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Location: Texas, USA
Favorite color: purple
Favorite food: anything sweet.
Least favorite food: spicy foods.
Relationship status: In a relationship
Ticks: annoying/bratty people. I will usually tell them to just shut up. Also, rude people tick me off a lot.
Likes to: Laugh, smile, and just have great time.
Doesn't like: The rain; I can feel it comming and usually it's not a good feeling.. Stuff that makes me sad. Spicy foods.
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I need a way to look older. It's ridiculous everyone who sees me thinks I'm between 12 and 14
Q. So in the past year or so i have been constintaly mistaken as a being between the ages of 12 and 14. I am now 18 and about to start college. I find this so frustrating because i am convinced that this is keeping guys from talking to me. I sometimes ...
A. 1 September 2008: Glad you found a guy who loves your height!
I don't know if someone has told you this, but a lot of my friends told me that shortness was something cute that they found in a girl.... (read in full...)
My first love broke my heart but I continue to have sex with him! How do I let go?
Q. Back in December my first love broke my heart. I didn't want to date for a long time. But, I met this boy in school and automatically fell for him. We only dated for little over a month but were together every waking second. Once we broke up we ...
A. 27 August 2008: Well, at least you're happy.
Hopefully he'll be a nice boyfriend to you.... (read in full...)
My best friend told me I was obsessed with my brother dying, now he hasn't got the guts to apologise! Why?
Q. My brother died couple of weeks ago because he had cancer. I even missed a week of school because of it. When I told my best guy friend (also my brother's friend) he said I'm "obsessed" with him and need to forget about him. I was so mad I slap...
A. 12 August 2008: Awww, he tried to apologize to you! I know you're hurt, but he is hurt as well, and probably more hurt for having said such bad things to you.
I know this is hard for me to ask, but please be a forgiving spirit. He must be in extreme turmoil ... (read in full...)
He never gave me his number... Is this a lost cause?
Q. I like this guy. We just recently got to know eachother, but we've known about eachother for a long time. He opened up to me more than he has with most people, especially about his past. I gave him my number, but he lost it and asked for it again ...
A. 8 August 2008: Probably he thought he was going too strong with you when he started talking to you very in depth when you were starting to know him.
Or probably he isn't a phone person. He may prefer the convenience of the computer (which is almost faceless... (read in full...)
He has a bad reputation but I like him, what can I do so that he feels the same?
Q. okay well i'm fourteen and i really like a guy named Andrew but he has a rep. he has gone out with alot of girls, including my bestfriend. but i still lik him lots. i dont know why. and he said he liked me, but then he changed his mind. right before ...
A. 5 August 2008: The simple thing is for you to not answer his messages.
It seems to me that you like the attention but you're aggrevated that he isn't being forward as you like. Many told you, stop talking to him. You're playing with fire here.... (read in full...)
He has a bad reputation but I like him, what can I do so that he feels the same?
Q. okay well i'm fourteen and i really like a guy named Andrew but he has a rep. he has gone out with alot of girls, including my bestfriend. but i still lik him lots. i dont know why. and he said he liked me, but then he changed his mind. right before ...
A. 5 August 2008: I don't know if your phone has this feature, but you can block phone numbers from calling you or texting you. See your manual if you still have it or try to do so yourself.
When he calls or texts you, just don't answer back. He has to learn he... (read in full...)
I'm flirting with a boy, but I really want a girl.
Q. WHY DO I ALWAYS DO THIS :(!!.... I have been flirting with this boy i know for a while, and he thinks i really like him, which i do. hes sweet and kind....but its not him i really i want. really im falling for a girl from work (who is so straight). ...
A. 3 August 2008: Awww, well, I'm sure this happened for your own good. At least you know when to back off and not try to persue something that will never happen.
The good thing is that many hot girls are bisexual for some reason.
Good luck in a future relations... (read in full...)
I'm flirting with a boy, but I really want a girl.
Q. WHY DO I ALWAYS DO THIS :(!!.... I have been flirting with this boy i know for a while, and he thinks i really like him, which i do. hes sweet and kind....but its not him i really i want. really im falling for a girl from work (who is so straight). ...
