What does it mean when guys seem interested, yet then cancel dates at last minute for stupid reasons?
Q. Dear Cupid, What does it mean when a guy seems excited to see you but then cancels on you for a stupid reason? So there's this guy I met in high school and we liked each other alot back then and admitted we liked each other. We were also good fri...
A. 14 April 2013: Lol typical. Girls always wanna be a priority n want all the attention. If they dont get it they chase. Its in ur psychology. Now granted ur still interested in him this is just a flag. Is he wanting to commit? Is he ready for a reltshp? Him blowing ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend cheated with a girl who is now making my life miserable
Q. Dear cupid I feel so devastated and I don't even know how I got into this situation. I was in a serious relationship with my boyfriend who I really loved. I found out he basically cheated on me with a girl who has had an on again off again re...
A. 12 April 2013: Yea exactly. Your bf is the one to blame doll. Unless you thoroughly enjoy sticking around for more drama (which a lot of american women do) ill strongly advise u end it n show him no tolerance for cheating. Dont keep him around. You can do better!!... (read in full...)
Does Giving up porn give you ED
Q. My boyfriend's sex drive has decreased. It's been at over a month since we've had good sex. The rest of the time he looses his erection, or doesn't get one. It's been quite frustrating for me, and I've told him that it makes me feel like something ...
A. 12 April 2013: I spoke to a counselor about my ED n in my case even tho I watched porn I lacked self confidence in my appearance ive since changed that (drastically ill add)and still watch porn n im rock hard as ever ;).. Have him try an over the counter sex ... (read in full...)
Is this guy using me to get to know my sister?
Q. How do I know if a guy is using me to get to know my sister? This 'friend' and I never really talk or text, and we've only hung out once. He has the same class as my younger sister, and always teases her. He doesn't really tease me, or talk, or hang ...
A. 10 April 2013: Yea he’s definitely using u as a shoe in. This guys a wuss that he didn’t ask her number. I wouldn’t get too riled up. Tell him you won’t be used and you find his behavior not cool. Don’t tell him u like him quite honestly that’s irrelevant. Tell ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to ditch my male personal trainer but I am getting great results!
Q. Hello all. My boyfriend does not like the idea of me having a male personal trainer. He is against it and would like me to find a female trainer. But this trainer is giving me the results I want. I had a relationship with my last traine...
A. 10 April 2013: I see his point definitely. However he needs to trust you. If youve cheated on him or done anything else in the past to break trust then id say he has the right to request u get a different trainer. if youve done nothing then he needs to relax. Good ... (read in full...)
I fall in love with woman that don't want me, why is it that I select the wrong ones to lose my heart?
Q. Why does my heart hurt so much? I'm 21 and I've fallen in love on three separate occasions. None of them ever reciprocated those emotions, and I'm fine with that, but I just feel so alone. Why wont it stop hurting, why does my heart feel like it's ...
A. 9 April 2013: Im not feeling sorry for you. You need to change ur personality n learn how to create attraction with women. Youre more than likely showing traits that they interpret as creating affection. Friends do that. Youre not a friend. Read books on dating ... (read in full...)
I'm losing patience with his son
Q. My boyfriend and I have lived together for 1 year. He and his 15 year old son moved in with me and my 7 year old and we have been trying to all get along. Since day one, his son has refused any type of socialization with me in the house. He stays ...
A. 9 April 2013: Ugly situation. Dont marry this guy cos if u do youll marry the family too n as it is I see lots of conflict. Teens will be teens u just hafta discipline them when they screw up n if ur bf pampers his kids n treats them like princes and princesses ... (read in full...)
Why are college boys so confusing?
Q. Ok so, history does repeat itself! I am a college freshman girl with a good head on my shoulders, great grades, athletic, outgoing, independent, career focused and definitely not just looking for a husband. That said, I like the emotional intimacy ...
A. 8 April 2013: Yea sweets men ur age are often confused at wat they want simply coz they lack maturity. Dont take it to heart. Im sure youre great n youll find someone on the same page!... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to cheat if our sex life has sunk to the point of nothing? And possible ED that he will not seek help for.
Q. Is it wrong to cheat if your sexlife with your partner is zero? My partner is 43 and I 37. He doesn't have a high sex drive and over the past 6 months we have only been intimate twice. When we are intimate he completely focuses on himself and u...
A. 8 April 2013: Glad u came on here. This is a big problem. Seems to me theres more problems than just sex n perhaps if those were fixed sex would b more frequent n better. If u feel this is the end then end it n explain why. ... (read in full...)
Should I experience my husband's friend?
Q. Any suggestions? I am 40 and have been married for 18 years and my husband has been my only sexual partner. Our sex life has had its ups and downs. Currently I have more sexual energy than my husband. This wasn't the case before, he wanted someth...
