My boyfriend is ignoring me because I wanted an early night!
Q. My bf seems to be angry with me and i haven't seen or spoken to him for about 2 days. A few smaller things happened prior but it seems to be because i didn't want him to come back with me to my place on the weekend. It was late, i was extremely ...
A. 19 March 2013: He's trying to make you feel guilty and manipulate your emotions because this is very minor to get upset over. Dont apologize anymore on this.... (read in full...)
What is my ex up to? Is he just playing games with me?
Q. So my ex and I have been broken up for a couple months now..and he was my first official bf. We texted last week and he brought some stuff up when I asked what he was up to, he mentioned "I was sitting in the garage with my dad, and we saw this guy ...
A. 19 March 2013: Im thinking he is appealing to ur emotions in order to get laid. So yes playing a game. ... (read in full...)
How to get my crush to ask me out?
Q. there is a particular guy in one of my classes. who always look at my direction, and sometimes I catch him looking at me also. He appears to be a legit, he has smart brains as well as a nice personality. Kind of rare these days, we've only spoken ...
A. 18 March 2013: He should approach u n if he doesnt that should tell u clearly wat his confidence level is. Imo its low. He shoulda asked u out a long time ago. ... (read in full...)
Should I disclose to me BF that I model Clothes and post on facebook?
Q. hello everyone i have a serious queshtion wether what im doing is right or not. ok so ive been dateing this amazing guy for 4 years. and i would never wanna do anything to upset him or lose trust for me. so anyways me and my bf have instagram...
A. 18 March 2013: Hey kitten Be honest with him n communicate. Its about trust. He needs to realize hes the prize n have more confidence in himself this will help him ignore ppls comments. You can help him by reassuring u dont care or read into their comments... (read in full...)
Should I make a move on my history teacher?
Q. I need help. I really have feelings for my history teacher. He gives me all the right signs showing that he likes me back but I don't know. I am 17 and in high school and he is 24. He smiles at me all the time and compliments me. I think of him all ...
A. 17 March 2013: This only spells trouble frontwards and backwards.... (read in full...)
Need self-confidence to lose weight
Q. Hello friends my question isn't really a relationship question but how can I lose weight? I feel very depressed about my weight but I can't seem to lose any weight I have tried many methods but nothing seems to work. I feel like in stuck in a rut. ...
A. 14 March 2013: Youre going need to build boundaries doll about what is allowed to affect and what isnt. People will make fun of you. They will laugh but thats cos theyre stupid and cruel. I used to be hideous in high school. Now im exact opposite and then some but ... (read in full...)
Need self-confidence to lose weight
Q. Hello friends my question isn't really a relationship question but how can I lose weight? I feel very depressed about my weight but I can't seem to lose any weight I have tried many methods but nothing seems to work. I feel like in stuck in a rut. ...
A. 14 March 2013: Youre gonna need to build boundaries doll about what is allowed to affect n wat isnt. Ppl will make fun of u. They will laugh but thats cos theyre stupid n cruel. I used to be hideous in high school. Now im exact opposite n then some but thats taken ... (read in full...)
He unfriended me for no good reason
Q. Good day to all my lovely agony aunts and uncles. Hope you all have been well. :) Tbh, this is more of a friendship-love problem instead of a relationship one, but it would be nice if I could still get help. Recently, one of my closest friends ...
A. 13 March 2013: Stop making this dramatic. Move on. The guy is an immature idiot n not worth ur energy at all. Simple.... (read in full...)
How do I put on the fireworks for the girls?
Q. I have not had much luck with girls, or any luck really. They never seem to notice me. I play guitar pretty well. I play soccer and keep in shape. People say that I am kinda funny and not bad looking. Yet despite all that, girls don't seem to care ...
A. 13 March 2013: Hey man oh believe me youve got things girls go for. In fact even as big as I am some girl playfully told me she prefers a guy who plays soccer lol use those hobbies to illustrate ur confidence. What are u good at with guitar? Any accomplishments? ... (read in full...)
My own GF won't give me a blowjob and I feel she's not really in to me.
Q. Hi, I know this is a touchy subject when it comes to women. I've read previous questions about this issue and I've witnessed how the female answerers pounce on the male poster as if he was asking something so vile and disgusting. Let me start b...
A. 12 March 2013: Youre way too nice bro way too nice. Stop going down on her. She needs to reciprocate. Your sexual chemistry sounds horrid. Is she physically attracted to u? Is she upset about something? She seems withdrawn. Talk to her. Communicate.... (read in full...)
