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Location: Texas, USA
Favorite color: purple
Favorite food: anything sweet.
Least favorite food: spicy foods.
Relationship status: In a relationship
Ticks: annoying/bratty people. I will usually tell them to just shut up. Also, rude people tick me off a lot.
Likes to: Laugh, smile, and just have great time.
Doesn't like: The rain; I can feel it comming and usually it's not a good feeling.. Stuff that makes me sad. Spicy foods.
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My girlfriend always tells me how 'hot' other people are.
Q. My girlfriend is always telling about how she thinks other people are hot. ALWAYS. When we watch t.v. or a movie together she always finds someone who she thinks is hot and tells me, or when i mention someone we're friends with she tells me how hot ...
A. 19 August 2008: I'm so sorry you're with such a bitch of a girl.
Ok, I was going to tell you to be appreciative of her being open to you in this matter, but my opinion totally changed when you mentioned she tells you you're not good enough and that she wishes y... (read in full...)
Is it bad that we are having oral sex at our age?
Q. Me and my Girlfriend have been dating for about...5 months now, and the other day she gave me Oral, we were both fine with it, we didn't feel bad or anything. Is it bad that at my age I'm having oral sex? We've both discussed actual Sexual In...
A. 19 August 2008: It's a matter of opinion, seriously.
In my opinion only, yes, you're pretty young, but I'm willing to retract it for your case as you have said that you two felt fine with it and were pretty ready.
But sex is whole another thing. It's so g... (read in full...)
What would you think of this?
Q. If you found a message to your husband saying "Last time you came over in the middle of sex you said..." and "if you can make the 4th that would be great. Better not come back to mine, we shouldn't have sex again. The pain wasn't worth the...
A. 17 August 2008: Virtual or not, he's still cheating.
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Why do guys add "hot" girls on Myspace?
Q. Why do guys add "hot" girls on Myspace? My bf has a band and he's the admin of their Myspace. He got a friend request from one of these stripper types, you know, those girls that have Myspace pages where they're almos naked, they're hot, etc...
A. 17 August 2008: Anonymous poster
He might have not known if she was a fan or not, but he might have assumed it since she was adding him through his band's myspace. You can't blame the guy for assuming
And I agree with Jamer70, don't get back at him by adding... (read in full...)
I'm down about not having much of a sex life recently...any suggestions?
Q. Okay, this is probably going to sound ridiculous.. But I keep getting really down about the fact I've not had much of a sex life recently. I last had sex/got intimate with someone in March, and last had sex with someone I loved a year ago.. And...
A. 17 August 2008: Buy a dildo. Or a vibrator.
I'm not joking here. These things are amazing. They sometimes satisfy you better than a man.
Don't feel ashamed for owning one. You probably won't regret it once you use it.... (read in full...)
He says he has been with no girls since me but wants a FWB relationship now. Go back or walk away?
Q. A little over a year ago I met this guy. We hit it off imediately. for 5months we could not b seperated, we either saw or called each other everyday. Then when i moved aa hour away from him to go to college we stayd in a long distance relationship. ...
A. 17 August 2008: It was the part where the guy got a free striptease. I completely forgot that part.
And your advise was great too. I almost retracted what I said, but then I thought it would still apply to what you had said too.
And I wish she wouldn't get att... (read in full...)
Why do guys add "hot" girls on Myspace?
Q. Why do guys add "hot" girls on Myspace? My bf has a band and he's the admin of their Myspace. He got a friend request from one of these stripper types, you know, those girls that have Myspace pages where they're almos naked, they're hot, etc...
A. 17 August 2008: I completely agree with Soekie. But I'll add this
You have to remember that this is Myspace, dear. Fake reality, not real, something not true. And you also have to remember that it was his band's myspace, not his personal, on where he added th... (read in full...)
He says he has been with no girls since me but wants a FWB relationship now. Go back or walk away?
Q. A little over a year ago I met this guy. We hit it off imediately. for 5months we could not b seperated, we either saw or called each other everyday. Then when i moved aa hour away from him to go to college we stayd in a long distance relationship. ...
A. 17 August 2008: Whoops
Oldersister, you saw something I ignored. You just made a good point. A very good point
I still stand to my suggestion, though. But I will add that the questioner should watch out for herself.... (read in full...)
