Is my attitude to work wrong? My work bores me, I can't wait to get out at 5pm.
Q. I really need your advice! I'm in my late 20's. I work in a chartered accountancy firm and my job is boring. I start counting down the minutes till 5 from the second I sit down. I know that's wrong and I should be grateful to have a job in th...
A. 4 April 2012: First watch office space. Youll cheer the **** up lol. Second yes time to find a new job. Start looking n dont quit til u have one lined up. Youre clearly unhappy prob unmotivated borderline depressed
. just two many red flags. I hear u about the ... (read in full...)
Stuck in a quandary between my wife and my married mistress
Q. I know that I am going to be judged for posting this, but that's okay. I need guidance. I am almost 39. My wife is going to be 42 this year and is already in menopause. We have no children, mostly because my wife is just not a sexual being....
A. 3 April 2012: Hey man. I wont judge ill try to be objective here. Im not going to take sides for who fault it is that ur own marriage is bad. Both parties r usually wrong to some degree. That said seems like itd be better for u to move on. If its with this ... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a guy wants YOU to tie HIM up?
Q. My boyfriend is into restraints, or whatever it's called, where your hands are tied to the bedpost, and sometimes feet are tied to the.... bottom of the bed? wtf is it called? But anyways, he said once that he wants me to tie him up... What do...
A. 30 March 2012: kinkiness lol... (read in full...)
How should I propose?
Q. So I'm sure i found the love of my life. We've been friends since May of last year, and been dating since December. I know it's only been a short time but I know he's the one. I'm not one who ever wanted to get married but for some reason I want to ...
A. 30 March 2012: Bad idea. Youre young, there is distance, its short term so far. Lets see how u feel after five years with the guy, if its the same, consider marriage. Right now, youre setting yourself up for a sheer disaster.... (read in full...)
Is it normal for guys to view porn together?
Q. Hey, I need some perspectives (esp. from guys) on whether guys viewing porn with their guy buddies is a normal thing or not! My bf is open about the fact he occasionally looks at porn sites, and I know he has downloaded videos in the past. He once ...
A. 29 March 2012: Lmao. This isnt normal because its planned and they r isolated together. Id watch it in high school at parties with a group mixed but just viewing. I would talk to him n see what his intentions are. Maybe offer a compromise n watch it with just u n ... (read in full...)
Why did my married collegue keep taking off his wedding ring at lunch?
Q. Hi ! I just had a business lunch with a male colleague. During the entire time, he kept taking his wedding band on and off and twisting it too. It was not very subtle and a little distracting. What does this mean?...
A. 29 March 2012: He was prob just nervous or maybe hes a boxer like me and wants to keep his blood flowing to all fingers :p... (read in full...)
My husband can't keep hard. Is he cheating?
Q. my husband for the past 2 days hasnt been able to get his penis up, but sitting on the couch yesterday looking at me, rubbing up behind while cooking , and in tje shower he did get it up.... but when time to preform his penis wouldnt do ANYTHING, so ...
A. 29 March 2012: Have u put pressure on him in anyway to perform? Has he been stressed out? Is he overweight?... (read in full...)
Why on earth would a woman say something like that to her husband? Should I start playing the same game, to make her realize that I can stray if I am not getting what I want at home?
Q. My wife and I are in our mid 40's and have been married a long time. Lately she has been changing quite a bit: working out a lot, getting botox, wearing revealing clothes out with ner girlfriends, communicating with guys she used to know from high ...
A. 27 March 2012: Send her flowers. Small batch. If her attraction towards u isnt amplified id say theres a problem with attention n communication. Talk to her about the comment n how it makes u feel. Be gentle when stating ur emotion.... (read in full...)
Is it unreasonable to ask your girlfriend to dress a certain way for sex?
Q. Hi everyone, I've been going out with my new girlfriend for a few months now and we've had sex a few times. While it's been great, I find it incredibly arousing when a woman 'dresses for sex' (i.e. lingerie, especially thigh-high stockings). She'...
A. 27 March 2012: nah man most girlz like it when u tell them what u like. It shows confidence.... (read in full...)
Why wont my husband have sex with me?
Q. i am married and have been for 8yrs me and my husband has not had sex for 2yrs. he is 56 and i am 49 for some reason i dont know why he wont have sex with me and i have asked him if it is me and he says no he just says it is him...
A. 23 March 2012: Chances are hes embarrassed to state. Reassure him u want to communicate so u can know whats wrong n possibly help him. Communication is key.... (read in full...)
Why can't I cum during a blowjob?
Q. Ever since my first blow job i haven't been able to cum? This is like 10-12 times now. This girl I see comes over and blows me and she gets frustrated because i can't cum. What can i do to cum when i get a blowjob? Help Please...