A. 8 April 2013: I think its a bad idea. Hes connected to both of u n that could ruin things if it develops into something more. I advise u find an attractive stranger that way its likely to b a one time thing with no attachments.... (read in full...)
My mom is sleeping with a guy my age!
Q. My Mom is Sleeping with a Guy My Age. Advice? My mom is 45 and she's sleeping with a 21 year old guy I knew while growing up. I'm her only son (only child) and I'm 20. I don't think this is right, or appropriate at all. I think she should act h...
A. 8 April 2013: Yea man I feel you. Its weird perhaps awkward n that makes u uncomfortable. The logic behind this is they are adults they can do as they wish. I think youd hafta bite the bullet here.... (read in full...)
Does this staring contest mean anything?
Q. I caught this girl staring at me last week and when I caught her she didn't look away so I kept looking until she did. I won that staring contest. then yesterday I was listening to my music and doing my work in art and I was just zoning out in my ...
A. 6 April 2013: Nice! Shes checking u out. Approach her. Dont wait for another stare. Be calm n cool smile maintain eye contact carry a manly tone of voice n face her directly. All this behavior to women speaks you are comfortable n confident. They love it. Now go ... (read in full...)
I'm 22 and hopeless with girls!
Q. I'm 22, I am hopeless with girls. I have never been with one and now I am too scared to even try. I am a male model (physique, underwear etc) so objectively I am pretty good looking at the very least, very hot at the most... which almost compounds ...
A. 5 April 2013: Lol calm down pal. I lost my virginity at 25. There I got you beat! :) Am I pathetic? No. Am I worthless? Definitely not. Any woman that judges you for your lack of experience is a ^^^h. If you’re ready just get it done. Sometimes you have t... (read in full...)
Awkward moment when her grandmother called me by my girlfriend's ex's name!
Q. So I am at my girlfriends parents house an meeting them for the first time. During this time everything is going well an we talk and really get to know one another. I also meet the grandparents an everything is also seeming going really well. ...
A. 3 April 2013: I laughed a little when I read this. Calm down pal. Its not a big deal at all. It happens and it doesnt mean anything.... (read in full...)
Is neck kissing a turn on for guys? Or just girls?
Q. Is neck kissing a turn on for guys? Or just girls?...
A. 2 April 2013: Just dont touch the back of my head at the same time ;)... (read in full...)
I told her I needed space and now I find she's been having sex with the husband of one of her friends! I'm shocked!
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 7 years and recently I told her I needed some space because I am currently in school trying to finish my degree in Respiratory therapy which has been extremely stressful. We still see each other once a week ...
A. 1 April 2013: This isnt good. Would she have told u if u didnt find out? How can u trust her again? Lastly imo if u take her back it would show ur a doormat n she will keep doing it. I think she needs to learn the hard way here by u ending things.... (read in full...)
Does eye contact mean anything?
Q. What does it mean when a guy gives you eye contact when he walks past you? Does it generally mean that he finds you attractive (Do guys normally give girls eye contact when they find a girl attractive)?...
A. 31 March 2013: Yes. I do it all the time. Eye contact n nice smile. I let the woman break first to show her im not shy or nervous or giddy but confident n dominant. ... (read in full...)
My partner says I'm too heavy for sex!
Q. We cannot have sexual intercouse because my female partner has told me that I am too heavy for her. What is the best way to lose weight? Is it a good idea for me to go to the gym? Has this been a common problem for other couples when hav...
A. 31 March 2013: I'm huge and women never complain. I don't think shes being entirely honest with you mate. My guess she says she can't have sex with you as an excuse for her really saying, "I'm not attracted to you physically". Diets fail because people can't ea... (read in full...)
The love and passion seem to have waned. He's always at the gym. What are my options for the future, and what would be best for my son and I?
Q. I need some advice and help! I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 4 years now, we have a little three year old boy- as you can figure this happened soon after we met and we decided to do this together. He is a great fathe...
A. 30 March 2013: Yea his priorities need to change since he has a family. That is selfish. He needs to compromise with u on gym time. ... (read in full...)
Am I with the wrong sign?
Q. I'm a Scorpio and in a relationship with a Virgo. We have been dating for about 5 months now and it’s been fun and kind of romantic. We've known each other since childhood but he decided to tell me he was in love with me during my 17th birthday ...
A. 30 March 2013: Dont be silly. Its not about sign its about personality maturity n complementing each other. Dont discriminate men based on a 'sign'. Stay open minded n u will learn more about the opposite sex.... (read in full...)
Trouble in figuring out this college girl?
Q. There is this girl in my once a week class that i'm into and i'm pretty sure she likes me too, because I've caught her staring at me more than a few times;not that she's just staring without looking but that whenever she does and we make eye ...
