I escaped my Muslim Arabic country and found freedom, but now I have met a lovely Arabic guy his friends are telling him to stay away from me because I don't fit into normal Muslim beliefs! What should I do?
Q. Dear Cupid, I am an Arabic female who escaped from my Muslim Arabic country in the look for freedom, I escaped by my self and it was not easy (I got publishing companies asking me to write my story to be published) I escaped when I was 20 years o...
A. 20 June 2012: You seem to have great confidence in who u r. This is great. Ur personal boundary has a hole in that u get rattled by what others think. Can u co.tact police n file harassment complaints?! Can u move to a different part of the city to avoid these ... (read in full...)
Is this more than a sex buddy?
Q. I have a sex buddy , im always understanding torwards him i dont want him to think im so demanding or clingy so i play it off there are times when i get jeleous and show it like last week we were in the pools and my friend slashed water at him so i ...
A. 11 June 2012: If that guy has to cause jealousy to stroke his own ego hes insecure and has a low self esteem. Yea just a piece of ass u r to him. ... (read in full...)
She built me up to expect sex and then she let me down
Q. For almost a year my girlfriend would tempt me about having sex. She would get me aroused let me touch her in "various" areas of her body. She would tell me she wanted me and of course i would be really drawn into her temptations statements of ...
A. 9 June 2012: Leave that relationship. She now has full control of it and it will be disastrous for u. Stop being nice man seriously. If u want sex n she doesnt end the relationship n pursue ur needs. Take care of business n stop being so soft!... (read in full...)
Should I just get my virginity out of the way?
Q. This is really personal, but I think I need a little advice in this area. I'm still a virgin, which is shocking to some people. I'm 20 which isn't that bad but in my generation isn't very common or even looked at as a good thing, its almost ...
A. 8 June 2012: You sound frustrated. I lost mine at 25 to a prostitute and have no regrets. I was pissed too about feeling left out and having solid morals and ethics in the end I felt weird ridiculed and abnormal and not strong enuff mentally to combat such ... (read in full...)
We met 2 weeks ago and he said "I love you" 5 days ago, I told him I just wanted to take it slow. Now he hasn't called in 2 days!
Q. I've met this new guy 2 weeks ago, he's an amazing guy, everything about him is great, we have so many things in common. He said "I love you" about 5 days ago, and i didn't respond to that, i just told him that we should take things slow and that i ...
A. 8 June 2012: Clinger. Get rid of him. Who cares what he says.... (read in full...)
21 and want pay a prostitute to take my virginity. Is this illegal?
Q. I'm 21 and I want to lose my virginity soon, I don't want to drift into my mid-late 20's early 30's and still be a virgin. I am aware of the protection needed and please don't try and sell me any of the disneyland wait for the right girl and l...
A. 8 June 2012: Hey man I lost mine to a hooker in cairo. I was 25. I feel ya dude I wish I woulda lost it wayyyy earlier I probably would have felt more accepted in the us amongst my peers. THINK about this hard. Make it a logical decision. Have u exhausted ... (read in full...)
I walked out of the room, came back and my friend was having sex with the guy that I like!
Q. so there was this boy who liked me and i felt the same way but we never really acted on it.so recently i invited him over to my place and we ended up sleeping together.so later my bestfriend came over and we were just chilling when i went to get ...
A. 7 June 2012: Neither of those two are your friends. Leave them.... (read in full...)
I cannot get over that my girlfriend had a guy bigger than me
Q. My girlfriend has a high sex drive, compared to other girls I have been with at least. She likes sex. Plain and simple. She told me that she had a one night stand with a "larger guy" one night when we were well, fooling around. She said it hurt, bu...
A. 7 June 2012: hey pal. alrite man first off do not talk about past sex anything after feelings are established this will cause retroactive jealousy. I wont lie to you and lower my rating board I dont care, however, one reason why I left the western hemisphere was ... (read in full...)
Girl won't be with me because of her moms beliefs! - HELP!!!
