She ended our FWB situation because she was unsatisfied with the sex, but all the time she told me how great I was! How do I deal with this?
Q. Im shattered over here. A woman i met for intimacy is seeing another guy and is done with me because i had mental issues regarding vaginal sex. In the four times i met up with her over several months at the end of each meeting i asked if she was ...
A. 16 October 2012: Thanks for the feedback. My lipo procedure has been well thought out. My confidence will come from the outside so i can aid the inside. Counseling hasnt helped with the issues. Im lookin into hypnosis tho.... (read in full...)
Is this bad? "Virgin" girlfriend has kissed 80 guys!! What does this say about her?
Q. Is it bad that my girlfriend is only just turned 20 and has kissed around 80 guys. She says it's nothing bad because she's still a virgin, so it's not like she slept around, but that kissing was harmless fun. But what do you guys think? I find it...
A. 9 October 2012: She has as good chance at being a virgin as i have in scoring niki minaj as my girlfriend... or me discovering both pres candidates are consistently tellin the truth.... (read in full...)
He's too "nice" for me and it's a turn off.
Q. I have been seeing this really nice guy for the past 4 months. His "niceness" is starting to bother me, in that I find him to be not as masculine as I'd like him to be. He is the type who always has a smile on his face, who is always polite, ...
A. 9 October 2012: Hes a wuss n his niceness is comin across as an ass kissing mamas boy. Its in ur psychology to find something different. While he showcases good qualities he isnt using them correctly to maintain attraction with u. Boot him out please.... (read in full...)
He's reluctant to try any solutions. But he has trouble getting it up. What can I do about this? What might help?
Q. Hi, My bf and i have been dating for about a year. I think he has performance anxiety. He can get a erection fine, when we make out or when i give him oral, but as soon as we move on to penetration, he loses it. As a result, we have yet to have...
A. 9 October 2012: Will he try enhancements like steel libido or ejaculoid? Ive tried those n they helped somewhat in the sense of getting hard but nothing for anxiety. If hes insecure in how he looks like myself that.could be a cause.... (read in full...)
Why is it so difficult for me to get a girlfriend? Why am I always the guy who girls don't look at in a romantic way?
Q. I give up. What does it take to be dateable? I just don’t get it. I’m told that I have a great, easygoing personality. I’m pretty average I’d say. 5’9, 150 pounds, thin to medium build. I’ve even been told by both my male and female friends ...
A. 21 September 2012: So if anyone wants to come here and tell this guy to continue being himself... be my guest. Youll be wasting your time and his.
Pal, adapt. Women are ONLY attracted to certain kinds of personalities. They prefer a cocky n funny personality. Dont... (read in full...)
Do steroids affect relations with others?
Q. I want to know if any of you have had a friendship or relationship with any man whose done steroids? What mood changes did they experience? How did you deal with them? Etc thanks for any input....
A. 18 September 2012: Thanks all. My goal is to lose fat not gain muscle but points are well valid. My experience with women has been bad because of my personality. Its lack of more positive feedback and the greater presence of neg feedback from women about my looks that ... (read in full...)
Do steroids affect relations with others?
Q. I want to know if any of you have had a friendship or relationship with any man whose done steroids? What mood changes did they experience? How did you deal with them? Etc thanks for any input....
A. 15 September 2012: The bug thing u describe is blood flowin to muscles. Its an amazing feeling. I joke at my gym too but rarely as it takes me out of focus and into unwanted convo. I want to look good and i dont say tht lightly. I know what what women want and ill do ... (read in full...)
Do steroids affect relations with others?
Q. I want to know if any of you have had a friendship or relationship with any man whose done steroids? What mood changes did they experience? How did you deal with them? Etc thanks for any input....
A. 14 September 2012: Thank u for the valuable feedback both of you.... (read in full...)
What chance do I have with a normal woman if my only experience is with hookers?
Q. I'm not sure how to go about this. Just let's say that I have some serious issues that would probably prevent me from ever developing a successful relationship with someone. For starters, I was a late bloomer sexually speaking, with my sex life onl...
