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I think I might be pregnant and I'm only 15!

Q.   i think i might be pregnant and im only 15! i am with the person whos it will be and have been 4 9 months now. tests r 2 expensive and they dont do them 4 free any where now. what am i suspose to do? and do u think my life will be over if i have a ...

A.   24 July 2008: you can go to planned parenthood which is a free organization..they can tell you if you are pregnant and they are legally unable to notify your parents without your consent.. I go to planned parenthood for birth control and every time they ask ... (read in full...)

I don't think my mom loves me anymore...

Q.   Hi. My mother fights me all the time. When I'm around she snickers at every word I say and rolls her eyes at me. I had to stay with her for a couple of weeks and she yelled at me for using the toilet paper I bought, tells me to do dishes and ...

A.   24 July 2008: Well I hope that it goes good for you...Honestly I would take both mine and the other responders advice...set boundaries and let her know..your a grown woman..and if she can't respect you..then she can't be around you..that includes you kids..it'll ... (read in full...)

Do I have the right to be jealous and should I trust him?

Q.   i've been going out with this guy for about 4 months but there were some complications before that. He still talks to his ex-girlfriend but thats only because it's his best mates sister, in the first month of being with eachother he talked to her ...

A.   24 July 2008: Your welcome I'd help anyone that needed after people on here helping me it's worth the time..Any ways I hope that things go well for you and this problem doesn't consume you...You just got to have faith that he adores you too much that it wouldn't ... (read in full...)

I don't think my mom loves me anymore...

Q.   Hi. My mother fights me all the time. When I'm around she snickers at every word I say and rolls her eyes at me. I had to stay with her for a couple of weeks and she yelled at me for using the toilet paper I bought, tells me to do dishes and ...

A.   23 July 2008: My mom is very much the same way. She started treating me the way your mom treats you about five years ago when my oldest brother left for the navy. She used to literally fight me and treated me like I was her slave. The only places that I could ... (read in full...)

Is it me or the porn that keeps him going longer?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now. We just graduated high school and I have lived with him for almost a year now. I spend every other weekend at my aunt's house and when I come home I find that he has spent most of the time ...

A.   23 July 2008: Thanx you guys after reading what you guys said I researched up some others questions and it all helped me come to a conclusion. He (just like every other guy) have to see a variety maybe it's to keep the from getting bored with the same thing all ... (read in full...)

What is so appealing about the women in porn? And how can I feel better about myself?

Q.   I know this is probably asked around a lot, but I just can't help but feel awful. I've checked out porn, and while yeah, some porn starts have downright UGLY faces, make squirrel like sounds (how can you guys get off to that pitch?) and most...

A.   22 July 2008: I too share the same problem with my boyfriend, however I have spent the past two days reading questions similar to this one and writing my own. By doing this I got a pretty good idea of why porn has become such a big thing for men and why ... (read in full...)

Bush wants to redefine birth control as "abortion", what do you think?

Q.   This site seems to have a good cross section of folks from different walks of life, so I wanted to see what people out there think about this. The Bush administration is proposing a redefining of the term "abortion" to include birth control. The ...

A.   22 July 2008: No in fact that can't be farther from the truth. Abortion is the act of killing the unborn fetus, you are already pregnant when this occurs. However, birth control is a method of hormones that is released to trick your body into thinking that it ... (read in full...)

How can I stop being so needy?

Q.   my boyfriend of nearly 3 years said to me today, "if you don't stop being so needy i'm not going to want to be with you anymore".. he has a point i am very needy and if he doesnt reply to my texts i call him asking why, and i'm constantly fussing ...

A.   22 July 2008: ok what exactly are you needy about? His attention or just obessively needy of him. I too have had this problem with my boyfriend actually I became very needy of his attention because I was fighting for it from his dad he would spend most of his ... (read in full...)

Do I have the right to be jealous and should I trust him?

Q.   i've been going out with this guy for about 4 months but there were some complications before that. He still talks to his ex-girlfriend but thats only because it's his best mates sister, in the first month of being with eachother he talked to her ...

A.   22 July 2008: I had some of the same problems with my boyfriend. See my parents made me move to georgia from new york with them and left him behind. We stayed together but he always suspected me of cheating on him ... (read in full...)

I can't sleep. I can't keep calm. I can't afford to get it wrong. I can't afford to fail. What? Oh. My driving test, of course!

Q.   This isnt about relationships but please help! I have my driving test on friday and im so scared becasue i cant afford to fail it, mainly because the test centre is closing down, so i wont be able to do another test there, i cant afford any more les...

A.   21 July 2008: I know exactly what you mean my drivers test is tomorrow and I'm wicked nervous because that is how I will get back and forth to college next semester. The key is to relax and and especially when you are driving. Remember the rules however try to ... (read in full...)

How can I please my man? What Sex positions do men prefer?

Q.   I need tips on how to please my man. Is there any sexual positions that men prefer when having sex with their partner?...

A.   21 July 2008: Well when me and my man are having sex, he always asks me to get on top of him with my feet flat on the floor and start thrusting up and down on him, I use his help for leverage to make it easier but you both will love it he feels every inch ... (read in full...)

What shows they care about you, without the words?

Q.   Ok so I was wondering is there a way you can tell if a person really cares about u without them actually saying so?? Are there any signs?...

A.   21 July 2008: I used to think that there were signs but I have a hard time telling myself. My boy friend of 3 yrs has asked me to marry him and gives me anything I really want material wise, however when he is grumpy I'm usually the first one he gets mad at. ... (read in full...)

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