Can anyone tell me what's going on here?
Q. I've been "going out" with this girl who I really really like for the past 2 months. We get along great, whenever we are together we have a really nice time. She texts me A LOT, but mostly random stuff. Thing is, aside from that, she doesn't...
A. 16 June 2013: Cindy gives excellent advice. I would listen to it.... (read in full...)
I counted his viagra pills and of course I thought the inevitable
Q. I had to attend a conference that was out of state that lasted over a week. I got a nagging feeling and before I left I counted my husband's Viagra pills. When I got back I counted them again and 1/4 of a tablet was gone. He halves them and ...
A. 15 June 2013: How do tolerate his behavior with other women? U need to do better at telling him wat he does is wrong. My instinct says he cheated sadly. Investigate. Good luck.... (read in full...)
Am I not good enough for these guys?
Q. I am 19 years old. I've never really dated much except for the past two years I've been dating more and trying to find a nice man to have a relationship with. Well there seems to be a problem. The guy's I've started a relationship with or dated we...
A. 11 June 2013: Guys cheat because they don't know what they want and they are too pansy to be a man and break off the relationtship. They are immature and stupid. Since they are the idiots Don't let it hurt your self confidence!!... (read in full...)
Will my boyfriend's constant texting with his ex die down or should I worry?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for around two years and have an apartment together. We have been very happy together. Recently, my boyfriend's ex came back from a study abroad program in Europe. When they split up after dating for 4 years, t...
A. 11 June 2013: That shoe shopping bs is ur huge red flag. Hes not over her.... (read in full...)
We're on our third try at the relationship
Q. My ex boyfriend and I have been on and off for almost 3 years. Over that time we broke up twice and we are currently back at it for the third time, but we are not "back together". He constantly flip flops his feelings about us from one week to the ...
A. 10 June 2013: He sounds immature n insecure as all hell. Those should be red flags to you.... (read in full...)
How much weight loss would be achieveable in 4 weeks time?
Q. Ok I know this is not a diet and exercise board, but I also know a few of the aunts/uncles have mentioned losing weight in previous posts so I thought I might get some good advice here. So last week I started an exercise/fitness regime to try to...
A. 8 June 2013: Ive lost 15 on an intense cut before. Look up xtreme fat loss diet.... (read in full...)
Is it rude to ask someone about a scar?
Q. Is it rude to ask about a scar? I've had a tummy tuck and lost 20ilbs. after. I am happy with my physique now and enjoy wearing bikinis. I had a friend ask me the other day about a 1inch scar from the surgery. I just mentioned I had ...
A. 3 June 2013: Ppl ask me about my scars at the gym all the time. Im not afraid to tell them the truth bc it motivates then to take care of themselves mentally n physically. Be proud of ur body n if anyone asks questions show them that!... (read in full...)
Intimacy issues with my girlfriend! Help!
Q. Me and my girfriend, we recently moved on to the physical phase in our relationship. She's a virgin and wanted to go things slowly so we took things very slowly. Didn't even undo both our pants for weeks. After that we slowly moved down. I love her ...
A. 2 June 2013: She clearly has issues with intimacy that come from somewhere other than you. If I were you id leave cause I hv needs lolbut bc youre the sensitive type your choices are simple: be patient with her or leave.... (read in full...)
How do I get my husband to focus on me in bed?
Q. Hi guys. My hubby and I have a good sex life. But I was wondering how I can get him to focus on me in bed? He doesnt give oral- so thats out of the question. When we are intimate, I think I initiate a bit more, Ill kiss him rub his body, give him a ...
A. 29 May 2013: Try this: give n take. Will he go down on u for something from u that youd rarely do? This compromise could boost ur sex life.... (read in full...)
How do I get out of this awkward dating thing with this guy I met through a dating website? I'm just not good at saying no or bringing up these things. Help?
Q. Hey All! So I met this guy through a dating website but Frankly meeting someone through a dating website is not a ideal thing for me and I just did it because my friend forced me to join it. I have quit it now because I don't think it works f...
A. 29 May 2013: Stop all contact. It does not make any sense for u to talk to him as u live in different states. Emotional men are baggage. They lack leadership and the ability to diffuse arguments effectively which is very key to a successful reltshp. Good luck.... (read in full...)
The do's and don't of sex and pierced clit??
Q. My new gf has a pierced clit. Any ideas on things to avoid and things to do with her intimacy wise? Thanks for any advice....
A. 27 May 2013: Thanks for the advice. Well noted.... (read in full...)
Why do guys pay flirty, promiscuous girls so much attention?
Q. Do guys usually like the flirty and promiscuous type of girls? I need some advice because I hate to say I'm a little jealous of this girl I know who gets so much attention from my guy friends and just a lot of guys in general. She sleeps around wi...
