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Location: Texas, USA
Favorite color: purple
Favorite food: anything sweet.
Least favorite food: spicy foods.
Relationship status: In a relationship
Ticks: annoying/bratty people. I will usually tell them to just shut up. Also, rude people tick me off a lot.
Likes to: Laugh, smile, and just have great time.
Doesn't like: The rain; I can feel it comming and usually it's not a good feeling.. Stuff that makes me sad. Spicy foods.
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Working on our insecurities is most times better than changing the other person to fit our wishes.
Q. The porn questions on this board are just overwhelming. There are many more "my boyfriend uses porn" questions than "I can't get over my girlfriend's past" questions. I don't think that is because women are that much more insecure than men, but ...
A. 8 September 2008: Ha! Only time will tell for me. Hopefully I'll live as long as you have.
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Working on our insecurities is most times better than changing the other person to fit our wishes.
Q. The porn questions on this board are just overwhelming. There are many more "my boyfriend uses porn" questions than "I can't get over my girlfriend's past" questions. I don't think that is because women are that much more insecure than men, but ...
A. 6 September 2008: I agree with you so much troubletoomuch!
I sometimes read other people's responses for a lot of relationship questions (porn related or not) and a lot of them are "dump him" or "leave" when talking is the best solution! I sometimes wish to go an... (read in full...)
Would I be wrong to take my wife's ex friend sexual opportunity?
Q. Long story short, my wife has cheated a few times. She put her best friend in the middle as an excuse as to where she was. Her friend had no idea she was being used. So her best friend decides she is no longer friends with my wife. I called this ...
A. 6 September 2008: I'm not sure if I'm the best person to answer since I have as of yet experienced the journey of marriage but...
Are you willing to put yourself to the same level as your wife?
This sounds to me like you're trying to just have revenge for what... (read in full...)
How soon is it to say I love you?
Q. how soon is it to say i love you - if you do love someone and you feel ready to say it, how do you say it without totally freaking them out or know that they'll say it back? i think he's gone to say it a few times then changed his mind. is this cos ...
A. 6 September 2008: It should only be said if you really mean it, it doesn't matter the time. First, before doing this, don't lie to yourself and ask "Do I love him?" If you hesitate for a "yes", then wait a bit longer.
But I think you should just say it because ... (read in full...)
Why would he said I was stalking him when he was the one who called me?
Q. at the end of the school year last year my friends told this one guy i liked him. i was pretty sure he liked me too. so in the middle of the summer he called me. which means he must like me, right?. every time he called he was with his friends and ...
A. 6 September 2008: You have gotten good responses but I'll put my two cents here:
I think I know why he does this.
Well, I think he's just pretty bummed that he's not going out with you so he takes it out on you for having "lost" the opportunity for being with h... (read in full...)
Is this love, lust, or infatuation?
Q. ok, iv been dating a guy for just over a month, we get on great, known each other for a while, i feel as though i love him , can this happen so soon? ive told him i love him to bits , and he has replied with the same answer, we can si...
A. 6 September 2008: I agree with Emilysanswers, some people say that it takes time to fall in love but I knew I was in love with mine after a few days.
But we also have to remember that a lot people are wrong. Some people confuse their strong feelings for love or ... (read in full...)
Is my irregular period normal?
Q. Period question here... hi im 14 and i have had my period for about 10 months or soo they still arent ragular is that normal? also lastsunday i got my period but it was gone by monday but just a few minutes ago i relized its back is ...
A. 6 September 2008: Yes, it's pretty normal. Just so you know, a woman's period does't become regular until 3-4 years after she gets it.
Your body is still adjusting to it, so it really sometimes doesn't know what to do. I know it's a drag, but you have to give it ... (read in full...)
How can I stop loving a guy who is "just a friend"?
Q. i've fallen for a male friend who i have know for many years..i don't want to ruin our friendship as we are quite close. how can i stop myself from loving him?? i have done so for 2 years and it hurts me...because i see him going out with other ...
A. 6 September 2008: You gotta re-direct your love in some other way.
Focus the love you have for him as a form of friendship. Try to be happy when you see him happy with another girl. At least you will have the peace at your heart that she's no mistreating him and ... (read in full...)