In a few days and without any real reason, I have fallen out of love with this person, how come?
Q. For about the past 2 years, I have been in love with this girl. We started off talking fairly often, and grew to be pretty good friends. I haven't really stopped thinking about her since then. And everytime I thought about her, I would always ...
A. 17 August 2008: It shouldn't make a difference. Love knows no barriers.
I sent you a mail with more detailed information. Read it please.... (read in full...)
How can I tell if my wife is sincere when she avoids intimate times with me?
Q. my wife left me, along with her she took another man. well, a couple of months later she is back and with plenty of patiance from me we are attempteing to work things out. my question is how can i tell she is sincere especially when she seems to ...
A. 17 August 2008: I agree with purple1234 completely, but I would like to add something else.
I think the two of you should go to a couple's councelour to solve and save your marriage. What has happend to the two of you is pretty serious and trying to work it out i... (read in full...)
I tend to only look at my girlfriend's breasts. I think I like breasts too much!
Q. I've recently been worried with my eye for "chests". When I'm with my girlfriend, I tend to only look at her chest area. I must admit she has DD cups and for a 17 year old, that is big! I think I like breasts too much and start fantasizing about her ...
A. 17 August 2008: Her breasts are pretty big for any woman of any age!
I don't blame you for looking at them. I bet they're a pretty fine piece of work! And don't worry, it's very normal.
Just remind yourself to look at her face often or else she will think y... (read in full...)
In a few days and without any real reason, I have fallen out of love with this person, how come?
Q. For about the past 2 years, I have been in love with this girl. We started off talking fairly often, and grew to be pretty good friends. I haven't really stopped thinking about her since then. And everytime I thought about her, I would always ...
A. 17 August 2008: Would it be possible that you yearned for her so much because you thought you could never get her?
This is what sounds to me to be the case. You held her very high in your mind, so much that you thought you could never get her. Which made you just... (read in full...)
I want to try doggie style but I don't want him to see my butt hole!
Q. so my boyfriend and i have been going out for 1 and 1/2 years now. were pretty sexually active, but not too much. when we do things in bed, i want them to be good for him, and me too. dont get me wrong, they are good. theyre great. but i just wonder ...
A. 16 August 2008: He will not see your butt hole, I assure you.
He'll be too concentrated in the act and feeling pleasured. Looking at your butthole and feeling disgusted woul be the last thing in his mind.
... (read in full...)
Can someone help me sort out some dating issues?
Q. I have a few issues on my mind currently, i'll put them in one lot and make it brief so i may get answers. a)My ex, who now has a girlfriend, decided to message me saying he still loves me, and when him+his gf split, would i take him back? (i tol...
A. 16 August 2008: Agony aunts think alike! lol! I'm so glad I could assure you. Hopefully we'll see you here often!... (read in full...)
I have fallen in love with my married boss and now I'm expecting his child!
Q. Dear Cupid, I have been having a sexual relationship with my married boss on and off since January, we have always been very close and sexually compatible (we slept together briefly 2 years ago but it was purely a lust thing) but very recently th...
A. 16 August 2008: Anonymous female reader.
You have critisized my opinion by saying it's too judgemental. It's kind of funny your is too. You're like the kettle calling the pot black.
Now you classify that this woman acted with her heart, but please read agai... (read in full...)
Why does this fit, talented bloke want to go out with me?
Q. I have been seeing this really fit bloke who is outgoing, talented and really good looking, my problem is I don't know why he wants to go out with me, as I am shy, a bit boring and very preditable which he doesn't like. I know I am not his usual ...
A. 16 August 2008: I first want to tell you that you would suit dresses or skirts. You think you don't because of your negative self-body image. You have to realize that you're a beautiful person and that those who don't see it are just too blind.
Now, not everyone... (read in full...)
I have fallen in love with my married boss and now I'm expecting his child!
Q. Dear Cupid, I have been having a sexual relationship with my married boss on and off since January, we have always been very close and sexually compatible (we slept together briefly 2 years ago but it was purely a lust thing) but very recently th...
A. 16 August 2008: Dear anonymous
What you have done is terrible. I don't care what you call, "being in love", whatever, but in everyone's book is called cheating. How can you trust a man who has cheated on his wife? Don't you think he would cheat on you later? A... (read in full...)