A. 24 May 2013: At at that men r idiots. Theyre just horny n want sex. I was like that. Theyll never find a true woman with tht approach so hold ur head high knowin u hv a lot to offer a real man.... (read in full...)
Am I being "friendzoned"?
Q. There's this girl I really like. I've been hanging out with her for the past month and a half: I got her number, she started texting me, we've gone to the movies and to a bar afterwards and we really connected. Then, last saturday she came to my h...
A. 23 May 2013: Calm down. Youre being a wuss. Dont ask her if she likes u who cares its u who should like u!! Next when u ask all these validating am I cool questions when get turned off cos its not manly as u r seeking their approval. She digs u man now tighten ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend of 8 months is ignoring me after a fight
Q. My boyfriend of 8 months is completely ignoring me. It's been 5 days with no contact. We got into a stupid fight about him always wanting to do things on his schedule and him being inconsiderate towards me. I was trying to have a conversation but...
A. 21 May 2013: Looool Men who can't diffuse easy situations like this with lack of emotion baffle me. It's about compromise and working a mutual agreement. Easy. Now get it right n stop being dramatic.... (read in full...)
B/f ended things rudely denied dating a co-worker and now they're hugging and kissing at work!
Q. I am so hurt by my ex and I really just want to vent... we dated for about 6 months and it starts off great... we met at work, went out on dates that he paid for, we spent alot of time outside of work, and generally enjoyed our time together...I ...
A. 20 May 2013: Youre not at a loss here. He doesnt kno wat he wants and so he moves from girl to girl. Next week hell be around someone else. Tuff tht u r working with him bad decision on ur part to take that risk. However let this go. You def deserve better.... (read in full...)
My co-worker cannot take a hint!
Q. One of my co workers gave me a ride home one time. On our way there, my neighbor called me and said they were having a party in our building and to come join them. So I asked my co worker if he wanted to join the party and he said yes. I was just ...
A. 20 May 2013: This guy has no game. Im laughing at him. Idiot. You are right. If I were you Id be direct to him outside of work about how offended you are. Be direct with them n stop with these hints cos men like him wont pick up on them and also he is ... (read in full...)
Anyone else really hate pick-up artists?
Q. I've never been remotely interested in a guy like that. It just absolutely puts me off. It's like someone knows I wouldn't be interested in him if he acts like his normal self, so he has to put on a "front" and try manipulative mind games like ...
A. 19 May 2013: Lol this post is hilarious. Who needs lines when youve got muscle like this. ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend keeps breaking up and then saying she regrets it. What am I supposed to do?
Q. i'm having a bit of a hard time lately. i've been with my girlfriend about a year now and sometimes our ups and downs really effect me. since this is anonymous, i don't feel too bad disclosing this information, seeing as how it's very pertinent. ...
A. 19 May 2013: This relationship is turning toxic. She's a huge drama queen n has several issues only she can address. You cant force her to change no matter how much u care. She clearly lacks a lot of basic relationship elements n I dont see how you'd waste ... (read in full...)
The fact that he doesn't take care of himself makes it hard for me to see a future for the relationship
Q. You will think that I am very superficial. (I am not even saying "you may think" I know that it is superficial.) I have just started seeing this guy. He is very smart, sweet and caring. He is a little bit on the heavy side but I do find him ...
A. 14 May 2013: I dont think thats superficial at all. Someone who eats uncontrollably n indiscriminately is a huge turn off. I was one who used to do it now im much different. This sounds like a dealbreaker to me n u need to tell him politely n calmly. Do not ... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a Holiday Hookup contacts me after disappearing?
Q. Two weeks ago I spent a few days in Belgium for Holidays and hit it off with this local guy... We got on so well that we saw each other a few days in a row. All this was completely unplanned! Everything seemed so natural and comfortable between us. ...
A. 13 May 2013: Ignore it. Tell him it was a one time thing and youre done.... (read in full...)
Wife of many years slept with another man while we were dating and now dealing with it.....
Q. Hey guys, hopefully you can help. My wife and I met in University and when on a date. I then went home for spring break and we spoke every night for hours on end. During these conversations we discussed how many people we had been with, past ...
A. 12 May 2013: My man look at the big picture she wanted her life with u not this other guy. Its ur mistake to allow pasts to be discussed its not important. Doesnt matter wheres shes been it matters where shes going and thats with u. Head. Put ur big boy pants on ... (read in full...)
How can I walk away from this relationship without hurting myself?
Q. I have a boyfriend for already four years. The second year into our relationship he was not working and it aggravated me because it brought alot of problems. Eventually I got so annoyed, I went back to NY (we had moved to California) to just get ...
