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Location: Texas, USA
Favorite color: purple
Favorite food: anything sweet.
Least favorite food: spicy foods.
Relationship status: In a relationship
Ticks: annoying/bratty people. I will usually tell them to just shut up. Also, rude people tick me off a lot.
Likes to: Laugh, smile, and just have great time.
Doesn't like: The rain; I can feel it comming and usually it's not a good feeling.. Stuff that makes me sad. Spicy foods.
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I was so mad I slapped her across the face!
Q. My brother died couple of weeks ago because he had canner. I even missied a week of school because of it. When I told my best friend say I'm "obsessed" with him and need to forget about him. I was so mad I slapped her across the face1!! Why would ...
A. 13 August 2008: Oh, sorry, I didn't read the part of what she did with your boyfriend. I'm really sorry and I know see what she did to you. I would like to think that she was sincere, but a part of me tells me she wasn't. I'm sorry that your friend came out to be a ... (read in full...)
I was so mad I slapped her across the face!
Q. My brother died couple of weeks ago because he had canner. I even missied a week of school because of it. When I told my best friend say I'm "obsessed" with him and need to forget about him. I was so mad I slapped her across the face1!! Why would ...
A. 20 July 2008: You didn't do anything to her, and if you did actually hurt her feelings somehow, she still crossed way over the line.
But if you she finnally sees her stupidity and she comes and tries to ask for forgiveness and she looks truely sorry, I hope y... (read in full...)
I was so mad I slapped her across the face!
Q. My brother died couple of weeks ago because he had canner. I even missied a week of school because of it. When I told my best friend say I'm "obsessed" with him and need to forget about him. I was so mad I slapped her across the face1!! Why would ...
A. 18 July 2008: Oh wow I was so wrong about her. I really thought she would come through after she said that to you.
Like the others said, you have to leave this girl. She's not your friend and what she just said is even more terrible. I really hope you slapped ... (read in full...)
Could this be an eating disorder? Or is it all in my head? Also, how can you gain weight in a proper, safe and reasonable way?
Q. I'm a little underweight. I'm 13. When I eat I can't have more than 4 bites without wanting to throw up. Could this be an eating disorder? Or is it all in my head? Also, how can you gain weight in a proper, safe and reasonable way? OhI also ...
A. 15 July 2008: Like many of us said, you have to go seek a doctor. And please do it soon before it's too late. What you have sounds serious, but only your doctor can know that. ... (read in full...)
What sex positions are most popular, and also unpopular, with women?
Q. what posistions do women love and hate?...
A. 15 July 2008: Remember: It's not the size that matters, it's how you use it.
May be this a lesson to all men who worry about it.... (read in full...)
Could this be an eating disorder? Or is it all in my head? Also, how can you gain weight in a proper, safe and reasonable way?
Q. I'm a little underweight. I'm 13. When I eat I can't have more than 4 bites without wanting to throw up. Could this be an eating disorder? Or is it all in my head? Also, how can you gain weight in a proper, safe and reasonable way? OhI also ...
A. 15 July 2008: You want to throw up because your stomach can't handle the food or because it's something you wish to do?
The reason why I think you pass out and black out is because of malnutrition.
You have to go and seek a doctor. He's the only one who... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about my sister's relationship with an older man?
Q. Here's another question of does age really matter! My sister, whose almost 19, has recently started dating a 32 year old. I've never met him and neither has any of my family, but her good friend, whose 23 and also knows him and introduced them,...
A. 15 July 2008: You should only be worried if you see your sister miserable with this guy.
Like your sister's friends said, age is just a number. Remember that your sister is already an adult and well aware of her decisions on staying with this guy. You never me... (read in full...)
Why is my gay friend's boyfriend acting so weird?
Q. Hi, my best male friend who is gay (I'm straight female) has been going out with his boyfriend for a year. Alot of our friends don't like this boyfriend . Though he's pushed alot of my friend's friends away, he only seems to like me. I do find him ...
A. 14 July 2008: To me this sounds like a normal reaction a person would have in his situation.
I'll explain myself better here. Now, you said he was drunk and high and he asked you to slap him in the face. Well, many people who are drunk and high do very odd thin... (read in full...)
When we hold hands, our hands get sweaty, any way to stop it?
Q. Hi everyone. Now this might seem like an odd question, but id be grateful for any replies. When me and my gf hold hands,it gets sweaty real quick.Is this normal? and is there anyway to stop it? Thanks...
A. 14 July 2008: It's very very normal, specially if the climate is hot. There's no way to stop it since it's a normal body reaction.
I think you should try other methods to hold her. Putting your arm around her is a nice, romantic move. Also, if she doesn't ... (read in full...)
