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Location: Texas, USA
Favorite color: purple
Favorite food: anything sweet.
Least favorite food: spicy foods.
Relationship status: In a relationship
Ticks: annoying/bratty people. I will usually tell them to just shut up. Also, rude people tick me off a lot.
Likes to: Laugh, smile, and just have great time.
Doesn't like: The rain; I can feel it comming and usually it's not a good feeling.. Stuff that makes me sad. Spicy foods.
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My BEAUTIFUL girl and I are not accepted by others...yet we love each other. What to do?
Q. Hi all. This is my first question so I hope it's good. See, about two months ago, this girl and I (who have known each other all our lives) confessed our love for each other at the exact same time. We have a great relationship and have never ...
A. 31 July 2008: masterofdestiny, I know that the annonymous comment is just thoughtless and airheaded, but my guess here is that he's surprised by the "luck" you had here.
The poster is only thinking of the money you got and how you can solve more problems... (read in full...)
My BEAUTIFUL girl and I are not accepted by others...yet we love each other. What to do?
Q. Hi all. This is my first question so I hope it's good. See, about two months ago, this girl and I (who have known each other all our lives) confessed our love for each other at the exact same time. We have a great relationship and have never ...
A. 22 July 2008: Love is indeed found in the weirdest places.
Now I realize why you say your love will not be accepted. I found this shoking too as MANY would, but I try to accept it as much as I can. I won't preach you on how "bad it is to do it with your sis... (read in full...)
How can I make my brother's girlfriend show herself in her true colour?
Q. My brother has a girlfriend who I can't stand because she calls me names (like, tramp,slut and many more) and makes of fun my friends. I did nothing to her cause by bro would kill me if found mistreat her but give her the right to treat me like ...
A. 18 July 2008: All that I wanted to say was told by all the aunties here, but I want to add something else. If you want a way to prove your brother his girlfriend's true colors, a good way is to buy/get a recorder and record her abuse towards you. Before doin... (read in full...)
My BEAUTIFUL girl and I are not accepted by others...yet we love each other. What to do?
Q. Hi all. This is my first question so I hope it's good. See, about two months ago, this girl and I (who have known each other all our lives) confessed our love for each other at the exact same time. We have a great relationship and have never ...
A. 18 July 2008: Oh my, me and my boyfriend were in a similar situation. A lot of people didn't like me being with my boyfriend. I never found out the reasons, but I think it was mostly jealousy. We never gave in into those people's comments. The only thin... (read in full...)
What does it mean, to blow in the ear, I am clueless, please answer?
Q. What does it mean to blow in the ear?...
A. 18 July 2008: It's a saying. The complete phrase is "Blow in my ear and I'll follow you anywhere." It basically means that you have to flirt a bit to let the other person know you like them.
I think it was in a movie, just my memory can't work out the name.
... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is going to finger me, I want to know how do I behave during the session, any suggestions would be helpful?
Q. me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 months and hes going to finger me like really soon. and i ahvent done anything like that so im nervous on like what to do. like what do i do while hes fingering me? after do i give gim something? any ...
A. 18 July 2008: I assure you that your reaction will come REALLY naturally. Don't really worry about how to act. Just enjoy the moment, because it will be VERY enjoyable.
Now, if you don't want to do anything, then don't do it. Never do something you feel unc... (read in full...)
What do you do if your parents don't want you to date?
Q. i want to start dating guys but what if your parents dont want you to yet and what if they tease you about liking boys what should i do?...
A. 18 July 2008: Although I did this like two times, I wouldn't recommend you to keep your relationships a lie to them. The reason why I don't recommend it is because I felt some guilt for not telling my parents I was in a relationship. Plus, the guys I went out ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to find a boyfriend not into religion?
Q. Hey, I was wondering about this. I want a boyfriend, and one issue i was afraid would come up is that I'm not a religious person. (not that there's anything wrong with it) I know that LOTS of people are religious, and it would probably be really ...
A. 17 July 2008: bebe_girlie, your post offends me. It really doesn't hurt my feelings, but I just find it untrue. I have no religion and that is my choice, but it doesn't mean I have no faith...and it doesn't mean I have no identity. I do believe that God ... (read in full...)
Do I have the right to be jealous and should I trust him?
Q. i've been going out with this guy for about 4 months but there were some complications before that. He still talks to his ex-girlfriend but thats only because it's his best mates sister, in the first month of being with eachother he talked to her ...
