My girl friend prefers to sit on the couch and eat. Will not clean unless I am beside her cleaning too. She's lazy and not a team player. What can I do?
Q. Hi, so I am 21 years old. I've been with my girlfriend for about a year now. Let me first say that she is a great girl. She sweet, funny, loyal, worships the ground I walk on and would follow me anywhere. And so would I. But the problem I'm ha...
A. 25 February 2013: Wow. Yea end of the road. Dont tolerate this. End this relationship.... (read in full...)
I am heartbroken at how my mother behaves when drunk. My Bf says she needs help. Would it work to invite her to our wedding? Or not?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years now. My mom is an alcoholic. She wasn't always--but she got into an abusive 2nd marriage and we couldn't get her out of it. It started very soon after her and my dad divorced. Because of her...
A. 25 February 2013: Hey kitten. Yes tough situation. Your mother needs a wake up call in order for her actions to change n perhaps not being invited could serve to motivate her. Dont tell her about the lack of invite or even the date. She's hurt those around he... (read in full...)
She keeps finding fault with me. Though not afraid to ask for presents.Help please, because I am confused about what to do?
Q. My gf and I have been dating for 2.5 years. We spoke today over the phone, and she asked me if I want to know what she feels right now. I said yes. She said that a few days ago, I had put her down. I asked how. She explained that she felt hurt wh...
A. 25 February 2013: What to do? Read dating books man. Dont be a wuss and apologize about something so tedious as a joke about a driving score. I honestly think your girl is miserable because you keep kissing her butt with gifts and giving in to her demands. Dude c... (read in full...)
How can I tell if a girl with a boyfriend also likes me? NO intention of making a move as she has a Bf.
Q. When I first met this girl over a year ago, I asked her out but she told me she has a boyfriend. She was really nice about it though and said we could hang out and be friends. I was ok with that because I just wanted to get to know her. Over th...
A. 24 February 2013: What kind of indicators of interest have u gotten? Does she break eye contact first? Tap ur foot if u tap it first? If u think shes interested talk to her n find out if shes frustrated with her rltshp. She certainly could be while shes waiting for ... (read in full...)
My married lover won't leave his wife for me. Its not fair!
Q. I am deeply in love with a married man that doesn't love me back. Why do all of these lucky bitc*es get their married boyfriend to love them. Let me guess its all about looks?? Only beautiful and attractive women can get the man to fall for them. ...
A. 24 February 2013: Bad decision on ur part doll to mix up with him in the first place. This is part of your consequence. End this relationship... (read in full...)
Am I the most beautiful girl in my BFs life? Not according to his Facebook messages ...
Q. Help I am having self esteem issues now. A couple of weeks back I got a hold of my boyfriends Facebook messages (we made an agreement that we would delete both of ours months ago). Anyway, when I read the messages I saw things that were sweet that ...
A. 24 February 2013: If the messages started while u were dating id be concerned about him playing the field a bit. Id be upset too doll.... (read in full...)
Since our first date he's tried to get me back to his place. Is he just in it for sex?
Q. Hi I've gone on 2 dates with a guy. We got along very well, spent the whole date laughing and talking about how much we had in common. He invited me back to his house both times but I declined. While we were at dinner talking he told me tha...
A. 24 February 2013: This guy doesnt kno how to close. Yes only sex and if u go out again he will prob say anything and I do mean anything in order for u to say yes ill come back.... (read in full...)
After reading my boyfriend's messages he doesn't think I'm hot enough?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for just over half a year, today I checked his Facebook not because I don't trust him. Jus because he told me of an old friend who messaged him recently from Spain, I was interested and so decided to read it, I ...
A. 24 February 2013: Calm down. Its about personality. Youre a star. Other girls arent in his book.... (read in full...)
How do you cut someone you see frequently out of your life?
Q. I need to cut someone out of my life because I believe that is the only way to get them off my mind. I've had a crush on this person for a terribly long time and they give less than a damn about me. They may not be aware that I still like them (I do ...
A. 24 February 2013: Difficult situation. Avoid the group while in college but do things with them outside school that way u can arrange n kno who u will see ahead of time so u can avoid. Or u can confront this person face to face n tell them whats on ur mind.... (read in full...)
I resent my girlfriend because she's hot and I'm not!
Q. I'm a horrible person. I have a really great friend. She is by far the kindest and most sincere and loyal friend I have ever had. She's such a true friend that I truley.think if it came down to it she would throw herself in front of a car to save my ...
A. 23 February 2013: Relax. Self confidence comes from inside not from other ppls approval n that includes getting attention. Perhaps men find u very attractive but r too scared or nervous to approach? You'd be surprised. I am a very handsome guy n I've turned heads of ... (read in full...)
