this is not a joke post call the police.
Simple as that.... (read in full...)
I've dated a guy for a week now and he is already saying he loves m.!!!!
Q. I've dated a guy for a week now and he is already saying he loves me. i don't know how anyone can love some one so quickly. im kinda freaking out, he wants me to say it back, but i don't know if i love him, or even want to keep on dating him. what ...
A. 11 April 2008: Hi,
boy, this is a deal breaker huh? Yes it is way over the top. To me it sounds like a desperate soul looking for reassurance which is a worrying trait so early into dating.
I would advise you tread very carefully if you decide to continue see... (read in full...)
He smiles at me. Does that mean he likes me?
Q. Ok so i was working at tesco over christmas and the security guard kept smiling at me and talking to me i really took a shine to him but we never liked swaped numbers or anything. my mums bf works with him, and my mum knows him, and to make matters ...
A. 11 April 2008: Oh my word, it doesnt take much to arouse your interest does it?
Maybe you should start by letting your boyfriend go. i dont think you would be too happy if you knew that he was chasing other girls while still going out with you would you? Do the ... (read in full...)
My boyfriends a real mamma's boy
Q. Hey all... i can really do with some advice on this topic. my boyfriend is a real mamma's boy. i know you can't change a person but what can i do about this. he phones his mom every day and then i'm not allowed to know what they discuss. he says ...
A. 11 April 2008: Hi,
all I can say is you are in for a world of hurt. Mamma's boy's should be avoided like the plague.
The very best scenario for you is he sees you as a replacement for his mother, hence you will need to mamma him yourself. That's the best ... (read in full...)
Does the penis grow after the age of 18 - or are we stuck with what we have forever?
Q. We all know that most teen guys have a penis size issue, but does the penis actually grow after the teens? Or are we stuck with what we have at 18 forever?...
A. 11 April 2008: I think it stops in your mid teens personally.
So sorry dude, your stuck with what you've got.... (read in full...)
Do guys think it's less challenging to get the girl when she approaches firstly??
Q. hey everyone this question is exclusivel for males..i would like to know how would you think of a girl if she would come and approach you first..not flirt but initiate a conversation..u havent met through a common friend or at a pub or club..just ...
A. 11 April 2008: Hi,
this is just like the question posted before.
Anyhoo, my wife approached me in a bar, she was with a friend and I was on my own. We have been married 10 years.
I never viewed meeting girls as something that should be a "challenge" as you... (read in full...)
Should same sex marriages be legal, in your opinion?
Q. Hey so my question is should Same Sex marriage be legal? I think yes, but I would like to know what you think....
A. 11 April 2008: It's easy.
It's nobody's damn business if two people want to get married, whatever their sex.
Who cares? It's just another means by which people with pathetic excuses for a life try and control people who want to something outside the establis... (read in full...)
Why can't I get pregnant..Could there something wrong with me?
Q. Hi, i'm 18 and i want to know if there is a disease or disorder as to why i can't stay or get pregnant? Or if there's something wrong with my boyfriend?. Please help me is there something humanly wrong with me?...
A. 10 April 2008: Go to the doctor.
Why the rush? you are 18 . ... (read in full...)
Men - how would you feel if a woman pursued you, instead of the other way around?
Q. Men - how would you feel if a woman pursued you, instead of the other way around? Assuming you did like the person but were shy, would you prefer her to hint at her interest, or be upfront and ask you out? In my case, it's a friend of a friend, ...
A. 10 April 2008: Hi,
I think most guys would like it. If they didnt then you got the hunter type anyway who enjoys the chase - so you are better off without a guy like that anyway.
Why don't you ask him out somewhere non threatening. Something that can be const... (read in full...)
Is there something funny going on with my internet guy?
Q. To start with i have met this guy online 7 months ago. Since then we always send each other, emails and I'ms. We talk like 3 to 4 times a week.We haven't met personally yet coz he lives in another state.He told me everything about him and I am to ...
A. 10 April 2008: Hi,
oh dear this just sounds so wrong.
Here is the easiest way to find out if he is married or attached. It is one question and guaranteed.
