Is he attracted to me? please help!
Q. If you were a single Mom and there was a cute guy at your office who seemed to go out of his way to stop by your desk each day and say hello, sometimes picked up lunch for you when you were working on a project; alway made a point of sitting across ...
A. 16 January 2012: Nice guys usually arent that naive esp if they wake up like me. What? This guy thinks every girl should be treated like a princess? True: If he's just being nice to them, chances are he isnt attracting these women because being nice like the way he ... (read in full...)
What is a great indirect & funny way to ask a female friend if they have a boyfriend?
Q. What is a great indirect and funny way to ask a female friend if they have a boyfriend? Any advice? ...
A. 16 January 2012: lol I feel you man esp if you want the brod to keep guessing at whether youre interested in her. You can sneak it in in convo but dont be random about it... stick to topic. Like if you guys are talking about classic cars... tease her and be like Im ... (read in full...)
Between two guys, shall I tell the one near NYC how I feel?
Q. The thing is i have two penpals. Yeah, two. They are both american (same as me) but i am actually living in Perú. I have been writing to the first one 4 months ago everyday (6 hours each day) and i felt i was falling in love with him until i met my ...
A. 16 January 2012: Yeah well baby im almost single, my girlfriend is on death row.. Ill steal a fraction of ed murphs line there while I tell you that you are wasting your time chasing a guy who has already made his decision to be with someone in australia. Doesnt ... (read in full...)
Is it University or is it me? Can anybody help me make sense of what is going on here? ....Depression perhaps?
Q. i don't know what has happened? Before I left university for christmas everything was great and I was sad to go home and excited to get back here.. But now i'm back I find that I don't want to spend as much time with my flatmates as before, ...
A. 16 January 2012: Id think youre home sick which is pretty normal. That is common among ppl esp if they grew up in a one and only town their whole lives and then suddenly, they go away for college and are in a sense, forced to adjust to its surroundings and culture. ... (read in full...)
How can I make him understand it's too late?
Q. I could use some advise if anyone has any "insight" or experience or wise words... I have an ex-boyfriend who doesn't seem to understand what's wrong with what he does... Short: We date 3 years. He's always been open about having a crush o...
A. 13 January 2012: This guy is a tool and I should use to him to fix my dumbbell rack at my gym. Complete idiot. Agreed.. you need to have some serious ovaries here and cut off all contact from him. Emails, phones, facebook... everything so that he gets it in his head ... (read in full...)
I'm sure this older married woman is into me, how do I get her number and get to know her better?
Q. Hi all. Need some advice. I'm 21 years old, and I've been working at my job for over 4 years now. There is a woman who comes in who is significantly older than me (probably mid-30's). She is Colombian, like me (although I don't speak Spanish and she ...
A. 13 January 2012: Someone at the zoo let the cougar out da gate... guess you caught the news eh kiddo? Look pal... its quite possible shes just being friendly with ya and is naturally flirtatious and not into you OR shes very flirtatious and def into you. Something ... (read in full...)
I love the kid with my life but the fact he cant accept me breaks my heart so bad.
Q. Its amazing. Its been about 5 years and me and ronnie are still on and off. All that ive put up with no doubt has been love and all the rumors (about me) hes ignored can only mean he cares about me. But what happens when a guy likes being low key ...
A. 13 January 2012: I'll go ahead and dedicate myon n shane's remix of promises to you but does that make me like sir ronnie!? def not... a) its not mainstream music and b) you prob dont even care ;)... so take what ronnie does with a grain of salt.. hes with this ... (read in full...)
Will men still want me when I have a child or am I damaged goods?
Q. My question is I'm 26 year old college student, I am so far working on my AA degree. I have a 4 year old child, will men still want someone like me or am I just damaged goods. ...
A. 13 January 2012: Okay okay I confess I confess... ready? Yep... I have a thing for some single moms. Why? cause I was raised by one. So, intuitively Im interested in the woman almost right away if she has a child. I nearly dated a girl in the us ( I say nealy cause ... (read in full...)