After being together for years I find out something about my wife that has shaken my trust in her to the core! I don't know how to deal with this
Q. 13 years ago, I met a wonderful woman in University who has now been my wife for 8 years. We have kids (with another on the way) and are happy however recently, during a discussion she elaborated on a story of how she hooked with one of her past ...
A. 11 March 2013: Relax man. Really. Dont label ur wife as an angel. This holds high expectations and when she does somethin wrong it damages u even if its petty like this. Dude that guy is nothing. Hes like the 10lb dumbbell on my rack... Hasnt been touched in a ... (read in full...)
I followed my husband and caught him at a brothel. He says he wanted to be caught??
Q. We have had huge financial issues, loss of business, things really stressful. all this definitely took a toll on our lives. Today I did something either brave or some would say stupid. When our business was going down there were allig...
A. 11 March 2013: If ur kids are teens a divorce would be easier maybe since theyre a bit more grown n can understand.... (read in full...)
Why did the gym instructor give me such a reduced rate? Was he just trying to get into my pants?
Q. So the other day I went to the gym and asked one of the trainers there how much he charges for personal training. We've talked a couple times, and he did an assessment on me back when I first got my membership. I think he's so cute, except I'm 16 ...
A. 11 March 2013: Yes a sales technique. Gyms do that all the time. Start you cheap then jack up rates.... (read in full...)
Major crush at the grocery store. Seems he likes me. Why hasn't he asked me out yet?
Q. Dear Cupid, I really like this guy that works at my local grocery store. I usually go in there a couple times a week to pick up food on my lunch break and sometimes ill catch him in the aisles and we talk for a little bit. We sometimes get ...
A. 10 March 2013: Ask him out directly. Dont ask about a possible girlfriend. Chances are ne hasn't because he has one or he's interested and doesn't have the balls nor the confidence. ... (read in full...)
I don't get along with some of my boyfriend's friends and its causing problems in our relationship
Q. Hi me and my boyfriend are having problems because he wants me to fit in to his "group" and i dont know what to do. Iv known my boyfriend for two years and we love each other a lot. Usually when ever were not busy were always spending time together...
A. 10 March 2013: your boyfriend is a wuss. He needs to make it clear to them that everyone may not get along n thats just it. It happens. Now he also needs to compromise with you about spending time with you and you need to respect that he gets along with people y... (read in full...)
At work this guy won't leave me alone and they won't fire him because he's a good chef!
Q. So there's this guy that won't leave me alone. I work part time at a Greek restaurant and he is the chef. He watches me when I'm dancing which makes me feel uncomfortable then after he always tries to talk to me after my dances where my boyfriend ...
A. 10 March 2013: You need to direct this to management immediately and if they don't do anything talk to a lawyer. He needs a wake up call. Dont cower away. Stand up.... (read in full...)
Why do I always get used by people? Am I right to be upset by what happened with this guy?
Q. Hey everyone, so there's this guy I've been seeing (for about 2 months), he hasn't asked me to be his girlfriend , but we meet up every other day. Anyway, he lives about an hour away from me and asked me to pick him up so we can hang out at my p...
A. 10 March 2013: Yea he was all about the bj. Men will do crazy stuff for sex and get this: watch for reciprocation when giving. That'll give you a clear picture of his intentions.... (read in full...)
I'm married, got drunk flirted with a girl at a bar and now can't stop the feelings! Help!
Q. I'm a happily married man who loves his wife very much. Last weekend I was in a bar and flirted quite a lot with a girl. Nothing happened which given my now sober state I'm very happy about. The problem, I can't stop thinking about it or the girl. ...
A. 8 March 2013: Sounds like ur bored in ur marriage n needed some excitement. With time youll stop thinkin about her. You sound like a little girl. Avoid alcohol n these situations. Be smart.... (read in full...)
Girls, how do you deal with flirty women around your boyfriend or spouse?
Q. I guess this question is more directed towards women. Have you ever dealt with those really flirty, skanky women who will not leave your partner alone? Do they not have morals? I was at a party with my fiancee and a couple of his friends last ...
A. 8 March 2013: This is on your BF. He needs to have balls to tell her to f### off n if he doesnt it either means hes a wuss or hes interested in her.... (read in full...)
Are we sexually incompatible or do opposites really attract?
Q. Hi everyone, I'm in a relationship with a guy(19) that I have known for 5 years(I'm 20). We started dating about a month ago and everything has been great. Well , last night we had sex for about 20 minutes. He came after 10 minutes and cont...
A. 6 March 2013: This will be a disaster. Opposites do attract but in key aspects like religion job type etc not interests. I know your culture. Dont put on a face and pretend he's satisfying you and pleased you. If hes not making love the way you like it then... (read in full...)
