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Location: Texas, USA
Favorite color: purple
Favorite food: anything sweet.
Least favorite food: spicy foods.
Relationship status: In a relationship
Ticks: annoying/bratty people. I will usually tell them to just shut up. Also, rude people tick me off a lot.
Likes to: Laugh, smile, and just have great time.
Doesn't like: The rain; I can feel it comming and usually it's not a good feeling.. Stuff that makes me sad. Spicy foods.
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My online boyfriend isn't talking to me that often, help!
Q. I'm very troubled...My online 14yo boyfriend of almost 4months isnt talking to me that often...I couldnt tell you how many times i have tried to contact him, only 1ce in the past week he's said something to me. I dont know if he is avoiding me, lost ...
A. 16 August 2008: Are you sure that it's him? Don't you think it's his parents or someone else?
But nevertheless, I already told you about my experience with online dating. Don't expect too much from this one as he seems to not be willing to put effort on it.... (read in full...)
We met online and she said she would meet me if I vote for her (she's a model)...
Q. A couple of months ago I started chatting to a lovely girl (well, she seemed lovely!) on a general chat site, and she gave me her email address. We started chatting on Yahoo! Chat, for a while, and then she said she wanted to meet. I agreed, ...
A. 15 August 2008: And also there's that thing called greed.... (read in full...)
We are both 16, and all we want to do is cuddle in my bed, my parents absolutely won't allow it, how do I get them to understand that we are not going to have sex, we only want to hold each other?
Q. im 16 and my gf is the same we want to cuddle in my bed but my parents wont even let her set foot in my room do u have any advice on how i can convince them dat we will jus be cudlin and not goin to have sex...
A. 15 August 2008: I don't know why you take your parents as suckers.
Like all the aunties said, your parents will in NO WAY allow you and your girlfriend to stay in the bedroom. No matter how much you want it too.
Actually, your request is too laughable. You'r... (read in full...)
Please awnser this question, are ghosts real or fake?
Q. Look i know this aint a love question, but i want your opinion on something. Ghosts, are they real or fake? i want to know what you think, as personally i think they are real. please awnser this question with your honest opinion, i will apre...
A. 15 August 2008: Yes very real. I saw one once on Halloween. It had a white blanket on. And it said "BOO!"
But here's the serious answer: I do believe they're real. I've had some experiences too long to put in here. But I understand why people wou... (read in full...)
How do you prefer a girl "maintain" herself "down there?"
Q. This question is directed towards teenage males (: How do you prefer a girl "maintain" herself "down there?"...
A. 15 August 2008: I don't know why girls at your age want to ask this kind of question.
Now, this is a matter of opinion. Some guys will tell you that they like it completely shaved. Some others will tell you they like it shaved with a little bit of hair. Some oth... (read in full...)
My online boyfriend isn't talking to me that often, help!
Q. I'm very troubled...My online 14yo boyfriend of almost 4months isnt talking to me that often...I couldnt tell you how many times i have tried to contact him, only 1ce in the past week he's said something to me. I dont know if he is avoiding me, lost ...
A. 15 August 2008: There could have happened MANY things.
His internet connection is lost. His parents prohibited from getting into the internet. They didn't pay internet. He's away. His computer crashed...
Well, it's just many things that could have stopped him... (read in full...)
We met online and she said she would meet me if I vote for her (she's a model)...
Q. A couple of months ago I started chatting to a lovely girl (well, she seemed lovely!) on a general chat site, and she gave me her email address. We started chatting on Yahoo! Chat, for a while, and then she said she wanted to meet. I agreed, ...
A. 14 August 2008: Ok, what is that you want us to tell you? That she's real and that she wants you?
People who con others will make their online lives as real as posible. Accept that. She's not real and even if she actually is, then she's just doing everythi... (read in full...)
Any tips on my first kiss?
Q. Ok. well as you know by my name im a youngiin to be accurate im 14. And yea i do have a bf of 2 months now (( today being 8/13/08 )) but i still havent had my first kiss, cuz i wanna have that with someone i truly care about and i really do care abo...
