Sex life going downhill and don't know what to do about it!
Q. I'm in need of some serious help/advice. I need to know how I can spice things up in the bedroom with my husband. Lately our sex life has gone down hill, he can't last like he used to and half the time he doesn't even seem interested anymore. For ...
A. 12 September 2011: Wow thsi guy is totally taking you for granted. Id start by not assuming anything, and just talk to the guy and figure it out. Communication is key in any relationship and prob moreso in a marriage. Good luck.... (read in full...)
I'm having an affair, the sex is non-stop. Will this guy fall for me?
Q. i and my husband both had engaged in an affair. him 2 months and he ended it. i cannot end mine. we're trying to patch things for our child yet its not working. i had a one night stand with my senior and after that a 2nd one followed. in between ...
A. 18 August 2011: If the relationship is based solely on sex, it will fail... no matter how good the sex is and no doubt two ppl would be happy if theyre constantly getting some. I would break ties with this guy until u can get a stable environment for your child. I ... (read in full...)
What going away gift should I get him? Should I tell him how I feel?
Q. The guy I have been seeing all summer leaves for college in 3 days. He is going to be 3 hours away from me. We have decided to get each other "going away gifts" I have no idea what to get him? I want something that will remind him of me, and I also ...
A. 12 August 2011: Hi!
I dont think itd be prudent for either of you to get each other gifts unless you both have agreed a long distance relationship can work. If you get him something without this in mind and you two end up with other people, the giving of the gift... (read in full...)
Will my penis still grow at 19?
Q. This is a pretty embarrassing question but can my penis still grow at 19? I just turned 19 and my penis is exactly 5 inches. I know that is somewhat average, but it just feels really small to me. I've read a lot of studies and statistics and MOST ...
A. 12 August 2011: Women prefer bigger ones kid, but theyll settle for your size thats why theyre saying its "perfect" when it is definitely not. Only way for them to prove to that to you is if you were ever with them sexually, which may not happen, so they are just ... (read in full...)
How can I give a blowjob and fit him in?
Q. I am going to give a blowjob for the very first time but I am scared? There is a few things I am worried about; 1. If the average man is 5 or 6 inches how am I supposed to fit that all in my mouth? 2. What If I am not good enough? 3. I want...
A. 11 August 2011: Dont put pressure on urself doll. Ease into it. Focus on giving him small sensations vs an all in approach. Suck his head and stroke and lick his balla. Total mind blower for guys lol. ... (read in full...)
Will my penis still grow at 19?
Q. This is a pretty embarrassing question but can my penis still grow at 19? I just turned 19 and my penis is exactly 5 inches. I know that is somewhat average, but it just feels really small to me. I've read a lot of studies and statistics and MOST ...
A. 11 August 2011: Yeah man it can esp if u lose weight like i have. It helps with blood flow. Ive also taken extenze and havent noticed a difference. Women onli like bigger men kid and if they say otherwise theyre lying. My advice get as big as you can get by any ... (read in full...)
What will happen if I become friends with benefits with my ex?
Q. okay this is a long shot and i don't know what's gonna happen but please i need help. So yea, my and my ex have been going out for 3 years and we broke up for 4 months and went back out and during the time we were going out we came across the ...
A. 10 August 2011: The outcome? More than likely youll be the one attaching emotion to the situation of friends with benefits. You risk getting back together with her. Most american women, in my opinion, are only good for sex... but cmon man, more fish in the sea. ... (read in full...)
Intense training session has made me afraid of my instructor!
Q. hey, the other day i was with my fitness instructor doing (you guessed it) exercise. then about halfway through my instructor tells me we're going to do a conditioning session. i didn't know it at the time but a conditioning session is basic...
A. 8 August 2011: Yeah Im ignorant when it comes to martial arts but this as part of common sense, doesnt sound normal at all. In fact, abusive and if he was indeed getting off on this, he is sadistic. I would tell your parents and have them advise you what to do. As ... (read in full...)
Why are guys threaten by gays? Or is it only my bf who is immature?
Q. My bf is upset because I have a lot of gay friends. He says he is tired of me hanging out with so many queers. Why are guys threaten by gays? or is it only my bf who is immature. I don't have the courage to leave him. I moved into this City ...
A. 8 August 2011: He's probably jealous since they are just men, regardless of their sexual orientation. If they were str8 guys, he prob be even more upset. Reassure him they are only friends and you are indeed only interested in him and show him that by not just ... (read in full...)
What really turns a guy on?
