Boyfriend admitted to one-night stand!
Q. Dear Cupid My bf of 2 years confessed yesterday that few weeks back he had an one night stand, he was heavely drunk and didn't realise what he was getting into. I really dont understand how he could he say since he was drunk he didnt know what ...
A. 11 November 2011: Confused? Dont let that feeling keep u interested in him. Hes a cheating a**hole who deserves my 130 dumbbells dropped on his face. Rid urself of him. Is it that hard of a decision?!... (read in full...)
Boyfriend admitted to one-night stand!
Q. Dear Cupid My bf of 2 years confessed yesterday that few weeks back he had an one night stand, he was heavely drunk and didn't realise what he was getting into. I really dont understand how he could he say since he was drunk he didnt know what ...
A. 10 November 2011: He lacks maturity and respect for you. His honesty is a plus however his very poor decision to drink and to put himself at risk of such a liberal fiasco, outweighs his honesty and apology. Now, trust is broken. You will begin to question and worry ... (read in full...)
Can you get sick from giving blowjobs?
Q. Hello, so im going to go sraight to the point, i gave my boyfriend a blow job, he asked first and i said no but he kept asking and i gave in i didnt do it for long at all he deffinitley didnt ejaculate because i told him i didnt want him too in my ...
A. 7 November 2011: The lad shouldnt pressure. Hes a serious a**hole for all im concerned. Then again maybe if i forced my ex to do the same i wouldnt have had to worry about paying for it now would i? Ethics aside i think youre physically ill here and chigirl states ... (read in full...)
I have no clue what it's like to date, and I am still a virgin! Will I ever find love?
Q. So here is the results,once again in 2011 I still haven't had any luck with girls,still don't have a clue what its like to be dating,be in a relationship or being loved,and yes I'm still a virgin.. you know its really hard to be in love alone and ...
A. 6 November 2011: Get rid of ur pessimistic a**hole friend. He wont encourage you if anything judge you. No one deserves that kid.
Now first things first what r u doing to attract women? Start by dressing well n appropriately. Next time ur out to a club where a tie ... (read in full...)
Do women have a problem with scars? Should I get mine surgically cleaned up?
Q. Prefer women to answer this: Im near the end of my 8 week cutting cycle and my long term goal of revealing my abs is achieved. However i have lower abdomen scars from belly fat and have opted to have possible surgery to remove them. Sexually, ...
A. 5 November 2011: Thank u for the advice.... (read in full...)
I really need a male's perspective on this question...
Q. This has been bothering me for months now... I am in a great relationship with this guy for almost 6 months now ( we are both in our 30's) and we are very happy together. We were on our first vacation together and it had been only 2 months that ...
A. 31 October 2011: Not a fan of his words at all. Does he even know the risk of the relationship with a threesome? Or jealousy issues? His fantasy is common but that doesnt make it acceptable because he is in a committed relationship. I think when he said he was ... (read in full...)
Does he just want Friends with Benefits or The Real Thing??
Q. So there is this guy that I've known for a little over two years now. We've always been really good friends, and whenever I ever needed someone to talk to or a friend to be with, he was always the first one I'd call. He has always been such a great ...
A. 29 October 2011: Id say hes trying to let you down in his own sort of way which is being indorect n passive. If he doesnt see the relationship working then he doesnt. You cant make a guy agree with u. Sounds to me like youre not his type personality wise which ... (read in full...)
How do you tell your boyfriend you were a text sex maniac?
Q. I,ve decided to come clean with my boyfriend. we're dating nearly four months and he deserves to know the truth as He told me all his secets. I used 2 be a sex text maniac. I used to text guys off the internet and we'd send each other pictures I,ve ...
A. 28 October 2011: U should not bring it up at all. If both of u have feelings already established for another u will risk him being very jealous and upset. He doesnt need to know regardless if he shared his past with u or not. Good luck. Btw loved belfast. Great city ... (read in full...)
My past is coming back to haunt me.....