Is it ok for a 15-year-old to have sex with a 26-year-old?
Q. Is it ok for a 15 year old male (me) to go out with a 26 year old women and have sex?? Any advice?...
A. 6 September 2008: She doesn't love you. She's asking too much from a kid and if she really loved you, she wouldn't have said that she will look for sex somewhere else if you didn't put out.
You love this lady, right? Then just don't have sex with her because ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend joined the army and I want to go with him!
Q. hiya, ive been with my boyfriend for two years, and hes just joined the army, hes been in there for 5 months now, and i cant cope, im worried and scared and hurt that he will eventually be going to athganistan, im hurting so much you have no idea, ...
A. 6 September 2008: Look on the internet for that place and look around for real estate and the prices for them.
Later, make a lot more internet searches and look for jobs in the area. Thought I doubt you'll get one. You're still a minor, not even have a high sch... (read in full...)
Which one's the daddy?
Q. first day of my last period was july 16th 2008 i messed with another man on the 22 the 23 and 24th of july i got back with my babydaddy on the 27th of july and stayed with him they my due date is april 23 2009 i am pregnant with twins i need to ...
A. 6 September 2008: Yep, I agree, the only way to find out is with a DNA test. I recommend you to do it.
You could either tell your guy or not and if he bails out on you, at least you could still ask for paternity pay for either guy (whoever is the father). The law ... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with my best friend's boyfriend?
Q. I've known "Mark" for about 4 years and "Hannah" for 11 years, they are my best friends and I feel very close to them both. I've had feelings for Mark for a number of years now but they are not reciprocated - he told me last year that he just wanted ...
A. 6 September 2008: You say that you're ready for sex but you won't be ready for the emotional baggage that will come after it.
You should know, before hand, that sex is not a simple thing for the majority of the people, and clearly you belong in that group. Having s... (read in full...)
He hit me again today but I still love him. Please, someone tell me what to do...
Q. Hey, i'm 19, I have been with my boyfriend for more than a year. About 4 months ago, he started hitting me. Nothing really to start with but it got worse. Today he burst my nose and strangled me, I think that it was probably the most terrifying ...
A. 6 September 2008: When you said "I need someone to tell me what to do" I finally realized what's your problem.You're a pushover. You let people dictate you what to do, you let people pu you down. He manipulated you into believing you still care for him. Please, snap ... (read in full...)
I had a really weird dream about this guy. What does it mean?
Q. Last night I had this realy wierd dream. It was about me and this other boy I have never seen in real life, and came into the room and we were about to have sex but then I had told him I was not ready. And it felt so real like it was it was ...
A. 6 September 2008: Whenever I have a dream that mesmerizes me, I always go to this website:
http://www.dreammoods.com/
This website has helped me a lot understanding my dreams. It's very easy to understand and use. Also, if you want a more in depth analysis o... (read in full...)
Does this guy have issues?
Q. Very strange guy i am thinking. See what you think. Were in same yr at school, met up on facebook few weeks ago, met in person 2 weeks ago tomorrow for a drink in the day. I went out with mates that night, he txt saying pop round on way home, i ...
A. 6 September 2008: I think your age is wrong.
Ok, let's put this in your perspective. Would you have liked it if he "jokingly" had said "...but you're so fat!" Or have said "Why would anyone talk to you?" Out of nowhere?
The thing is that you can't joke with ... (read in full...)
Do men who don't watch porn exist or should I give up and stay single?...
Q. when I commit to a special man I hope to be his only and for him to get his sexual arousal from my body alone...is this too much to ask.....I cant imagine ever needing to look at another mans body for arousal once commited....and I cant imagine ever ...
A. 5 September 2008: Yes they exist! In a magical land were ALL women are NOT naggy and ALL men pay attention!
And if you close your eyes, shake your head, you can imagine seeing it.... (read in full...)
How do I stop my crush on my teacher?
Q. i am in love with my 58 yr old physical education teacher n i am abt to turn 15.i was totally depressed in my 9th grade when my boyfriend cheated on me,he helped me get out of the stuff.its been 2 years and we are now very good friends.we frequently ...