Tentative steps in our new relationship. What's a reasonable timeline, before we decide to have sex?
Q. When is the right time to have sex in our relationship? We are both widowed. I'm 68 years old and he is 72. We have dated four times. We do care about each other. ...
A. 13 January 2012: No specific time frame doll. When both parties feel ready and everything is mutual... then go at it :-)... (read in full...)
My wife is a mean drunk!
Q. My wife has trouble with alcoholism. There are a lot of reasons I won't get into here. She can stay away from alcohol, but if she has just one drink she will have 6 or 10 (or more). This doesn't happen often (anymore) because I gave up drinking...
A. 13 January 2012: Dude you are aces man. Way to stay calm thru the storm. If you maintain that, she will see her words and actions have no effect on you and maybe that will help her tone down behavior. No doubt she sounds like she has issues with alcohol. For you to ... (read in full...)
How do you politely reject someone on the grounds that they might not be "your type"?
Q. How do you politely reject someone on the grounds that they might not be "your type"? If a woman showed an interest in me, how can I say in a nice way (if I'm not interested) that she is not my type? If a woman told me I was not "her type", I ...
A. 13 January 2012: Tisha gives good advice here.... (read in full...)
How do I get him to want sex more?!
Q. I am married to a wonderful man. We are both in our forties. our problem is I want sex more than him. He has a physical job and is tired when he comes home. If he is ever horney he can take care of himself. If I am not up to it. But I cant take ...
A. 13 January 2012: Yeah talk to him. He may need just something simple to get really ignited back into a better sex routine. Nice evening out or even a brief weekend getaway if possible. That'll do wonders. In fact, I dated a very conservative woman once and too... (read in full...)
Is my friend worth all the trouble and uproar she causes? Especially when she acts up or is drunk?
Q. Hi everyone. So I'm having a little trouble with my friend (lets call her X). She's 23, and she's always drunk. She always tries to start stuff with me ONLY when she's drunk, and she'll only "admit" things (like how stupid my boyfriend is, how she ...
A. 13 January 2012: She sounds very insecure and is taking that out on you by putting you down and teasing. She's dealing with her issues by drinking. This woman clearly has problems and I'll be the first to adamantly state alcohol is no damn solution, not even to your ... (read in full...)
Bad experiences with men! Should I continue being careful and cynical?
Q. i have had several bad experiences in the past with men, and even though i am only 18 ive already had a four year relationship with someone which ended in him cheating on me several times. my heart was broken but im moving on, yet every guy i meet ...
A. 13 January 2012: Hey doll!
Being careful is fine. Cynical is like saying "im not going to give a guy the benefit of the doubt." Currently, I hate relationships. However, Im not thinking I'll never find a woman cause they are all the same... rather Im thinking abou... (read in full...)
His continued porn use is eating away my love for him!
Q. I need some male answere to understand what is going on or going wrong in our relationship. I try to make it simple. Here are the facts: We are married for a long time,still in love, have lots of hot sex (never boring!!!!), I am still very attra...
A. 13 January 2012: Sounds like he's dealing with a bit of an addiction. If he's irritated about you bringing it up, lies about it, or hides it... this all implies he is ashamed of his addiction and will not admit it. Counseling or a book could be an option for t... (read in full...)
Am I just his "booty call"?
Q. I met this young guy (25y) I am 33y female....We had chemistry..started whith just kisses..with the time we ended up in sex.... I like him a lot. Is very mature and has a brillant career, is very smart and corteous. Very succesful for his age. La...
A. 13 January 2012: Yep. The v^^^^ shop is open and he's not camping inside with a big cart, he's getting what he needs, and leaves.... (read in full...)
My FWB wants to have a baby with me!!