A. 14 August 2008: Don't really stress about it. I know it sounds simple, but it's the best answer I could give you.
So don't overthing about all of this, or else you'll be nervous when the moment happens and you will probably not kiss good at all. Kissing is a nat... (read in full...)
I'm too different from most other teens? It seems like all the other teens are watching those dumb reality shows and Family Guy.
Q. How can I get a girlfriend, when I'm too different from most other teens? I always seem to have the unpopular or uncool opinion on things. Like watching school brawls, everyone else thinks it's funny and cool to watch. I always just walk to a differ...
A. 14 August 2008: I seriously don't understand why you haven't met people like you. I KNEW people who have similar mentality (except about Rap music) when I went to my high school. Including me.
Do you by any chance watch cartoons and the History channel? Cause I ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is 8 years younger than me and her mother found out. She told me to stay away. Should I?
Q. Ok well i've been seeing this girl for almost 6 months now, and well her mom found out bout us yesterday and told me to stay away from her and that i couldn't see or talk to her anymore. The good thing is, is me and her work together but then again ...
A. 14 August 2008: You can either do two things: go up to her mother and speak things through like an adult or take her warning and wait until she's 18.
Now, some people said to follow your heart, yes that's nice, but you follow your heart would mean for you land... (read in full...)
I need tips on positions to spice up our sex life.
Q. I want to try new sexual positions with my boyfriend. Does anyone have any suggestions that have worked out well with your own partners? Please no links to websites, etc. I just want suggestions. ...
A. 14 August 2008: Since the other two aunties already posted a lot of sex positions...
....I'll tell you how to spice it up a bit more.
You could also try sexy costumes that would go with the sex position. For example, the cowgirl ride, wear a cowgirl costume.... (read in full...)
Do I choose my ex or meet my online friend?
Q. recently i have broke up with my boyfriend who i loved and adored sooo much, but i finished him... i bet your wunderin why, well because i started seaking to a guy on the internet and really fell for him the thing is hes older than i am.. my boyfri...
A. 14 August 2008: I have to give you the warning about internet people. You have to be aware that you really don't know them and you aren't too sure if what they tell you is the truth. It's hard enough to tell if someone is telling the truth on person, so how easy ... (read in full...)
Sex doesn't feel good no matter what position he tries. Help!
Q. hey. i'm almost 15 and my bf's almost 16. we've had sex about 9 times. the first time we did it it really hurt. and since then it always hurts in the beginning. then when it's all the way in it doesn't hurt but it doesn't feel good either. he tries ...
A. 14 August 2008: Sorry, but I will have to tell you the reason you don't feel pleasured is because you're too young.
The reason is because your body hasn't fully developed yet. You're still growing. Your bones and muscles haven't positioned themselves correctl... (read in full...)
Sometimes I want to be with him forever and other times I'm so mean to him!
Q. hi. so most people would love to have the relationship i have. it's all perfect. minus the fights. but we're so close and stuff. sometimes i feel like i wanna be with him forever but other times i'm so mean to him and i just don't want to be with ...
A. 14 August 2008: You have to realize that no relationship is perfect. There will be ALWAYS fights in the relationship and differences between the two people in the relationship.
The key for a great relationship is to compromise. Like I said before, all relation... (read in full...)
I'm 12 and I'm getting my first kiss soon. Help!!
Q. im 12 years old and im getting meh first kiss in 2 or 3 days! i need to know every thing, like where do my teeth go? and how do i get her in da mood? and how do i know if she is ready? for both its our first kisses. im so confused?!?!?!?...
A. 14 August 2008: Ok, don't be scared! Relax. Count to ten.
Now, the most important thing about having your first kiss is to not overthink about it. Let it go with the flow. Don't practice before hand, just let it go. Giving a kiss comes very natural for a human. T... (read in full...)
I'm too different from most other teens? It seems like all the other teens are watching those dumb reality shows and Family Guy.
Q. How can I get a girlfriend, when I'm too different from most other teens? I always seem to have the unpopular or uncool opinion on things. Like watching school brawls, everyone else thinks it's funny and cool to watch. I always just walk to a differ...