Q. I have a very big problem about my past and I'm not sure how to handle it. My husband I are married almost 10 years, and together over 10 years. My husband thinks that I was not only a virgin when we started dating, but he also thinks that I was CO...
A. 28 October 2011: Feelings are invested by both u n ur husband. therefore u risk jealousy n trust issues if u disclose any part of ur past with any man. Meet this ex for coffee not booze. Dont put urself at risk of anything. Tell him youre married and be direct n ... (read in full...)
Should I tell people I'm a virgin when I meet them?
Q. I'm 26 and still a virgin. I've not had many boyfriends, i'm quite shy and don't go out much - prefer saving money for holidays and concerts. Whenever i meet someone should I tell them i'm a virgin or not? Thanks...
A. 26 October 2011: Wow. Heres hoping the western world accepts moralistic virgin women. Commendable decision. Wait til the time in the relationship is right and the other person has earned your trust of such personal information.... (read in full...)
I feel foolish being a virgin at 21
Q. I feel worthless because me being 21 and a virgin now that I look at it is foolish and pathetic. I was so blinded to actually think I was going to find someone to share myself with but now its really a fantasy. Women my age aren't looking for ...
A. 21 October 2011: Guys this kid is obviously frustrated. Sounds like me at age 25 when i was pathetically a virgin. We need to back off and stop giving opinions on the matter, be it youre "the romantic save it type" or a strong advocate for prostitution like myself. ... (read in full...)
He cant ejaculate! How common is this and what, if anything, can I do?
Q. I have been dating a man for a few weeks now, everything is good and this isnt really a complaint, but he cant ejaculate through sex, blow jobs, handjobs...you name it, no girl has ever made him ejaculate! He is 29, in good health, doesnt t...
A. 21 October 2011: Does he masturbate to porn? Certain kinds of stimulation can prevent someone from the real thing because their minds get psychologically comfortable with that certain stimulation and anything else, for example a real act, is an adjustment for them ... (read in full...)
My last experience with a girl has left me wanting to focus on work and not girls, is there something wrong with me?
Q. Somehow I felt very tired mentally after my previous experience with a girl. The experience between me and her was great at the start but everything turned disastrous at last. It was not a pleasant experience because we are not even friends ...
A. 17 October 2011: Nah man nothin wrong. Im doing the same thing right now. In fact ive isolated myself into my own daily routine with work and the gym and ive never felt more productive. Im not healing. Im not some dog lickin his woynds im just finding ways to be ... (read in full...)
Personality vs looks?
Q. Hi, So I was wondering... Is personality or physical attraction more important? Any thoughts would be appreciated!...
A. 17 October 2011: Look at my physique. In my own experience looks is more important with women not personality. So ive adapted or am continuing to do so in order to help my success with women ... (read in full...)
How can I get less nervous about sexual things?
Q. Recently, me and my bf started gradually doing more than just a soft kiss here or there. He's a gentle person (to me, at least xD) and he respects my boundaries, but I'm still nervous about these things, and talking about them, or hearing him talk ...
A. 16 October 2011: Youre definitely not ready for certain levels of intimacy quite yet. This is normal doll. Build your relationship more with him and you can become closer, that will help you gain trust, respect, and overall have good communication. This way when you ... (read in full...)
He is just too big, but I love him, how can I please him?
Q. I won’t be shy, I’ve been around the block more than a few times and never have I come across anything like this. I met this totally great guy last year. He was friendly and we got talking. We’ve been dating for the last 9 months or so now. But when...
A. 16 October 2011: Titjobs feel amazing! Dont be ashamed that you had to compromise with that! If he gave u positive feedback on that, you dont need to hold expectations for yourself. Sounds like this could fun! Have him use the toys on you and heck, maybe try a few ... (read in full...)
I'm starting to see a red flag -- is it really there?
Q. I wanted your guys or girls opinion on something? I met this realy nice lady, we are about the same age we hit it off great and actually still are, though we have been going out exclusively with eachother for only 6 weeks. Now this woman has neve...
