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*haoscutiek
writes:Today my boyfriend bought a computer for me knowing I desperately needed for my college. I have spent most of my time at the library, I don't have to now, thank-you to him! I said thank-you so many times today, I feel I can't say it enough. I have never in my life had anyone be so generous or kind to me like this before, he said I deserved it, made me feel so special. I want to do or get something for him in return, I don't know what to do, I only work part time I really don't make that much money and I really can't pick up extra hours due to interfering with school. I want to do something really special but I don't even know where to begin. Any ideas?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (7 October 2011):
 Wow what an awesome gift. And how wise of you to be grateful to him....
do you cook? can you make him his favorite meal and have a lovely dinner to thank him?
folks who love us do not give us gifts to get gifts in return.. they give us gifts to make our lives easier because they love us...
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reader, KittieS  +, writes (7 October 2011):
 So lovely to see a nice happy story, what a super man you have and how adorable you have written 101 reasons why you love him!
You don't need money to show love, cook him something, hug him and just tell him
I really appreciate what a wonderful kind man you are - they love hearing that.
Awwww I'm all smiles and have just sent a text to my man thanking him again for changing my lightbulbs yesterday and saving me from the dreaded ladder!!
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (7 October 2011):
 Buy him a new video game coming out, its that season again. Take him to his favorite restaurant or one he really likes. Do something action wise that shows him you do indeed appreciate his generousity.
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reader, chaoscutiek +, writes (7 October 2011):
chaoscutiek is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank-you for your help! I just wrote him one hundred reasons why I love him. I am just waiting for him to get home from work to give it to him. I am always smiling around him, cuz I love him so. I also think I am going to take him out for me in him time, not sure where or what yet, to make up for lost time. He has been so good to me, yes he is a keeper! Thank-you again for help and ideas!
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reader, YouWish +, writes (7 October 2011):
 Make him feel as special as you do. You can do that without money. I'm guessing that you already are making him feel special like that.
Like GhostChild said, he sounds like a keeper. And I'm thinking that your boyfriend feels the same way about you. Like I said, you don't need money. What he did was an expression of love to you. You can express your love for him in your own way. And...you do deserve it. ;)
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reader, phungstyle  +, writes (7 October 2011):
He has heard enough, now you no need so say, just smile all the day so he can feel that.Spend your time you have spent for the library for him, that the easiest way to offset him.don't think too much because as he told you: you deserved it. when we do something good, we just want to see that person to be happy, then we promise ourselves: we should do good things more and more to make our love happier and to be the happiest person in this world, instead of receiving things in return
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reader, GhostChild  +, writes (7 October 2011):
 Wow that's really generous of him, he sounds like a keeper!
I'm sure he know's how appreciative you are, but just think of something that he likes, maybe he likes a certain TV show or has a hobby or something and get him a gift based on that?
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