A. 14 August 2008: I hate it when people classify themselves as "normal" or "weird" just because they do different or the same things than some people they know. But you aren't "too different", you're just in another wavelength than your peers.
Ok, I'm here to tell ... (read in full...)
I was so mad I slapped her across the face!
Q. My brother died couple of weeks ago because he had canner. I even missied a week of school because of it. When I told my best friend say I'm "obsessed" with him and need to forget about him. I was so mad I slapped her across the face1!! Why would ...
A. 13 August 2008: Oh, sorry, I didn't read the part of what she did with your boyfriend. I'm really sorry and I know see what she did to you. I would like to think that she was sincere, but a part of me tells me she wasn't. I'm sorry that your friend came out to be a ... (read in full...)
What do you think, Is there ant hope for me?
Q. My bf of 4.5 years dumped me 2 weeks ago. He was acting distant and not really affectionate 3 weeks before we broke up. I knew he liked this younger girl at his job (we are only 21 yrs old btw and she just turned 17)... I kept asking and asking ...
A. 13 August 2008: I first want to tell you that you're acting pretty mature about this break up. Not many are able to deal with it as well as you have.
Now, I'd have to agree with your mom. You were his first girlfriend and first everything, so he may feel that he ... (read in full...)
Is it okay to pluck your pubic hair?
Q. Is it okay to pluck your pubic hair?? I shave down there, but it grows back quick so i pluck. I have a few cuts on my skin from doing this as they grow underneath the skin, and i have to pick them out. Every so often, there is little lumps. what is ...
A. 12 August 2008: Oh no! Don't try plucking! It's painful already when I do it on my eyebrows, so imagine on the pubic area, which is even MORE sensitive!
Why don't you try waxing instead? Much cleaner and less painful than plucking and would last you longer t... (read in full...)
We met online and she said she would meet me if I vote for her (she's a model)...
Q. A couple of months ago I started chatting to a lovely girl (well, she seemed lovely!) on a general chat site, and she gave me her email address. We started chatting on Yahoo! Chat, for a while, and then she said she wanted to meet. I agreed, ...
A. 12 August 2008: Sounds like a con to me too. Too suspicious. Sorry for the incident; I know some of us would like to date a model.
You could do what aphexinfinite suggested, but in my opinion, I don't think nothing happen (since it just sounds like a con). Bu... (read in full...)
I don't remember if we had sex but I noticed a strange smell afterwards - is this normal?
Q. hi,im so confused at the moment. i went to a party a week ago, and i did stuff with a guy but dont actually know if we had sex. but i really smelt a smell ive never smelt before as im 16 and never had sex before. and the smell lasted quite a ...
A. 12 August 2008: We're not a cam recorder nor a pregnancy test, so we can't really tell you if you had sex or if you're pregnant by just a sniff.
So if you aren't sure, go up to the pharmacy and buy a pregnancy test (or wherever they sell them on England)... (read in full...)
Is it ok to offer him fellatio before sex, how will this influence actual sex?
Q. Is it OK to give the guy a blowjob before you have sex, will he still have enough cum? Or should you just have sex with him and not make him come beforehand?...
A. 12 August 2008: It depends if he would like ot or not. But for my experience, I think it should be a blow job after sex. Or give him a blow job and wait a while to have sex with him.
The reason is that he wouldn't have that much pleasure when having sex after he... (read in full...)
My best friend told me I was obsessed with my brother dying, now he hasn't got the guts to apologise! Why?
Q. My brother died couple of weeks ago because he had cancer. I even missed a week of school because of it. When I told my best guy friend (also my brother's friend) he said I'm "obsessed" with him and need to forget about him. I was so mad I slap...
A. 12 August 2008: Awww, he tried to apologize to you! I know you're hurt, but he is hurt as well, and probably more hurt for having said such bad things to you.
I know this is hard for me to ask, but please be a forgiving spirit. He must be in extreme turmoil ... (read in full...)
Love her and she will love you in return.