A. 12 May 2013: Hes selfish. Bottom line. Hes lazy too. Why do u choose to wait around any longer to see if he will wise up? Leave him.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's drink was spiked and the woman he woke up with now says she is pregnant!
Q. Help me, please. My boyfriend of a year just told me that about a month ago, he went to this girl's house to help her with her abusive ex. He didn't have a way home, so he sat down and she asked him if he wanted anything to drink. I guess it was ...
A. 11 May 2013: Naive. He went to her house. They slept together. Now shes pregnant. There was no spike n abusive ex. Get rid of this guy. Dont hang around for further drama unless of course u enjoy that kind of tedious excitement.... (read in full...)
I want to make an impression on her. How can I make this boat trip special for her?
Q. Hey Im taking a woman on her first boat trip and want ideas to make it special for her. We have 23 people and we are snorkeling and doing some wildlife sightseeing. I'm having her match my swimming suit n also baking a family dessert recipe for h...
A. 11 May 2013: Shes gorgeous n shes confident wearin anything no worries there ;)... (read in full...)
I think my boyfriend is crushing on his son's girlfriends. His behavior is too strange!
Q. I have a question about what constitutes friendly behavior and what constitutes bad behavior. My boyfriend has started asking his son often when his son's new girlfriend is coming over to our house. Now, My boyfriend thinks I am jealous of his son's ...
A. 10 May 2013: Yea thats creepy as f###. Wow. Yuck. He needs to stop or I guarantee he will act on his lil fantasy.... (read in full...)
Does the number of people you sleep with have any effect on you later in life?
Q. I am just wondering if the number of people you sleep with has any psychological or emotional effect on you later. I am not talking 3 or 4 partners. I mean, like, say 50 partners. My best bud is dating seriously a girl who has slept around qui...
A. 7 May 2013: Yea man dun matter how many if one matures n finds wat they like personality wise they are capable of settling down.... (read in full...)
I discovered she doesn't shave her legs and it bothers me!
Q. Hello! Well I kinda have a problem. I met this girl online about 3 weeks ago and we've hung out a lot. We decided lastnight that we would be together. Today she ran a marathon and she wore shorts which she hasn't at all since I've known her but I ...
A. 6 May 2013: Lol dude u need to be honest with her. Ignore her feelings but be respectful. Women like men who are honest like this it shows confidence n assertiveness. Thats disgusting btw. ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my girlfriend I let another girl give me oral sex?
Q. I have seriously messed things up with my girlfriend and I need advice on how to put things right. Basically a few weeks ago I went out for my friend's birthday, my girlfriend didn't come as she couldn't get the time off work. I was annoyed ...
A. 5 May 2013: Confess. Its easier than lying for the long term. Not at all prudent of u to put urself in that situation.... (read in full...)
She slept with men for money until we started dating. Red flag?
Q. Hi, I recently started dating a beautiful girl, a model/student. We've known each other for some time, and I was interested in her, but I knew she sometimes slept with men for money. In her business, she says it is somewhat more common than we might...
A. 4 May 2013: Lol yea man im cringing here. Big red flag. Its one thing to have multiple partners n its another to have multiple partners who have paid u. She seems to have self esteem issues n thats pretty big bc it affects many things. If ur looking for a ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with this girl and my strong dislike for her?
Q. Hey guys. How do you deal with people you really dislike? Basically, there is a girl who is the girlfriend of a friend of mine. Not only does she always cheat on him and treat him really badly, but she also knows my boyfriend, and she is always al...
A. 30 April 2013: Ill be real. You need to grow some balls n tell her to f### off without caring how she or others react. U need to look out for number one. Dont play that passive ill put a fake smile on when shes around BS. Deal with this right. Good luck.... (read in full...)
Why do I not attract any interest?
Q. Hello all, I am having trouble understanding why I have so many issues attracting or being approached by women at bars and other public places. I dress well, believe i am attractive, have a good personality but I get no interest whatsoever from ...
A. 24 April 2013: Online dating is BS. You lack self confidence. If u had it youd be the one approaching women n doing it nonstop rejection or not. Get it together. Hold eye contact with women. Dont cross ur legs in a bar setting it screams p###y. Dont dress up wear ... (read in full...)
Is my girlfriend hiding something from me?
Q. My girlfriend has lied to me in the past about where she was from. At the time, I forgave it as she appeared to be really sincere, and she cried her eyes out after admitting it to me. I felt bad and decided to give her a chance because she really ...
A. 23 April 2013: Wow youve got a lot to learn about women. Bottom line: Have the guts to end this. Shes so dramatic its ridiculous. How is that worth ur time? Get out of this.... (read in full...)
My wife is very aggressive in bed, I feel emasculated.