How should I handle this? My beloved bisexual Gf proposed that we have a threesome
Q. My beloved bisexual girlfriend proposed a threesome with a girl (or hooker) of our choice, and i told her that i used to have a wild side in the past, but not anymore, and she keeps mentioning that she wishes she met me back then, which makes it ...
A. 23 February 2013: I agree with treeoflife.... (read in full...)
Based on the rules in my workplace: If we just go out on a date here and there, would that be what they call a relationship? Could our employment be terminated?
Q. I work at a private school. There are rules of conduct for the staff. One of the rules is relationships are not permitted between staff. I am very attracted to a co worker and I can tell she has a serious interest in me. I know why these rules ...
A. 23 February 2013: Do it. I feel u man just be sure to hide it at work n don't do the typical happy hour with co workers. Anything can happen in those scenarios n u don't wanna risk getting caught.... (read in full...)
Based on the rules in my workplace: If we just go out on a date here and there, would that be what they call a relationship? Could our employment be terminated?
Q. I work at a private school. There are rules of conduct for the staff. One of the rules is relationships are not permitted between staff. I am very attracted to a co worker and I can tell she has a serious interest in me. I know why these rules ...
A. 23 February 2013: Do it. I feel for you man. Just be sure to hide it at work. And don't do the typical happy hour with co workers. Anything can happen in those scenarios and you don't want to risk getting caught.... (read in full...)
That are some good opening words to start a conversation with a girl?
Q. So I know their are a few threads out here, but I really need some help or steps I like a couple of girls at my school, and one girl was from my highschool who I'm fond of. I'm a short guy 5'3" and I have a Hispanic accent I've erased my Faceboo...
A. 23 February 2013: Great that ur a face to face guy. Key in on eye contact n body language it speaks volumes to women. Make eye contact smile n wait for her to break it then approach n say hi. Start a convo by something interesting not sports or news. Something like a ... (read in full...)
Why do girls play hard to get when you show them little interest?
Q. Why do girls play hard to get when you show little interest?? I AM just curious? obviously you are not clinging and showing being needy. And what's the best way of getting that girl who plays hard to get? ...
A. 23 February 2013: Loool dive ur head into some dating books man. Its the other way around.... (read in full...)
Why do girls play hard to get when you show them little interest?
Q. Why do girls play hard to get when you show little interest?? I AM just curious? obviously you are not clinging and showing being needy. And what's the best way of getting that girl who plays hard to get? ...
A. 22 February 2013: Loool dive ur head into some dating books man. Its the other way around.... (read in full...)
My Girlfriend Wants to Sleep With a Guy at Work, What to Do?
Q. Me and my girlfriend got together young - she was 17 at the time and we have been together 9 years and I'm more in love with her now than i have ever been. A few months ago i started to get the feeling that she was thinking about being wit...
A. 22 February 2013: Mate the reason why she went ahead n did this was cause u didnt have the guts to end things. She has gotten closure already. I assure u. Its over. She was not entirely honest with u tho about her feelings which tells me there was communication probs ... (read in full...)
I loved her since 6th grade. Now is my shot, should I take it?
Q. Okay, so here is my story. Back in 7th grade (we are sophomores in college now) my best friend and I had huge crushes on one another. We talked 24/7 and couldn't get enough of each other. Out of me being a scared little kid, I missed my shot with ...
A. 21 February 2013: Youre setting urself up for possible disappointment if youve been 'saving' it for her. My opinion is if u dont even kno how to approach this situation which is a simple thing then what makes u think youre mature for a relationship or even ... (read in full...)
Being bullied at work over Facebook?!
Q. I'm 24 and work in IT; mainly on the distribution and delivery side for a small firm. I occasionally do the website for them; I'm a gofer at the firm (someone who does a bit of this, bit of that, no regular role, but is a proper employee). Howeve...
A. 21 February 2013: These people are jealous of you and the only way for them to feel good about themselves is by putting you down. Your boss is a pussy. He is not looking into it. Its politics he will only do so much to butt in and stop this. Workplace harassme... (read in full...)
My guy is 20 and acts like he's 15. I'm pregnant and really love him but he doesn't grow up!
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together for 4 years on and off. Well lately, things has been going downhill. It has been like that for a while now. No matter what i do or say, he still acts like he doesnt care or treat me like i should. In the past...
A. 21 February 2013: Bingo. Attraction isnt a choice. This guy is in his own world so much that u want in so bad u want to be a priority n u want him so ur chasing? Why? I ask why cos ur pregnant. Hes immature prob irresponsible n not ready to be a father. This is a ... (read in full...)
My guy is 20 and acts like he's 15. I'm pregnant and really love him but he doesn't grow up!
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together for 4 years on and off. Well lately, things has been going downhill. It has been like that for a while now. No matter what i do or say, he still acts like he doesnt care or treat me like i should. In the past...