Q. This question is Coming from a girl who has little experience with men.What really turns on a fella? Like what do most fellas get turned on by or what do they find sexy? ...
A. 6 August 2011: Dirty talk, high heels, colored nails, nice perfume, and no cigarette smell... all attractive and turn ons.... (read in full...)
Will losing weight make stretch marks go away?
Q. I have really ugly horrible stretch marks on my inner thighs, and they make me feel really self-conscious. I've managed to make them fade with the use of sudocrem, but I was wondering if by losing weight I'd be able to get rid of them completely ...
A. 5 August 2011: losing weight will also help lessen the appearance... however if youre looking for permanent removal, surgery is a good option for scar removal these days.... (read in full...)
I'm 18 and my body is changing. Could I still be going through puberty?
Q. Lately I've been feeling my hips getting wider and my breasts went up a cup size. I'm not sure if this is because of puberty because I'm almost 19 in a few weeks and I heard you stop "growing" when you're 18. I have been eating a little more than I ...
A. 5 August 2011: Change in diet can affect ones health greatly in many ways, good and bad. My doctor said the reason why Ive grown almost two inches the last three years is because of diet. Im a full 6'4" now. If you keep eating the way you do, youll prob gain a lot ... (read in full...)
How to improve my self confidence?
Q. I think I have a low self confidence or self esteem. I think myself small in front of many people even when I know they are not. I don't know why.?? I mean I think Im bit a loser kind of person. I pretend to others that I m content but inside I m ...
A. 2 August 2011: Hit the gym man and get fit. Exercise makes me feel superhuman now and has helped my self confidence amazingly well. Ill recommend a non expensive preworkout mix u can pick up at gnc called cellucor c4 extreme. Be patient get in shape and work ur ... (read in full...)
At 20 I should be sowing my wild oats, but instead I'm intimidated by girls and don't want sex! What is wrong with me?
Q. I'm on anti depressants so my sex drive is low. I turned this girl down as i didn't wanna lose my virginty to her and wasn't horny at all. WTF is wrong with me? I should be really horny and sleeping with loads of girls but i haven't I'm 20 years ...
A. 2 August 2011: Hey man. Im sure you have a great personality. Ill suggest focusing on your mental health first so u can approach sex and relationships to the best of ur mental ability. Women will reject. They will play games. Even be superficial. Ill refer u to a ... (read in full...)
Having sex with random guys - is it really that bad? Does it mean I have some underlying psychological issues?
Q. Best way to classify this would be as a sex and dating question, I suppose. Not until 2011 did I start having sex and since january I've been having alot of sex, alot in relation to not having any before this year. And a good amount of it has been ...
A. 2 August 2011: I met up with a girl from craigslist randomly and it was one of the best danb sexual experiences ever. Before u head to someones place or they come to yours tell someone as a precaution. Then just practice safe sex and only do what youre comfortable ... (read in full...)
I cant ever imagine getting divorced over this, but I am not attracted to my wife! What should I do?
Q. I don't know who to turn to for advice because this is such a sensitive subject. Over the last couple of years I have been losing attraction to my wife and even finding her repulsive at times. I am not a superficial person but it has been building ...
A. 2 August 2011: Has your wife talked to a nutritionist? Has she been patient in trying to lose weight? Has she tried any weight loss supplements? If her obesity is hereditary more than likely her option is surgery. My cousin had his stomach shrunk and he lost an ... (read in full...)
Should I give it a shot?
Q. So theres this guy.I liked him from the moment i saw him.I had asked one of my friends to get his number for me or for her to introduce me to him but she never did. I think she liked him so i never got a chance to meet him.And moved and left for ...
A. 2 August 2011: Yes talk to him but if youre seeking a relationship ill advise from personal experience not to start it online and from a wee distance.... (read in full...)
Guys: Would you be with a virgin? Or is it really 'too much drama'?
Q. Most guys I know say that they don't want to sleep (or even date because that will eventually lead to sleeping) with a virgin, because it's 'too much drama'. I feel like I'm way behind and I won't find anyone to ever be with me just because of that....
A. 1 August 2011: I would like to be with a virgin. I held out pathetically til I was 25 so dont feel bad... for a guy, its worse lol. If the guy is mature, he will know how to handle the sexual aspect of any relationship regardless of experience he has. You must ... (read in full...)
Uncomfortable with my chest size...how should I deal with this? How should I react when I get sleazy comments?