Q. I am in a very bad a frustrating situation. I was married to a girl who left me for another guy and was living with him before we even got an official divorce. It took me a long time but I am finally over that now and have met the absolute girl of ...
A. 31 May 2012: Calm down pal. First, get ur emotions under control. I see this for the long term a disaster because if u marry this woman u marry the family, including her mother. She is wrong to judge you. In fact, that is ^^^^ bs. You dont deserve to be judg... (read in full...)
Do guys my age automatically expect sex?
Q. Hey there! So, I'm 18 and I'm getting ready to head off to college soon. Like most kids (I guess some would consider me a "young adult"?) my age, I've been pondering the possibilities of what the future might bring. This includes relationships and ...
A. 30 May 2012: The american culture in general sees sex very casually and part of why i left cause i felt ridiculed n left out. I hated no support and.more importantly hated my personality and physique. Ive changed both. That said forget the ppl who dont support ... (read in full...)
Can someone explain her behaviour to me?
Q. Can anyone give me some advice in regards to this girls behavior at the club last night? Okay , so I was with my friends last night at a club and I usually don't go to clubs but since it was my friends birthday I told myself I would make a ...
A. 27 May 2012: Shes annoyed u didnt approach her when u made eye contact. Youre mistake man and i find u losing ur seat as an excuse to not approach. Women do not like that fear they find it woosy and unconfident. Even if she did reject u have thicker skin dont ... (read in full...)
After 21 years, wife has found someone new and will go to counselling but wants to see him too!
Q. Today is my 21st anniversary, we have 4 kids, we have never fought, and just 3 days ago I found out that my wife met someone on a trip with friends. She has seen him one other time since then, again on a trip with these friends, they've kissed ...
A. 26 May 2012: Hey pal. Im the last guy who knows jack about marriages but ill say right now u have some holes in ur psychological boundary that has caused u to consume a lot of negative energy over time. Your wife I think wants a divorce but is passive about it. ... (read in full...)
I've been corresponding with a well known porn star
Q. Hey all! I've been in touch with a rather well-known porn star as of late via email. She heard one of my latest mixes I posted on twitter, emailed my friend about how to get in touch with me, and she told me she really liked what I did so she off...
A. 25 May 2012: Thanks all for ur input. Well appreciated. Ill be careful n remain in touch. Shes taking the mix n dancing to it at an event in vegas with her ladies then sending me a link. Ill look forward.... (read in full...)
How do I get my girlfriend to eat healthy and lose weight?
Q. Hello guys. I need some advice on talking to my girlfriend about her weight. I will first start off by saying i DO lover her and i will NOT leave her over this because she is just too special to me. I do however, think that she is not eating healthy ...
A. 24 May 2012: Dude in my opinion youre wasting ur time. Only her can change herself. Tell her your advice and why you care and if she doesnt see it then leave her. Youre in your prime years my man bang the hot women lol. If she miraculously says ill try and lose ... (read in full...)
What do I do about this man's sudden interest?
Q. I am in the middle of a business venture, and I'm 16. While meeting with investors and some other people on a project, I met a man, married, who lives near me and wants to meet at some point. We talked briefly and he ended up driving me home. I ...
A. 24 May 2012: Turn around, look in the mirror and then look halfway down ur body. THAT is what he is after.... (read in full...)
Weight loss tips needed
Q. Hey there ,I'm trying to lose some weight, but my weight it is very stubborn, and does not want to move. I tried to eat healthy , 1200 calorie, and walk everyday, but it just not going anywhere. Is there any idea what works to start to drop the ...
A. 20 May 2012: Props to dmartin for good advice. Nutrition is vital. Stop eating at nite if u do it will just lay on u. Take 1000mg omega3 a day. I eat plenty of nuts. They are full of protein n healthy fat. Really hit the gym hard 3 times a week with 3 hours of ... (read in full...)
What have been your experiences with bad partners.