He says he has been with no girls since me but wants a FWB relationship now. Go back or walk away?
Q. A little over a year ago I met this guy. We hit it off imediately. for 5months we could not b seperated, we either saw or called each other everyday. Then when i moved aa hour away from him to go to college we stayd in a long distance relationship. ...
A. 16 August 2008: You're worried that he will get hurt for being FWB with you? Please clear that up.
If the above question applies to him, then you shouldn't worry. He has asked you to be your friends with benefits, so it's clear that he will not probably be hurt ... (read in full...)
Should he wear a condom during fellatio or a hand job?
Q. My boyfriend wants me to give him a blow job or a hand job and I was just wondering should he wear a condom and what happens when he cums, do I stop and let him take over, I am a little unsure as I have never done his before. Thank you....
A. 16 August 2008: It depends. If he's free of STDs, then it's safe to not use a condom. If you don't know if he has STDs, it would be wise to ask him if he does and if he doesn't answer you, make him use a condom. Also, a condom can prevent you from swallowing of ... (read in full...)
Jealousy: I feel ugly in public!
Q. me and my boyfriend have been dating a year and a month now and i am the most jealous girl ever so jealous that when ever we go places we both look down im mean he is jealous to but not as bad as me he...but wut i LOVE about him is that he wont look ...
A. 16 August 2008: This is a normal feeling to have. Many men and women are afraid of what others will think of them which creates a subconcsious feeling of being less than others.
But what you're doing will affect your relationship in the future. You have to accep... (read in full...)
How do I convince my boyfriend that being friendly doesn't mean "cheating" on him?
Q. hello, i am a 14 year old and am in love with a 15 year old boy ... but the prpblem is that as am very friendly with most of the guys, and he doesn't like it. i just don't know how to make him understand as am quite open minded and don't mind hi...
A. 16 August 2008: Your boyfriend is either really insecure or he's just a jerk.
Your friends are wrong. He has no right to tell you who to talk to and be a hypocrite with his own words (since he talks to other girls). A relationship is about compromise, trust, c... (read in full...)
Can someone help me sort out some dating issues?
Q. I have a few issues on my mind currently, i'll put them in one lot and make it brief so i may get answers. a)My ex, who now has a girlfriend, decided to message me saying he still loves me, and when him+his gf split, would i take him back? (i tol...
A. 16 August 2008: A)I don't think it will be a good idea. Remember that he's an ex for a good reason and you still having feelings for him is reasonable too. Now, it's very wise to tell him that he's cheating on her, but don't you think he will do the same thing to ... (read in full...)
Since we live far from each other, she doesn't mention sex as she used to. Has she lost interest?
Q. Whenever my gf talks to me, 3 out of 5 times, she will talk about sex. The way she likes to do it and showed related porn to me. It has been months she stopped talking about those. I thought she is having problem or depression. But, she doesn't...
A. 16 August 2008: So the only thing you two talked about was sex? Sorry, but that's just bad communication. Clearly just talking about sex would cease since it's such a small topic.
And no, you're wrong. Some women, even the ones who are in a relation... (read in full...)
I am 20 and he is 16 is this ok???
Q. Ok, so im nearly 20 and i was wondering if it was wrong for me to date a guy that is 16 who will be turning 17 in december?(i live in california)....
A. 16 August 2008: I don't see anything wrong with it.
And legally spekaing, you're still ok.... (read in full...)
Am I being irrational thinking I may have gotten my one night stand pregnant? We didn't use protection!
Q. Hi. I had a one night stand last night. We didn't use protection and now I find that I am unable to sleep because I'm worried that their may be consequences for my foolish actions. I met a woman in a club, we danced and had a great time. When...
A. 16 August 2008: I second the auntie's response, but I add something else.
Go to the store and buy some emergency condoms. Remember they're not only good to prevent pregnancies but also STDs. It's better to have them there not being used than to not have them whe... (read in full...)
My online boyfriend isn't talking to me that often, help!
Q. I'm very troubled...My online 14yo boyfriend of almost 4months isnt talking to me that often...I couldnt tell you how many times i have tried to contact him, only 1ce in the past week he's said something to me. I dont know if he is avoiding me, lost ...