One of the secretaries has placed an unopened tampon under my personal belongings, any idea why?
Q. Hi I have returned to work in a healthcare organization and share an office with 12 colleagues. A few other secretaries also have access to the room. I don't know any of them too well as I have been away for 2 years. One of the women has placed...
A. 14 July 2008: Probably it just fell off her purse and the tampon found its way into your belongings.
I doubt it was a prank from them because for one, they're women whom is assumed to be more mature about personal health and two, becuase if they really want to ... (read in full...)
We really fancied each other but people at school making fun of us made him aparently lose his feelings towards me, and I can't forget him just like that
Q. Me and a Boy of my age at high school have recently revealed that we both have feelings for one another (Recently being about a month ago). Ever since, we have been flirting like crazy, and the feelings that I have for him have grown stronger and ...
A. 14 July 2008: This isn't fair, but you have to remember that life isn't fair at all.
If he's a guy at your age, he cannot do anythig to go against about moving out because he still lives with his parents and under their rules. Even if two don't want this eve... (read in full...)
I've known him since kindergarten, could he like me?
Q. Okidays, i know its wierd but i've liked this guy sense kindergarden. Okidays I've always had the feeling he likes me back but never really sure.The other day i saw him in the first time in like 4 or 5 years. And We both admited to being shy ...
A. 14 July 2008: Aww, I'm so glad. I hope this guy is as nice to you as he was before you're going out. Have a great relationship and just remember to NOT rush into things too fast. Remember your age. Well, anyways, enjoy!... (read in full...)
Should I tell her if her relationship ends or just forget about it as my group could see me as weird?
Q. (sorry that this is quite long)OK well i go to an all girls school but we have a boys school next door.I have fancied loads of boys and this is the first time i have had a crush on a girl. Recently i have realised i have a crush on one of my bes...
A. 14 July 2008: I thinking having romantic feelings for a best friend are more common than you think. The reason you start having feelings for a best friend is because you know the person deeply, you trust them, and you have been throught with them a lot and you ... (read in full...)
I feel like my boyfriend only wants me for sexual stuff!
Q. I'm 14 and my boyfriend and I have been going out for a month and I started too really like him. A couple weeks ago he asked for head and I gave it to him but yesterday he asked me again and he asked to see my boobs. I said no but I feel like thi...
A. 14 July 2008: Yes, like Jess18maine said, you really have to get rid yourself from this guy.
This will be easier for you since you're already uncomfortable with him and you have been going out with im for only a month. Plus, your friends are already disaprov... (read in full...)
He has bad breath!
Q. my boyfriend has really bad breath but i dont know how to tell him this? i mean we kiss alot and i try not 2 because of it what do i do? ...
A. 14 July 2008: Many people are telling you to offer him a mint, which is a very good idea, but I think this will still make him feel offended.
If you and your boyfriend are really comfortable with each other, what you could do to give him the mint is to put it i... (read in full...)
Working through it, or break up. Your views please?
Q. I recently read a post on your site, it was from a man whose girlfriend had cheated on him and it was said that after 2 or so years he still hadn’t gotten over it. The advice on this site was if he hasn’t gotten over it in that length of time he ...
A. 14 July 2008: I had a similar problem you did. I understand what you mean by "emotionally cheated" completely, because I was too. At first I thought I could not get over it when my boyfriend confessed. I tried to forgive him and forget about it, but I couldn't ... (read in full...)
I need some help and support re sex
Q. hello all ... I just saw the site , and i've found many serious and support comments and i have to thank you all ... About my problem : these 4 last months , i saw some bad changes in my sex with my gf , it comes before the time .. That ma...
A. 14 July 2008: Can you explain what kind of negative changes have happened before you had sex with her? I did't quite sure understood your problem. Sorry, but I would like some clarification to see if I can help you.
... (read in full...)
Might be pregnant, boyfriend stressed - What to do!
Q. My boyfriend has been really stressed lately, mainly because we're thirteen and might become parents. I always feel like I am doing something wrong. I try to get him to talk to me about it, but he says he doesn't want to because he doesn't want me ...
A. 14 July 2008: Ok, calm down here. I know you're scared, but you just can't jump into conclusions without verifying first. After you read this, I hope you make a wise decision about your actions.
Like some oter aunties said, you have to go get a pregnancy te... (read in full...)
I'm still in love with my ex, how can I win her back?
Q. Ok, so.... Here goes. I've been split up from my ex for a while now, around 6 months, and i want her back. I was desperately in love with her and i still am. There's a hitch though. We haven't talked in those six months (she's since changed her numb...