Q. I'm terrible in the sack! But this wasn't always the case. As a matter of fact, the first girl that I lost it too always loved our "encounters". To this day she says I am still the best she's had. And at the time she was my first, but I was ...
A. 18 May 2012: Glad I dont face this pressure seeing that most of my sex isnt free of cost. Experience gained with each other n knowing what each other likes is what will make u a better lover. I know that much lol... (read in full...)
Is he really ready for a relationship?
Q. I just started dating this guy and i have to say that im a little bit confused. I've never had a real relationship before and this is the first time ive actually wanted to spend time with someone. I love it when he holds me in public and i love ...
A. 18 May 2012: Refrain from talk about any past be it exes failed friendships or even if the was enormously fat n got pissed off n spent two years isolating himself to achieve a good body. Focus on the future. Tell him no more didcussion about his ex. If he has ... (read in full...)
Is it me? Is it all his stress? Why couldn't he get hard and why haven't I heard from him since then?
Q. I've been having this affair with a married man for 8years..he also has another girl on the side that he has gotten pregnant twice..I believe his wife is leaving him and he is under some stree..we have sex at least once a week..lately it's been like ...
A. 18 May 2012: Stress kills wood like i kill the damn weights.... (read in full...)
I'm a stripper, I have 2 kids with a third on the way, I want to stop dancing and stripping but my boyfriend and his family just wont let me
Q. Sorry if this is a little long I just don't have anyone to talk to about this issue and I can really use some advice. I'm 24 years old and I currently live in Texas. I was born and raised in PA but I moved to texas about 2 years ago. When I wa...
A. 18 May 2012: Hey sweets. Ill acknowledge respectfully youve made some very poor decisions. However i see youre learning here at the expense of some harsh emotions. Your bf is trash. His actions clearly say he could care less about u or the kids. As a parent ... (read in full...)
He only gave me his number once he saw what car I was driving, should I call him or not?
Q. Dear Cupid, I met this guy through a mutual friend at her birthday party. We danced several times at the party. When the party was over he said if I needed to get in touch with him I could from our mutual friend. As I was leaving the party he ...
A. 17 May 2012: Trust ur gut for sure doll.... (read in full...)
How can I get girls to think I'm mature rather than thinking I'm an asshole?
Q. i am very social have a bunch of friends but when theres a girl i like there are few that understand my humor. most girls when im trying to flirt with them they think im being an asshole. every once in awhile ill find a girl whos cute and doesnt ...
A. 17 May 2012: Try being cocky n funny at the same time. Neg women dont put them.down. i e give them a remark that isnt too rude or too nice and most importantly dont compliment. Tease them effectively with ur humor. Be a slight jerk but.not total a hole women ... (read in full...)
How do you ask to have sex?
Q. When you meet a girl and you hook up (for this example kissing) how do you go further past kissing?! For example I went to a concert and I was a little drunk when i was talking to this girl I met. We danced and then we started to make out. I ...
A. 17 May 2012: Dude just lead. Dont ask. Dont suggest just lead them into ur bedroom and if they have a prob they will tell u. Take initiative. Stay away from booze cause not only will u fail to get guns like mine but u will risk emotipns n bad decisions with ... (read in full...)
Why do I keep going back to my B/f even though he treats me like dirt?
Q. Dear Cupid my bf of 2 years is emotionally abusing me, always ignoring me, treats me like shit, never apologize and always finding one reason to another to stop spending time with me. Its been very long since we even talked for more than 5 mts....
A. 16 May 2012: Ahh typical. Attraction isnt a choice. This goes back to when u first met not now which is why u keep going back. Do u have a low self esteem? Stand ur ground n tell the guy u deserve better n wanna end the reltshp.... (read in full...)
I ended it, so why do I feel sad that he's moved on?
Q. On another note, Im a junior righ now. I had an ex bf who I dated for 2 years and 3 months. We broke up this school year. He's a freshmen in college. I broke up with him because he did drugs and drank, plus, I was starting to fall for another guy ...
