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writes:If a girl has messed up breasts and would prefer to keep her bra on during sex and not let you see them would you be okay with that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2011): They tend to like it, yep. He'll probably like it and def shouldn't object if he really likes you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'll stick to the bra. But thanks!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (17 October 2011):
 well if that's how you feel... instead of a bra try a tank top or a camisole...
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for answering everyone!
But I'm still going to keep my bra on during sex. Thanks!
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (13 October 2011):
 No worries. Id tell the guy your insecurity, discuss it with him, ask for his understanding, and if possible, maybe compromise.
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reader, JustHelpinAgain  +, writes (13 October 2011):
I don't like them any time, but especially in bed. A loose teeshirt or a skimpy top will help your confiddence issue, but really, its the intimacy of being close and naked that turns me on, not the appearence, and yes low light if you want. I remember a shy girlfriend who insisted on total darkness for the first few months! She felt fine but it took a while to have the confidence to be seen!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (13 October 2011):
Define messed up....
Mine WERE very messed up... years of gaining and losing weight... years of breastfeeding (what they were intended to do)... a couple of pregnancies.. and general AGE..left them sagging... Loss of 145 pounds left them deflated.
HORRIBLY bad.. and yes they were disgusting.. truly.. and my man recently mentioned how bad they were and yet he still would touch them...
NOW they are perky with scars.... LOTS of scars... but if I try to leave my bra on... NO GO.. he wants "TITTIES"
so I need a bit more info on why you think they are messed up since normally we are our own worst critics and most men don't see the flaws as we do...
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2011): A guy likes touching breasts when having sex, so if you are uncomfortable with yours have the light off or dimmed
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2011): I don't know what type breast you have but I have the same problem, I had a breast reduction at 17 for medical issues and I did everything I was suppose to for the healing but it didnt work so well. All I think about is would I be able to be intimate with someone but since I dont plan on sleeping with every tom dick and harry Id like to think ive found someone who wont mind my scars.
Love youself before you love someone else, and even choose someone who wont care
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reader, rfp +, writes (13 October 2011):
No, it is not a problem. If this is affecting you and only you then you may seek a doctor to fix what YOU see wrong. There are many shapes and sizes so even uneven ones may be attractive. Only fix it if it's affecting you, don't do it for him. Good luck.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (13 October 2011):
 Messed up how? I can't really imagine a scenario where a woman's breasts were too ugly to be attractive. But if it's a really big thing for you, just tell him you'd feel more comfortable with a bra on at least until you trust him more. If he balks, remind him that self-conscious girls don't have as much fun in bed.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (13 October 2011):
 Messed up breasts, as in a botched boob job? As long as you still have 2 boobs, then guys aren't really going to care.
Men don't really care what you're wearing during sex.
If the guy is a boob man, then he's going to have an issue with you hiding your breasts. Perhaps you can have sex with the lights off and still let him fondle your breasts. Or tell him the deal with your breasts.
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