A. 13 October 2011: My first impression is that this woman is immature regardless.of age
She seems as tho shes hinting at wanting to date and play the field. She was honest about her discussion with sean however it brings into question if she wants to be with u excl... (read in full...)
My parents have refused my girlfriend who has been on wheelchair since birth, now I want to marry her without their assent, don’t you guys think I have taken the correct decision ?
Q. My girlfriend has been on wheelchair since birth but she's well educated and doing teaching . I think she's so pretty that one can easily compare her with Fairy. She's 5 years younger than me and I am her first boyfriend . We are in a relationship ...
A. 13 October 2011: Ill say this as respectfully as possible. F*** your parents. Shes goal oriented has a stable job and her job deals with kids a strong indicator shell be a good mother. Her idignant background is irrelevant. Doesnt mayter where u come from it ... (read in full...)
Are men okay with a bra on during sex?
Q. If a girl has messed up breasts and would prefer to keep her bra on during sex and not let you see them would you be okay with that?...
A. 13 October 2011: No worries. Id tell the guy your insecurity, discuss it with him, ask for his understanding, and if possible, maybe compromise.... (read in full...)
What's it like to have a girlfriend?
Q. Whats it like to have a girlfriend? I never had one and I'm very curious about love and sex. I heard relationships can be stressful and can be a pain in the neck sometimes. I really want to have a girlfriend, I guess I haven't met the right girl ...
A. 13 October 2011: Having a GF is overrated. If youre looking for love, which is a very loose term nowadays so whenever society can find a universal definition for it let me know cause Im obviously lost... OR maybe just vastly experienced with high emotion ... (read in full...)
B/f wants a foursome--3 guys and me! I kind of want it too!
Q. I've had the biggest crush on this guy for like a year now. He's super adorable. We flirt all the time. He and I have been "talking" for like two months now. I love when people give me attention and he gives me the most. Last month, we were at his ...
A. 13 October 2011: This guy has no respect for at all as he wants to use u for his fantasy. This is awful however so was having to lose my v card at 25. If u wanna further be like many american women and deem my action pathetic by engaging in this meatfest then by ... (read in full...)
I just want women to like me for who I am and hate the idea of having to fake a new personality to become attractive.
Q. Hey guys. I'm a 17 year old boy and I'm in my last year of college. Being completely brutal here I am not great looking and I am about 12.5 stone at 5'11'' so I have some work to do on that front. I've been told by mates that I have a great ...
A. 13 October 2011: I notice u pal and admire your maturity. Western women in general hate the nice guy. Flowers romance generosity... hell i dont even hold doors or pick up their tampons out if their purses anymore lol. These women like to be teased joked with poked ... (read in full...)
His post-steroid mood changes are getting to be ridiculous!
Q. My boyfriend does steroids and he has constant mood changes, they never end. (i didnt know until we had been dating for about 5 months) He just ended a cycle and its slowly getting worse. Can anyone give me advice? He has constant mood changes and ...
A. 13 October 2011: Hi! His side affects are common with low level roids. These produce rapid growth hormone or hgh which is needed for the body to create muscle. His hormones are increased significantly since he just finished a cycle which id hope was a month. ... (read in full...)
We messed around and ended up having oral sex, now he isnt answering any of my calls or texts! I've never felt so cheap in my entire life!
Q. I had known my friend and her brother for almost 7 years, and although I wasn't as close to him when we were younger (due to the 3 yr difference) I used to have a big crush on him. After years of not talking, we messaged each other back and forth on ...
A. 11 October 2011: Im certain he played a game with u and u used u. Hes all words no action about what u mean to him. Drop this guy. Dont let his behavior be an attraction. Its ridiculous. Good luck.... (read in full...)
Caught boyfriend sending gay emails to other men, now what?
Q. I honestly don't know where to go from here. My boyfriend and I have been together for over 2 years and we recently bought a condo together. Long story short, I was moving my stuff in one weekend and needed to use his laptop to check my email w...