A. 30 March 2013: Dont hang with her friends youre right. That doesnt create attraction. U want her one on one coffee. Pac man. A walk. Lunch. Dinner. Create an intimate environment.... (read in full...)
Married Man Keeps Staring. How can I stop this?
Q. This married man I work with is RIDICULOUS! Im young and single. At first it was flattering, but now it just makes me feel dirty. I just started working there a month ago and he stares at me ALL the time. I wont go into too much detail but its ...
A. 30 March 2013: Its creepy I know. Use body language to tell him you're not interested. Like when he looks at you turn your cheek away from him. Avoid eye contact. Give him the 'dont undress me with your eyes' look. ... (read in full...)
Dealing with my wife's past...need help
Q. I’ve been married for 6 months now and I have been with my wife for 1 ½ years. We are both Christians, but we met while we were in our previous marriages. I found out early in the relationship that she had an affair about 9 years earlier with a ...
A. 28 March 2013: Dont be jealous man. Focus on the bigger picture n thats u n her n the future. That guy apparently had nowhere near to what you have to offer her personality wise. I used to have the same problem bro. I used to be this soft ass wuss wanting a clean ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my wife I want to watch her have sex with other men?
Q. Behind The Green Door I want to watch my wife have sex with other men. And I don't know how to tell her. It's a Turn On I would love to experience. How can I tell her to bring home the boys and men?...
A. 28 March 2013: Slip a note under her cold pillow. Or leave it on her windshield. Maybe have another guy whisper it in her ear. Thats how silly you sound. Just tell her face to face. How else?... (read in full...)
Why do women treat nice guys badly?
Q. hi, to all you women who say you want to meet a nice guy, but when you do, you treat him like sh.t, but a bad guy comes around you fall madly in love, you all say thats not true, but think about it,a nice guy you know what hes going to say, what hes ...
A. 28 March 2013: Really? This again? My man.. Its simple women can't choose wat they are attracted to hence why they like bad boys. Often times a bad boys attitude is mistaken for confidence and thoughts what draws women in. Confidence, body language, tone o... (read in full...)
How do I tell my sex-buddy I don't want to sleep with him anymore?
Q. How do i tell my sex-buddy i dont want to sleep with him anymore? I live in a different city for university and when i come back we always meet up for drinks/cinema or we'l wobble back to each others houses after nights out. We've been sleeping to...
A. 27 March 2013: Sounds to me like u need to drink to feel comfortable with sex. This isnt healthy. Just tell him no more. He doesnt need a justification.... (read in full...)
Why do girls say this and then they end up liking me?
Q. I'm an 18 year old guy, senior in high school. I don't think I'm a bad looking dude, but def not a pretty boy. When girls see me at first, there are some girls that think I'm cute, some girls that think I'm ok, and some girls that think I'm ugly ...
A. 27 March 2013: Yea man women generally r more attracted to a mans personality than his physique. Its in their psychology. That hasnt been my experience which is part of why the way I look now but id say u somethin good there chicks like. Attraction isnt a choice.... (read in full...)
Sex on the first date. How can I stop it being a one night stand and date him?
Q. I had a first date with a man the day before yesterday. It went very well as in we got along well, had lots of things in common. I was adamant that I would NOT sleep with him, completely certain but... several glasses of wine later and whoops, I ...
A. 25 March 2013: Focus more on getting to kno urself better n how u react to alcohol. I rarely drink it around women n while that may be boring I make damn good decisions cos of it. Its possible this can develop. Play it out.... (read in full...)
Crush problems, I want to tell him it's just as much my fault as his!
Q. anyway there is this boy ive had a crush on for 3 years. i texted him that he was hot and sexy. he wants me to do sexual things with him. then i made this mistake of telling him i was on my period (im 13 hes 14) then he texted me back saying "what ...
A. 25 March 2013: Dont make this a big deal. Boys at ur age are unpredictable n shy n all kinds of things. Its not worth ur energy or attention to deal with this.... (read in full...)
Am I her rebound? Is there anything I can do to improve the situation?
Q. I met a woman about two months ago. After a couple of dates, it was obvious that I was attracted to her and she was attracted to me. We talked, kissed, got physical after a few more dates, saw each other almost every day, started doing full day ...
A. 25 March 2013: Dude when women are emotionally stricken.. Stay away!! Let them calm down. That could be ten mins an hour a day ten days ten months. She has clearly brought in issues from her past rltshp into yours resulting in insecurity n well, drama. How do u ... (read in full...)
Are women put off by skinny guys?
Q. I'm a skinny lad and I was wondering is this a turn-off? I mean I know some girls like guys to be teddy bears but is there really any market for us skinny guys? I'm 5'11"/180 cm and 143 pounds/64 kg and feel as though I'm not bulky enough for women ...
