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I positively enjoy performing oral sex on my husband. Do other women experience the same thing?

Q.   I enjoy and look forward to performing oral sex on my husband. He is shocked by this fact. I tried to explain that it is no different than a sexual position that turns him on or a fantasy he has about me. I want my husband to ask for it. He feels ...

A.   26 January 2013: Lol youre a gem lady. Ive only had women who enjoyed it but not at ur level! ... (read in full...)

Should I trust my BF even after he lied to me about contacting another girl?

Q.   I have been dating this guy for about three months. We just became officially boyfriend and girlfriend about three weeks ago. Last week I was at his house when he ran to drop something off I got on his computer and did some snooping. Well there is ...

A.   26 January 2013: Sounds to me like hes wanting to play the field regardless of wat he says. Its his actions that do the talking at the end of the day.... (read in full...)

He's looking for a girlfriend but he won't ask me out?????

Q.   Hello, I am in quite a situation that's driving me nuts! I am a freshman in college and I've liked this guy since August when I started. He is a senior and we work together at the college as well. I found out today that he is looking for a ...

A.   26 January 2013: Yea prob not his type or hed be more filrtatious n give u more signs. U should ask him out n find out!... (read in full...)

What does friends with benefits mean to you?

Q.   I have a question for you lovely people.. Me and my ex stopped talking for a long time all of a sudden he missed me ( so he says) he asked me did I wanna be friends with benefits and told me I can't sleep with nobody but him... What is friends with ...

A.   26 January 2013: Hes just looking to use you. Nothing more.... (read in full...)

She's finally ready to have sex but I'm not

Q.   Here's the deal. She's finally ready to go to the next step with me. We've been together for half a year now and she says that she has fallen for me and trusts me completely with her heart. I would be lying if I said that I wasn't craving this ...

A.   25 January 2013: Tell her u hate rubbers n ask her if shes willing to go on birth control n dont do it on vday for the first time. Its unoriginal. Good luck.... (read in full...)

A weekend away together, he grew cold on the way home and now has totally frozen me out. Why?

Q.   I have been seeing this guy for 2 months. Things were going great. Just two weeks ago, during my drive home after hanging out with him, he sent me a text that said, "I think we should take this relationship to a new level, will you be my facebook ...

A.   25 January 2013: This guy has multiple issues. What they are? Im not entirely sure. He doesnt seem to have his emotions under control which tells me he lacks maturity. Same with his lack of communication. If he tries to contact u he will be dramatic about it I ... (read in full...)

Online date turned out to be much bigger than I expected. How do I let her know I am not physically attracted without hurting her?

Q.   Hi so recently i set up a profile on a dating site. I was contacted by a girl that looked really cute. We talked for a bit exchanged phone numbers, and texted a bunch, she was really cool and we had some common interests. We met up recently and i ...

A.   25 January 2013: Loool dude this happens a lot to ppl. For all u kno im a midget n not this big strong man. Tell her she looked way different than her pics n say youre not attracted. Dont be a wuss. This chick omitted how she looked and for good reason shes fat!!! ... (read in full...)

Why do involved men ask for a girl's phone number?

Q.   why do men ask for women's cell number even if he/she is already in a relati0nship?basically,i want to know men's m0tive in the first place...

A.   25 January 2013: Looking to cheat. Use you. Needs excitement. Bad reasons n they can vary. Stay away from the guy regardless of wat he says his intentions are. Dont be naive.... (read in full...)

Why does my husband watch one particular part of my body during sex?

Q.   Hi, I am really embarrassed but here it goes: sex with my husband is over the top. I mean, since I've been with him I finally understood what "to make love" means: he's caring and sentimental in the bedroom and outside the bedroom too. When he is ...

A.   25 January 2013: Lol this is normal. Take it as a genuine compliment.... (read in full...)

Suddenly can't do bjs any more??

Q.   ok so i have a problem. I have been marrried for 11 yrs and all 1 of those yrs i was able to give great messy blow jobs no problem, but lately i just cant as soon as it gets too wet i start to panic and feel like i cant breathe? it upsets my husband ...

A.   25 January 2013: Sounds to me like sumthin psychological. Perhaps its sumthin u dont enjoy to begin with?... (read in full...)

Am I too small to have sex?

Q.   I know this is gonna sound weird but me and my friend got into this really weird conversation about sex (we're both virgins which would explain the constant giggles and blushes) which led to me wondering about how deep my vagina was inside. I actu...

A.   25 January 2013: He will fit fine. U can have sex.... (read in full...)

Why don't any girls pay attention to me?