I've been cheated on before so now I worry about it happening in this relationship
Q. I started dating this guy a few weeks ago he has stayed the night with me almost every day the only time he goes home is when he has to work or go to church we live in different cities. I have had a terrible past with relationships of getting ...
A. 6 March 2013: This relationship will fail because you have not mentally conquered your past issues. you need to deal with those first then start a relationship otherwise carrying anything from your past in isn't fair to either person. Good luck.... (read in full...)
Being with a selfish man in bed makes me feel like an unpaid prostitute! Anyone else feel this way?
Q. I've been seeing this guy a few times, and I think he's nice. He took me out for dinner once and coffee a couple of times. After our coffee date yesterday, we made out a bit in his car before he dropped me home. I saw him again tonight and he did ...
A. 6 March 2013: Yea I dont get some men either. I think he was only out for himself as he was quick to make a move. I think ur no tolerance is excellent n will teach him to treat women with more respect. Dont have a conscience about this. You made the right ... (read in full...)
My wife cheated and I want to keep our family together but how do I get over the images in my head?
Q. Hello. I write to you today because I recently found out that my lovely wife, best friend, and mother of my 3 lovely children has had an ongoing sexual relationship for the last 10 years. I found emails from the two of them on her laptop and they ...
A. 4 March 2013: Bro this is tragic. Im sorry. I wouldnt tolerate this one bit. It needs to be a deal breaker. Trust is lost. Intimacy is in shambles n so many more things. You should not move on just bc of the kids. You can still be civil in a divorce n get along ... (read in full...)
I do not know how to handle my wife's request. My wife wants to experience sex on a one on one basis with various partners.
Q. Hi All, Just want some opinions on an issue! I have been married for 20 years and love my wife very dearly; we have also been enjoying a swinging lifestyle for a couple of years now with no hang-ups. My problem is that my wife now wants us t...
A. 3 March 2013: Sex is a big part to a reltshp. If u disagree with her on this it could be a deal breaker. Its a simple thing she wants but its a big piece to ur rltshp given the lifestyle u choose. If I were id say youre happy with the way things are why change ... (read in full...)
Everybody knew about my boyfriend's pregnant girlfriend but me!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 years and I just recently found out that not only has he been cheating on me for years but the girl is now pregnant. The reason I found out was because a friend of the family told me. When I asked him ...
A. 3 March 2013: Caring guy gives the advice. I def agree.... (read in full...)
I just want to be friends. So why do guys keep on developing feelings for me? How can I stop this happening?
Q. I'm studying engineering so it's ALL GUYS and I'm not a hermit or anything, so I try to make friends. And I LIKE having friends I can talk to about nerdy things like Linux and Firefly, I mean, most other people don't get it. But the guys ALWAYS e...
A. 2 March 2013: Its maturity. The men u r encountering dont understand women n dating. They kill suspense with acknowledging feelings they dont kno how to build up a chase n bottom line dont kno how to communicate with women. ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend gives her phone number out to other guys and texts them!
Q. My Girlfriend and I have been dating for about two months now. I dont talk to any other girls but she talks to other guys. what pissed me off to get mad at her and write this was she said something like "why wont this guy leave me alone, I dont want ...
A. 1 March 2013: Youre too soft with women guy. You need to project more confidence n dominance to get their respect. This woman is garbage. Leave.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend gives her phone number out to other guys and texts them!
Q. My Girlfriend and I have been dating for about two months now. I dont talk to any other girls but she talks to other guys. what pissed me off to get mad at her and write this was she said something like "why wont this guy leave me alone, I dont want ...
A. 1 March 2013: Youre too soft with women guy. You need to project more confidence n dominance to get their respect. This woman is garbage. Leave.... (read in full...)
My friend thinks this guy is too old for me but I could see him being my FWB
Q. A few weeks ago I went to the pub with my friend (20) her parents, her boyfriend (also 20) and her male friend from high school (who again is also 20) Her male friend had been flirting with me all night and when I had gone home, he messages me on ...
A. 1 March 2013: Leave her out of it. Its not her business.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has been reading stories about incest and beastiality. Should I worry?
Q. My boyfriend has been reading stories about incest (father/daughter) and stories about girls having sex with dogs, I don't know what this means or if I should even worry about it. Help?...
A. 1 March 2013: Yea if they r news stories dont worry but if they r erotic or fantasy I would def be concerned... (read in full...)
My boyfriend asked for a key to my apartment? Should I give it to him?
Q. My boyfriend asked for a key to my apartment. We visit each other's places often and sometimes he sleeps over or I sleep over at his place. We have been dating for 3 months. I do not want to live with him or have him live with me. He asked if ...