A. 17 July 2008: Yes that's true. Friends tend to be biased but they tend to look out for your benefit.
I'm so glad that this helped you. Now the only thing left for you to do is just have a good time while he's away. Good luck!... (read in full...)
Is he just playing me? I really like him but his friend told me he tells lots of girls he loves them.
Q. hey im 13 and i really like this guy who is 16 and i have been french kissing him for a bit but were not going out together. i txt him all of the time and he told me he loves me and i said it back and he has complemented me a few times now. bu...
A. 17 July 2008: I would suggest you to just be careful with this guy.
It is not sometimes recommended for people to listen to rumors because most of them are lies, but there are some that are truthful. Because of this, just stay on your guard.
Don't immedea... (read in full...)
Questions for women about thrush...
Q. Questions for women 1)Is thrush a common problem among women? 2)Do most women have this problem at least once in their life time? 3)How can you keep a check at preventing it? 4)Can this have an effect on your sex life?...
A. 17 July 2008: If thrush means cold sores on the mouth, then we're in the same page.
1. I'm really unsure of this, but I have only seen 3 people having this in their life. My mom, one of my aunts, and one of my friends.
2. I have never had one, but my moth... (read in full...)
How can I turn my life around? I've never had a boyfriend and I have no friends.
Q. I am a woman aged 35. I am really sad, i have no friends, ive never had a boyfriend. I stay inside all the time. I feel jealous of other people. I don't know what to do....
A. 17 July 2008: The first step you have to do is go out into the world.
Based on what you have said, I assume that you have problems socializing. What you could do is go seek help-groups that specialize in helping people with your problem. If you are still un... (read in full...)
I feel as though this was my fault, my friend forced himself on me.
Q. I dont know how to explain this. I dont know if it's my fault... on the 7th July I went to wales, after work, and i got there about 11pm...so after working all day i was tired ect. I was going to see my friend...my best friend...who had...
A. 17 July 2008: If he raped you, you have to report him. And fast. Please go do this now.
I wish I lived in the U.K. so I could help you more with the laws in the country, but I did some research and found this website:
http://www.ra... (read in full...)
Do I have the right to be jealous and should I trust him?
Q. i've been going out with this guy for about 4 months but there were some complications before that. He still talks to his ex-girlfriend but thats only because it's his best mates sister, in the first month of being with eachother he talked to her ...
A. 17 July 2008: I just want to clarify something. Did he tell you that he might go after this girl again? (One of the things you put last).
It's ok to be jealous, but you should really trust him (if he has told you he loves you and you're only for him). Of cours... (read in full...)
Is it over.....forever?
Q. hi everyone so i dont know what to do about this me and my boyfriend got into a fight last nite and he started to pack his things we were talking while he was packinghis things and he put all of his stuff outside and we went for a walk and he told ...
A. 17 July 2008: You have to give him time to think things through.
Also you have to take time to calm yourself down and to think more straight.
I know this sounds ALMOST impossible to do. I know you just want him back so much and now and I know you dont kn... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is going to be away for three months, we can only talk for ten minutes a week, has anyone else been in this position, I want to talk to him so badly?
Q. My boyfriend has been sent to MCTC in Colchester for 3 months. Th elast time I saw him as last Thursday when he went to court he was then taken that day. He is allowed one 10 min call a week and one visit per week - I ma finding it so hard as I ...
A. 17 July 2008: I was in the same situation when I went to spend my last Christmas with my family in a road trip. I only had a phone with 250 minutes that everyone used and I had to make the minutes last for 8 days. I decided to make the calls last for 25 minutes ... (read in full...)
Does he want me to regain the weight I lost, because he likes larger women, or what, he lost, and he looks good, he also watches skinny girls in porn, what goes?
Q. I have lost weight and still in the process of losing. I'm feeling sexier and more confident and finally fitting back into my skinny jeans. I was telling me boyfriend the other night how much I have lost. He told me he'd rather that I gain some ...
A. 17 July 2008: I think you should tell him how you feel in your new body. You could also throw the health card. I understand where he comes from with his comment against girls who are thin.
One thing that came up in my mind when you mentioned your porn issue is... (read in full...)
The language of fans - A solution to teenage drama?
Q. After reading an abnormal amount of questions along the lines of "He looked at me, does that mean he likes me?!", I got to thinking about how much easier life could be if there was some sort of way we could communicate emotions without confusion. ...