A. 3 August 2008: I'm so glad! Like I said it before, that seriously ticks me off. Those kind of people put a bad name on (us) good bisexuals!
But you haven't told us if you followed any of the advises and what has happened to you lately. At least I would like to ... (read in full...)
I'm flirting with a boy, but I really want a girl.
Q. WHY DO I ALWAYS DO THIS :(!!.... I have been flirting with this boy i know for a while, and he thinks i really like him, which i do. hes sweet and kind....but its not him i really i want. really im falling for a girl from work (who is so straight). ...
A. 2 August 2008: That's great! But did our suggestions help you in any way? I hope they did. Please update us!
Now, I just hope you're not like other bisexuals I know that think that being bi means they can be in a relationship with two people at the same time (wh... (read in full...)
He wrote notes to other girls in school!
Q. how can i trust and get over my boyfriend writting other girls notes at school.like he was emontionly cheating. We been dating for 3 yrs 1 month. Well basicly after 2 years together he had doubts and last winter is when i found some notes( 2) and ...
A. 2 August 2008: Thanks and I wish the best for your relationship as well.
To what happened to me happened a long time ago and I have end up in terms with him too, but I still remember everything. That's how I could connect to your situation! But I also feel you... (read in full...)
We broke up over me not getting naked on webcam! Did I do the right thing?
Q. Ok, so i met this reaaaaaally cute guy on the net, he is a one-of-a-kind boy, he even says he believes in true love and happily ever after, and we have like a week talking everyday like 5-8 hours about everything, i really like him, and he says that ...
A. 2 August 2008: I don't agree that this person deserves a second chance. I mean, you barely know him! And he's really REALLY scaring you.
What cupidguy suggested you is a great idea. Also, if you don't have any help at all, just delete your email account for all.... (read in full...)
We broke up over me not getting naked on webcam! Did I do the right thing?
Q. Ok, so i met this reaaaaaally cute guy on the net, he is a one-of-a-kind boy, he even says he believes in true love and happily ever after, and we have like a week talking everyday like 5-8 hours about everything, i really like him, and he says that ...
A. 2 August 2008: I'm so glad that you feel better and that the articles helped you!
And of course you were right about your decision. Actually, not many girls do what you did and end up regretting it terribly. You just did great.
... (read in full...)
He wrote notes to other girls in school!
Q. how can i trust and get over my boyfriend writting other girls notes at school.like he was emontionly cheating. We been dating for 3 yrs 1 month. Well basicly after 2 years together he had doubts and last winter is when i found some notes( 2) and ...
A. 2 August 2008: Ok, thanks for clearing that up.
Now I do see where you come from and I'm able to understand what you're saying and I can understand why you feel so much pain.
Now, if you want to forgive him, try to see if he's truthful first. Being with him f... (read in full...)
My first love broke my heart but I continue to have sex with him! How do I let go?
Q. Back in December my first love broke my heart. I didn't want to date for a long time. But, I met this boy in school and automatically fell for him. We only dated for little over a month but were together every waking second. Once we broke up we ...
A. 2 August 2008: You think he's just playing you? You're his violing and he's scratching your strings just for fun!
He's obviously using you for sex, nothing more. He KNOWS you have lingering feelings for him and he's toying with those feelings so he can satisfy ... (read in full...)
We broke up over me not getting naked on webcam! Did I do the right thing?
Q. Ok, so i met this reaaaaaally cute guy on the net, he is a one-of-a-kind boy, he even says he believes in true love and happily ever after, and we have like a week talking everyday like 5-8 hours about everything, i really like him, and he says that ...
A. 2 August 2008: YOU DID THE RIGHT THING!
Now, I give you some recommended reading:
-http://www.dearcupid.org/question/dating-red-flags.html
-http://www.dearcupid.org/question/warning-signs-youre-dating-a-loser.html
Now, how can you say he's a "one of a kin... (read in full...)
He wrote notes to other girls in school!