A. 28 February 2013: Dont exchange keys. U dont live with each other so theres no need and second ur feelings for him sound conditional. Check em.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend asked for a key to my apartment? Should I give it to him?
Q. My boyfriend asked for a key to my apartment. We visit each other's places often and sometimes he sleeps over or I sleep over at his place. We have been dating for 3 months. I do not want to live with him or have him live with me. He asked if ...
A. 28 February 2013: Dont exchange keys. U dont live with each other so theres no need and second ur feelings for him sound conditional. Check em.... (read in full...)
Girl flirting with my boyfriend at party, and then friending him on Facebook.
Q. My boyfriend and I were at a birthday party at a house a few weeks ago. We met a mutual friend of one of the birthday girls for the first time, a female about our age. At first she seemed really nice and we were both chatting with her. Then ...
A. 28 February 2013: If youre not insecure u wont lack the self confidence that u have more to offer than this woman thereby leaving the situation alone.... (read in full...)
In love with the wrong person again and it's my professor this time
Q. Hello everyone! I don't know exactly what I am looking for,some kind of solace for the way I am feeling right now.I'm 22 and I'm in love with my college teacher.I recently found out that he has someone,he's not married to that person and he doesn't ...
A. 28 February 2013: Youre infatuated. Not in love. Kno the difference it will save u emotional stress as a woman.... (read in full...)
Why is that when you're with someone, attractive and available guys are everywhere, but when you're single, they are nowhere to be found?
Q. This is a pretty straight forward question that hopefully somebody could answer... I've came out of a 7 month relationship about a month ago and i've not met one decent guy, or anybody at all who i've found myself attracted to! It's strange bec...
A. 26 February 2013: Youre just having bad luck so put on ur four leaf clover shirt (we all know u have one) n go out n change things! ;)... (read in full...)
I don't understand my girlfriend's behavior and I'm worried that something is really off!
Q. i don't have a clue what to think about this situation and i'm incredibly confused about what's really going on. i have been with my girlfriend for about three months now, but something in the pit of my stomach tells me that i'm missing somethin...
A. 26 February 2013: Yea exactly. She is def keeping something about herself from u. Maybe shes scared to tell u? Insecure? Assure her u wont get upset n pull it out of her as u need to kno.... (read in full...)
I want him back, but I don't want to go back to somebody that is just going to hurt me like that again. Any advice for me?
Q. Hello! I am having major heart anxiety and I do not know what to do. I have been dating and been hopelessly in love with a guy since the beginning of my junior year in high school. We were together for almost two years, but about seven months a...
A. 26 February 2013: He found someone else just doesnt have the balls to admit. Dont waste ur time or emotional energy. Move on.... (read in full...)
Should I forget about my wife's past with my friend?
Q. When my wife and I got together she just come out a brief relationship with a friend of mine,he was known as a bit of a player i was relatively inexperienced at sex where my wife was very experienced and very good at sex,when I asked my wife about ...
A. 25 February 2013: Dude this would drive me nuts. All kinds of questions would come into my head. Its possible she hasnt been entirely honest. I'd question if things are still going on or be sneaky and find out. Sorry man. Good luck.... (read in full...)
Should I forget about my wife's past with my friend?
Q. When my wife and I got together she just come out a brief relationship with a friend of mine,he was known as a bit of a player i was relatively inexperienced at sex where my wife was very experienced and very good at sex,when I asked my wife about ...
A. 25 February 2013: Dude this would drive me nuts. All kinds of questions would come into my head. Its possible she hasnt been entirely honest. My thoughts tell me she saw u were inexperienced didnt like it so she went to see mr player for a good hard screw. Id ... (read in full...)
Is my hot young fitness instructor attracted to me?
Q. Hello Cupids. I am a single girl and I have been going to exercise class for a few months at my gym. The instructor is a hot young guy around my age. He is single, too. I have gotten to know him a little during this time but we have kept things...
A. 25 February 2013: Yes. Tho hes taking a long time to confidently approach u calmly n collectively to ask u out so I dont see why you should give him the time of day.... (read in full...)
My girl friend prefers to sit on the couch and eat. Will not clean unless I am beside her cleaning too. She's lazy and not a team player. What can I do?
Q. Hi, so I am 21 years old. I've been with my girlfriend for about a year now. Let me first say that she is a great girl. She sweet, funny, loyal, worships the ground I walk on and would follow me anywhere. And so would I. But the problem I'm ha...
A. 25 February 2013: Wow. Yea end of the road. Dont tolerate this. End this relationship.... (read in full...)
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