A. 17 July 2008: I had to search about this in my AP English course last year. It was an extra project to to earn extra points for the final exam. I was too lazy to do it.
I was still curious, though, on what the whole "language of the fan" meant. Thanks for taki... (read in full...)
I don't just want him to email me, I'd like him to call sometimes - What can I do?
Q. Hi all, I've been reading this site and there is some EXCELLENT advice here, so thanks to all of you who're willing to dish it out. My question is - I like this guy. We've been casual dating for almost two months, no sex yet since it take...
A. 17 July 2008: There are some people who aren't very comfortable calling people on the phone. Maybe your guy is like this.
Now, I think you really should tell him. Try to tell him subtley. The way I would do it is make a sweet voice and tell him "sweety,... (read in full...)
I really like this guy, but we're both leaving, can our relationship work?
Q. okay so Ive been dating this guy for awhile now. since begining of april. I have never been so into a guy befor. I know we love eachother. Only thing is this fall he is leaving for school, and I am leaving for a 9 month program were i cant come hom...
A. 17 July 2008: Love knows no barriers.
What you could do is start a long-distance relationship. Set times of when you can talk on the phone. Set times when you can talk on the internet. Write to each other.
As stated before, love knows no barriers. It doe... (read in full...)
I need tips on how to please girls sexually. I'm bisexual.
Q. ok, well, here goes, i am 14, and i AM for a fact bisexual, ive accepted that fact, you might think,. "oh shes too young", but i am more experienced and have seen more than you think. my problem is, i have been fingered by a past gf, and had sex and ...
A. 17 July 2008: You did fall into the stereotypes:
Gays sleep with a lot of people: YOu fell into this one since you said you're "experienced". This is one of the stereotypes I hate the most since it makes people hate gay people. My gay friends don't follow t... (read in full...)
How do I talk to a boyfriend that thinks I'm a compulsive liar?
Q. I have been in a relationship with my BF for a little over a year. He doesn't trust me and I spend all my time with him. Now I feel like everything I say is wrong so I don't even speak. he gets so mad at me and tells me I'm a compulsive liar and a ...
A. 17 July 2008: No matter what you tell this guy, he will not believe you.
There might have been a factor that made him not trust you, but a guy at his age should act more mature than this. This guy is not good for you. This kind of conduct souldn't be expected... (read in full...)
I need tips on how to please girls sexually. I'm bisexual.
Q. ok, well, here goes, i am 14, and i AM for a fact bisexual, ive accepted that fact, you might think,. "oh shes too young", but i am more experienced and have seen more than you think. my problem is, i have been fingered by a past gf, and had sex and ...
A. 17 July 2008: Why don't you try to mimic what they do?
I'm sorry, but I really feel you're really young to be engaging in sexual relationships with people. I'm glad you have accepted yourself, but you're still too young to be having sex. It's just sad that you... (read in full...)
I've fallen for this lad, but I don't want my heart broken all over again. I would be grateful for any advice.
Q. hello there! okay so this is quite a long confusing question/problem but im hoping people can help! anyways...ages ago i went to this place (i dont really wanna name it) and i saw this lad there and i was like omg! lol anyways i was guessing tha...
A. 16 July 2008: I think the first thing you should stop doing is visiting where he works.
After that, try to entertain yourself by doing some hobby. If you don't have a hobby, you could think of one by thinking of what you like. For example, if you like to draw,... (read in full...)
Students Falling in love with Their Teachers can really hurt? Your Opinions?
Q. Students look up to teachers because they're smart. They are mature. They're possibly good looking. They've had interesting lives. All the things all people look for in a character. But students can't do anything about it. ...
A. 16 July 2008: I think you should read this:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-falling-for-your-teacher-is-never-good.html
I understand where you're coming from and what you're saying. The reason why people tend to try to not understand the student is b... (read in full...)
I can't help but feel jealous. How can I stop?
Q. A relative of mine is very sucessful and has his own company and he has a gorgeous huge house here in the uk and 1 abroad.Also he owns high spec cars. I am very proud of him for what he has achieved but i cant help but feel jelous. I shouldnt be ...
A. 16 July 2008: You have to remember that the richest person in the world is the one that is truely happy.
I remember I had read a story a long time ago. It was this man that could afford anything. He was so rich that he could live without working the rest of ... (read in full...)
Why is his ex still so keen, despite of my presence?