A. 16 March 2012: Dont make it a goal to orgasm. Her frustration is putting pressure on u when instead she shouldnt be she should be happy youre a willing participant and willing to have fun. Try different positions. When im sitting and shes kneeling wearing a sexy ... (read in full...)
How do you know if someone is right for you?
Q. How do you know when you're with someone for the long-term, and whether it can last? I'm just wondering if I'm overthinking my relationship with my boyfriend of a year. Basically, he has excellent qualities, he's a good person, I love him. Bu...
A. 15 March 2012: Excellent post. Youre maturing and figuring out what u want in a man. If he doesnt fit then split as for the long term is what youre thinking. Good luck.... (read in full...)
Is it better to tell a guy you like him, or play it cool?
Q. So. I'm into a guy friend of mine. We're both 19. Pretty sure he knows (all our friends know). We hang out a lot and do stuff together and talk quite a bit, but so far he really hasn't been the initiator for a whole lot of it, although he seems to ...
A. 15 March 2012: My advice is to not pursue him. He seems to lack confidence and initiative. You will over time find his behavior soft n woosy and will be turned off by him. He seems to show interest but does lack some communication skills. If this was a ... (read in full...)
The lack of sex has put me in a constant state of frustration and I don't know what to do
Q. Hi there. I am 53 f engaged to 51 m. We have been living together for 2 years and are getting married later this year. I keep putting off the date as I get a knot in my stomach when I think about it. The problem is that sex is not happenin...
A. 15 March 2012: He clearly has sexual interest but putting the energy into porn n other women. This darling is both unhealthy and disrespectful. He isnt satisfied sexually. Talk to him and figure out what his needs are and compromise if needed. Good luck.... (read in full...)
Cheated, broke up, and cannot move on
Q. Exactly a year ago I posted this: I was in a wonderful relationship for over a year and we were really deep in love with one another. Then one day I went for coffee with a guy I used to love and we slept together. I told my boyfriend right after th...
A. 14 March 2012: Yeah ill recommend counseling.... (read in full...)
My g/f has had 35 plus partners and I know 4 of them!
Q. my girlfriend of 10years has had about 35previous partners an i can't stop thinking about it and 4of them i know. i have these feelings of anger alot i still even think theres more an she is lying an theres a chance she cheated with 2 or 3 aswell im ...
A. 9 March 2012: Yeah man either accept it or get out of it. Living with jealousy is ugly and it will get worse if u dont find a solution. Good luck.... (read in full...)
I think I'm in love with my currently platonic best friend.
Q. Let me just start by saying how horrible at the dating game I am. I'm a high school senior girl, and I have yet to have a single official relationship or even kiss a boy. I've had plenty of guys like me over the years, and the farthest I've gone is ...
A. 9 March 2012: Good grief just ask the guy out n see if a relationship is possible for u two.... (read in full...)
What is he really saying when a guy says he's not ready to be in a relationship?
Q. There's this guy and I know for sure he likes me but he says he's not ready to be in a serious relationship because he broke up with his girlfriend 2 months ago. He said that I'm really beautiful and he's given a lot of thought about us. What d...
A. 9 March 2012: It means hes wanting to plow fields more than likely.... (read in full...)
Is there any way to make sure you fall in love and stay in love?
Q. My on-again-off-again boyfriend is coming over this weekend. We've been "off" for a little less than two months now. My concern is that every time we get together after a few weeks apart, the passion we have for each other is intense. But then over ...
A. 9 March 2012: No there is no way to fall in love n stay in love. In fact high emotions to any degree arent healthy. Good luck.... (read in full...)
Does a guy's penis have a mind of its own?
Q. Okay I know this is a stupid question, but I've always wondered this. I almost asked a guy friend, but didn't because I didn't want him getting the wrong idea so here goes: Does a guys penis have a mind of it's own? Do you move it like you move a ...
A. 5 March 2012: I find it easier to think my penis than with my heart... the brain is somewhere in between all that.... (read in full...)
I know he treats me badly, so why do I still have feelings for him and keep coming back for more?
Q. I have been sleeping with this guy for a year now. It has been on and off and he has gone back with his ex gf for part of it and so we weren't together then. So right now I'm laying in his bed but he's not here. He's at her house and I heard so much ...
A. 5 March 2012: Not unusual. Women love douchebags because they are challenges and projects that need putting together, have unpredictable behavior, and have a bad attitude that is mistaken for confidence. First, leave his bed. Second, tell him firmly on the phone ... (read in full...)
How do you reject people you are not interested in?
Q. What is the best way to say no to someone? I just came from a long relationship and I'm just now setting foot in the dating arena again since a long time, so it's a bit awkward. Basically I'm having a hard time rejecting those I'm not interested in. ...