Q. how can i trust and get over my boyfriend writting other girls notes at school.like he was emontionly cheating. We been dating for 3 yrs 1 month. Well basicly after 2 years together he had doubts and last winter is when i found some notes( 2) and ...
A. 2 August 2008: What was in the content of the letters? Did they specifically say he wanted the girl to be with hiM? Did he flatter her constantly? How many letters did he send?
You haven't given so much information, and the letters are the MacGuffin in your sto... (read in full...)
Does he want to french?
Q. When i kiss my boyfriend i can feel his tounge in his mouth with my lip. Is he doing this to let me know he wants to french kiss? Cause i give him the opportuniy by having my mouth open but i dont know how to let him know other than doing that with ...
A. 2 August 2008: I don't know, it's probably the way he kisses.
My boyfriend has always kissed me like that, and he doesn't even notice. But I like it ;)
But you could ask him if he wants to french kiss. If you feel he will think you're weird for asking, then... (read in full...)
I have a newspaper fetish. Should I be open about it?
Q. I have a strange fetish and i want to be open about it. i love newspapers and magazines. i love to buy them and sleep with them and hold them close to my skin. i feel that this is strange because i have never heard of it before. should i tell p...
A. 2 August 2008: Do they sexually arouse you?
I think you just love the feeling on how they burn your sking and keep you warm.
And you just told everyone who reads this. YAY!!
And No.... (read in full...)
I need a way to look older. It's ridiculous everyone who sees me thinks I'm between 12 and 14
Q. So in the past year or so i have been constintaly mistaken as a being between the ages of 12 and 14. I am now 18 and about to start college. I find this so frustrating because i am convinced that this is keeping guys from talking to me. I sometimes ...
A. 2 August 2008: I don't think the artsy style will not make you look like a child unless you wear tye-dye shirts, because this will make you look tacky and people will probably not take you seriously. You could try to find more arquitectural (as in, asymetrical, ... (read in full...)
Does anyone have a good story or had any luck with 'Online Dating Agencies?
Q. So I finally broke down and decided to test out the online dating scene, and to say the least, I'm not impressed. I wasted an hour or so of my time filling out the eharmony survey... just for them to tell me I'm not an acceptable match. Great. Now ...
A. 2 August 2008: I have never tried internet dating, but I did make a little search for you about dating sites that are rated by users, so I'll give you the top 5:
-http://www.perfectmatch.com/hp/indexaff.asp?p=n
-http://f... (read in full...)
Worried about my boyfriend's Ex trying to get him back!
Q. Hi guys i need real big help, my Current bf ive been with 7 months, has a 4 year old daughter with his ex, well hes becoming really close to her again after she split with her new bf, she has been really horrible in the past few months that she was ...
A. 2 August 2008: I really think you should stop worrying and trust your boyfriend.
His ex's behavior doesn't sound fishy to me at all and he goes to help her because she may actually need help raising the kid. Also, he might be trying to help his ex more so he ca... (read in full...)
He never gave me his number... Is this a lost cause?
Q. I like this guy. We just recently got to know eachother, but we've known about eachother for a long time. He opened up to me more than he has with most people, especially about his past. I gave him my number, but he lost it and asked for it again ...
A. 2 August 2008: He doesn't mention what?
I don't think it is. There are no signs that show he is not interested in you. He even asked you for your number and he just probably forgot to give you his. MANY people just have bad memory or forget to do things when the... (read in full...)
Should I ask this girl out? She's three years younger than me.
Q. Alright... I'm 16 and I'm kinda into this girl who's 13. Should I ask her out? or is that wrong? Or maybe I should wait? ...
A. 2 August 2008: I'd say go for it, but as long as you don't do anything more than just kissing and holding hands. Remember that anything sexual related is illegal at her age and you will pay a heafty fine (possibly jail time and branded a sexual predator).
But b... (read in full...)
Should I have sex or should I wait???
Q. hi im 14 yearz old and i ive been talkin to a guy i known for 6 months the bad thing iz that he iz onli 18 years old and im scared that its not rite but i lke him so i dont care but he asked me if i would have sex with him and i said i maybe wu...