Q. I'm suffering from extreme jealousy. My boyfriend has a lot of female friends, who he knew before me. He's also been single for seven years. My main issue is his ex-girlfriend. She lives in the US, while my bf and I live in the UK. The two of...
A. 16 July 2008: Is she aware of your presense?
Although I understand why you feel jealous, to me it sounds that she's leaning more to the "friend" side than the "persuit of relationship" side. My reason is because I have sent emails like to some of my friends,... (read in full...)
Is it over.....forever?
Q. hi everyone so i dont know what to do about this me and my boyfriend got into a fight last nite and he started to pack his things we were talking while he was packinghis things and he put all of his stuff outside and we went for a walk and he told ...
A. 16 July 2008: It does sound like he wants some space and then come back for you, but who knows. You asked "is it over...forever?", well, no one knows because no one knows what your boyfriend is thinking.
The things he told you do sound like he wants to give the... (read in full...)
I told my friend I was gay and she still hasn't said anything
Q. I told my friend a couple days ago that I was gay. I told her that she was the only one I told and that i just need help. She said she wasn't judgemental or anything like that but she won't talk to me. And I have no on else to tell. I have another ...
A. 16 July 2008: You have to remember that no matter what you are or do, that your parents will always love you. I have asked my mother that if my brother reveals he's gay (he's really not, it's a hypothetical question), will she accept him. She said she would even ... (read in full...)
My 16 year old best friend, is pregnant and scared, I want to help her, what advice can you give me to tell her, in her time of need?
Q. my friend is havGng a huge problem... shes 16 and pregnant.. i love her (as a friend) and id stay beside her and help her through the fiery gates of hell shes my best friend and id do anything for her but i dont know what to do to help her...
A. 16 July 2008: The best thing you can do to help her is to stay by her side.
Yes, this sounds like such a simple answer, but it's the best thing you can do for her. Stay for when she panics at anything. Stay if any problems happen to her and be a supporti... (read in full...)
After our breakup, because I was seeing my ex, we are sort of back together, will he trust me in the long run, and do you think we will stay together?
Q. about 5 months ago I was dating a guy..who at the time I liked, but didn't really take seriously because I was obviously stuck on my ex boyfriend/first love. While I was dating this other guy I was also seeing my ex boyfriend on special occassions ...
A. 16 July 2008: Ok, you do have the will power to stop going back and forth to your ex, the truth is that you want to keep on doing it. What you're saying is really bull. He's not pointing a gun at you when he comes, right? he doesn't give a threat warning that he ... (read in full...)
My girl's broken up with me for the 3rd time after I told her a lie..
Q. I just broke up with my girlfriend after about 8 months, but we had been good friends for the longest time. This hasnt been the first time its happend, its actually been the third. The first two times we got back together within a week of the break ...
A. 15 July 2008: This is a classic "Do today what you can do tomorrow" scenario.
Now I think your girlfriend overreacted about your lying, but I also think you haven't told enough. A person who's in a relationship will not snap like that and end everythi... (read in full...)
Crazy in love with my boyfriend and his brother.
Q. well, i'm just wondering if i'm crazy... there's this boy named jonathan. and i'm crazy in love with him. we havn't had sex because he thinks theres more to love than sex. i've given him aq blow job. on my own person opinion. his brother is a guy...
A. 15 July 2008: You can't be in love with two people. It's impossible. If you say you are, you're lying to yourself.
Now I don't understand your question. You want to get over Jonathan, your boyfriend, so you can stay with Victor, his brother who has a girlfrie... (read in full...)
How dangerous is breathing in helium?
Q. Hello, this is a weird question but is it real dangerous to breathe in helium from a balloon? Me an my friends did it for a laff but i read on the internet that it can make you really ill. Plz help, i'm worried now. x.x.x.x....
A. 15 July 2008: It is as dangerous as sounding like a chipmunk.
The only thing that you can get from breathing helium is that you may get dizzy but this is quickly fixed by a quick take of air, something that's proven to be good.
If you ever try getting heli... (read in full...)
Sex it over in minutes! How can I delay his excitement?
Q. My Bf always gets too excited during foreplay that the sex is over within minutes and tips on how i pospone his excitement so we can 'go' for longer?...
A. 15 July 2008: You can do very little here because you can't control your boyfriend's body.
But what you could do is to do less stuff in foreplay and to get on the action earlier than other times.
And what your boyfriend could do is to masturbate more.... (read in full...)
I want to blow his mind - among other things! Tips, please.