Q. Girls love to be "loved." This is the reason they try to make themselves attratrive to men---sexy clothes, careful makeup and hairdoes, cleavage, etc. If you want to please a girl so that she will do anything to please you, make her feel loved ...
A. 12 August 2008: I know what you're talking, but you're forgetting that we humans are very doubtful creatures.
Many women will believe that their partner loves her with all their heart, but will sometimes doubt their own intentions or feel inadequate for the guy'... (read in full...)
My best friend and her ex broke up two weeks ago. I always liked him. Should I go for it?
Q. hi i am in love. he is my best friends old boyfriend. they borke up two weeks ago. i always liked him but now hes available i really want him. should i go for it? how can i tell if he is interested? HELP !...
A. 12 August 2008: I was in this same situation, but I really wish for you to think this through.
You have to really consider your feelings for this guy. You're in the 13-15 age gap and no offense, but most kids your age don't know crap about being "in love" an... (read in full...)
The Boobie Sisterhood: Cheers for breasts of all sizes!
Q. I've felt strangely about my breasts ever since I got them. I was 11 when they were noticeable, and I felt feminine. Even though boys didn't make comments to me (I was super shy, so they didn't mess with me), all my friends said I had such a nice ...
A. 12 August 2008: Wow, this was greatly written and it was to the point. I'll use this for future reference when a girl questions her boob size. This article touched me.... (read in full...)
Love her and she will love you in return.
Q. Girls love to be "loved." This is the reason they try to make themselves attratrive to men---sexy clothes, careful makeup and hairdoes, cleavage, etc. If you want to please a girl so that she will do anything to please you, make her feel loved ...
A. 12 August 2008: This does not happen all the time.
I do agree with you when a couple is in a relationship, but there are times where the guy friend who completely loves and adores his girl friend is stuck in the friend zone and used as a rock all his life. Th... (read in full...)
Where is it best to find bisexual women for intimate encounters?
Q. I have always been bi-curious and have always wanted to experiment sexually with women. Experimenting with female friends or friends of friends is out of the question as I would like to do this in secret without all the unnecessary judgment and ...
A. 12 August 2008: I really recomend you to go to a lesbian bar. Put on cute clothes and stand there. I almost guarantee you that someone will aproach you and talk to you. My friend went to a lesbian bar to get drinks without using I.D. and like 3 girls aproached her ... (read in full...)
I am very curious, not my problem, but, does the size of ones' penis matter?
Q. this aint something from me personally but its something im curious about because all men worry about it and its something everyones spoken about but i want your opinion so can you please let me know does penis size matter? ...
A. 12 August 2008: Quoting Nigel Powers, "It's not the size mate, it's how you use it"
Always remember this.... (read in full...)
She's 13--does the age difference matter?
Q. ok.. so this girl i like is 13 and im 16 does age really matter?...
A. 11 August 2008: No Gecko, you're not wrong. They don't have to stop dating when one of them hits 18. I think what icanhelpu is thinking is that if the guy performs anything sexual with her while she's still being a minor, he will go to jail, but it really isn't ... (read in full...)
If you love somebody - should you let them know?!
Q. Hello Everyone, I'm just after a general piece of advice. If you love somebody, should you let them know. Even if It could result in lost friendships and other complications? Thanks in advance, Best Wishes....
A. 9 August 2008: You should express your love for someone by your actions. Words can inetunes mean nothing, but an action towards someone else speaks thousands of words.
There are many people who would like to hear the words "I love you" be uttered towards ... (read in full...)
It was great before we moved in together..now we fight all the time. What should I do?
Q. ok so ive been with my boy friend for 2 years now and weve been living together for a yr. everything was really great before we moved in together. i dont kno what to do. we fight more than anything. like verbal fighting. for some reason i feel like ...
A. 9 August 2008: The problem here is that you two are having bad communication skills. Once you two fix this problem, you'll realize that fights will ocurr less often and that you will live in better harmony.
You don't really know a person once you start living w... (read in full...)
She stuffs her bra!