A. 16 May 2012: Thats emotionally abusive of him. Hes childish for wanting to get u back gor whatever. Id involve ur parents in this. I could see this easily getting out of hand. Good luck yo.... (read in full...)
I have a crush on a local policeman
Q. Hi. Thanks for Helping me. Anyways, I have a dilemma. There is a school police officer at school and he seems to like me. I have noticed him glancing at me. When we are outside and I'm with my friends, he goes and stands around the area where we...
A. 14 May 2012: Dude hes at best sir rent a cop is maybe flirting. maybe and thats a stretch yo. Attraction is totally different. It can be initiated with eye contact but its avout personality not stares n glances n hallway whispers. ... (read in full...)
I'm a 20 year old virgin...is that a turn off?
Q. I'm 20 years old and I'm in college. I've never had sex because I've never had a boyfriend and never wanted to sleep with random guys. No one ever believes me when I tell them I've never had sex mainly because I go out/party/drink a lot and ...
A. 14 May 2012: Youre alrite doll. Just wait for the right lad n ignore anyone who puts u down. In my experience attaching emotion to virginity is risky so i lost it to a complete stranger instead. Good luck.... (read in full...)
Would you find a 42 year-old Virgin Dateable?
Q. Now to be honest, I have average looks and am average size being a tall, typical bodied white male. The issues exist that I suffer from social anxiety and other disorders, limiting my social skills, which might not attract women right off the ba...
A. 14 May 2012: A lot these answers are encouraging but most seem to think.youre looking for love. In my experience u shouldnt wait for love because of all the what ifs. Youre inexperienced with dating so u may not know how to tell if a lady is genuine with u about ... (read in full...)
Does personality matter?
Q. If a guy is just average looking or even a little ugly (not like hideous ugly), but they have what you consider to be a really funny personality, you get along with them really well, you love to talk to them for hours, they have a cute personality, ...
A. 13 May 2012: Hey kid read up on david de angelo attraction isnt a choice n u will learn how to attract women with personality. In my day brods were superficial so i had bad luck. But frustration with all that was changed positively into a new body n mind. Its ... (read in full...)
Would you find a 42 year-old Virgin Dateable?
Q. Now to be honest, I have average looks and am average size being a tall, typical bodied white male. The issues exist that I suffer from social anxiety and other disorders, limiting my social skills, which might not attract women right off the ba...
A. 13 May 2012: Dude u have my support for sure. Its the general american society im worried about with ridiculing n teasing u. Do not disclose the virginity thing with women right away but do make them aware of ur disorders n what youre trying to do to overcome ... (read in full...)
Pregnancy obsession on my DAUGHTER - NOOOOO!!!!
Q. I caught my boyfriend of 5.5 yrs (really a part of my family), surprised him at his house(where I never go) jacking off to recent pictures of my newly pregnant daughter. He had gone into my computer and copied pictures that she had sent to ME of her ...
A. 13 May 2012: Good decision. That is absolutely disgusting of him.... (read in full...)
Girlfriend setting unrealistic standards for me in the bedroom?
Q. So, my girlfriend told me she had a one night stand with a guy who was rather well endowed. She said it hurt, a lot, but it was good by the end of. We of course had some tension over this, I was jealous, she cried because she felt upset about ...
A. 13 May 2012: In my experience kid most if not all women prefer a big dick. I find that your gf was possibly comparing u to the bigger guy and she knows he was better and enjoyed sex with him.more but felt guilty about feeling that n apologized. Id ask ur gf for ... (read in full...)
I have let a 19 year old chat me up, and now I'm wondering, what's the harm?
Q. Been a silly girl I know. But have let a 19 yr old chat me up, he's obviously only after one thing, trouble is, I am 40. We're both single. But... Anyway, I have been single 4 yrs now, and working non stop, I keep thinking so what! Bit of fun? All...