A. 5 September 2008: I think you're confused.
I'm sorry if I offended you but what would a man his age want with a girl as young as you? I think you confused his friendly actions as a sign that he liked you and you fell for him, specially since he was there for you ... (read in full...)
Is our age difference something to worry about?
Q. I just have a question. I am 18 and i believe i am falling for a 25 year old. I have known him a long time, we have been good friends. Is there something wrong with this? Is there too big of an age difference?...
A. 5 September 2008: I agree.
You're legal and you both have strong feelings for each other.
Haven't you heard of the saying "Love knows no boundaries"? that includes age too.... (read in full...)
Is it ok for a 15-year-old to have sex with a 26-year-old?
Q. Is it ok for a 15 year old male (me) to go out with a 26 year old women and have sex?? Any advice?...
A. 5 September 2008: Morally, legally, and socially, it's very wrong.
Advice? Stop having sex with this lady. If someone ever finds out, she will be in a heap of trouble, and if she has a husband, watch out for your health.... (read in full...)
We had unprotected sex and he came in me but some of the fluid came out. Am I safe?
Q. ok i had my period two weeks ago and i had unprotected sex yesterday and he came inside of me and some of it came out. does it all come out or doess some stay in and does that cause me to get pregnant?...
A. 5 September 2008: To Uncle Phil:
No, they don't :(. I really never had that class, even though I went to a semi-urban school where you would see lots of pregnant girls in the school.
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And original poster:
Go buy a pregnancy test because your risk... (read in full...)
How can I make this boy like me?
Q. I realy like his Boy..I talk 2 him..But i dont now if he likes me..So can you help me gett him 2 like me..?...
A. 5 September 2008: Talk to him more often.
When you tak to him, look at him at his eyes. Make sure to use a lot of body language like touching your hair, touching/teasing the guy you like often. Smile a lot and always try to pay attention to what he says.
These u... (read in full...)
As I leave this world in silence...
Q. Just a little something i wrote nd want to share : -Everyone smiles and falls for my fake smile and laughs as the truth lays hidden. -I wish I could erase all traces of my existence and fade away for eternity. -Deep inside I am strong, I ha...
A. 5 September 2008: I used to feel the same way as you do (which I think you may have based your poem about, your "torments of teenagehood")
I thought I was dark, mysterious, and probably tormented. Now I look back and I think "No, you were just confused". I was conf... (read in full...)
I have anxiety issues, and can't cope well with the changes after moving states...
Q. Hi everyone, This question isn't about dating, love or sex, but I could really use some advice. 2 weeks ago, I moved states (Adelaide to QLD), and I start a new school on Monday. Back in Adelaide I have some really close friends who I don't thin...
A. 5 September 2008: I moved schools on my senior year. From a school I adored, where my boyfriend graduated, and where I held many dear friends. Of course, I was devastated.
Like sugarcookie said, you could open up to people. You know, if you decide to dwell on anoth... (read in full...)
Is true happiness just a myth, will nothing ever be okay??
Q. Hey everyone, this is for all of you, ive recently became part of ''Dear cupid'' and been reading all of these articles, written by guys, girls, of all ages and i just wonder so much of the time, how could a world as cruel as ours even exist?? ...
A. 5 September 2008: Yes it's true. The whole world is full of unpleasant things. Dispair, sadness, horror surround us and it's almost imaginable. But also, there's love, happiness, and sense of goodness and justice in this world, which most often goes unheeded. ... (read in full...)
He keeps wanting to meet up even though I have a boyfriend?!
Q. yesterday, this boy i know told me that he really liked me, i kind of guessed from the way he always is with me; constantly talking to me, hugging etc. i was flattered, but had to say no for certain reasons. i thought and everyone else thought he ...
A. 5 September 2008: Tell him what you told us now; it sounded very gentle to me.
Tell him that you "already have a boyfriend that I love to pieces. I only see you as a friend and nothing more, so I would like to stay like that because I value your friendship a lot"
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What can I do to get my mom to understand I'm having protected sex with a guy I love?
Q. ten days ago, i got in from a night out to find that my mum had found my pills. i am 15 and 11 months and have a boyfriend who is 17 and 2 months. we have been together a year now, but about three months ago, the question of sex had come up, he ...