A. 11 September 2012: Hey pal im a late bloomer too i lost mine at age 25 sadly enough n now i find myself playing catch up. I lost mine to a sex worker too ill say and have been with ten more since. Ive been with normal women too and to attract them its a formula on ... (read in full...)
I'm only 18 and have slept with 28 guys, do I have a problem?
Q. Okay so I am an 18 years old female. I will be 19 in November. A few weeks ago I was thinking about exactly how many guys I've slept with. I wrote it down and came to 28. I know its a really high number and probably makes me look like an anonymous ...
A. 7 September 2012: Possibly but im not judging. Its possible u r needy insecure n only way for u to feel validation is to be with men. Do u like sex? Or is it more emotional ur seekin from men!? Id look into professional counseling. Good luck doll.... (read in full...)
Should I get the gastric bypass surgery done?
Q. I'm 16 almost 17, I have always been overweight and at this time in my life I think I'm ready to move forward and start working to lose my weight. I'm in the 300s and I'd really love to lose this. I know people are going to say your young and w...
A. 6 September 2012: hey doll. get ur diet in check. u can get the surgery but if u maintain the lifestyle u have u will put the weight back on. Getting and maintaining a stellar physique is about lifestyle changes and adaptation, not just a surgery. cover all your ... (read in full...)
Your opinions on the state of virginity in teenagers today.
Q. This question is not really a screaming for help, but most likely is just for own purpose, I just want to know other opinions. Since my 'career' in dating started, I woke up and realized that girls, lost their virgins younger than ever. I mean, from ...
A. 29 August 2012: Solid post man. Perhaps ur facing pressure? Honestly i held back n shouldnt have. Shoulda lost it in my teens when my emotions werent as developed as they are now. If u have no problem attracting unlike me at ur age then man id just get it done with ... (read in full...)
Why did I sleep with my best friend's husband? I know I betrayed my friend. How do I fix this?
Q. My best friend, her husband and I have been friends since the 10th grade. My friend and I both got married 2 years after we left high school. I got divorced and they remained married. Throughout the 16 yrs that they've been married they both have...
A. 19 August 2012: I think they make rap songs about this typical scenario... BLAME THE ALCOHOL. Wise up with your use of that and youll have things under control. Now, its best to come clean and be honest with your friend. Good luck.... (read in full...)
I'm twenty-nine years old and depressed about being a virgin.
Q. Here's my situation, I'm 29 going on 30 and I'm still a virgin, I haven't even been kissed yet, mainly I can attribute my situation to rock bottom self esteem due to being teased about my weight my entire life, basically I was raised to believe that ...
A. 18 August 2012: Screw this virgin stuff lol lets talk about ur massive weight loss!! why have u stopped working out? keep at it. Hasnt that boosted ur confidence at all? It has somewhat for me. Shit. Women cant keep their hands off of me now :).. unlike before ... (read in full...)
Am I superficial for caring so much about a guy's appearance?
Q. Hi please don't take me as a negative superficial person,and don't judge,just help me through this.. I have been into fashion,beauty all that since as long as I can remember..so when I see a man not dressed up well for me its a HUGE turn off!!I l...
A. 18 August 2012: Ignore your emotions. They shouldnt drive ur decision about attraction. Attraction is an instinct and it isnt a choice so by this being a turn off it is instinct that says "ick". Tell ur guy to dress up and reciprocate what u give to him when dollin ... (read in full...)
He verbally abuses me, we had a fist fight, I don't trust him but I love him!
Q. Hello Agonies. Let me get straight to it..I seem to can't let go and move on from my bf, no matter what he ever did or said to me, whom has cheated on me 5x's, he's very disrespectful, he wants to act like a stray dog and do what he wants to do. ...
A. 7 August 2012: Grow some balls n get rid of him. Best advice youll get right here from me all day.... (read in full...)
Struggling to maintain an erection....