Q. ok so im 18 and ive been a friends with benifit with this guy but it has grown into where neither of us are with anybody else but he wont say that we are in a relationship... so now we are having trouble seeing each other because his family doesnt ...
A. 13 January 2012: Bad idea! Having this baby is based purely on a negative emotion and nothing at all logical to balance it out therefore a poor decision is likely to be made.... (read in full...)
He did say he was selfish. Are his actions reflecting what he said?
Q. Okay so here is a little backstory you will need to asnwer the question: I was enrolled in a class where my teacher (lets call him ben) commented on my breasts once or twice in class. He also would tease me about how sexual I was but never took it ...
A. 12 January 2012: If he's questioning your reasons for liking him and he's saying youll break his heart... this shows two possible things: One, he may lack self confidence and two, he has unresolved relationship issues. In other words, even if you two got together, ... (read in full...)
Does anyone know what could be going through a woman's head when I look at her?
Q. I don't know if this happens to other people, but I find that when I look a woman straight in her eyes she tends to smirk. If I break contact the smirk goes away but then there's an attraction. It seems to happen to me whenever I find myself talking ...
A. 12 January 2012: Eye contact with women says to them "youre in charge" and "the dominant one". They love this. When they smirk, that is them acknowledging, oh this guy gets it, he knows what women like. Body language too man, when they break eye contact, in ... (read in full...)
How can we our first time spectacular?
Q. Okay, so early last year I was sexually assaulted by my boyfriend at the time. So that was my "first time" whether I liked it or not. Yeah, I know, how lovely. Anyway, I now have a new, wonderful boyfriend whome is a virgin and we're discuss...
A. 11 January 2012: Romantic evening out and a door closed for the evening. Have that boy be very gentle with u but passionate. Kisses on the neck shoulders soft touching would help u feel comfortable and also aroused. He needs to vtake his time with u and be very ... (read in full...)
To what extent is it considered stringing someone along?
Q. When a guy calls you all the time and shows interest in you, then doesn't call as much anymore but still returns your phone calls when you call him, is that considered stringing along? When men aren't interested in a woman but they know she is ...
A. 11 January 2012: Not necessarily. Some men will show interest by ignoring. Ignoring calls texts emails etc. They do this because theyve naturally learned its part of the women psychology in creating attraction... to keep u guessing and not being a sellout douche ... (read in full...)
I feel such an outcast in school
Q. This is just a rant. I feel so lonely in school. I'm a straight-A student who takes all honors/AP courses. I'm not a "nerd", I just enjoy learning. Anyway, I used to be popular in this school. I switched here four years ago, and for the first tw...
A. 11 January 2012: Being singled out is no fun. Conformity could be an option onli within reasonable grasp. Further onli if u can see yourself as someone slightly different within ur school. Then of course u could do is transfer to another school. Now if u feel like ... (read in full...)
He said mean things to me only because he was mad?
Q. what would u do or think if your bf tells u are clingy annoying and needy....and then when u tell him if u think im all those thing why are u with me.then he tells u he was just mad and that he does love u and that i need to just enjoy being togther ...
A. 11 January 2012: Sounds like u two have communication issues. He got emotional because he feels that is what is necessary with u in order to effectively convey his message. Sit him down and discuss ur issues without attacking each other. ... (read in full...)
If you were chilling with a guy and he looked at your breasts for any amount of time would you not want to date him?
Q. If you were chilling with a guy and he looked at your breasts for any amount of time would you not want to date him? I wish I knew these sorts of things intuitively without having to ask people. I have been diagnosed with Asperger syndrom...
A. 9 January 2012: Women dont mind a glance during convo but repeated stares can be creepy as it comes across as very aggressive which isnt an impression a lot of women like. Dont be embarrassed. Shit ive been caught many times and when i do i make some sarcastic ... (read in full...)
She said he's not racist anymore, but I just feel very uncomfortable. Am I over-reacting or not?