A. 5 March 2012: Easy. Just tell them what women always used to tell my sorry ass... "youre too nice. Im not interested." ... (read in full...)
I've developed a strong hate for gay men because of a failed legal dispute, how do I change this?
Q. Ive been involved in a legal dispute with a major airline the last two years over a discrimination claim. Ive now lost the case and the man I accused of discriminating me is gay. Since the incident (and a few bar happenings), Ive overall developed a ...
A. 5 March 2012: I said a polite hello to one of the gay guys at my gym recently. It wasnt easy.... (read in full...)
Is it true that women never forget their first sexual partners?
Q. I'm a 30 y/o male, got married when I was 28 I have a 19 month old boy. I love my wife and child. But my question is the following: "when my wife and I had intimacy for the first time she made it very clear and reinstated that she wasn't a vir...
A. 2 March 2012: Coming from a land of virgins here yeah its a big deal. Virgins are often.pure in regards to no sexual issues from the past and have fresh relationship minds. At least where i live. In the us i wont go there lol. Dude dont get fixated on ur wifes ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend a pedophile for watching cartoon toddler porn?
Q. Is my boyfriend a pedophile for looking at cartoon porn depicting very young children? We've been going out for 6 months and since we've moved in together I've been secretly snooping on his laptop and have found many things that have disturbed me. ...
A. 2 March 2012: Get away. Stay away. Call the police. That is sick behavior with the cartoons. Read up on pedophiles. Many have a version of child porn on their computer. Thats awful. He needs serious help
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My FWB keeps pushing me for a threesome and I am just not interested. How do I communicate this?
Q. I have a casual acquaintance that I sleep with. We have been together a couple of years. She sleeps with other people, too, and I am fine with that. The problem I am having is that more and more often she keeps suggesting that we involve the...
A. 2 March 2012: Yeah man just straight up tell her youre not interested and dont want it to be brought up again. Dont be soft on the brod. Firmly tell her, not angrily, but firmly tell her youre not into it and want the subject dropped.... (read in full...)
I've developed a strong hate for gay men because of a failed legal dispute, how do I change this?
Q. Ive been involved in a legal dispute with a major airline the last two years over a discrimination claim. Ive now lost the case and the man I accused of discriminating me is gay. Since the incident (and a few bar happenings), Ive overall developed a ...
A. 2 March 2012: In a sense it does matter... if Im so attractive then why did this guy have to go on his racist rant about my name? If he pulled me to the side out of line like he did and said hey youre hot let me suck your dick.. i woulda said sorry man Im ... (read in full...)
I have a sexless marriage and my husband is a sex addict! What do I do?
Q. I desperately need help. I have no one who I can talk to about this and I'm afraid it's going to destroy me. I've been married for 26 years. There is no question it's not a perfect marriage. There are two issues that I am fighting and feel like I'm ...
A. 2 March 2012: hi!
Yeah I would argue youre definitely in a toxic marriage at this point and if you continue going forward you will experience extreme highs and extreme lows emotionally, putting both your mental health at further risk and possibly some other thin... (read in full...)
Does anyone think that some people just aren’t meant to find love?
Q. Hey guys, words of advice would be greatly appreciated. Does anyone here have a problem with confidence. I mean confidence more to do with meeting new people and getting into relationships. I’ve never had a girlfriend, never kissed anyone and ...
A. 1 March 2012: Hey kid
Thanks for comin on here. Now in my experience ive had way more success in getting laid and attention from women when im having fun vs when im looking for a reltshp. In my opinion the emotion is overrated but i wont go into it. Instead it l... (read in full...)
I'm in love with a prostitute!
Q. hi people sorry first for my english grammar. right now im in big emotional problems please the people that don't take that serious or only want two offend me please better dont write nothing. i really dont know how two start im young 27 i had most ...
A. 1 March 2012: Hey pal. As a frequent and adamant suppprter of the profession that u describe i can certainly tell u that she probably likes ur company and attention. If youre paying her more money for the gf experience then shes prob being paid to chat u up. More ... (read in full...)
I've developed a strong hate for gay men because of a failed legal dispute, how do I change this?
Q. Ive been involved in a legal dispute with a major airline the last two years over a discrimination claim. Ive now lost the case and the man I accused of discriminating me is gay. Since the incident (and a few bar happenings), Ive overall developed a ...
A. 1 March 2012: Thank you.
Yeah i have strong conclusive evidence im straight.
He was a gate agent for the airline. Counseling could help as i tried it before during the early stages of the case. His sex orientation has no relevance to the case as he was a racist... (read in full...)