Q. Ill bring this to the board I guess... Im strugglin maintaining and sometimes even getting wood in the bedroom. It doesnt matter if its a woman who desires me or not I fave the issue. My thing is this I feel that if I do not look a certain way and ...
A. 6 August 2012: Thank you.... (read in full...)
Why is this guy I like treating me like trash?
Q. I am just very hurt because a guy I liked treats me like a trash or cheap whore something.. He disreapects me and absolutely dose not care about me. He did not ask to have dinner just used me as a booty call. this guy I met at the club. Is...
A. 29 July 2012: UPut ur foot down. Man up n be tough. Youre an adult and are capable of filtering bad n good people in ur life. I have absolutely no sympathy for u. None. Good luck.... (read in full...)
My husband addict masturbating instead having sex with me and he always rejecting me when I tried made move or touch him.
Q. I just wanna to swear . I'm miserable wife. People kept saying I'm young cus i will be 28 next month. My husband always having masturbating himself since before married me and still now. We already married for nearly 9 years and this has to stop ...
A. 25 July 2012: Id highly suggest professional marriage counseling. Lots of issues here. If it makes u feel better this is one reason im not married im so used to.pleasing myself i take fault for it since i didnt have a body or personality desirable to women. ... (read in full...)
Is it okay to experiment with women to gain sexual experience even though I won't be dating them?
Q. Recently I was having a chat with a friend and the subject of my virginity came up. He ask why I still choose to keep it because girls our age aren't anymore. He got me thinking that when I do find a girlfriend that she would have slept with many ...
A. 25 July 2012: My field of expertise lol. I lost mine at 25. Wish it was sooner man i still feel like im playing catch up. Putting a few notches on ur belt shows u have sexual worth n are comfortable with the idea of sex
To women that shows confidence n thats sexy... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a micro-penis condition and I don't know what to do.
Q. I've just come across this site because I've been researching the 'micropenis' condition. I hadn't ever heard of this up until a few hours ago. I've been going out with this amazing guy for three months now and have never been happier. As ...
A. 25 July 2012: He was quite possibly nervous as all heck. Anxiety fear or stress hurts bpmers. Im still dealing with several sexual issues n havent had sex for a long time because of it. Hypnosis may be my only solution but with him maybe he needs to relax more. ... (read in full...)
How do I ask a girl out? I really need help!
Q. How do you ask a girl out? Im a tall guy and the girl i would like to have a relationship with is a shorter woman. I have never had a girlfriend before so i dont know how you ask a girl out. All i need is some good tips and advice. I would like to ...
A. 25 July 2012: Be confident. Women at nervousness n shyness. Maintain eye contact wink nod.. at ur age focus on body language it speaks volumes to women. Talk about interesting topics not weather or sports or work. Create unique refreshing convo. Ask for ... (read in full...)
He has a girlfriend, but I get the feeling he's into me.
Q. I met up with an old friend, who has a new house and a new girlfriend, yet he invites me over every week in the evening when his gf is not there. Is he into me? Okay, the above was basically the cliff notes version. Here's a more elaborate descri...
A. 25 July 2012: Really all that n that one question? Yes hes into you.... (read in full...)
Am I just not made for sex or relationships?
Q. I can’t seem to enjoy sex. The other night after a drunken evening out I ended an 8 year ‘drought’ on sex. It was with a girl I’ve liked for some time now but I guess the fact I am not confident with girls and have not had much experience I find the ...
A. 25 July 2012: Stop drinkin n bringin it with intimacy. This ruins everything. Booze is a depressant so its bound to.bring u down in every way. Take this girl out n talk to her. A date wouldnt be a bad idea just dont be a wuss n pay for her. Good luck.... (read in full...)
I'm only friend material!
Q. Guess I’m looking for whatever advice I can find. I just don’t know what to think anymore. Here’s my problem. I’m a 26 year old guy and I get no interest from girls. Physically I’m 5’9”, 145 pounds, average build, blue eyes, and short brown ...