Ask him for his home phone number.
If he comes up with an excuse ( no matter how convincing ) then yo... (read in full...)
Mixed signals from the girl at work.
Q. So I've worked with this girl for a few years (just a part time job while we're both in school). I've always found her attractive and we get along well. Throughout the time I've known her, we've always been flirty, but we've never been very ...
A. 10 April 2008: Hi,
to me it looks simple. Your reputation as a player precedes you. In any office I have worked in the girls always look out for the players and warn each other off .
If you have this reputation then no doubt whispers have already found their wa... (read in full...)
Why does she hang out with married men? I trust my hubby so am I wrong to be concerned?
Q. I need some advice. I am 31 yrs old, my hubby is 35. We have a one year old daughter and we have lived out of state from our family for approx 2 years. I am a stay at home Mom, and my hubby works outside the home. He has made a lot of friendships at ...
A. 10 April 2008: Hi there,
I think you may be letting your imagination get the better of you. I really can't see anything wrong with what this woman is doing. Of course we can only go by the information you provide, but I imagine she sees these men as non threaten... (read in full...)
I have a problem with him ending sex with masturbation! Does this stem from watching too much porn?
Q. Lately, whenever we have sex, he cums a little and then says he is close to a "big one" and to play with him (i.e. jack him off, lick him, etc) until he's close and then he'll either cum inside of me or just cum. He seems to be in the mind set that ...
A. 10 April 2008: Hi there,
I guess for a lot of couples this wouldnt be a problem at all. My partner would not care either way.
But it is a problem for you so it needs to be addressed. You obviously value the intimacy of bringing your partner to orgasm throu... (read in full...)
Should I bust out the question and ask her out or take it slow and see if we vibe better?
Q. Theres a girl who I am totally attracted to. We just met a few days ago but we seem to have so many things in common: our hobbies, books, movies, lifestyles etc. Last night after we saw a concert I asked her if we could kiss...we did for awhile i...
A. 9 April 2008: Women eh!!!
what can you do!... (read in full...)
Should I have been more appreciative or is it right to expect a little more fairness within the household?
Q. I have been living with my boyfriend and his best friend for about a year and recently the best friend has become increasingly selfish and obnoxius. For example, taking my work clothes out of the dryer without telling me and putting in his own and ...
A. 8 April 2008: Hi,
good grief, there is an easy way to end this flatsharing nightmare. Tell your boyfriend if he wants to have a girlfriend then its time to lose his mate. Or for you two to find a place together.
If he refuses, you will then know how importan... (read in full...)
Was I too accommodating to his needs?
Q. OK, I've been dating a guy since January. All we do is have sex. We've been out just a couple of times in 3 months. At first, he was head over heels for me. Anything I wanted, he was there. Now, all he wants to do is come over, have sex, slee...
A. 8 April 2008: Hi,
I think the advice about playing hard to get is ridiculous. It is immature teenage behaviour at best, where on earth do people get these ideas? Falling in love is not a game, to treat it as such demonstrates an underdeveloped inte... (read in full...)
He swears his not having an affair.-Do I believe him or not?
Q. Hi a few months ago my husband and I had a lot of problems. Anyway he decided to move out for a while to clear his head. But before he moved out a friend of mine suggested I look into his phone as it sounded like he might be having an affair. So I ...
A. 8 April 2008: Hi,
sounds very fishy. could be just flirtatious, but even if it is, why is he being like this?
I would put it 50/50 he is having an affair.
No married man should send female colleagues flirty texts, it's just not on. How would he react if he f... (read in full...)
If he and another girl are calling each other surely that is cheating?
Q. I would like to know if ure b/f calls another girl and that girl calls him also, isn't that cheating. Why i'm saying that is cause he already did that to me they used to call each other with some other girl, but then he used to tell me that she's ...
A. 8 April 2008: Hi,
yep, he's cheating on you - again by the sounds of it.
So why are you still with him again?... (read in full...)
How do I get over him and him with his new girlfriend (and the girlfriend being a part of my daughter's life)?