A. 14 July 2008: I think you need to take some time off for yourself. Walking around a park is a good starting excersise and many people have found this as something calming and a way to sort thoughts out. Also, you should try to go somewhere more remote, like ... (read in full...)
Are all these things signs that he likes me?
Q. Hey! There’s a little problem that I have that I probably have put off for too long. Here goes…. So there’s this guy at school who is (or at least in my opinion) a great guy. He’s cute, super smart (and I should know- he’s one of the smartest person ...
A. 14 July 2008: I really think he's just being a friend. Everything that you wrote (yes, I read everything) indicated to me something that my friends would do or that any friend would do. Enjoy his friendship with him because like you said, he's a very nice guy.... (read in full...)
I don't want him to think he's the reason I don't want to have sex, what do I say?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months. He is the sweetest guy ever. He is always thinking of me first and buying me things when i dont expect it. We've talked about having sex. I love him more than anything but I'm not sure if i want to have sex ...
A. 14 July 2008: First of all, I'm so glad that you're doing this. Most girls think that because they think they love the guy, they should also have sex with them and end up getting heartbroken.
Now, tell him that it's your decision to not have sex and it's not... (read in full...)
I've started getting into girls, but I have a boyfriend. How can I get over this?
Q. Hi i could really use some help. I am a teen girl who has been in a relationship with a guy for a year and 6 months. Lately i have this thing for liking girls, but not like my friends and stuff. I like to watch girls kiss and have sex on youtube. ...
A. 14 July 2008: You're a girl who's still developing and your hormones are going everywhere. It's ok to feel this way as long as you don't act upon it. Also, you just said that you like to watch girls kiss and have sex, but you never said you wanted to do it. I ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is showing naked pictures of me to his friends, what do I do?!
Q. i'm 13 years old and i had sex with my ex-boyfriend and mow he's showing picture's of me naked to his friends what should i do...
A. 14 July 2008: Yes, go tell an adult immediately. Like DiovanLestat said, bargaining with him won't work and your parents and teachers will get more mad at this guy than you. Please go tell an adult.
Now, just take this as an experience. Learn from this mistake ... (read in full...)
I don't understand, does he love me or does he just want sex?
Q. Will men say I want to f**k you to the women they love when they were so turned on? My b/f and I are living far away. But we have phone sex or even video sex. While I showed my body on the camera to him, he was so turned on but could not touch me as ...
A. 14 July 2008: Yes, what Tremor said is right, it really doesn't mean he loves you less.
The thing is that "I want to F*** you" is way easier than to say "I want to make love to you" when a person is really turned on. It's just dirty talk and you would be heari... (read in full...)
Some questions about having sex...
Q. okay so i know alot of peolpe are goin to think me and my girlfriend are to young but we feel that we are ready for sex.so im very nervous and have a few questions and im hoping for some good answers please and thank you. okay so my first questio...
A. 14 July 2008: Ok, I will answer your questions and then you'll get your lecture. Just be aware that not many people think you're ready, including me, because you're just 13, well below legal concsent and well below emmotional and physical matureness.
You w... (read in full...)
All my friends talk about oral sex - but I don't know what it is!
Q. What is oral sex? I am too young to even think about having it, I just want to know because everyone knows and I don't. So when they talk about it I just have to go along with it, and what if one of these days they ask if I know what it is...I ...
A. 14 July 2008: You're right, you're too young to even think about doing this, but you're old enough to know what this is.
Oral sex is the stimulation of the sex organs using the mouth. Both guys and girls can give oral sex.
If you want a more detailed ex... (read in full...)
I've known him since kindergarten, could he like me?
Q. Okidays, i know its wierd but i've liked this guy sense kindergarden. Okidays I've always had the feeling he likes me back but never really sure.The other day i saw him in the first time in like 4 or 5 years. And We both admited to being shy ...
A. 14 July 2008: That sounds like such a gentleman, how cute! But I think you should wait just for a little while, just to make sure he likes you. If you're sure he does like you back, don't wait for him to tell you, tell him yourself! If you're unable to tell him ... (read in full...)
Are there ANY relationships that work out?
Q. I stumbled across this site looking for some advice...and came out quite discouraged =[ Does anyone know of a functional relationship? Of a healthy marriage in which mistakes are made but forgiveness is extended and the love is still strong? D...
A. 14 July 2008: Well, yes there are, and please don't feel discouraged!
Although I find myself thinking I sound like I'm bragging, I do have a relationship that worked out, even with mistakes. My boyfriend did something that not many girls would forgive, even whe... (read in full...)
Is she embarrassed by my age?