A. 5 September 2008: Well, it's going to be really hard. No parent would want to know that their children are growing up too fast too soon. I would say that your mom is taking it to the extreme, though. I would have understood banning your boyfriend from the house a... (read in full...)
Does this dream have any meaning?
Q. I just transfered to a new school, and I feel great about it. Except for the fact that a certain person won't be there and never will. This particular person is my teacher, well, now ex-teacher. I start school tomorrow at my new school, going in...
A. 5 September 2008: Everytime I have a weird dream that mesmerizes me, I always go to this website:
http://www.dreammoods.com/
It's been very helpful to make me understand some of my dreams. You can also email the owner for her to explain your dream more in de... (read in full...)
Do I like him? I'm feeling confused.
Q. ok... i like this guy aaron and he had a g.f adn they broke up and me and him are good friends... she startes spreading shit about me b/c we were friends... and now he said he likes me and stuff but the thing hat worrys me is 1) they are friends ...
A. 5 September 2008: I don't know. We can't tell from what you said and sincerily, we can't really know what you're feeling.
But a good way to know is to look into your heart and ask yourself "Do I like him?" and picture moments when you two were happy.
And if ... (read in full...)
Is it worth going against my friends and hers so we can be together?
Q. i realy like this girl, and she likes me, but the one problem is that shes one of my mates sisters, im 17 and shes 15, and were pretty certain we could go pretty far, but the her sister is over protective,i guess, and doesnt want her going anywhere ...
A. 5 September 2008: I think you should get to know the girl better, as a friend. You have to make sure of your decision so you won' regret it later.
Also, try to see if your feelings for her are true and real. Try to honestly see that what you have is not simply a... (read in full...)
A lot of people think my girlfriend is a loser and she's afraid I'll leave her because of that, which is not true. What can I do to change her mind?
Q. I'm dating a girl who everyone says she's a loser (which she isn't) and I'm being treated differently for it. When we started dating all my friends kept saying need to dump her. She put up with a lot of crap from everyone (like jocks, popular girls ...
A. 5 September 2008: I'm with Tremor here. You have showed amazing character for not falling against peer pressure.
Also, another way to convince her you'll stay, besides on keeping on assuring her, is to show it through actions, which you have done so very good. Al... (read in full...)
What are the chances of pregnancy if you have sex while the girl is on her period?
Q. me and my girlfriend has sex while she was on her period and didnt use a condom but i did not cum in her what are the chances she could get pregnent?...
A. 5 September 2008: They're very slim but they're still there. Remember that the only method that is 100% effective against pregnancies/stds is abstinence.
Next time try to use a condom. It's really not that bad if you choose the correct style. Plus, with it you will... (read in full...)
Is a 19 year old boy to old for a 14 year old girl?
Q. so its this boy that just turned 19 that likes me and im 14 so does tha age difference matter? he is soooooo sexy and fine i ant him soo bad but idk...
A. 5 September 2008: It would be a problem, yes, because you're still way underage. If anything sexual happens then he will probably go to jail.
And from the sounds of it, you're not there because of his "personality", so don't come crying back here saying that he ... (read in full...)
What should I do so she chooses me?! It's either me or the other guy!
Q. I have a problem iv been with a girl for 2 months..now she says she need space I asked why...her bestfriend told her that he loves her after he heard about us...he told her I waited for u 3 years...she says she feels bad about this that he waited so ...
A. 4 September 2008: I'm glad you chose to take that course of action. Right now, at least she will now that you're also a good guy.
Let's hope she chooses you, just remember it's a 50% chance, so let's just see.... (read in full...)
What should I do so she chooses me?! It's either me or the other guy!
Q. I have a problem iv been with a girl for 2 months..now she says she need space I asked why...her bestfriend told her that he loves her after he heard about us...he told her I waited for u 3 years...she says she feels bad about this that he waited so ...
A. 4 September 2008: I doubt these will work. The decision will be hers anyways and she might base them in entirely different reasons than what you think.
But what you could try to do is just be really nice to her. Show your best side when you're around her and ALWA... (read in full...)
Do you think he will start wanting me if I suddenly disappear from his life?
Q. Theres this guy .we have sex every now and then but i really fancy him. I feel an connection. Im a confident sexy woman who knows her self. He knows shes all these things but he doesnt want 2 show it.if i walked away do u think he would realiyze ...