Q. Does anyone have any sure fire tips to giving the perfect blowjob? I want to blow my bf's mind! Cheers x...
A. 15 July 2008: Well, here are a few tips.
You have to really show that you're into it. When you're doing your job, look at him at the eyes. He will love that. Also show that you're enjoying it too because if you show any sign of uncomfortableness, he will fee... (read in full...)
You're probably luckier than you think!
Q. Guys, how old were you when you first entered a relationship? 11? 12? I know one guy who went out with a girl at the age of 7 years old. It tends to vary, of course, but it's normally around 10-13 these days. Perhaps some of you decided to wait lon...
A. 15 July 2008: Actually, I was in the same situation.
I remember looking at girls being with guys holding hands and kissing. I was just an observant, being wondered at this trend, then realizing I wasn't part of it. I actually never wanted to be part of it, but ... (read in full...)
Could this be an eating disorder? Or is it all in my head? Also, how can you gain weight in a proper, safe and reasonable way?
Q. I'm a little underweight. I'm 13. When I eat I can't have more than 4 bites without wanting to throw up. Could this be an eating disorder? Or is it all in my head? Also, how can you gain weight in a proper, safe and reasonable way? OhI also ...
A. 15 July 2008: Like many of us said, you have to go seek a doctor. And please do it soon before it's too late. What you have sounds serious, but only your doctor can know that. ... (read in full...)
How do you define "love" ?
Q. I read a question posted recently that got me thinking: Can you fall in love before sex? Well, the answer is plain and simple: of course! But what I started thinking about was, how do people view love and sex? I know for a fact, for instance...
A. 15 July 2008: This was very precious to read. I just wish many people your age would think like you.
Those people are incredibly silly. Sex does not automatically mean "to be in love". Thankfully, you have seen through this illusion and you will probably... (read in full...)
I want to test the waters to find out how much he likes me
Q. I met this guy a couple years ago through a mutual friend. We get along great, and whenever we are around each other there is good chemistry between us. I've been in love with this guy for quite some time now. How could I go about finding out if ...
A. 15 July 2008: You could start flirting with him more than you usually do. Use your feminine charms!
You could also try to spend more time with him. Get him to know you more and you know him more. When you think he's comfortable with you, ask him subtle question... (read in full...)
Was he always wanting me and I just never noticed?
Q. OK, this has been bothering me lately... I have a boyfriend, that from the begining of 6th grade, I've known him. We had an assignment, did it, and we still hung out. I helped him with Math, he helped me with Science. I secretly liked him, but I wa...
A. 15 July 2008: It really seems that he did want you before but don't feel too guilty that you didn't notice. Sometimes we don't notice or ignore when other people like us like that because we don't want to get our hopes up.
Now, just enjoy your relation... (read in full...)
Asexual? I'm rarely interested, and when I am I get rejected.
Q. I'm 24, M, hetero, virgin, and have never dated anyone romantically in my life. I'm rarely interested in other people, and when I am...I am usually rejected. Nobody I am interested in has ever been interested in me. I'm pretty successful for m...
A. 15 July 2008: Since you're putting all your stats, why don't you put them in an internet dating site?
www.Match.com
www.eHarmony.com
You'll probably get to know someone in there that might interst you and that you'll be interested of. They match the c... (read in full...)
What sex positions are most popular, and also unpopular, with women?
Q. what posistions do women love and hate?...
A. 15 July 2008: Remember: It's not the size that matters, it's how you use it.
May be this a lesson to all men who worry about it.... (read in full...)
Could this be an eating disorder? Or is it all in my head? Also, how can you gain weight in a proper, safe and reasonable way?
Q. I'm a little underweight. I'm 13. When I eat I can't have more than 4 bites without wanting to throw up. Could this be an eating disorder? Or is it all in my head? Also, how can you gain weight in a proper, safe and reasonable way? OhI also ...
A. 15 July 2008: You want to throw up because your stomach can't handle the food or because it's something you wish to do?
The reason why I think you pass out and black out is because of malnutrition.
You have to go and seek a doctor. He's the only one who... (read in full...)
What sex positions are most popular, and also unpopular, with women?
Q. what posistions do women love and hate?...
A. 14 July 2008: The only kind of sex that women (and men) don't like is the one that's not plesurable. Usually most positions work out and for me, all of the ones I've tried with my boyfriend have, but if I were to chose the one that I like the most, I would say ... (read in full...)
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