A. 24 March 2013: Looks are a huge role in attraction. Muscle is sexy to 99 percent of women. Hit the gym n build ur confidence my man. Ive attracted women who dont prefer my body type but once I make their minds comfortable the body relaxes too. Hit the gym hard n ... (read in full...)
I need this crush to end now before I do something stupid and I don't know how
Q. I'm in my early 20's and infatuated by this guy at work who is older than me. (late thirties) He's gorgeous for his age , rough,masculine and he's such a laugh...... I think about him day and night , dream about him. The sexual tension between ...
A. 24 March 2013: Give the guy a fair chance. Just bc he creates sexual tension doesnt necessarily mean hes after just sex it could mean hes trying to create attraction which he certainly has. Men (and ive done this) only after I Tusually take a girl to the bedroom ... (read in full...)
I want a healthy relationship, so why am I attracted to unattainable or unavailable older or married men? How can I stop doing this?
Q. I have a major problem and I have no idea how to fix this. I am only attracted to older men I can't have. For example, people in authority or married men. I don't express this to them and I end up beating myself up about it. I haven't been in a re...
A. 24 March 2013: Try approaching this in a better way. You mix well with older men which could mean youre more mature than most women your age. Also its not uncommon or weird for ppl to want what they cant have ie women after bieber men after jennifer lopez etc ... (read in full...)
We have the whole 'lingering eye", smiling action going on -- what do I do next?
Q. I have been single for the past two years as I got used and decided to wait for a decent guy instead of the next one that paid me a bit of attention. Now someone has caught me eye I have no clue what to do and generally feel like a schoolgi...
A. 24 March 2013: Props are great conversation starters. I use a hat when I go out. A necklace in a pool is nice. Intimate. Ask him to remove it using a casual voice. Then go from there. Talk to him about his fitness routine to start things off. Its his job to carry ... (read in full...)
If you were in my shoes, would you stay?
Q. i've been seeing a girl for about four months now. i'm very happy with her and we have a very healthy relationship together. she tells me she definitely sees a future with me and i thought i did, too. my problem is that she told me today that sh...
A. 22 March 2013: For me im a guy who needs sex n thats way too long to b away. Id say if it doesnt affect any need then stay.... (read in full...)
Is "no contact" really the best way to get over a breakup?
Q. Hi Everyone, I broke up with my boyfriend a couple months ago. I went "no contact" for the first 2 weeks but it was too difficult for me...I missed him so much, to the point of physical pain. Is this typical? We've been talking since then,...
A. 20 March 2013: If the rltshp was dramatic toxic or nasty breakup no contact is best.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend found out I lied and he posted naked pics of himself online to retaliate!
Q. Anyone want to give advice on whether I should stay with my bf or not? Here's my story. I hooked up with a guy a couple years ago. We still talk here and there. Current bf asks me if I ever hooked up with him. I lie and say no. A few other ...
A. 20 March 2013: This situation is already very toxic. You need to cut ties with everyone involved, learn from it, and move on. This behavior is quite childish on both parts. Grow up.... (read in full...)
How can someone have such strong feelings about you and make serious promises then switch them off so suddenly?
Q. Hello all..So I need some advice about my current ex-boyfriend. I'm not sure, but looking back I think he had bipolar disorder. He has never been diagnosed, not that i know of, but some of his behavior drove me crazy. When we first started sating he ...
A. 20 March 2013: Because hes all words n little to no action.... (read in full...)
How is this romantic and not creepy?
Q. My roommate just got a date with a girl for being a creep and messaging her on facebook when he didn't even know her. He sent a message to her on an account he newly made that said I quote "I don't know you very well but one of my friends knows you ...
A. 20 March 2013: Honestly this case is rare my man. This guy went beyond normal ass kissing men do. He gave her a very thoughtful yet simple compliment that she found was eye catching.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend is really disconnected in our relationship. I don't know what to do
Q. My boyfriend and I have been living together for the 6 months and in the past month he has pretty much lost all interest in me sexually. He will cuddle with me on the couch and will kiss me (peck) goodbye but that is about it. He makes comments ...
A. 20 March 2013: Simple. This guy has past issues. He's too scared to deal with it and he lacks guts to cut things off with you, to deal with them properly, so he keeps you around as a result.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is ignoring me because I wanted an early night!
Q. My bf seems to be angry with me and i haven't seen or spoken to him for about 2 days. A few smaller things happened prior but it seems to be because i didn't want him to come back with me to my place on the weekend. It was late, i was extremely ...
A. 19 March 2013: He's trying to make you feel guilty and manipulate your emotions because this is very minor to get upset over. Dont apologize anymore on this.... (read in full...)
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