Q. I have a unique problem. My wife is too aggressive in bed. She has been the one taking initiative right from day one, The first kiss, the first time we had sex, she literally pulled me on top of her. It's been four years, and it seems when we...
A. 22 April 2013: Start by taking more initiative with things outside the bedroom. Pick a movie n movie theater. Drive her more often. Suggest meeting her for lunch. Or better yet surprise her. Once u see her reaction to u taking initiative shell give u more ... (read in full...)
I feel tired after I have climaxed three times. Yet is it fair that girlfriends have called me a sex addict for wanting more?
Q. Hi am 27 years old and something is disturbing me when am having sex with a lady after ejaculating i still feel horny and i can continue having sex without having to rest upto the 3rd round that is when i have a refractory period or feel tired.And ...
A. 22 April 2013: Simple. Find a woman who can keep up.... (read in full...)
40 something year old girlfriend embarrassed by 24 year old boyfriend- How do I fix this?
Q. My girlfriend and I have a bit of an age gap. I'm 24. She just turned 40. I went to hang out with some of her grad student friends (we're both in grad school) and she introduced me as her roommate. We do live with each other; but, we're ...
A. 20 April 2013: I'm pretty sure youre being too nice and too soft with this woman. Too much so tht she uses ur feelings as a doormat. Imo youre dealing with a grade a genuine ^^^^. Have the balls to end this relationship. She's not proud she's with you and she'... (read in full...)
My little mistake shattered my boyfriend ego!!!
Q. So I have a problem and I need some advice. Ok so usually when me and my boyfriend wanna have sex it takes so long for me to come so he usually goes down on me and at the same time fingers me and that alone usually makes me come after a little while ...
A. 17 April 2013: Lol hes a drama queen. If that were me I would have embraced ;).. U didnt shatter anything its his issue. He doesnt have enuff self confidence to say to himself im a good lover n doing the best I can. The dildo was a great idea n for many reasons. ... (read in full...)
How important is it to date your type (physical preference)?
Q. How important is it to date someone your type? I've always liked guys with softer features and slender eyes, seemingly shy but with a bright smile. My first ex was exactly that and I've never been more attracted to anyone else. He was cute more...
A. 15 April 2013: Generally a woman prefers personality over looks. Its in ur psychology. I have a type n why not I was incapable of falling into a category before but now its all about short thin/medium build perhaps busty women for me. Reason being coz im a big ... (read in full...)
Why do girls like guys with attitude? Why can't they admit they don't like swet guys?
Q. I’m in a relationship with my current girlfriend for the last 14 months. Before that, I was in relationship twice : for two years and one year respectively and I was dumped because I was too sweet and loveable boyfriend. Before entered into...
A. 14 April 2013: Relax. You're on the right path in thinking to change your personality and wrong in what you believe a woman wants. She doesn't want mind games. She wants a confident funny cocky and non-ass-kisser. Sounds to me youve got some learning to ... (read in full...)
Depressed. Have even lost the urge to sleep with hookers. And I like this girl's who's unavailable. What can I do?
Q. I've been sleeping with hookers on a weekly basis since I was 21. However, things have changed recently. However, recently, , I've just lost the urge to do it anymore. To make matters worse, I'm afraid that it might have something do with the fact...
A. 14 April 2013: I’ve been with my share of what you’re referencing. It’s no hassle fun n a guarantee I know. Haven’t those encounters built your confidence? They should. Why sit on one girl? Dude one woman especially one whose taken isn’t worth your energy n... (read in full...)
I just want to be friends! Guys how do I turn you off FOREVER!; without gaining 100lb, sacrificing looks, nor getting really hairy?
Q. I'm studying computer engineering so it's ALL GUYS and I'm not a hermit or anything, so I try to make friends. And I LIKE having friends I can talk to about nerdy things like Linux and UNIX, I mean, most other people don't get it. But the guys A...
A. 14 April 2013: Lol so dramatic ;).. Calm down. These are boys not men. I can't stand men who are babies like this. I agree its annoying. Their problem is they put you on some kind of pedestal, be it beauty intelligence or whatever. The day you sense a gu... (read in full...)
What does it mean when guys seem interested, yet then cancel dates at last minute for stupid reasons?
Q. Dear Cupid, What does it mean when a guy seems excited to see you but then cancels on you for a stupid reason? So there's this guy I met in high school and we liked each other alot back then and admitted we liked each other. We were also good fri...
A. 14 April 2013: Lol typical. Girls always wanna be a priority n want all the attention. If they dont get it they chase. Its in ur psychology. Now granted ur still interested in him this is just a flag. Is he wanting to commit? Is he ready for a reltshp? Him blowing ... (read in full...)
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