Q. My ex-boyfriend and I had been dating for over 6 years, we had lived together for about 4 of them, and we had have a 2 and a half year old daughter. due to financial reasons we had to move apart (back in with our parents) and after a year and a half ...
A. 8 April 2008: Hi,
I very sorry to see you going through this drama.
But this is one situation where time is a key. It will take time for you to heal, to accept that you will not be a family anymore.
But rest assured your ex's new girlfriend is never going t... (read in full...)
Do girls care about the size of a penis?
Q. I'm just at the average size for the male penis. I was wondering, do girls care about size..i mean, they have to a little right? I'm 17 and only 5.5-6 I'm thinking that's small for my age.. is it? ...
A. 8 April 2008: Your average dude.
So don't worry.
and dicks are just like breasts , we all like the look of large ones but whether we actually prefer them is a different story. My wife dumped her boyfriend to go out with me, he was hung like a horse, so it... (read in full...)
What's a husband supposed to do?!! My wife is dressing very sexy- can I get her to practice more discretion?
Q. My 38-year-old wife is beautiful woman, and is a devoted wife and mother. We've been very happily married for nine months, and our love life is great. This is our second marriages. My wife's first marriage was sexually unfulfilling and her ex was ...
A. 8 April 2008: Sounds like you got it made dude.
Enjoy.!... (read in full...)
I really regret what I did to him, how can I make it right?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have met this guy and we have been together for about a year, and through half the year I sexually cheated on him with my ex and lied. I'm not in love with my ex but i am defintely in love with my guy right now. I was stupid and r...
A. 7 April 2008: Hi,
He is still with you because he still loves you.
But like a lot of people he can't deal with the betrayal.
So you guys may not have much of a future together. Have you discussed what lead you to cheating on him?
If all avenues have bee... (read in full...)
Should I bust out the question and ask her out or take it slow and see if we vibe better?
Q. Theres a girl who I am totally attracted to. We just met a few days ago but we seem to have so many things in common: our hobbies, books, movies, lifestyles etc. Last night after we saw a concert I asked her if we could kiss...we did for awhile i...
A. 7 April 2008: Damn it man, show some cajones! Ask her out!
What more do you need from a girl to convince you to ask her out. Good grief!
She told you about the creepy guy because she feels she can confide in you not because she fears you may be one. Honestly... (read in full...)
I want the baby and the boyfriend, but he has commitment issues!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been having problems for sometime. I always feel like he's hiding me and maybe seeing other people. I always feel like he's lying to me about something. He definatley doesn't treat me right. He's told me he has fear of ...
A. 7 April 2008: Hi,
If you want to have the baby, have it. Don't not have simply because you think he will be a bad father, you may regret it deeply later on. He at least as said he will help support you.
But he sounds very untrustworthy so you will most likely h... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has a huge problem with me being friends with my ex! What do I do?
Q. I had a 8 year relationship in which I was engaged and very close to a woman. That ended three years ago. Recently, I began dating another woman and it has become serious. I felt to resolve the feelings from my past that I would need to make friends ...
A. 7 April 2008: Hi,
Well your situation mirrors mine almost identically.
I too was with a girl for 8 years, and we split up, we remained friends but my new partner ( whom I am still married to 10 years later ) was not happy with the relationship.
At first I was ... (read in full...)
I am a single mom and would like to attract more male attention! Any tips?
Q. I am 39 year old woman with two children. I'm not in a relationship at the moment, and haven't been for six years. I don't go out much as I can't afford it. I haven't got a lot of confidence in myself and become very nervous around men who I am ...
A. 7 April 2008: Hi,
I always say if you got it flaunt it. Always show off your best feature. If you have nice sized boobs wear something that show them off. The same goes for your bottom, if it is shapely wear something figure hugging. Guys are visual crea... (read in full...)
Was he just goofing around or is he genuinely interested?
Q. there is a man i work with and i don't know what to make of his behavior. i want to know if he is just goofing off, relieving some boredom making our day a little interesting, or if he is really interested. he has been looking down my shirt and i ...
A. 7 April 2008: O.K.. this is a joke right?
you put his penis in your mouth and it showed no signs of excitement. good grief.... (read in full...)
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