A. 4 September 2008: I think you will be dissapointed in the end, but you don't lose on trying out, right?
To me, it sounds like he only sees this relationship as purely physical and he's apparently enjoying it.
Have you talked to him about your feelings? You ma... (read in full...)
I fell in love with my female teacher but I don't know what to do about this.
Q. Im 18 years old and i just graduated from high school in june. Im in love with one of my teachers. i had her as a teacher the 1st semester. She is 23 years old so there is not that big of an age difference. I have sepent a lot of time with her alon...
A. 4 September 2008: You could start by asking her out in a friendly manner. Tell her you want to keep being acquainted because you thought of her as your role model and as the best teacher ever and specially, a friend.
Get to know her more. Develop a friendsh... (read in full...)
Is a four year age gap acceptable in a relationship?
Q. Is 17 and 21 an ok age difference? My cuson is nearly 17 and she likes a guy whos 21, is 4 years an ok age differnce? we live in the UK so its legal...
A. 4 September 2008: I agree with aphexinfinite. Age is just a number BUT we always have to remember if that age is legal to do stuff with
But since in this case it is, I see no problem with it.
Love knows no boundaries. Just remember that.... (read in full...)
Please help me choose my wedding dress!
Q. I've posted problems here before and tonight I'm going to keep it lighthearted and happy! I'm having a real hard time picking out a wedding dress. Me and my fiance havent set a date yet but me being typical female means i'm already looking ...
A. 4 September 2008: I agree with Diovan, the purple one is absolutely stunning (or it might be because purple is my favorite color)
I'd say buy that one and the big petticote and you'll have an incredible dress!... (read in full...)
Please help me choose my wedding dress!
Q. I've posted problems here before and tonight I'm going to keep it lighthearted and happy! I'm having a real hard time picking out a wedding dress. Me and my fiance havent set a date yet but me being typical female means i'm already looking ...
A. 4 September 2008: Here are the original poster's links for those who are too lazy to google them:
http://fairygothmother.co.uk/newimages3/large/70-m2520_78l.jpg
http://fairygothmother.co.uk/newimages3/large/v1808redl.jpg
http://fairygothmothe... (read in full...)
Do guys care how a vagina looks like?
Q. okay so ive just been watchin this documentry called the perfect vagina and baslicly its a woman makin a documenntry goin round and explorin vaginas lol, shes been askin men if the way a vagina looks puts them off sex and the amount that have said ...
A. 4 September 2008: Thanks Emilyanswers for explaining.
Now I want to watch that! I also want to know why in the world this woman would even do that? AHH!
I used to think that a woman would cut the hair for aesthetic/hygene reasons, but this woman got TOOOOOOOOO... (read in full...)
Is a relationship only for the "in love"? What is the difference between "love" and "in love"?
Q. I would like to know the definition of "in love". The english language is terrible in describing emotion, but I'm wondering if the difference between "love" and "in love" are that large? And if it matters. Is a relationship with someone worth fi...
A. 4 September 2008: You can love many people. You love your friends, you love your family, you lover your pets. But falling in love takes longer, takes work and sweat and a special spark between you and your partner.
The difference between love and being in love is ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to lose your virginity with your clothes on?
Q. I was wondering if I have on my clothes and I come into contact with a male who has on clothes as well and I feel his penis kind of touch my vagina is that losing the virginity?I was in pain afterwards but there was no bleeding.I was emotional and ...
A. 4 September 2008: To anonymous poster below me:
Yes, sex-ed is really bad in United States. I didn't even have that class.
As for the O.P, like many have pointed out, you lose your virginity when the penis enters your vagina, no matter how far or for how long ... (read in full...)
Do guys care how a vagina looks like?
Q. okay so ive just been watchin this documentry called the perfect vagina and baslicly its a woman makin a documenntry goin round and explorin vaginas lol, shes been askin men if the way a vagina looks puts them off sex and the amount that have said ...
A. 4 September 2008: No, I think that guys are more interested in getting one.
"Tucked in vagina"? And please, explain yourself by "getting vagina stuffed" and having "private parts cut off?... (read in full...)
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