A. 2 August 2008: You aren't obviously ready for sex, so don't do it. Try to wait for someone who cares for you and who makes you feel secure and happy, not someone who just thinks he likes you or who will like you if you put out. Those guys will likely dump you and ... (read in full...)
My best friend told me I was obsessed with my brother dying, now he hasn't got the guts to apologise! Why?
Q. My brother died couple of weeks ago because he had cancer. I even missed a week of school because of it. When I told my best guy friend (also my brother's friend) he said I'm "obsessed" with him and need to forget about him. I was so mad I slap...
A. 2 August 2008: Somebody else asked this same question and she had a similar situation like yours
Here's the link:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-was-so-mad-i-slapped-her-across.html
You should go in there and read the comments the people gave. I'm sur... (read in full...)
I need a way to look older. It's ridiculous everyone who sees me thinks I'm between 12 and 14
Q. So in the past year or so i have been constintaly mistaken as a being between the ages of 12 and 14. I am now 18 and about to start college. I find this so frustrating because i am convinced that this is keeping guys from talking to me. I sometimes ...
A. 1 August 2008: I have the same problem! I'm almost 20, but I look like a 13 year old. I'm also very short (5'2") for my age, which makes people think I'm younger. But instead of getting worried about it, I just find it funny.
I don't know if you're the same per... (read in full...)
I'm flirting with a boy, but I really want a girl.
Q. WHY DO I ALWAYS DO THIS :(!!.... I have been flirting with this boy i know for a while, and he thinks i really like him, which i do. hes sweet and kind....but its not him i really i want. really im falling for a girl from work (who is so straight). ...
A. 1 August 2008: I agree. You have to evaluate yourself and see what your preferences are. Don't worry if you don't do it in a day or a week. This process of finding and knowing yourself will probably take a while, so don't try to rush it.
It's perfectly ok if yo... (read in full...)
I'm worried that I look too young! How can I look older?
Q. I know most people are concerned about ageing and looking older than their years, but I'm worried that I look TOO young! I'm 23 years old, and I'm often mistaken for 16 or younger. Once or twice I have even been mistaken for 12 (of course this ...
A. 1 August 2008: Oh my, I have the same situation! I'm almost 20 years old, but I look like a 13 year old!
And my boyfriend looks his age (also 20), so I sometimes wonder if people think if he's dating a child too! But he has assured me that he doesn't even thi... (read in full...)
How do I try to overcome these intense feelings of jealousy??
Q. Well i'll just get straight to the point. I like this girl and I have done for quite a while now, and she doesn't feel the same way back. Which I'm coping with, not easily but I can deal with it. But the biggest problem at the moment is, if i know ...
A. 31 July 2008: I recommend you to read this:
http://www.wikihow.com/Stop-Being-Jealous
It gives really good advise and the writting style is entertaining. Just remember to have the determination to follow the tips.
Good luck and I hope that eventually you... (read in full...)
I need to tell him how much I like him, but I don't want to ruin our friendship.
Q. I'm 17 years old and just graduated from high school. I like a guy who is turning 17 August 9th. I've liked him for about 5-6 months now and I'm not sure if he knows I like him. We've been best friends for two years now. After getting advice from my ...
A. 31 July 2008: I think you should wait a little bit more to see if he likes you back, but my guess is that he does.
You said that his parents are very strict and don't let him socialize, but he's trying to convince them so you can visit THEM so he can visit YO... (read in full...)
He has a bad reputation but I like him, what can I do so that he feels the same?
Q. okay well i'm fourteen and i really like a guy named Andrew but he has a rep. he has gone out with alot of girls, including my bestfriend. but i still lik him lots. i dont know why. and he said he liked me, but then he changed his mind. right before ...
A. 31 July 2008: Oh my, that boy is such a loser. I'm so glad you made a decision that seems smart. I bet you'll find a boy that will be just great for you.... (read in full...)
My best friend is trying to break me and my boyfriend up!
Q. I have this one probleme my best friend is trying to break me and my boyfriend up, and it really huts to know she is doing that what should i do?...