Q.   Ever since I hit 15 my teenage hormones kicked in and my personality took a complete 360. Before I hit 15 girls thought I was really cute because of how happy, playful, and funny guy I was, not to mention I had a tough personality. But then I ...

A.   25 January 2013: Lol relax pal. Id say youre just goin thru a phase. Tea tree oil and apple cider vinegar for skin care could help. Girls like a tough personality it shows masculinity n confidence combine it with humor some mild kindness n respect n voila youve got ... (read in full...)

I met one of my students at a bar and now I can't talk to her

Q.   Hi i'm 24 years old and just got a job as a history teacher. Over the summer, I met this amazing girl. I met her in a bar so I just assumed that she was over 21 so I never bothered to ask for her age. She's beautiful, smart, funny. The most gorgeous ...

A.   25 January 2013: If she lies about her age what else does she lie about? Shady man shady. Proceed normally n treat her as one of ur students. If she comes forward n approaches tell her youre not interested. If shes aggressive then approach ur superiors. And stay ... (read in full...)

How important is oral sex?

Q.   The basic question here is how important is oral sex to you? I'm aiming this at both genders just to get an overview from both sides. I've been with some people who absolutely love oral and others who aren't really that interested in it and i'd li...

A.   24 January 2013: Yea I love giving to women. Longest ive done is over an hour straight. It is amazing and at the same time I dont prefer a woman who doesnt know how or is awful at it.... (read in full...)

My girlfriend lost her virginity at 16 and it makes me extremely jealous of her

Q.   I've been going out with my girlfriend for months now, she is my first proper girlfriend and the first person I have sex with, I am 22 and she is 20 , she lost her virginity at 16 and it makes me extremely jealous of her , I cant stop picturing her ...

A.   24 January 2013: Chill man. I was in a similar situation when I was 24 and a virgin n she lost it at 18. My advice plow some fields get with a few women and gain sex experience any way u can then u wont think about pasts cause youll have one of ur own. Good luck... (read in full...)

Is there any way I can make sex more comfortable for my girlfriend? She thinks I'm too well endowed.

Q.   We have been dating for about 4 and a half years now and used to regularly have sex, sometimes 2 or 3 times in one day and she could handle it, granted she was 16 and I just turned 17 when this happened. We have since slowed down a lot, down to ...

A.   22 January 2013: Different positions might work or even different acts to keep her excited. Or toys even once in a while so her insides can take a break lol nicely done my man.... (read in full...)

She made me wait for her for 4 hours then I found out she lied about where she was! Shall I end it now?

Q.   My girlfriend of 9 months told me she had to meet up with her girl friends for lunch, I had no objections to this. I was at a hotel when she went to lunch, I checked out of the Hotel at 1:30 pm, she was supposed to meet me around the check out time ...

A.   22 January 2013: If she lies a lot yes get rid of her. If not talk to her about this not happening again.... (read in full...)

Is is true that guys think less make up is better?

Q.   So the guy i'm seeing has been coming over mine recently, the thing is at the beginning I used to wear a lot of make up thinking i needed it. But now i've noticed I like waking up with only a bit of makeup and feeling more fresh looking, although ...

A.   20 January 2013: Generally not true youre rare n he sounds genuine.... (read in full...)

I'm playing with fire with an 18 year old co-worker that also works with my wife

Q.   I'm 36 and have been married for 15 years,we have 3 children and have been happy for most of our married life. I've recently been getting feelings for an 18 year old girl at work and we have been flirting by text and she claims she fancies me ...

A.   20 January 2013: Simple. Refer ur friend to a abuse hotline. U dont wanna be there for someone like this itll get way dramatic n stressful. Put her in someone elses hands.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend wants to go to Amsterdam for a stag party for gorgeous hookers and strippers

Q.   Hey, this is probably a divided opinion sort of question haha, but please try to respect my opinion. :) My boyfriend of 4 months has on occasion openly "gawked" over other girls, girls 1000000x more attractive than me. On top of this, not once (...

A.   20 January 2013: Yea this guy is a pig u need to get rid of him fast.... (read in full...)

How could she give a guy a Bj if our marriage is really great? Twice I've found out she's cheated on me.

Q.   I don't really know where to begin so I will back up to before we moved to this island. Four years ago my wife wanted a divorce. I could totally understand why at the time. I had gotten fat and lazy, letting her do most of the work while serving ...

A.   20 January 2013: My man youre way too soft with this woman. Shes sees that u r hates it n shows u by cheating. In a way this is your fault cause youre not masculine enough for her. I say that respectfully. Listen this is finished. Its gonna be a drama roller coaster ... (read in full...)

Is it fair to expect any future girlfriend not to have more experience than me and to not have dated a "bad boy" then?