A. 23 July 2012: Attraction isnt a choice its instinct and women have no.control over it. Either they want ur dick or not. Women see u as a provider not a lover ie stop being nice n sensitive n caring. Develop a cocky n funny attitude with women. Its irrestible to ... (read in full...)
Husband only wants blow jobs.
Q. I've been married to my husband for 4 1/2 years. We started out having a great sex life. We were having sex up to 3 times a day. After the birth of our daughter we were down to twice a week and he complained that it wasn't enough. Our libidos seemed ...
A. 20 July 2012: Sounds to me like hes using you. Id stop all sex until u guys work things out.... (read in full...)
I'm having to chose between the gym to keep my body or my girlfriend!
Q. Here' s the thing. My girlfriend has been complaining of lately that I don't spend enough time with her. I can totally understand her argument because I simply have too much going on to devote a large majority of my time to her. I work full time, ...
A. 20 July 2012: Get jacked n stay jacked bro. Nicely done. Im single cause of my routine n love it. Im so focused determined n driven. Its tough to compromise here try to tho. Good luck.... (read in full...)
I had a threesome with two of my girlfriends, and now I'm wondering whether or not to tell my boyfriend.
Q. I am a girl and currently in a relationship with a boy who I truly love.We have been together for a year.But I feel very guilty and I feel akward whenever im around my bf or my friends.Because just a week ago me and my 2 friends,who are girls had a ...
A. 13 July 2012: Yea u need to tell him regardless if u fear his reaction. He wont be at all pleased since a relationship is a commitment.... (read in full...)
Does he just want to be friends? Is he just scared to make a move? Or is he just playing games?
Q. So there is this guy I met at work and we have been hanging out for a couple months now. At first I thought he really liked me, we hang out by ourselves all the time, he is really sweet and we get along so well. Every time we hang out he gives me ...
A. 13 July 2012: This guy i must give him credit seems to know how to naturally attract women n make them chase. Its possible hes immature n wont state how he feels about u so he plays these little games. So he got drunk n shagged a brod is that classy? No. You dont ... (read in full...)
I want to lose my virginity before I turn 22 in a month's time, but I do not want my first time to be horrible.
Q. Growing up I was taught to respect women, and to never use them. As I finally turned twenty one last year I realized something very sad, that I'm the last of a kind. The 21st century dating world is very different from what I was taught to live in. ...
A. 11 July 2012: Really kid forget this waiting to be in love nonsense. Sex is fun. Just find a girl n get it over with ur first time will .not be great anyway n doin it with a stranger allows no pressure to perform no worries about looks or size.. if its ur time ur ... (read in full...)
I'm about to be a freshmen in high school, how do I talk to guys?
Q. Okayy so im about to be a freshman in high school and how do i talk to guys like im the shyest person you could ever met but if im with my bffs im fine and i love to talk and play ago out i Do Talk to sum bout not alot im just wondering how can i ...
A. 6 July 2012: Relax be yourself and have fun. whatever u do dont do things to be accepted among boys, it will emotionally backfire. Make eye contact with boys, smile, and then they should talk to u. Subtle nonverbal cues can show them youre friendly. If youre ... (read in full...)
I Really need help asking a girl out!
Q. I'm in college and there is this girl in my class who caught my attention from the moment I saw her. I can talk with a girl no problem if I know her personally but I am very shy when it comes to meeting new people, especially girls(whether I'm ...
A. 6 July 2012: Dude chill. She's a girl. Approach her confidently and start a conversation. Women hate shyness and nervousnesd because it shows you're not comfortable in your skin. Talk to her like a friend, dont compliment her. Just talk to her about recomme... (read in full...)
What is the Facebook etiquette on people in a relationship posting sexy pictures even though in a relationship?
Q. About Facebook etiquette....my bf has over 400 friends and when he posts pictures of himself that kinda show him off (wearing a tight t shirt or topless) he usually gets a dozen likes from female friends along with comments about him being hot. I...