A. 7 October 2011: Not a prank at all. He's gay and scared to admit and as a result, he's lying to you to cover his insecurity of being dishonest. This is awful. Yes the trust is gone I do agree. It may be time to end this relationship.... (read in full...)
Guys, don't you feel it if a woman wants you? or you just give it a try anyway and try your luck?
Q. This is what I want to ask you guys and girls, but mostly guys: can you tell when you have a chance with a woman even for just that night, or are just men absolutely oblivious to the signs and you guys need to be told straight forward yes or no? ...
A. 7 October 2011: Dude youre meeting some idiot men. Mr scraggly had a few drinks in him did he? Even if he didnt guys need to look at body language of women, and not just hear words, the whole indirect and direct communication should be summed and tell the guy "Is ... (read in full...)
What does it mean when your boyfriend texts you "I will always love you" after an argument?
Q. What does it mean when your boyfriend texts you "I will always love you _____ (my name)"? We had an argument on the phone last night about his hot and cold behavior with me which has been pretty consistent throughout our entire relationship (pr...
A. 7 October 2011: This guy sounds immature and dramatic and not in control of his emotions, one possible reason why you two arent communicating well cause you may possibly feel he's not confident in that way in dealing with business. Now, his words could mean ... (read in full...)
How do I show my boyfriend how much I appreciate his kindness to me?
Q. Today my boyfriend bought a computer for me knowing I desperately needed for my college. I have spent most of my time at the library, I don't have to now, thank-you to him! I said thank-you so many times today, I feel I can't say it enough. I have ...
A. 7 October 2011: Buy him a new video game coming out, its that season again. Take him to his favorite restaurant or one he really likes. Do something action wise that shows him you do indeed appreciate his generousity. ... (read in full...)
Kisses and being called sexy
Q. I have a quick question.if a guy gives you a kiss on the lips and calls you sexy,does he like you ?...
A. 5 October 2011: yep... sure fire sign he wants to advance which isnt bad, just make sure youre comfortable with the lad. good luck.... (read in full...)
DC aunts, do any of you like going out to bars and clubs by yourselves?
Q. Do any women here like going out to bars and clubs on their own ? I'm in my 20's and dont really have many friends so i'm wondering whether to go out on my own ? I think i would feel nervous and self conscious though.i think men are brave to go out ...
A. 5 October 2011: yeah i did all the time in the us. i studied djs in clubs and drank only a little. no shame in doing it. on the bright side, you dont have to worry about babysitting friends, drama, alcohol issues with others etc. all that is minimized simply cause ... (read in full...)
Why do guys act interested, then ignore you?
Q. I met this guy while I was at a club on Friday. It was his friend who was chatting to me more during the night and he was just more into the music (it wasn't like a trashy club we were all there to see a big DJ) so I had to make the effort to speak ...
A. 4 October 2011: Cause boys like girls to chase. U see if a guy is flat out honest n straight forward with intent it takes away mystery so girls become uninterested. Whereas if hes sending u mixed signals like he is here girls stay curious. I admire the rascal. Drop ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to use dirty talk in the bedroom and I have no idea how to do it.
Q. I'm quite embarrassed about asking this, but i have no one else to ask... i'v been going out with my boyfriend for about 6 months now, and we started having sex, but he never manages to finish 'if you know what i mean' and he told me he'll only ...
A. 4 October 2011: Tell him where to cum lol and point. That is incredibly hot.... (read in full...)
You don't bring me flowers anymore..
Q. I've been dating someone for 3 months...we moved fast and are in a committed relationship. I want to know why things change...We used to text constantly during the day..now? Not as much...He used to bring flowers...Now? Nope..We have been ...
A. 4 October 2011: Yep. Comfortable. He may have also been too nice in the beginning and now hes set an expectation for himself. Another possible reason why nice guys finish last.... (read in full...)
What do I do? Would it be bad if I did have sex with him next time?