A. 21 February 2013: Bingo. Attraction isnt a choice. This guy is in his own world so much that u want in so bad u want to be a priority n u want him so ur chasing? Why? I ask why cos ur pregnant. Hes immature prob irresponsible n not ready to be a father. This is a ... (read in full...)
My father in law creeps me out. I spoke to him, but what more can I do?
Q. My father in law is always staring at me and gives me long hugs where I feel he tries to get a grab. I've told my fiancé I don't feel comfortable being alone with his dad so he really tries to stick around. Yesterday though they were both outside ...
A. 21 February 2013: Creeper mccreeperton is his name? Good for u in telling him to see a therapist lol cos thats the truth. Seems to me he cant control himself. Your fiancee needs to have a serious talk with him n his mother. The mother needs to kno bc hes lusting ... (read in full...)
When he tried to break up with me I started crying so hard he started crying to and said he would stay but now he doesn't text or call like he used to.
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost three months now. Everything was okay before one of his ex girfriends decided that she wanted to "reconnect". From the actions he is showing he doesn't want her back but she has basically pushed him ...
A. 21 February 2013: Game over. Move on.... (read in full...)
My fiancee sometimes doesn't know his limits on drinking. Not sure when to interfere.
Q. My fiancé and I have been together for 6 years. His drinking has been an issue in the past but not for the last year or so. He's not an alcoholic but when he does indulge he becomes irate very easily. He went out for drinks with his male coworkers ...
A. 21 February 2013: I think your decision to wait til he’s sober to speak is very mature. Your fiancée needs to be more responsible with alcohol. If he can’t you need to split because that is immature and reckless ... (read in full...)
Online woman is pinning all her hopes on me but we are not exclusive. Is it ok if I meet someone else to date till we meet?
Q. I been single over 12 months and joined a few dating sites. Have been chatting to a woman in the USA for about 2 weeks and we really get on. Because we get on she has now set her profile to 'private' so she can concentrate on me, and she has plans ...
A. 21 February 2013: This woman sounds lonely or desperate. Id run. Play the field n dont feel guilty!... (read in full...)
What can I do to persuade my 21 year old daughter to put down the controller and pick up a boyfriend?
Q. I'm concerned about my daughter's social life or rather lack thereof. She's 21 and all she wants to do when she's not at work is play video games. She's never had a boyfriend, is not interested and getting one and is still a virgin. Geez I was ...
A. 21 February 2013: I didnt lose mine til I was 25 n was never a video game addict so why does it matter what age? Get real lady. Dont judge your daughter bc shes made different choices socially.... (read in full...)
Am I pervert because I have fantasies/crushes on younger girls?
Q. Hey Guys ever since i can remember i have had fantasy/crushes on "youthful cute girls" Im 21 and this still remains, Although the problem is this trait is mainly in younger girls(not preteens I'm not a pedo) with the exception of a few in there 21+! ...
A. 21 February 2013: No man thats okay. Imo opinion its about consent no matter the age. Im a mature man n kno what consent means tho n that can be the fine line between breaking laws n rules to having some serious fun. As long as these girls have ur respect r ... (read in full...)
My 15 year old son is running around with an older girl and wont come home!
Q. HI my fellow aunts/uncles were always so good at giving advice that sometimes it's hard to take. Now is that time I ask you for your input on my situation. For the past two years my son who is now 15 has giving me more than a run for my money....
A. 20 February 2013: Hi Doll in my honest opinion his behavior rests on you and how you have raised him. He needs treatment or a serious wake up call which you dont want to see. If he's breaking curfew you have the right to call the police and let them know. You'r... (read in full...)
I love her but she's ready to settle down and I'm not sure that I am. What should I do?
Q. I am 25, she is 30. We got together when I was 22. Our relationship has come to the point where she is ready for engagement, marriage and kids (completely understandable). I love her with all of my heart. She is the one I want to be with for the ...
A. 20 February 2013: Cindycares nails it. Ill mirror her thoughts.... (read in full...)
No matter how much we talk about it, my boyfriend keeps making the same mistakes over and over again! I can' t take it!
Q. I'm not sure what to do in this situation. My fiance and I have been together 3 years. Currently, we're in an LDR, but that's only been for the past couple of months. I have a problem that he keeps making the same mistakes over and over again. I ...
A. 20 February 2013: Calm down. When emotions run high its best to step away for a breather so ppl can collect thoughts then reconvene. Do u want him to risk saying something he doesnt? Risk tempers getting out of control? Desire drama? cause that will happen if he ... (read in full...)
No matter how much we talk about it, my boyfriend keeps making the same mistakes over and over again! I can' t take it!
Q. I'm not sure what to do in this situation. My fiance and I have been together 3 years. Currently, we're in an LDR, but that's only been for the past couple of months. I have a problem that he keeps making the same mistakes over and over again. I ...
