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writes: I broke up with my ex fiance 5 months ago because he was emotionally abusive. Anyway, I told him to not contact me numerous times and he didn't listen, so I finally changed my number. Then, he messaged me on myspace two weeks ago saying how he misses me and said that he is trying to move on but that it is hard. He asked if I feel incomplete. I didn't respond and blocked him from my myspace. Then, just last night he emailed me and said how he misses me and how he is in Florida on vacation, blah, blah, blah. He asked why I haven't been responding. He also said how his friends and family wish me well, funny how the last conversation we had on christmas eve was him telling me how his family and friends thought I was so horrible for not remaining friends and talking to him. It would be nice if for once he could just apologize to me for how he treated me, said he was going to therapy or something. But, he doesn't. Why is he contacting me after I have made it clear I don't want to be with a guy who is disrespectful and abusive on so many levels? Is he trying to get back with me or just having a pity party? I know it doesn't matter that much, but I'm annoyed and I guess I could change my email address, but wouldn't I always have that account? HELP!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2008): He is a stalker and I have experienced this same thing before. Totally ignore him and block his e-mails and hopefully he will go away SOON! Good luck.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (3 March 2008):
 You could block his mail in your e-mail a/c.
He wants to come back to you and it is up to you if you want to give him another chance.
If you want him back, then you need to set your boundaries or terms.
If you do not , ask him to stop or you will report him to the police for harassment and intimidations.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (3 March 2008):
 Hi,
Emotional abusive people live inside their own private hell. He is probably all cut up that you have continued to live your life while he goes from one disaster to another trying to heap his messed up head onto his new girlfriends.
Just ignore him.
good luck.
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