Q. I met this guy online and we've been talking for a month now. We had finally met last week, and have hung out two nights since. The first night we met, he took me to dinner and we hung out at his house after. We were cuddling on the couch watchi...
A. 28 September 2011: Leave this mother***** he wants to use u and hes being clever with wordd. ... (read in full...)
Are my emotions after sex normal?
Q. Is it normal for a man to feel gushy with a person he just had sex with? An is it normal to feel like things have changed after having sex with a person ? Or to view the person in a different light?...
A. 28 September 2011: Yea man. Youre a normal guy. and thats a kind heart u have if u feel somethin with the woman cause many men like myself no longer do not.... (read in full...)
Why is it that when I have a chance to lose my virginity, I can't perform!
Q. um so heres my problem. i am 16 years old, and a virgin. that isnt exactly the issue, but what is is that on a number of occasions in the past few years i have had the chance to have sex, and it just hasnt worked out. with the first girl we both ...
A. 27 September 2011: Youve become used to a certain kind of stimulation so youre body doesnt get turned on. Solution. Stop watching porn and jackin it a lot. This way you wont become accustomed to just one kind of stimulation. I like porn too and the last hooker i was ... (read in full...)
What makes the difference between good sex and bad sex with a girl?
Q. When having sex, what makes a girl a good lay and what makes her bad in bed? I hear that many girls get uncomfortable and in turn, turn off guys. Can anyone answer this?...
A. 27 September 2011: Talk dirty. Wear heels. Nice perfume or lotion. And ill split any woman to pieces who does those three things.... (read in full...)
I think about this celebrity 24/7
Q. I'm in love with "Penny "Character of TV Show "The Big Bang Theory". Will I be ever able to find life-partner like her in my real life? She is on my mind 24/7 , what should I do? You guys' take on this would be appreciated ! Thank you! ...
A. 27 September 2011: Stop watching the show. Its fantasy not real. Talk to real women. The more you speak the better chance youll have at finding a good match.... (read in full...)
How much trouble would we be in if we have sex at a movie theatre and get caught?
Q. I am 19 and I have been with my bf Brett for 2 yrs. Our 2 yr anniversary is on wednesday and I wanted to do something special so I asked him what he would like to do. I was kinda shocked when he sadi he had 2 things he had always wanted to do the ...
A. 27 September 2011: Youre lookin at gross misdemeanors of.lewd conduct and indecent exposure. Each count carry max 1 year jail if convicted. Check ur state laws to verify. ... (read in full...)
How do you change your entire personality?
Q. Hello, I myself am a really lonely individual, I don't have any girls that are friends guys that are friends, don't have any girlfriends. I think the problem is my personality. Here's what my personality is. I like doing dorky loser things like, ...
A. 25 September 2011: I absolutely applaud you for this. For taking initiative to address your own image. Im sure it was frustrating for you. Just be very sure you want to go full throttle into a new mind. I would try to associate with ppl who you wanna be more like as ... (read in full...)
So frustrated! 37 years old and Single. Please Help!
Q. Dear Cupid, I have a dilemma. I am a 37 year old female who has had relationship problems all my life so far. I have no clue as to what I am doing wrong. My personality is what I thought was my strong point, and I think I am fairly physicall...
A. 12 September 2011: head up doll. yes take more initiative in the dating scene. online or what about having family hook u up? shit ive had enough failures and have opted for an arranged marriage that my family will help with. If anything, and I do say this ... (read in full...)
Sex life going downhill and don't know what to do about it!
Q. I'm in need of some serious help/advice. I need to know how I can spice things up in the bedroom with my husband. Lately our sex life has gone down hill, he can't last like he used to and half the time he doesn't even seem interested anymore. For ...
A. 12 September 2011: Wow thsi guy is totally taking you for granted. Id start by not assuming anything, and just talk to the guy and figure it out. Communication is key in any relationship and prob moreso in a marriage. Good luck.... (read in full...)
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