Q. So I have a situation that has been really bothering me and I need some help because I dunno if I'm overreacting or am I right for being upset.. ok so I'm living in a house with my boyfriend and two other roomates. Its been going ok, but now my room...
A. 9 January 2012: the guy might be changed he might not. Youd hafta see his behavior as proof not just words and to see his behavior is a risk. Racism is a very serious issue. ... (read in full...)
Could my friend's mom be interested in me?
Q. For a while now, iv been wanting to have sex with my girl friends mom (not my partner but a really close friend.) Me and the girl had sex before but now were just friends which is really weird because I never thought it could happen. But everytime ...
A. 9 January 2012: Go to the zoo if u wanna see a cougar in action kid. Not a house.... (read in full...)
Was I right to send him this text? He still hasn't responded and I'm devastated....
Q. So I've been dating someone for a while who treated me so well he was incredible. It felt like we were falling in love I noticed very positive changes in him. But then IMMEDIATELY after, he switched up. He started treating me so different I've been ...
A. 9 January 2012: The guys behavior after the relationship was official is shadier than a fat guy standing over an nyc hot dog stand. A def red flag.... (read in full...)
A really nice guy - does he want something more??
Q. Hi, I have a friend who is just super-nice to me and that is what is bothering me. He is just so nice. He's a friend, and we've been friends for about 2 years now and we met through mutual friends. A few months ago, he relocated near my area, ...
A. 9 January 2012: Interesting post. This guy sounds awfully like how i used to be. I maintained a similar way in treating women until i realized i was to rare to ever not mean any bad intention. I say that respectfully. Reformed and ill say albeit educated with the ... (read in full...)
Why is it that when men play around they are champs and women are called names???
Q. I just want to know why is it when men play around with 3 or more women its ok. Hes looked up to as the CHAMP. BUT if a female plays around with 3 men or more. She gets called a "HOE" : "SLUT" : A "WHORE". JUST about every name in the book. why is ...
A. 5 January 2012: Men can be egotistic and more competitive and also, aggressive. ... (read in full...)
Any ideas why he is suddenly losing erection during sex?
Q. Hey! my boyfriend and I have been together for a few months now, but I've known him forever since we've been friends since high school. Everything is great, we get along great and we both work to make things work. We're both very much in love. The ...
A. 5 January 2012: Lots of variables possibly... is he conscious about his appearance? any recent spike in his stress? any recent diagnosed medical condition? is he overweight? ... if hes reassured you its not because of the way you look, thats prob not the cause.... (read in full...)
I cooked a special dinner for my boyfriend but he spent the entire time on the phone with another girl! Am I right to be mad about this?
Q. My boyfriend of one year is from another country and talks from time to time about foods he misses that aren't common here. Thinking I would surprise him, I went out of my way to make a dish he had been reminiscing about. Since I'd never tasted it ...
A. 4 January 2012: This is bullshit. He needs to take a seat in my school of respect. He seems to be taking u for granted and doesnt show appreciation. That def isnt fair to you.... (read in full...)
Am I paranoid or is he cheating?
Q. Okay, I'm not sure if i am paranoid that my boyfriend is cheating or if he really is so i need your guys help. Okay i don't have proof that he is cheating. He don't have a phone anymore cause he says he can't afford one anymore since he has a l...
A. 4 January 2012: I agree with cityoflight... (read in full...)
How do I stop this guy's invasive presence?
Q. OK, maybe this is a stupid question, especially at my age, but here it is: I met this guy exactly three times, once when we met at a party, once we had coffee and once we went together at a workshop with a lot of other people, and now he is writing ...
A. 30 December 2011: Block the guy. He seems desperate to be honest and very aggressive, both red flags. I think even if you keep him as a friend either on FB or in life too that still, to his dumbass anyway, says youre interested regardless of what you may state to ... (read in full...)
I honestly don't know how to date again.