A. 16 August 2008: Are you sure that it's him? Don't you think it's his parents or someone else?
But nevertheless, I already told you about my experience with online dating. Don't expect too much from this one as he seems to not be willing to put effort on it.... (read in full...)
I was going to meet an online guy for sex and I think my boyfriend is controlling!
Q. hi,i need help. my bf is jealous and controling. For over one year he is constantly finding my dating profiles and complains. He has given me an ultimatum,which i find petty. All i do is have sexy chats and send each other pics. I was going to meet ...
A. 16 August 2008: Ha ha ha ha ha. You're funny lady.
Just remember about Karma. What goes around, comes around.... (read in full...)
Me and my girlfriend want to have sex, but we're unsure about some things.
Q. I am 12 and me and my girlfriend want to have sex but we don't know were or when....
A. 16 August 2008: I don't understand why kids at your age want to have sex. It will NOT be fun and it will NOT be pleasurable.
But wait...my spidey senses detect a fake post.
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My clitoris itches unbearably after sex. Why?
Q. Recently, my boyfriend of 5 months and i have started having sex. My question is though every time we are done. My clitoris really starts to itch like unbarely. To the point of i can't stand it. Can someone tell me why this is?...
A. 16 August 2008: Do you have unprotected sex? If you don't, is your boyfriend free of STDs?
You might as well have that. Your boyfriend may have infected you with an STD and you're suffering from it.
If you're 100% positive (and be truthfull) that he doesn't ... (read in full...)
I really would like to go a little further now, but I don't want to push her and possibly lose her!
Q. Hey People! Okay well here's the thing. I've been dating my girlfriend now for almost 2 months, we've been good friends now for about a year or more. We kiss every chance we get and she allows me to grab her butt when we're making out but the thing ...
A. 16 August 2008: You've talked about sex, so why don't you talk about you fingering her?
You two have a good communication since you two have already talked about sex and made a decision about it. So just do the same thing, just about fingering. Sex is a hard top... (read in full...)
He is 39 and I am 19... the problem is that I don't know how to tell my family and friends about us.
Q. It's a long story really, and its really getting me down because i dont know what route to take or how to approach the problem and just kind of want other peoples point of views. So basically I'm a guy and I met a really nice guy.. one night ...
A. 16 August 2008: Does your family know you're homosexual? And your friends too?
Because if they do, I don't think you having an older guy will come as a shock for them.
But if they seem worried about the two of you, have a talk with your parents.
You,... (read in full...)
My GF hits me constantly, she told me I'm the only one that makes her mad and her ex's were better!...
Q. Ok.. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 3 months,i love her to death she knows it,BUT She thinks all i want is sex and she tells all her friends... she always hits me approximately she has hit me 7-9 times in the face (closed fist) a...
A. 16 August 2008: You don't love this girl. You're obsessed with her. And for that reason, you can't bare the thought of being without her. You talk about her constantly. Think about her constantly; but that doesn't really equal to love, no matter how much you want ... (read in full...)
Why did he ejaculate in seconds after I initiated fellatio?
Q. Ok so i was giving my boyfriend a bj..and he cummed like after just afew seconds...is there anyway that can stop?...
A. 16 August 2008: He was probably really horny by the time you started doing it.
Yes, by not making him as horny.... (read in full...)
He was nice to me... but I found out he was extremely mean to my BEST friend...? Any help?
Q. ok so here is goes... i started school last tuesday... it was going wonderful i met alot of nice guys... and one of them i had a class with and he always sat with me... and i really started likeing him,... and im good friends now with his friends ...
A. 15 August 2008: I agree with Kinky Boots. Don't jump the gun yet, find out who's telling the truth (you do this by asking people around) and then make your conclusion.... (read in full...)
What should I do about shaving?
Q. hi there this a question to the girls really. erm ive only shaved my legs once as they didnt seem that bad but now the hairs are twice and thick and stand out a lot, i cant keep up with shaving all the time plus my mam dosnt know about this i just t...
A. 15 August 2008: That's something very normal to happen, but it's actually an optical illusion.
The reason why it looks twice as thick and abundant is because you got accostumed in looking at a bare-smooth skin and then you saw hair growing suddenly. Your brain th... (read in full...)
I bleed when I shave so are there other techniques?