Q. so my girlfriend and me were making out (going I'm to G rated for you a bit) and other "stuff". I found out she stuffs her bra. She ran out of the room when I say must have somethng imsensitive. Why is she being over sensitive and stuffing her bra ...
A. 9 August 2008: Women tend to think of their boobs as a "status" for hierarchy. This is an unconcious thinking, but it's very reasonable and easy to figure out. Guys like boobs, specially big ones, so if a girl has big boobs, then she has chaces to get with a guy. ... (read in full...)
Confused about my sexuality..can you help me figure this out?
Q. hey ok since i was like 13 iv kissed girl mates i mean i was young u dunno what your doin and your confussed about everything but now there like 16 -19 with boyfriends and im 17 with no one iv tried to date guys but i always push them away iv ...
A. 9 August 2008: I would like you to read this article:
http://www.ehow.com/how_16939_know-gay.html
You have to take time to evaluate yourself. Ask about your feelings and try to come up with a response. We cannot really tell you what you are, and only YOU can... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is a bad boy in public, but a sweetheart with me. His drinking habits make me worry... how do I deal with this?
Q. Hello My boyfriend, (only just started daring him) - He's a bit wreckless and... well I guess you could call him a "bad boy". He told me that he uses this "bad boy image" as a kind of protective shield because he feels that everyone around him that...
A. 9 August 2008: You're welcome. I'm so happy this helped you.... (read in full...)
Problems with shaving in the intimate area...
Q. why is it that after I shave my pubes "down there" and my underarms I get cysts and there are 2-5 hairs coming from the same follicle? its not like that when I shave my legs....
A. 8 August 2008: If your age is correct, I wouldn't recommend for you to shave your private areas for now. Just trim them until you're a bit older.
But I think the reason this happens to you is because you're not shaving right and your skin is responding accordin... (read in full...)
I'd feel uncomfortable if the school found out my boyfriend is bi...
Q. My current boyfriend is bi-sexual,i don't really care because i know he only loves me... Your going to think this is a stupid question but he has had rumors and the only one that's true it that he's bi. He's also 4 years older than me,and the peop...
A. 8 August 2008: I was actually in HIS situation. Many people spread rumors that I was a lesbian (they were close, I'm bi) but it wasn't very fun when I was at school. Once I started going out with my boyfriend, many people just forgot the previous and realized that ... (read in full...)
I have to make a choice between my boyfriend and my education.
Q. i went out with my boyfriend 2 years ago, then we got back together last year, its great because although we hadn't seen each other in the two years we were apart, we just got the spark straight back and it was like we hadn't even seperated. i'm ...
A. 8 August 2008: I have always thought of putting love first, but I believe that if you do so that you will regret it for the rest of your life.
You already got out of college to stay with him, but it didn't work apparently and it ended your relationship. So why t... (read in full...)
The size of my boobs is worrying me
Q. i have a slight problem, i'm only 17 but i constantly feel paranoid about the size of my boobs. i dont know my actual size, but i am rather small. i was just wondering what types of bras are better to push them together and up. i currently wear g...
A. 8 August 2008: Oh my, haven't you seen Keira Knightley? She's fricking GORGEOUS and she doesn't have any boobs at all. Every guy will tell you how so pretty and attractive she is and the reason is because she's PROUD of who she is and it's her confidense that ... (read in full...)
He kissed his ex, wanted more... Should I stay? How do I trust him?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years, in the beginning of our relationship I found him emotionally cheating via email with 3 other women. Since then I have always had trust issues, I am constantly checking his email, voicemail, myspace. ...
A. 8 August 2008: Go to a marriage/couple's councelour. They will help you far from what we could help you now.
But as a personal opinion, I agree with the other agony aunts.... (read in full...)
I'm dating an unsuccessful older man, but I ask myself, what could I possibly be attracted to?
Q. I recently started dating an older, divorced man with two young children. I am a young career oriented sucessful women and he is a little less then ambitious older men. I ask myself what could i possibly be attracted to? Yes the sex is great but ...
A. 8 August 2008: I think the reason you are still with him is because you feel attached to him because he was your first.