Q. Ok the thing is that this whole dating thing is all new to me. I was with my ex since I was 19,broke up when I was 25 I'm 27 now and I've been single for 2 years and I've been pretty much scared to date.. I tried going out with this guy like months ...
A. 30 December 2011: Hey!
I think its possible you have some unresolved relationship issues from your previous experiences. This is quite normal. However, if these issues are not addressed you will carry the issues into your next relationship, causing both parties to h... (read in full...)
Husband (also doctor) addicted to teen porn...just told me he hates me for asking him
Q. My husband has admitted to being addicted to porn years ago but it was never a real issue because he hid it. I recently borrowed his laptop and he had over 89 bookmarks of 'teen' porn and he used the name like 'morgage payments' to hid the sites. On ...
A. 30 December 2011: He's defensive because he's addicted and is embarrassed about it. He sounds like he needs some serious counseling to get his intimacy back on track with you. If he admitted to the issue previously, him being open to counseling is a possibility. If ... (read in full...)
Do all women taste the same?
Q. Hey everyone :) Im abit confused...me and my boyfriend got on the subject last night about givin each other oral. He said that a i tasted amazing :) which is good for both of us because we do enjoy it alot. But my question is... Do all woman tast...
A. 30 December 2011: Nope. Mike, with the exception of the feelings make you taste good part, is pretty accurate. I had a one time thing in July with a girl who i had no feelings for and she was by effing far the best tasting one ive ever been with. Which wholly ... (read in full...)
Is it odd that a strong personality like this guy I had a fling with, wanted the woman to take charge romantically/sexually?
Q. I had a fling with a guy (all we wanted from each other) which was around a month long. It was something out of character for me, but I really liked him, so what the heck. Only live once. What was odd was that his bedroom personality and real wor...
A. 30 December 2011: Doesnt matter how much confidence the guy has or how big he is physically like me, we all like a little domination to some degree because we are usually the one's who take initiative with things and dont mind to see an assertive woman with her needs ... (read in full...)
I like him, but don't know if he's too messed up to make it worth pursuing. Should I?
Q. My lab partner in my chemistry lab is probably one of the best looking guys I've ever met. The problem is that he doesn't appear, on the surface, to care about anything. He goes to lectures hungover, currently drunk or, on a few occasions, clearly ...
A. 29 December 2011: Haha I love this guy... he's a textbook mystery man that girls usually go for... so youre not sure if youre gonna get the asshole OR the guy you saw in his dorm? His behavior seems unpredictable and that sounds risky. There's a reason why you didnt ... (read in full...)
Why do perfectly decent guys have one night stands?
Q. Two questions: 1) why do I feel like my brother is betraying me by dating the girl my ex cheated on me with? 2) why do perfectly decent guys choose to have one night stands? I turned 18 on boxing day but a month before I found out my bf cheated on...
A. 29 December 2011: Men need confidence and theyll gain it by any means necessary even if it means by doing one night stands.. or taking a weightlifting supplement that lands you in the er for an elevated heart rate.... (read in full...)
Can I get pregnant if he only puts it half way in?
Q. Hi everyone well I have this sex situation well here it is I have a boyfriend that I been with for 1 year and 3 months we only had half way in sex 4 times that was on april 1st and on and we used lubrication for some reason it feels good when he ...
A. 29 December 2011: Yes you can still get pregnant. He's penetrating you regardless of how far it goes in.... (read in full...)
I'm the bread winner in the relationship, couldn't my b/f at least be good at sex?
Q. Back in high school, my boyfriend was the quintessential nerdy fat kid whereas I was the shy punk chick. Now a days, he is still a bigger fellow compared to my still smaller physique. He's 6'1" and 250 lbs whereas I'm 5'3" and 115 lbs. But he is the ...
A. 29 December 2011: Exercise.. 30 min cardio 3 times a week 140-150 target heart rate reasonable for your bf's size along with 30 min resistance training preferably high reps with all exercises he chooses... to get that blood circulating more and energy level up.... (read in full...)
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