A. 4 May 2012: Do it! I love older women and have fun who cares about age :D... (read in full...)
I don't want to spend every moment telling b/f that I love him
Q. I just started seeing this guy I met on the internet a few weeks ago. He is 20 and I am 21. I have always dated guys who are older than me because I have always just been attracted to someone who is more mature. But I decided to give this a try ...
A. 22 April 2012: This guy is a clinger big time. Annoying. He is also confusing possible infatuation with love a clear sign n red flag about maturity. As far as i can tell how has this guy even attracted u? Physical? Really id be weary of continuing this ... (read in full...)
If he's not interested then why did he text me?
Q. So im an 18year old, and haven't been in any relationships. Not a single bf, not cause im not a attractive, but im waiting for that challenging guy that blows off my mind. Two weeks a go 3 weeks ago i went to this library with my friend and saw this ...
A. 22 April 2012: Textbook attraction creation by him. Yes of course hes playing hard to get because he needs to keep u interested or would u prefer a sell out nice guy who sends u flowers within days? Boring. If hes mature hell know when to stop creating attraction ... (read in full...)
My husband doesn't like my breasts and prefers smaller ones!
Q. My husband does not like my breasts. Whilst I am a dd cup he prefers smaller breasts. I am not prepared to undergo surgery however this is really undermining my self confidence with him as I feel self conscious. Knowing that he loves me and marr...
A. 19 April 2012: He should accept u for who u r unless he is no longer sexually attracted which is a must have in marriage. but thats rare that that happens so if hes unhappy with your breasts you need reassurance from him that your new ones are attractive and he ... (read in full...)
Is it weird that I'm turned on by my girlfriend's sex toys?
Q. Hi everyone, I’m just wanting to get a bit of perspective on something, it's not an issue per say, I just wanna make sure I’m not weird in my behaviour. Ok so basically my girlfriend and me have just started living together and she has brought ...
A. 12 April 2012: nah man not weird... try them on yourself... i kid u not.. itll drive her wild maybe in a fantasy sense :D... (read in full...)
My pregnant girlfriend is worried about gaining weight and isn't eating right!
Q. My girlfriend is currently pregnant. This will be her second child, this is my first baby. She suffers from bouts of depression here and there, and I talk to her and try to lift her spirits as best I can. My concern is her eating, or, at times, l...
A. 12 April 2012: Hey pal. Yeah advise your lady to see a professional. Keep encouraging her. Not eating can also store fat because blood sugar and insulin levels drop significantly. Good luck.... (read in full...)
What does prolonged eye contact mean?
Q. Prolonged eye contact? What does the prolonged eye contact means? When and why do you guys use it? Sometimes when a gal catches a guy constantly staring at her, she's trying to decode what is he trying to tell. Does he flirt? Does he like her?...
A. 10 April 2012: When i make eye contact with women u keep it until they break away. This shows them nonverbally i am dominant n confident vs possibly submissive n a woos. I use this a lot in clubs when u dont always have the chance to talk to women cause of music ... (read in full...)
Should I just have a one night stand?
Q. I'm a female in my mid twenties and haven't had sex in over eight months. I am constantly horny and masturbate almost everyday. I have never had a one night stand with a guy because I always feared stds and what not as well as my reputation because ...
A. 5 April 2012: Bad idea doll. One booze is involved and two it sounds like u would be making an emotional decision. Protect your reputation and check ur standards for a guy. Sounds like u should lower thing a bit but still look for good qualities. Good luck n just ... (read in full...)
Is my attitude to work wrong? My work bores me, I can't wait to get out at 5pm.
Q. I really need your advice! I'm in my late 20's. I work in a chartered accountancy firm and my job is boring. I start counting down the minutes till 5 from the second I sit down. I know that's wrong and I should be grateful to have a job in th...
A. 4 April 2012: First watch office space. Youll cheer the **** up lol. Second yes time to find a new job. Start looking n dont quit til u have one lined up. Youre clearly unhappy prob unmotivated borderline depressed
. just two many red flags. I hear u about the ... (read in full...)
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