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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:When having sex, what makes a girl a good lay and what makes her bad in bed? I hear that many girls get uncomfortable and in turn, turn off guys. Can anyone answer this? Reply to this Question
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (27 September 2011):
 Talk dirty. Wear heels. Nice perfume or lotion. And ill split any woman to pieces who does those three things.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2011): I think just letting go and being yourself in bed seems to be really attractive to men. Imagine what you would do if you were by yourself and nobody is watching. Do that but in front of a man. Every girl knows how to touch herself, every girl knows how to move her pelvis. Ya know? Just do it. Don't worry about your messed up hair or that body part you are not comfortable with. They don't care. They just want to see you enjoy yourself like nobody's watching.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (27 September 2011):
 A girl who lays still like a mattress and is acting like a dead person (silent, no movement) is bad in bed. However, contrary to men, when a girl enjoys herself in bed and does things she enjoys, and focuses on her own pleasure, she is good in bed (this is contrary to men, because a man who only cares for his own pleasure doesn't involve the girl as much).
Being a good lover however is about giving as much as taking. Do things you enjoy for your own pleasure (take) and pay attention to what your partner likes, he will either say this or express this (giving). In general: A man should be more of a giver in bed as women are harder to satisfy, and a woman should be more of a taker since women aren't good at expressing their needs. But you should be able to do both.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2011): A girl who is 'good in bed' is confident and seems into the act and person.
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