Q. Hello to you, I've been seeing my girlfriend for a year on Tuesday. I love her with all my heart and soul. The thing is, I've just turned 19 and but my girlfriend 34. She has been divorced for 4 years and has two children. A boy whose 12 and...
A. 14 July 2008: The thing here is that none of us can read her mind, but you have the advantage to talk to her. Why dont you go and tell her what you're feeling right now about her behavior and ask her why she's doing what she's doing? Sometimes the answer for many ... (read in full...)
I want to get back with him, but I'm scared of rejection.
Q. please help me i dont no what to do. I lost my virginity to a boy when i was just 13. i new him as he only lives round the corner from me and have liked him 4 ages .. 3 years later we got together we was in a seriouse relationship. But recently...
A. 14 July 2008: Think about this. Are you willing to risk not knowing if this guy wants you just because you're afraid of rejection? You don't even know if he'll reject you or not and you never will if you never ask him.
Now what are you going to lose if he do... (read in full...)
What is phone sex, exactly?
Q. I feel very stupid asking this but I really wanna know. What is phone sex? I know you deffinately can't have sex over the phone, I'm not that stupid. But a lot of my friends are just saying it and I'm sooo confused.Can anyone help? Thanks3 Re...
A. 14 July 2008: Phone sex is just to talk dirty on the phone and the things you would do if you were really having sex with the person. It stimulates the two parties (or only the other one) and masturbation usualy follows the conversation.
Now, I'm not sure if ... (read in full...)
What ever became of the male mentor?
Q. Any guys on here remember when young lads had male mentors. Maybe you served an apprenticeship under some guy that had worked for the same company for 30 years man and boy. With a lot of industry gone this seems a thing of the past. What became o...
A. 14 July 2008: I'm pretty sure that police put a male mentor for the rookies whenever they go in missions.
And I think young lads get their role models from celebrities. Or at least that's the case with most girls in this time.... (read in full...)
What sex positions are most popular, and also unpopular, with women?
Q. what posistions do women love and hate?...
A. 14 July 2008: The only kind of sex that women (and men) don't like is the one that's not plesurable. Usually most positions work out and for me, all of the ones I've tried with my boyfriend have, but if I were to chose the one that I like the most, I would say ... (read in full...)
I ended up dating 2 girls at once, broke up with the first one, am still with the second, but can't stop thinking about the first girl...
Q. i had a relastionship with a girl that i really liked from the internet and i met her and found myself loving her soo much but i got attracted to another girl which is a colleague in my college and a close friend too.. suddenly i found myself i...
A. 14 July 2008: Too long has passed and you still think of the other girl in a romantic way (or this is how it seems to be the case). There's one reason why you have been 3 years with your current girlfriend and you should see to that. If you are having "what if?" ... (read in full...)
He told me he loved me, then the next minute he's with another girl, what's going on??
Q. i really like this boy we have been good friends for a while now and im sure he likes me too but i have doubts heres my story..... for a few weeks we have been talking on msn and saying how much we like each other nd we were suposet to meet up a few ...
A. 14 July 2008: I'm not sure if I got this information right but I'll ask this. Does he live far away from you? Because if he does, maybe he can't handle the stress of a long-distance relationship. Also, it's kind of hard to tell if someone loves you when they tell ... (read in full...)
What is the least messiest way to give a hand job, are there any special positions etc??
Q. hi what's the least messiest way to give a handjob? Like what position is best?...
A. 14 July 2008: Hmmh, kind of hard to answer because giving a handjob will still leave you with some mess.
I think the lest messy handjob to give is to do it by standing next to him. I have done that but it's kind of uncomfortable to do and I think not as plesu... (read in full...)
We really fancied each other but people at school making fun of us made him aparently lose his feelings towards me, and I can't forget him just like that
Q. Me and a Boy of my age at high school have recently revealed that we both have feelings for one another (Recently being about a month ago). Ever since, we have been flirting like crazy, and the feelings that I have for him have grown stronger and ...
A. 14 July 2008: I don't say this often to kids at your age, but I really think you love him for real (and it's not an infatuation).
Now the only solution I can think of is to tell him all of what you told us here. The foundation of a relationship is good communic... (read in full...)
I still love my ex, and he loves me, but he also calls me very derogatory names, why??
Q. I had a really long relationship with my ex, but I still am not over him, and he says he isn't over me, but yet, he calls me a hoe and a whore and stuff. I don't know what to do. I have a really good boyfriend now that never has hurt me, but I still ...
A. 14 July 2008: I think your ex is lying to you. No person who loves another would use a derogatory name to describe the other person. Probably once in a very heated discussion, but you make it sound like he says it often to you.