A. 31 July 2008: First, go and confront her and ask her why she's doing this. Listen to her reasons and judge on them.
If she is afraid on losing you, then assure her that you will never leave her and that she's your best friend for a reason and that your boy... (read in full...)
Religion (feel free to debate and discuss!!)
Q. Lately iv been having a discussion/debate with a woman on here about religion, she's a muslim and im not really anything, more of an athiest with a hint of scientologist id say, and as you could imagine our opinions on religion are at complete ...
A. 31 July 2008: I was raised as a Methodist Christian, but I just stopped believing in it when I was around 10.
I'm really not anything, but at the most I would be an agnostic. I do believe of a higher entity (whichever god you may think) but the idea of ANY reli... (read in full...)
I'm 14, should I suggest to my girlfriend that we have sex?
Q. i'm 14 and i really feel the need of having sex with my girlfriend (she's 15), though i'm not sure she would want to (they say boys want it more than girls do)...but i really do. i really really love her and its been about a year since we started ...
A. 31 July 2008: I do think that couples should start having sex when they feel loved and secure, but I really think that you shouldn't.
I don't want to judge you, but you have to be aware that you're just a kid barely becoming an adult. You're still too young an... (read in full...)
He has a bad reputation but I like him, what can I do so that he feels the same?
Q. okay well i'm fourteen and i really like a guy named Andrew but he has a rep. he has gone out with alot of girls, including my bestfriend. but i still lik him lots. i dont know why. and he said he liked me, but then he changed his mind. right before ...
A. 31 July 2008: If you do actually get to go out with him, you will get your little heart broken.
Red light here: How can he just suddenly "change" his mind on not liking you? I think he's just trying to toy with your feelings. Guys like this are everywhe... (read in full...)
My BEAUTIFUL girl and I are not accepted by others...yet we love each other. What to do?
Q. Hi all. This is my first question so I hope it's good. See, about two months ago, this girl and I (who have known each other all our lives) confessed our love for each other at the exact same time. We have a great relationship and have never ...
A. 31 July 2008: masterofdestiny, I know that the annonymous comment is just thoughtless and airheaded, but my guess here is that he's surprised by the "luck" you had here.
The poster is only thinking of the money you got and how you can solve more problems... (read in full...)
I have absolutely no confidence, please can you help?
Q. i have absolutely no confidence and cannot have a conversation with girls and some boys. I have a bone displacement in my nose which makes me embarassed and when someone tries to talk to me I try to hide it by looking away, even though they woul...
A. 30 July 2008: First of all, try to accept the way you are. If you like yourself and accept yourself on how you are, people will feel this too and like you. The biggest thing a person likes from another is personality and when a person has an incredible ... (read in full...)
I don't like being touched... is this normal?
Q. I've noticed for a while now that I feel very uncomfortable when touched by anyone who is not in my immediate family. Whenever I make physical contact with a friend or anyone else, I get an unpleasant shiver and have to fight the instinct to pull ...
A. 30 July 2008: It's just how you are. I know three people in my life who very much dislike to be hugged and they often avoid to touch someone.
I really never thought bad about my friends, I just respected and accepted that they just don't like being hugged. ... (read in full...)
I am very concerned about the size and shape of my breasts, I am 15, will my breasts grow more, and will the shape change?
Q. this is quite a strange question but im concerned about my breasts. im 15. There small but they dont have the 'breast' look. There just like a triangle off my chest. They dont have the 'drop'. not a 'U' shape. more like a V but sideways. Will they ...
A. 30 July 2008: Oh yes they're very normal. They will eventually grow into an "u" and be better shaped.
My guess is that you're a late bloomer and you find it weird your breast isn't the same as others. Every woman's breast will look like that when it's starting... (read in full...)
I need some tips on talking dirty!
Q. As stupid as this sounds, i don't know how to dirty talk. Can anyone give me some things to say because he told me he loves it when i dirty talk but i honestly suck at it :(...
A. 30 July 2008: A good thing that you could first do is ask him what his fantasies are and then try to use your imagination to play with them.