Q. okay i know there is another question about shaving but this is a more... weirder question about it... my legs are fine when i shave, but... when i do my underarms and my pubic region, i bleed, and ive tried the creams, and different s...
A. 15 August 2008: You could try a good hair removal that does not affect your skin. Make sure you're not allergic to the one you chose.
Or you could get an electric shaver. I can't tell you how easier it was for me to shave after I got one. When I had a manual s... (read in full...)
Love? Your answer is closer than you think...
Q. OK, this is just a story, about my little life. Just a tidbit. The whole mess started when I agreed to help my friend. To see if a boy, my friend, Calvin*, liked her. I didn't know what I was getting myself into. My work began the next day. "Do yo...
A. 15 August 2008: I find it amazing that a kid your age has such a great writting style. Your whole article was entertaining and went to a point. You never wandered around and you used good imagery. You write like a kid in high school.
Have you ever thought ... (read in full...)
We met online and she said she would meet me if I vote for her (she's a model)...
Q. A couple of months ago I started chatting to a lovely girl (well, she seemed lovely!) on a general chat site, and she gave me her email address. We started chatting on Yahoo! Chat, for a while, and then she said she wanted to meet. I agreed, ...
A. 15 August 2008: And also there's that thing called greed.... (read in full...)
Ingrown hairs down below, what do I do?
Q. my question is about in grown hairs on my vagina. are they serious? or am i in need of medical attention, or what can i do to stop it? - note: i do shave down there....
A. 15 August 2008: No need of medical attention. They're very normal if you shave down there.
What you should do is mousturize your area right after you shave. It will help you prevent in-grown hairs and the itchiness that comes when the hair grows. Normal lotions ... (read in full...)
Sex god or good guy?
Q. SO: i am a 15 (almost 16) girl. there are two guys that are really into me-both are about my age. the first one is rly into sex-he's no virgin, and is rly bold. the second is a little more laid back, and idk weither he's had sex before, although i ...
A. 15 August 2008: This is easy:
If you want just sex in the relationship, go with the guy who has sex a lot. Offer him sex, and you're set for it.
If you want a probably more meaningful relationship, go with the other guy. He'll probably would expect more from... (read in full...)
We are both 16, and all we want to do is cuddle in my bed, my parents absolutely won't allow it, how do I get them to understand that we are not going to have sex, we only want to hold each other?
Q. im 16 and my gf is the same we want to cuddle in my bed but my parents wont even let her set foot in my room do u have any advice on how i can convince them dat we will jus be cudlin and not goin to have sex...
A. 15 August 2008: I don't know why you take your parents as suckers.
Like all the aunties said, your parents will in NO WAY allow you and your girlfriend to stay in the bedroom. No matter how much you want it too.
Actually, your request is too laughable. You'r... (read in full...)
My online boyfriend isn't talking to me that often, help!
Q. I'm very troubled...My online 14yo boyfriend of almost 4months isnt talking to me that often...I couldnt tell you how many times i have tried to contact him, only 1ce in the past week he's said something to me. I dont know if he is avoiding me, lost ...
A. 15 August 2008: There could have happened MANY things.
His internet connection is lost. His parents prohibited from getting into the internet. They didn't pay internet. He's away. His computer crashed...
Well, it's just many things that could have stopped him... (read in full...)
We met online and she said she would meet me if I vote for her (she's a model)...
Q. A couple of months ago I started chatting to a lovely girl (well, she seemed lovely!) on a general chat site, and she gave me her email address. We started chatting on Yahoo! Chat, for a while, and then she said she wanted to meet. I agreed, ...
A. 14 August 2008: Ok, what is that you want us to tell you? That she's real and that she wants you?
People who con others will make their online lives as real as posible. Accept that. She's not real and even if she actually is, then she's just doing everythi... (read in full...)
We met online and she said she would meet me if I vote for her (she's a model)...
Q. A couple of months ago I started chatting to a lovely girl (well, she seemed lovely!) on a general chat site, and she gave me her email address. We started chatting on Yahoo! Chat, for a while, and then she said she wanted to meet. I agreed, ...
A. 12 August 2008: Sounds like a con to me too. Too suspicious. Sorry for the incident; I know some of us would like to date a model.
You could do what aphexinfinite suggested, but in my opinion, I don't think nothing happen (since it just sounds like a con). Bu... (read in full...)
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