Try to concentrate with your cur... (read in full...)
Not quite ready to give him a hand job, is there an alternative?
Q. So I've been going out with this guy for about 3-4 mnths now, and well I feel like we both might be ready for the next step. However, I don't really feel ready to give a full-on handjob---so is it possible to give him pleasure by ...
A. 13 July 2008: You could always dry-hump him. He will really like it (and you will as well) and would probably find great stimulation through it. THe only thing is that dry-hump is more intimate, so lets see if you can do it.
Try giving him a handjob and late... (read in full...)
My girlfriend says she wants to wait until we are married to have sex...We're 16...I don't want to wait!
Q. Hi, I am a 16 year old male and am sexually active... Well should i say i was. Im not going to go into it but i lost my virginity to my ex girlfriend, we broke up, now im with another girl. I have been out with this girl before i know its you...
A. 13 July 2008: What you have to do is respect her wishes. Don't try to make her change just because you're horny since this will only benefit you and you'll leave her in a bad state. Be patient and if you really love her, you'll wait for her. And who knows, maybe ... (read in full...)
My teacher is giving me all the signals that if someone my age was doing, I would be certain he fancied me...Help?!
Q. So, here's my question. I know there are a lot of these on here and I know that I might sound stupid for asking. I know that because of the situation i could NEVER be with the guy - I just want to know what everyone thinks about this. So my art...
A. 13 July 2008: I think he just think's you're cute and likes you as your friend.
You said it yourself, if he were YOUR age it would mean he likes you. Older guys don't act like that around a girl they like and are more straightforward. Remember, he's not your... (read in full...)
Intelligence is something I highly prize in a partner but he's not the brightest crayon in the box!
Q. So, I'm between a rock and a hard place. Not to blow my own horn, but I'm one of those annoying smart people; I consider myself well read, knowledgeable, and (I'll admit it) I'm a pain in the ass when it comes to debating. I thrive on informat...
A. 13 July 2008: FinnMcCool, I have to disagree with you.
A person in a relationship that only cares what they want and never what the person wants, then the person is utterly selfish and not worth the time. Compromising is vital in a ralationship because ... (read in full...)
I was so mad I slapped her across the face!
Q. My brother died couple of weeks ago because he had canner. I even missied a week of school because of it. When I told my best friend say I'm "obsessed" with him and need to forget about him. I was so mad I slapped her across the face1!! Why would ...
A. 13 July 2008: Well people change with a person if that said person has experienced a loss.
For example, one of my closest friend was diagnosed with cancer. Before this, many people ignored her or just didn't pay attention to her. After she was diagnose... (read in full...)
I dream of having sex with an old, ugly, fat man. What does it mean?
Q. Hey Aunts Well lately ive been having really strange dreams about having sex with a man whos really old, ugly and fat. In the dream i never see his face and i have the sex with the same man in my dream each night. Could anyone tell me what it ...
A. 13 July 2008: Go to this website:
http://www.dreammoods.com/
The people who manage the website specialize on the interpretation of dreams. You should contact the person in the website and write your dream for her. In a matter of hours or days the person ... (read in full...)
My husband has started to cheat. What should I do?
Q. Hi i have been married since 3 years and have 2 months baby boy.my problem is tht my husband has started cheating me without any general reason .i m 23 and he is 24.i cant stand this as he does not love me and care for me any more.he doesnt even ...
A. 13 July 2008: First I want to tell you I'm sorry your marriage is not a happy one.
You're not happy and this is affecting you a lot. And he is not willing to change for you and doesn't even care for you. You already know the answer! You have to end the relation... (read in full...)
Intelligence is something I highly prize in a partner but he's not the brightest crayon in the box!
Q. So, I'm between a rock and a hard place. Not to blow my own horn, but I'm one of those annoying smart people; I consider myself well read, knowledgeable, and (I'll admit it) I'm a pain in the ass when it comes to debating. I thrive on informat...
A. 13 July 2008: I know many people would like an intelligent person to be with, but intelligence shouldn't be the top aspect of that person. Kindness, communication, and understanding should be, and your boyfriend is kind and at least tries to communicate and ... (read in full...)
I was so mad I slapped her across the face!
Q. My brother died couple of weeks ago because he had canner. I even missied a week of school because of it. When I told my best friend say I'm "obsessed" with him and need to forget about him. I was so mad I slapped her across the face1!! Why would ...
A. 13 July 2008: I know some people really can't deal with the whole death situation but what she did was extremely innapropiate. I understand your reaction completely (although I don't resource to physical action, but this is just over the line).
What you shou... (read in full...)
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