Also, try to be very descriptive about the things you will do to him if you're with him and then do what you just sai... (read in full...)
Are these signs my ex wants to get back together?
Q. Hello everyone. Its me again. Ok, here is a question that probably many girls ask....are these signs my ex could still possibly want me back?. Well me and my bf broke up about 5 months ago. We were together for almost 2 years. We loved each oth...
A. 28 July 2008: It sounds that he still has lingering feelings for you.
You two were together for 2 years, but it's not really easy to forget the whole time you had together in a month. You can't really expect him to have forgotten about you soon, so his inte... (read in full...)
I feel so ugly, will I ever get a boyfriend?
Q. Hey. Im a girl, Ive just turned 15. My problem is with my appearance. I always feel so ugly. Monsterously ugly, and people tell me Im ugly aswell. If Im out with my friends, lads will look my at my friends and smile, then look at me and they'll look ...
A. 28 July 2008: Do you seriously want to be with someone who only wants you for your looks?
You're wrong. Not every guy goes for looks. Maybe guys at your age, but only because they're immature and most of them have one thing in their mind: to get laid.
... (read in full...)
My partner just ignores my wish for more affection. Now I've met this new guy.
Q. i've been with my partner for 3yrs now and we have 3 kids between us. i love him more than anything despite him having cheated many times. i'd never want to hurt him. thing is, more and more stuff is irritating me about him and he never just hugs me ...
A. 27 July 2008: At least he's good with the children, which is a plus. And I'm so glad you're not like those women that try to involve the children in the problems.
You may not feel you're not strong enough, but I bet that there will be a lot of people who will... (read in full...)
My partner just ignores my wish for more affection. Now I've met this new guy.
Q. i've been with my partner for 3yrs now and we have 3 kids between us. i love him more than anything despite him having cheated many times. i'd never want to hurt him. thing is, more and more stuff is irritating me about him and he never just hugs me ...
A. 26 July 2008: You're worth more than this!! This guy does NOT deserve you. He has cheated you several times, even after having children with you! How would you want your children having this kind of dad as a role model? A guy who cheats on his wife and neglets ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with someone who used me!!
Q. I lost my virginity to this guy I really like. He told me he liked me but didnt have time for a relationship. I hoped that sleeping with him would make him want to go out with me (yeah i know but i dont have much experience with guys) but he saw our ...
A. 26 July 2008: I think it's only affection because you lost it with him. The reason why many people say that girls should wait for the guy they feel is right for them (and who respects and loves them) is because after the girl loses her virginity to the guy, she ... (read in full...)
Why would she ask me out and not call me back? I felt stupid waiting...
Q. Today a girl called me see if I wanted to go out to eat for dinner. She told me that she would call me back when she was ready to be picked up. However, she never called me back. She has been interested in me for a while and broke up with her ...
A. 26 July 2008: 1. Many things may have happened. Family crisis. An accident. Phone died. She got cold feet. I would go for the latter. Many people get nervous before going on a date with someone they like and she couldn't resist this and just decided to fall ... (read in full...)
How do I have sex in the missionary position without hurting her?
Q. Hey, I've worrying a little about having sex for the first time. Well, a while back, I was kissing my girlfrind (at the time) in the missionary position (me on top) but my arms were aching a lot from holding myself up and prevent myself from laying ...
A. 26 July 2008: You won't hurt her if you stay on top. In fact, some girls like the weight of the guy on them. If you lay on her and she says it huts her, then get up or sustain yourself.
Now just try to check if you're ready for sex. Be aware of the conseque... (read in full...)
Is it possible to get withdrawal symptoms if you stop masturbating?
Q. i know you hear of people gettin withdrawal symptoms from smoking, drinking etc, but when its that one week out of the month and mastubating would be a REALLYY messy job so i prefer not to do it, i get realy snappy n stuff, and i get so horny its ...
A. 26 July 2008: I think what you're experiencing is a common thing that goes along with having a period: mood swings.
It will happen to you even if you had never masturbated. At that time of your month, your hormones are just flinging around crazier than normal (... (read in full...)