Q. So in a nutshell, I have large boobs. I am 25, probably D cup size, and only 5'1" and 130 lbs; I don't know my cup size for sure because it's been so long since I got measured. And the reason it's been so long is because going to Victoria's Secret ...
A. 30 July 2011: First off, its normal you are insecure. I think what you need is respect from people and then youll start to feel confident. Dont go to bars, clubs, or anywhere else that puts you at risk of sleaziness as that will hurt your confidence. Men who ... (read in full...)
Is it okay for a beautiful woman to be narcissistic, rude and conceited?
Q. Right so I have this friend who is a woman. She's gorgeous. At first I fancied her a bit, but we soon realized it would not work. So we've remained mates. Thing is, she gets very conceited at times. She tells me these stories about guys she date...
A. 30 July 2011: This woman is a prime example of women who like to be treated like shit. She's very insecure, lacks confidence, and most of all, she seems damn immature. She may as well just be a blow up doll. Be smart. Dont chase... and always, lift some weights ... (read in full...)
Dating tips?
Q. How can I find a girl I really like? I've been really depressed lately and haven't been talking to many girls because I always get lead on. Tips?...
A. 29 July 2011: Tips? Dont be nice kind generous or even thoughtful with girls. Tease them... i e when a girl smiles say something like your smile reminds me of a cartoon character I used to watch when I was a kid. Dont compliment. Holding doors is ok. Try not to ... (read in full...)
I'm 33.....time to be an adult! Any ideas?
Q. Ok. I'm a 33 yr old male. I have no children. I currently am single. Here's what I have learned about myself in the past 6 months after the woman of my dreams walked all over me. I was 23 and thought to myself there has to be more enjoyment in life ...
A. 29 July 2011: One step at a time. Find a stable career, then look for a wife. Make it a mission, dont sit back and let shit happen naturally man, cause it just wont happen. Take some more serious initiative here and dice will fall in your favor. Good luck.... (read in full...)
What is the typical refractory period and number of orgasms for men?
Q. What is a typical refractory period for men out there? By refractory period, I mean the time it takes for you after an orgasm to be erect again and ready for the next round. I'm sure it varies a lot, and surely varies with age. I'm just ...
A. 25 July 2011: Its varied for me. Anywhere from ten mins to a couple hours. Depends on the brod my man lol depends on the brod.... (read in full...)
Girlfriend is accusing me of seducing other girls with eye contact! Help!
Q. My girlfriend says I seduce every damn girl out there in shopping malls , market places and on streets using my dirty eye contacts and movements. Last night,while crying, she warned me if I couldn't get this stopped , she would dump. I talked t...
A. 25 July 2011: Your GF is very insecure. Look at the menu. Just dont order, which youre not. Just reassure her your sexually attracted to her and this will all go away quicker than a detroit lions win streak.... (read in full...)
Does he just want sex? Or is he interested in me?
Q. This is a question that I'm hoping some men might be able to answer. Ok,here's the story. Met this gorgeous guy out of the blue a couple weeks ago. Turns out we both were incredibly attracted to each other from afar. He approached me,we chatted a ...
A. 25 July 2011: Nice! Perfect example of how a guy uses his d*** and NOT his heart to get in with the lady. He's my effin idol. Now, ask him his intentions. Read his eyes, body language, facial expressions and all that other crap you women do that most men dont ... (read in full...)
What gives women the right to judge men for having been to prostitutes?
Q. Every time a man complains about a woman's sexual past he gets told he has no right to talk about it. But a lot of women will judge a man if they hear that he has slept with a prostitute. It's hypocrisy. If the past can't be held against one ...
A. 25 July 2011: Pasts in my opinion OP should be discussed before feelings develop, that way jealousy is less risk at coming about later. For the record, Ive been with 9 prostitutes and I PROUDLY state to women that Ive been with them. I have my reasons and some ... (read in full...)
What happens between a stripper and a client during a lap dance?
Q. Can anyone tell me what happens between a stripper and her "client" during a lap dance? What happens in the VIP or champagne rooms? What is the difference in a lap, couch, table, or bed dance? How much does an evening at a strip club usually cost?...
A. 23 July 2011: In my experiences and there have been many in strip clubs. I love them. I'll spend anywhere from 100 - 200. I usually chat the girls up and get lapdances... but Ive been offered to get in the "VIP" areas for anywhere from 80-115 dollars. Ive refused ... (read in full...)
Ideas for some summer fun?