A. 20 February 2013: Calm down. When emotions run high its best to step away for a breather so ppl can collect thoughts then reconvene. Do u want him to risk saying something he doesnt? Risk tempers getting out of control? Desire drama? cause that will happen if he ... (read in full...)
Incredibly drunk guy called me gorgeous. Did he mean it?
Q. The other night I went to a party. One of my good friend's roommates was there. He was actually the one who texted me and told me to come party. Anyway, we both got incredibly drunk and started dancing together. It's all a blur now, but we kissed a ...
A. 20 February 2013: Exactly. Men will say anything to get laid while drunk. Dont listen to anything they say good or bad. Understood?... (read in full...)
My birthday's coming up and I have no money. What can I do?
Q. My birthdays coming up, On Friday the 22nd and I don't know what to do since I have no money and I don't have a baby sitter for my 6 month old daughter. Any ideas on what should I do? I just wNt to have a good time. Hopefully someone surprises me ...
A. 20 February 2013: I honestly dont get why birthdays are such a big deal in ur culture. Dont worry about the day n treat it like a normal day youll have low expectations n enjoy it more.... (read in full...)
I'm really trying to save myself for marriage and dating a non-virgin really bothers me
Q. I recently got into a relationship with a guy I really like. We have terrible communication and it makes me angry. He always apologizes for that lack of good communication in our relationship. The thing is, we actually started talking alright the ...
A. 20 February 2013: Yep talk to him. No other way. N find out his sexual needs before u end it.... (read in full...)
I overheard my husband saying he wish I would lose weight. Now I feel sad and like absolute crap!
Q. I don’t know what to do. It all started New Year’s Eve, my husband and I were at his company’s party and I went to grab him another drink. As I was walking back, I saw my husband and one of his employees talking, when I walked up behind my husband ...
A. 20 February 2013: Relax doll. He apologized. You accepted. Move on. If u wanna lose weight do it for u not for ur husband. Im big cos I wanna be big for me and definately not any woman. They are lucky to get a sliver of this pie. Good luck... (read in full...)
My boyfriend goes hours without contacting me but has time to play on xbox?
Q. Should I be pissed off that my boyfriend, of 2.5 years, goes hours on end without contacting me - yet within those hours will play on facebook and xbox? Example: he may text me at noon and then I won't hear back from him until like 10pm but he makes ...
A. 20 February 2013: Unless he's in nursery school I wouldn't worry about his whereabouts doll. lol relax. I know you might be doing the girl thing about not feeling like a priority, however dont feel bad. If you dont hear from him for a bit. Do you have trust issues? ... (read in full...)
Why can't my husband get an answer from his doctor about him having erectile dysfunction?
Q. How common is that, that a man cant get an answer from his doctor why does he have erectile dysfunction? My husband has a bad case of ED and total lack of desire. He went to the doctor, and he dint find anything wrong with him, from medical per...
A. 20 February 2013: What over the counter remedies has he tried to boost his sexual appetite? Its prob psychological. Is he turned on by u? Does he masturbate frequently? Communicate with him n get deeper on this. Im sure there is more to it. ... (read in full...)
Is this a decent way to ask someone to prom? Too cheesy?
Q. Hey all, so I'm asking this girl to the prom within the next week, hopefully. I don't particularly know her all that great, so I'm kinda just winging it. I was going to go all out and spend a decent amount of money on it, or get something while it...
A. 20 February 2013: Keep it simple bro. A rose with a note attached is perfect. Women just like to see the gesture so no need to go all out. If u go all out itll come across as a butt kisser n women dont like that cause it isnt masculine. Good luck.... (read in full...)
How to cope with your man going to prison
Q. im 19 me and my man got busted together hes going to prison. I feel so guilty like its my fault. I tried taking some of his charges but he wouldn't let me. were in love but its so hard for me not being able to see him. im waiting for him but all I ...
A. 19 February 2013: I think your emotions are causing you to make bad decisions. Its obvious you two are trouble when together so whats the point of being with him?... (read in full...)
Boyfriend is ditching me for work and I'm having a hard time dealing with it
Q. To start, I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. From the beginning he's been the type who's needed his space, and isn't much for daily communication. I could accept that, in the beginning. Recently he's come in to more work, and I've...
A. 18 February 2013: I think this guy doesnt have the cajones to end it. He is in establish career mode right now n hes stringin u along n quite honestly ur doing quite well in chasing ill give u that lol but hes not communicating with u about his priorities.... (read in full...)
I have proof that my boyfriend cheated but how do I get him to admit it?
Q. i had a suspision that my boyfriend was cheating so i set up a recorder one nite and sure enough i got my evidence but he stil denies it. How to i get him to tell the truth?...
A. 18 February 2013: Iamheretohelpu nailed it.... (read in full...)
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