Q.   I am very inexperienced, and am still a virgin at 19. I want a girlfriend who will be loyal, loving, beautiful and giving. I have some confidence issues when it comes to girls. The few compliments I ever get, other girls tell me about a girl talking ...

A.   20 January 2013: Read up on women n dating n adapt to what they desire. David dangelos attraction isnt a choice n neil strauss the game are good places to start. Off hand u seem too soft n sensitive and a serious arse kisser when it comes to women. These are pansy ... (read in full...)

Am I a loser for not drinking or doing drugs? Will I find a girl to date?

Q.   How can I be comfortable with the fact that I dont drink or do drugs. Last night, I went out with my friends to a partyhiuse and there was rndless amounts of drinks and drugs there. I never drink, so I am the sober one. I have some friends who do ...

A.   16 January 2013: In that culture if u dont drink, ur weird or lame or whatever. Ha look at me that's what I say, can't get big if ur out boozin. Conform. Have one or two drinks but dont get drunk just show ppl ur moderate they'll accept you. ... (read in full...)

How does a man know what "type" of girls is he interested in?

Q.   Dear readers I'm am 19 years of age And I was just wondering how a man knows when he discovers the "type" of girls he is interested in. A lot of friends say that I like blondes and sure I have dated a few blonde girls but the only proper rela...

A.   15 January 2013: Experience man. Ive found I prefer short petite busty women I dont care about color or ethnicity. I'm a big guy, the dominant type and in the bedroom that is my desire. Not to mention these women like it n feel well taken care of n protected.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend rarely wants sex, how can I help him overcome this?

Q.   I'm 26, my partner's 28, and we've been together for 18 months. We met through a classic car show for enthusiasts of 1970s/80s cars and have been together since. We were friends first, but he was a bit wary about flirting with me, so I had to do it ...

A.   15 January 2013: You're gonna have to take serious initiative here. Surprise him. Tell him to relax if he gets all nervous. Then talk dirty to him, and once he sees you won't take no for an answer he will more than likely happily go along with it(fellatio) lol... (read in full...)

I'd like to be exclusive, not FWB. Should I just stop sleeping with him?

Q.   This guy and I have many mutual friends. For months we kept running into each other at parties and finally about 7 months later I kissed him out of nowhere. He explained to me how he had been trying to find out more about me for months and try to ...

A.   13 January 2013: Communicate. Don't sit and wait to see if he'll bring that up, you will stress yourself out. Call the dude and tell him whats on your mind. Don't be immature and not say anything.... (read in full...)

Saw my GF for the first time on Skype and she didn't look like her photo. Is she lying?

Q.   So I have met my girlfriend about a year ago over the internet, big mistake. She said she does not date over the internet first time I asked her, then I won her heart and we have been together for a month now. She sent me pics of her but this mor...

A.   12 January 2013: Dude stay away from the net anyone can be anyone for all u know I'm not a huge muscular stud who can toss tires like fat guy cupcakes.... (read in full...)

Online comments from girls: should I take notice? Does a guy's personality change girl's opinion or perceptions about a guy?

Q.   When I asked girls (online) to rate me, the majority of them said I was okay but I wasn't their type of guy. One girl said I was okay but no panty dropper (kinda hurt my feelings). and a couple said I wasn't good looking. I wanted to hear the trut...

A.   12 January 2013: Im a big guy. Some women like it some dont. Quite frankly who cares man. If a woman isn't attracted to ur body its her issue not yours. One of my fav opening lines to women is yea but I look better than u n wink with a straight face. Not only does ... (read in full...)

Should I be reading books on how to interact with women or are there other successful strategies? I'm a virgin.

Q.   Is it worth reading books like "The Game" by Neil Strauss or similar pick up methods with women? I'm a virgin who has only had one girlfriend. I am going back to college in two weeks and want to be able to get girls interested in me because my co...

A.   9 January 2013: Keep reading. The book focuses on women pschology in order for men to create attraction. Mysterys char is genius in any case look at the book as to how to talk to women verbally n nonverbally not as how to pick up chicks. Read david de angelos deep ... (read in full...)

He thinks we're in a relationship, but we haven't had a date yet! How do I deal with this?

Q.   I agreed to a blind date suggested by a mutual friend of myself and the gentleman in question. We spoke in person just long enough to arrange the date, but haven't actually gone out yet. I've just learned that he changed his Facebook status t...

A.   9 January 2013: Huge red flag. Hes possibly needy n clingy. Cancel n have ur friend tell him what he did wrong.... (read in full...)

He's asked me to sign a Pre-nup! It made me Soooo Mad. Should I just sign the thing?