Q. Hey, what are some fun at home things my boyfriend and I can do besides movies, video games, or cooking? We sometimes have water fights or play with the dogs, but we just want some more ideas, seeing as neither of us can drive the other legally(I ...
A. 21 July 2011: two words... mini golf :-)... (read in full...)
I feel like he's bringing things he's seen in porn into our bedroom
Q. I'm getting concerned. I feel my boyfriends' porn viewing is coming into our bedroom. On one hand, we have this amazing sex life, but on the other, I am noticing more and more that its taking a LOT to get him off, if he does at all. He does not ...
A. 19 July 2011: Sit him down and tell him your feelings. If he's unwilling to listen and/or compromise, get rid of this guy as he may lose his own self-respect and you dont wanna be around to fix that up.... (read in full...)
I'm 24 and still a virgin, is this normal?
Q. Hi cupid, I'm a "straight" guy age 24 and im still virgin.. is it normal? ...
A. 14 July 2011: I see this is becoming a mental insecurity for you. Take action and just get laid any way u can. Its your v card man, just get it done and over with so you can move on. Youll gain better confidence with women and also feel better cause youre with ... (read in full...)
Is Cybersex/Sexting, with someone other than your spouse, cheating?
Q. Is Cybersex/Sexting, with someone other than your spouse, cheating. This is past dirty messages and includes videos of them selves being passed back and forth. I have seen for myself. He says I'm overacting since he's not physically cheating. i ...
A. 14 July 2011: yeah thats def cheating because of his intent to be intimate with other women, in person or not.... (read in full...)
Everytime I'm with him my heart races and I have butterflys...what is it?
Q. Well i decided to go back out with my ex and we'd been going out for 3 months last year but ended it cause we both thouight we didnt see enought of each other. i had been out with a few other guys since that but every time id see his name pop up id ...
A. 14 July 2011: You like the guy.... (read in full...)
He led me to believe that he cared for me, then just went cold.
Q. I became friends with a guy for almost 2 years whom I really enjoyed. He was kind and caring,we used to have conversations about his girlfriend and my failing relationship with my husband long story short I am going through a seperation and one ...
A. 14 July 2011: Attraction isnt created between two people by sharing stories of relationship issues ... u got stuck in friends zone and an implied one at best. There wasnt good communication between you two about intention and as a result, this happened. Good ... (read in full...)
Husband skinny dipping with my Bf and now hes texted her behind my back, how do I deal with this ?
Q. I caught my husband skinny dipping with my best friend, who is also married. I feel he cheated even though they said nothing happened but it still hurts the same. This is not the first time he has done something like this to hurt me. When I ...
A. 14 July 2011: If he cheated he should be out the door. No question. You have higher self confidence than to stick with some a$$hole right?... (read in full...)
I keep on giving but get nothing from her, not even a gift on my birthday!
Q. i'm 19 year boy and i'm in realtionship with a 18 year girl,we are having a relation from past 7 months...its been a great time with her....i love her a lot....lot means ..how much i love myself i love her... before few days my friends and i ...
A. 12 July 2011: Relationships are two way streets and that brod is driving down the wrong way on a one way... get out of the path. Yeah she doesnt appreciate you and therefore not worth your time.... (read in full...)
My GF wants me to remove a tattoo from my chest which spells my late sister's name, because my ex had the same name, and my GF doesn't want to be reminded of my ex!
Q. My twin sister died a few years ago in a car accident. I was really affected by her death. She wasn't just my sister but my best friend. I got a tattoo of her name on my chest so that she'll always be next to my heart. I have been seeing a...
A. 11 July 2011: Stand your ground pal. If anything, get rid of this girl. She seems selfish and arguably controlling.... (read in full...)
Why did she kiss me?
Q. Me and my ex [both 18] go out clubbing together a lot because we have the same friends. Last night we were out and were both quite tipsy, and I bought her a drink. She said 'thank you, sexy' and quickly made out with me, not too ferociously, ...
A. 10 July 2011: Tough to say if she is indeed not over you cause alcohol was involved but the fact she mingled with other guys could be a sign she's moved on. My policy: Its always more fun picking up a brod in a club vs going with one. ... (read in full...)
I love him, but he cheated & I can't trust him, what should I do??
Q. hey, me and my ex boyfriend split about 3 months ago. we split beacuse i found out he was still with the mother of his baby. when we first got together he was the best boyfriend ever i used to see him everyday but saturdays as that was wh...
A. 10 July 2011: He has broken your trust and his cheating shows signs he is not ready for any relationship. Break it off.... (read in full...)
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