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writes: My brother has a girlfriend who I can't stand because she calls me names (like, tramp,slut and many more) and makes of fun my friends. I did nothing to her cause by bro would kill me if found mistreat her but give her the right to treat me like crap? I tried telling my bro but he but when he talk tries to, she this "innocent" act and now he never believes me. Is there a way to show him what a bitch his girlfriend is?
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reader, Rhandy  +, writes (21 July 2008):
 just get a recorder and record what she says, i thnk thats a good idea,
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reader, Rhandy +, writes (21 July 2008):
just get a recorder and record what she says, i thnk thats good idea,
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reader, PsyCookie  +, writes (18 July 2008):
 All that I wanted to say was told by all the aunties here, but I want to add something else.If you want a way to prove your brother his girlfriend's true colors, a good way is to buy/get a recorder and record her abuse towards you. Before doing this, try to practice how to hide the record from her and record it just in time when she insults you without her noticing it. This is crucial if you want your evidence to survive. A camera is also a good idea, but this is trickier to assemble and set up to record the time she is being mean.But hopefully before you do this, your brother will see throught her.Good luck!Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI telling her how I felt but she just call a tamp who have a paid a guy to out with me!! Im not kiding those were her exact words!
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (18 July 2008):
Rise above her.
If she is horrible to you and gets a reaction then she can continue being miss innocent and getting away with it.
If you just blank her, walk out of the room, walk towards your brother in silence, close the door, pretend she's not there, or laugh as though she's said something funny, then she will:
a) have to do something worse to get a reaction which means she's more likely to get caught or
b) give up and leave you alone.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2008): Try having a few witnesses to back you up. Friends, or even better, someone with an unbiased opinion. If he still refuses to believe that, wait it out, there's only so long someone can convincingly fake not being a royal bitch.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2008): Of course your own brother would believe you,wouldn't he?
He propably just can't believe it,so he's trying to deny it.I think you should ask if you can talk to her,but before
you do that,tell your brother to listen to your conver-
sation,like behind a closed door,behind a wall,something like that.He should believe you once he hears her and if he doesn't,then just don't pay any attention to her.Or
maybe just tell her how you feel and maybe she'll stop being mean.
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