I'm very nervous about having sex with my current guy... I had a creepy experience with my first bf.
Q. I had a creepy experience with my first boyfriend at 15 ["he" was actually a very convincing 'transgender', to use the word that was used, I had no idea until I was told. ICK!] It left me confused and off relationships for a while, but now after a ...
A. 26 July 2008: You should talk to your boyfriend about your experience. Tell him that because of this you're afraid on having a physical relationship with him.
Hopefully he will try and help you out. Ask him to make you feel more secure and loved. Ask him to b... (read in full...)
My friends say I deserve better than this relationship... what do I do?
Q. basically i have this boyfriend who ive been seeing for like 3 weeks now but we saw each other for a while not so long back. for the first 2 weeks of the relationship he was fine acted really sweet towards me. now he doesnt meet me when he says he ...
A. 26 July 2008: You have to talk to him. Ask him what's wrong with him and what has made him change around you.
Probably he's now feeling the stress on being a relationship and he doesn't know how to act. If your age is correct and your boyfriend is around y... (read in full...)
Does he have any feelings for me?
Q. Ok, I want to keep this as basic as possible. I want to know if this person has feelings for me. They: 1. they treat me differently to everybody else, with more respect. 2. They can't condemn me no matter what I do. 3. They stare deep...
A. 26 July 2008: "They"? Don't you mean "He"? I want to clear this confusion that it's not more than one person.
Now it does seem that he has feelings for you. He has all the classic signs. Now I think he wants to see if you actually have feelings for him. If ... (read in full...)
Why do men say they want real women if they fantasize and desire "fake" girls, if it's the ideal woman then they should want to be with them, right?
Q. Hello, I wrote this last night: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-hate-to-think-that-a-anorexic-fake.html Basically, I was saying that guys (and my boyfriend especially) say that women in the media and strip clubs are hotter than us normal gi...
A. 25 July 2008: They desire "normal" women because they're more aproachable than "fake" women (as how you call it).
Now let's try to relate you to this. Let's say you really wish for something. Like a pair of expensive shoes/clothes that you REALLY wanted b... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is getting distant. Am I showing him enough love?
Q. hello i have been with my boyfreind for two and a half weeks and i think we get on great but recently he seems to becomming distant i dont think that im showing him enough love so i dont think he loves me as such i think he just sees me as another ...
A. 25 July 2008: Have you tried talking to him about it?
There may be a deeper problem with him. He may have had some depression or he's getting stressed at finding a job and wants more time to do this. There may be many things that may make him feel more distance... (read in full...)
He swears he has feelings for me. Why do I find it so hard to believe him?
Q. This is a kind of complicated problem, but please try to understand it. Ok, so my problem is with a lad who Im good friends with. Im 15 and he's 17. We've always been good friends, but recently Ive developed much, much stronger feelings for him (not ...
A. 25 July 2008: It can be two things: your own gut instincts tell you that this guy is no good OR that you find yourself so "underneath" him that you don't want to get your own hopes up with him. It can be either one of them, but you should try to see what it is. ... (read in full...)
My BEAUTIFUL girl and I are not accepted by others...yet we love each other. What to do?
Q. Hi all. This is my first question so I hope it's good. See, about two months ago, this girl and I (who have known each other all our lives) confessed our love for each other at the exact same time. We have a great relationship and have never ...
A. 22 July 2008: Love is indeed found in the weirdest places.
Now I realize why you say your love will not be accepted. I found this shoking too as MANY would, but I try to accept it as much as I can. I won't preach you on how "bad it is to do it with your sis... (read in full...)
My BEAUTIFUL girl and I are not accepted by others...yet we love each other. What to do?
Q. Hi all. This is my first question so I hope it's good. See, about two months ago, this girl and I (who have known each other all our lives) confessed our love for each other at the exact same time. We have a great relationship and have never ...
A. 18 July 2008: Oh my, me and my boyfriend were in a similar situation. A lot of people didn't like me being with my boyfriend. I never found out the reasons, but I think it was mostly jealousy. We never gave in into those people's comments. The only thin... (read in full...)
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