Q.   So my boyfriend of 3 years is in the US Army and on Skype one night he told me to go to my front door. He had someone go write on my front porch step "will you marry me?" And the ring box sitting there with a vase of flowers. When I went ba...

A.   4 January 2013: He was honest n u have to like n appreciate that. Does he have a reason to not trust u? Even if he doesnt pre nups ensure both parties get what they brought into the marriage if it fails. Hes looking out for both of u.... (read in full...)

It's legal in my country to marry a cousin. I seek your thoughts on my ideas about marrying please?

Q.   I think the West may frown on this but I don’t care . I don’t live there anymore. In my country not being married by age 30 is weird n nor normal generally. I’ve been in relationships and they have failed in part because of immaturity and ...

A.   3 January 2013: Thank you... (read in full...)

I had sex with a random guy to get over my ex and now I feel so ashamed....

Q.   I broke up with my boyfriend, first love, and the guy i lost my virginity to a few weeks ago and i still feel incrediblely heart broken. I went to a party and drunk loads to try and forget about it and ended up having sex with a random guy. I feel ...

A.   2 January 2013: Lol typical. Relax doll. U were upset ur emotions drove ur decisions. Do not let them. Learn from this. Good luck.... (read in full...)

I can't get these images of his getting lap dances (before we were married) out of my mind!

Q.   I am upset abt the fact that my husband (then boyfriend) got fully nude lap dances at gentlemans clubs/strip bars at least 6-8 times before we were married. Although we were living in different places at the time n it was an on off thing, but we ...

A.   2 January 2013: Ive recd several nude lapdances n even extras ill say but I dont think about these experienes every day bc they were just for fun n without meaning. My focus if its ever the case again would be having meaningful experiences with one woman. More ... (read in full...)

Is having a threesome a good idea to spice up our sex life?

Q.   Hey everyone, I'm 23 year old turning 24 in 2 months..I'm married to this gorgeous man I love and everything is going great,but we always need something to spice up our sex life.rather I need something to spice up our sex I decided to sugge...

A.   2 January 2013: No not good. Have you tried role playing? Some domination stuff maybe? I once got bored with a girl and told her and she had me cum in her bra to which after she wore it the whole day. I never complained about being bored again lol... (read in full...)

An Alpha male in my midst. Do I feel this way about him because he's more manly than my boyfriend?

Q.   I have a long very term, live-with boyfriend. I have always been loyal to him. My neighbor is very close to my family and is pretty much an extension of such, he comes to visit on holidays and is welcomed into my home no questions asked... A ...

A.   30 December 2012: Ill mirror janniepegs response.... (read in full...)

How is a woman who hates porn ever going to know for sure she's with someone who doesn't watch it?

Q.   I've been on this site for awhile now, and one topic in particular really stands out to me: the whole porn debate. I've read many peoples' opinions from both sides of the issue, and I think they all make some good points, but there is one thing I ...

A.   29 December 2012: Ive preferred porn to some women bc they dont meet my needs. In particular one was very boring in the bedroom n the other couldnt have sex due to her beliefs. Now ive become dependent on it for pleasure and dont know how I will be able to transition ... (read in full...)

Unfaithful in my marriage. Why did I do this? Can I keep this secret forever?

Q.   I have been married for over 20 years and have always been faithful with the exception of one man, twice. I met him 15 years ago at the gym and I was immediately attracted to him but kept it to myself. After a while, we began to talk and before I kn...

A.   28 December 2012: First off attraction isn’t a choice. He’s created an attraction your instincts like that’s it. Next your mistake. You need to reflect on what triggered your loss of self-control then avoid those triggers. Come clean with your husband n tell him y... (read in full...)

Do I try anal sex or not?

Q.   My boyfriend wants to try anal sex with me but I just don't know about trying it. Do I let him have his way or what? and anyone that has tried it can you please explain it like what do you have to do and how does it feel? I only really care about th...

A.   26 December 2012: Nah dont let him force u... (read in full...)

Is it time for me to step back and find a job elsewhere? My married boss flirts with me.

Q.   Happy Holidays ! This guy that I have known now for three months already is the boss of a company in which I do work at. He claims to be married but I don 't think so I think it's more like common- law. We are flirting back and forward with e...

A.   24 December 2012: Talk about tension. Id say this guy will remain out of place as long as hes ur authority figure at work. Just a flat out douchebag. Leave if u can.... (read in full...)

I think he wants to try S&M, how do I bring it up?

Q.   Hi all, I'm trying to read my boyfriend. :P He's an alpha male, which I absolutely love. We play around, and I enjoy when we tickle-fight and he pins me down on the bed, we both do. ;) Earlier in the relationship, he mentioned that ...

A.   24 December 2012: Yeah, ask him.... (read in full...)

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