A. 3 July 2012: If hes seekin attention as purpose for postin then ya he is wrong. If hes like me and just.confident with.looks then no. Tell him how u feel n do so xalmly. Then compromise.... (read in full...)
How can I overcome my social anxiety with women?
Q. I find it really difficult to maintain any form of relationship with women of my age. My problems do not stem from being unable to talk to women, I can talk but I can't feel comfortable in their company. I feel anxious around them, like they are ...
A. 25 June 2012: Start with eye contact. Hold it til they look away n smile. This is a subtle but clear sign to women ur dominant n confident. They wont think ur creepy unless u have a glass eye or hannibal lecter haircut. Ur displaying paassive behavior. Women hate ... (read in full...)
My guys cum tastes bitter and salty, suggestions?
Q. I know I could google this and read a bunch of articles, but I need help. I've been the only girl that has successfully given my guy a bj EVER! He loves it and I love to please him. The thing is his cum tastes really bitter and salty. The last ...
A. 25 June 2012: Anything sweet. Pineapple is good. Lucky bastard ;)... (read in full...)
I've had anxiety as we had a threesome and his condom fell off!
Q. hi. my girl and i recently had our first threesome with another guy , and the rule for the other guy was to wear a condom. well, while he was in the middle of things, his condom came off. now, im ok with the fact that we did the threesome, but not ...
A. 25 June 2012: Just dont take these risks n youll be fine.... (read in full...)
How can I get a bigger butt?
Q. Hi everyone. Im the slim type but my problem is i have a small butt, how can i get a bigger butt without applying any cream? What kind of exercises are suitable to get a bigger butt? Please your advice are welcome...
A. 24 June 2012: Deep squats... (read in full...)
Why do girls brush off my compliments?
Q. This Question is for girls. So girls you say you love compliments, but why is it that evertime i compliment a girl either while talking or texting they seem to brush it of like they don't care. I mean it's like i say a compliment about there ho...
A. 24 June 2012: cause it shows ur a butt kisser trying to get their approval. Its wussy behavior. Women prefer to be teased politely. Do not and i mean do not compliment women they know they can be hot or talented or whatever. Tgis may seem illogical but read read ... (read in full...)
My wife has been spending time with a younger man for years despite my protests, so should I start something with the younger woman interested in me?
Q. Hi thanks for your time, my wife of 30 years enjoys the company of a younger man she says nothing is going on. I halfway believe it but the pattern of disrepect is really getting to me. I tell her I don't want her going out with him and she laughs ...
A. 21 June 2012: I find this kinda funny my man. You should have ended the relationship a long time ago. Use that instinct. If something is off it prob is. Dont drag crap out n create potential drama. End ur relationship n pursue this other woman. Next time dont ... (read in full...)
Why do people always judge a book by its cover? I want women to see me for who I really am, not just how young I look!
Q. It's been 5 years since I have been in a serious relationship because mainly I haven't found the right woman for me. I'm 39 I'm a straight male with beautiful blue eyes, but I look a lot younger than my age I look to be about 16 ish maybe 20 tops I ...
A. 21 June 2012: Stop!!! Women will not be attracted to generousity n kindness n all that other nice guy bs., right away anyway. Do u have trouble attracting women with ur personality? I did. Body too. Oh well live n adapt right? Eff the be urself crap man change ... (read in full...)
I escaped my Muslim Arabic country and found freedom, but now I have met a lovely Arabic guy his friends are telling him to stay away from me because I don't fit into normal Muslim beliefs! What should I do?
Q. Dear Cupid, I am an Arabic female who escaped from my Muslim Arabic country in the look for freedom, I escaped by my self and it was not easy (I got publishing companies asking me to write my story to be published) I escaped when I was 20 years o...
A. 20 June 2012: You seem to have great confidence in who u r. This is great. Ur personal boundary has a hole in that u get rattled by what others think. Can u co.tact police n file harassment complaints?! Can u move to a different part of the city to avoid these ... (read in full...)
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