My wife the party girl, how do I get her attention?
Q. I have an issue that is somewhat hard to articulate. My wife is a very outgoing person, who has the ability to connect with people very quickly. She is excited to joke around with other people, and they with her: so much so that in social settings ...
A. 28 February 2012: Dude just talk to her n tell her what u said here. Communicate.... (read in full...)
Does my boyfriend see me as a respectable girl after I give blowjobs?
Q. one time, a close friend of mine and i were discussing sex. i asked him if he was interested in a blowjob and he said if it were coming from a girl he didn't respect, then yes, he would want a bj but if it was from someone he cared about, then ...
A. 28 February 2012: Put it this way.. ANY woman that sucks my dick i have massive respect for.... (read in full...)
I didn't enjoy seeing my wife kiss another woman. Is there something wrong with me?
Q. I'm a guy. I've been married for 2 years. Tonight my wife was out at a friends. I know she's dabbled in lesbian sex, and I'm ok with the idea, or thought I was. Tonight her friend was with kissed her while I watched. (I was at home we were on cam) ...
A. 26 February 2012: Means u have a lot of emotion invested into ur wife and it was violated. Normal man. Tell her u were jealous more than turned on. She should understand to not try it again.... (read in full...)
My husband ogles other women right in front of me
Q. My husband and I got married one year ago. We have been together for 4 years now. Since getting married, he ogles women. He is not in the chase anymore and is comfortable. He does this in front of me. We just went on our honeymoon (kids were with at ...
A. 24 February 2012: Physical attraction is natural. Its how we filter it when we r with someone. Do we initiate? Do we approach? Really its hard not to look. Its hard. I see ur point of view. However engaging in the same behavior could further provoke him. Control that ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend of 2.5 years told me she isn't really attracted to me anymore. Should I just give up and realize it's over?
Q. My girlfriend of 2.5 years told me she isn't really attracted to me anymore. We have a 22 month old son together. In the beginning, we were inseparable but not so much anymore. She has gained a lot of weight since the baby as have I and we're both ...
A. 24 February 2012: Hey man i suggest both of u to get on a fitness n nutrition plan together. Consult with a trainer and get advice then join a gym n be workout buddies motivating each other. Im sensing u guys just need to get back on track healthwise. Really nothing ... (read in full...)
Dating a sexually suggestive woman, how do I turn her on without scaring her off?
Q. I recently started somewhat seeing a slightly older woman and yesterday she was fairly sexually suggestive with her texts, but not sexting. Instead, I played along and made her laugh a lot with my sexual humor. Of course this tells me she is more ...
A. 24 February 2012: Have a date with her tues. My objective is to close ass.... (read in full...)
Dating a sexually suggestive woman, how do I turn her on without scaring her off?
Q. I recently started somewhat seeing a slightly older woman and yesterday she was fairly sexually suggestive with her texts, but not sexting. Instead, I played along and made her laugh a lot with my sexual humor. Of course this tells me she is more ...
A. 23 February 2012: At first it was I'll be honest because the changes I had to make to my personality were huge. Now, those changes are much easier to handle after a bit of practice with women.... (read in full...)
Dating a sexually suggestive woman, how do I turn her on without scaring her off?
Q. I recently started somewhat seeing a slightly older woman and yesterday she was fairly sexually suggestive with her texts, but not sexting. Instead, I played along and made her laugh a lot with my sexual humor. Of course this tells me she is more ...
A. 23 February 2012: Yeah like I can be myself around women. It wont create attraction. I prefer to maintain the changes ive made, including thinking about each word that comes out of my mouth.... (read in full...)
I wish my B/f saw me as one of those ideal girls in dude movies with "big boobs/skinny waist/big butt/slim thighs", instead of the cute girl next door
Q. I always feel so insecure about my body, it's so stupid... I even get really nervous and anxious when watching movies with my boyfriend, especially the type of "dude" movies where lots of perfect boobs are shown. I never say anything in front of ...
A. 23 February 2012: Tell him his comments about other women make you feel insecure. He should know your feelings on that. In terms of wanting to make yourself sexy... its easy. An outfit and sexy heels and a serious crave for dick. Be very spontaneous about putting on ... (read in full...)
Inexperienced! Hand jobs...oral...how do I do this?
Q. There is this great guy I know he's really sweet and cute.I've always liked him and I never thought he could possibly like me back.The other night our group went out to a nightclub and we got left alone together.He asked me to look at him and ...
A. 22 February 2012: Really its all about communication. Eye contact smiling some dirty talk. Stroke him spit lube lotion. Prepare for it. Thats even hotter. Buy a small bottle of ky n keep it with u while youre with him. This way youll be ready and also have the ... (read in full...)
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