Remember that you gave yourself to this guy and he took something that you may(or may not)have felt valuable. Many women, after having s... (read in full...)
I have a problem looking at myself in the mirror, how do I make myself like myself more?
Q. Dear, Uh, Cupid. I know this is a very boring, basic, conceded question and I apologize for that but, I feel just gross. I hate what I look like. It might be just because of my eczema, and so I /feel/ disgusting most of the time but ew. Looking...
A. 8 August 2008: One of my female friend has eczema but she has a great body and a really pretty face. She really doesn't see this, though, because she focuses on her eczema more than her natural beauty.
Like many said, just focus on your other good physical... (read in full...)
I'm a teen girl, how can I feel better about my body?
Q. okay so this isnt a relationship question but im a 16 year old, im not exactly slim, im a size 14/16 clothes, im a 38D bra, although i am happy with my body, do get attention from boys etc, im not comfortable with my boobs, they arent small, well ...
A. 8 August 2008: The best way to get a great cleavage is to get a great bra.
The reason why your boobs are sagging is becase your bra is not fitting you right. Go to a store where they sell good bras (I recommend Victoria Secret, but there are many other places) ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is a bad boy in public, but a sweetheart with me. His drinking habits make me worry... how do I deal with this?
Q. Hello My boyfriend, (only just started daring him) - He's a bit wreckless and... well I guess you could call him a "bad boy". He told me that he uses this "bad boy image" as a kind of protective shield because he feels that everyone around him that...
A. 4 August 2008: Go talk to your boyfriend and express your concern about what he did. Tell him what you wrote here and express sincerity in his words.
When you do this, try to choose your words wisely. Try to be careful to not sound like you're accusing him of a... (read in full...)
My best friend told me I was obsessed with my brother dying, now he hasn't got the guts to apologise! Why?
Q. My brother died couple of weeks ago because he had cancer. I even missed a week of school because of it. When I told my best guy friend (also my brother's friend) he said I'm "obsessed" with him and need to forget about him. I was so mad I slap...
A. 2 August 2008: Somebody else asked this same question and she had a similar situation like yours
Here's the link:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-was-so-mad-i-slapped-her-across.html
You should go in there and read the comments the people gave. I'm sur... (read in full...)
I was so mad I slapped her across the face!
Q. My brother died couple of weeks ago because he had canner. I even missied a week of school because of it. When I told my best friend say I'm "obsessed" with him and need to forget about him. I was so mad I slapped her across the face1!! Why would ...
A. 20 July 2008: You didn't do anything to her, and if you did actually hurt her feelings somehow, she still crossed way over the line.
But if you she finnally sees her stupidity and she comes and tries to ask for forgiveness and she looks truely sorry, I hope y... (read in full...)
I was so mad I slapped her across the face!
Q. My brother died couple of weeks ago because he had canner. I even missied a week of school because of it. When I told my best friend say I'm "obsessed" with him and need to forget about him. I was so mad I slapped her across the face1!! Why would ...
A. 18 July 2008: Oh wow I was so wrong about her. I really thought she would come through after she said that to you.
Like the others said, you have to leave this girl. She's not your friend and what she just said is even more terrible. I really hope you slapped ... (read in full...)
I was so mad I slapped her across the face!
Q. My brother died couple of weeks ago because he had canner. I even missied a week of school because of it. When I told my best friend say I'm "obsessed" with him and need to forget about him. I was so mad I slapped her across the face1!! Why would ...
A. 13 July 2008: Well people change with a person if that said person has experienced a loss.
For example, one of my closest friend was diagnosed with cancer. Before this, many people ignored her or just didn't pay attention to her. After she was diagnose... (read in full...)
I was so mad I slapped her across the face!
Q. My brother died couple of weeks ago because he had canner. I even missied a week of school because of it. When I told my best friend say I'm "obsessed" with him and need to forget about him. I was so mad I slapped her across the face1!! Why would ...
A. 13 July 2008: I know some people really can't deal with the whole death situation but what she did was extremely innapropiate. I understand your reaction completely (although I don't resource to physical action, but this is just over the line).
What you shou... (read in full...)
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