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Location: Texas, USA
Favorite color: purple
Favorite food: anything sweet.
Least favorite food: spicy foods.
Relationship status: In a relationship
Ticks: annoying/bratty people. I will usually tell them to just shut up. Also, rude people tick me off a lot.
Likes to: Laugh, smile, and just have great time.
Doesn't like: The rain; I can feel it comming and usually it's not a good feeling.. Stuff that makes me sad. Spicy foods.
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I was so mad I slapped her across the face!
Q. My brother died couple of weeks ago because he had canner. I even missied a week of school because of it. When I told my best friend say I'm "obsessed" with him and need to forget about him. I was so mad I slapped her across the face1!! Why would ...
A. 13 August 2008: Oh, sorry, I didn't read the part of what she did with your boyfriend. I'm really sorry and I know see what she did to you. I would like to think that she was sincere, but a part of me tells me she wasn't. I'm sorry that your friend came out to be a ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend seems to think it's all about things. How can I tell him I need his LOVE too?
Q. Well ive been with my boyfreind for a year.. And he loves me very much and i love him to. He buys me everything i want but my boyfriend thinks its all about thingz he thinks that if he buys me things i'll stay happy but no... I need his love too.. ...
A. 20 July 2008: I apologize for the message before. I got kind of confused :/
I know it's cliched, but love does conquer all.
Good luck and I hope you have prosperity in your relationship with your boyfriend!... (read in full...)
I was so mad I slapped her across the face!
Q. My brother died couple of weeks ago because he had canner. I even missied a week of school because of it. When I told my best friend say I'm "obsessed" with him and need to forget about him. I was so mad I slapped her across the face1!! Why would ...
A. 20 July 2008: You didn't do anything to her, and if you did actually hurt her feelings somehow, she still crossed way over the line.
But if you she finnally sees her stupidity and she comes and tries to ask for forgiveness and she looks truely sorry, I hope y... (read in full...)
My boyfriend seems to think it's all about things. How can I tell him I need his LOVE too?
Q. Well ive been with my boyfreind for a year.. And he loves me very much and i love him to. He buys me everything i want but my boyfriend thinks its all about thingz he thinks that if he buys me things i'll stay happy but no... I need his love too.. ...
A. 20 July 2008: Did you want an advise or just someone to agree with you?
Remember that there's more wisdom in acting selfless than in thinking only about yourself.... (read in full...)
I was so mad I slapped her across the face!
Q. My brother died couple of weeks ago because he had canner. I even missied a week of school because of it. When I told my best friend say I'm "obsessed" with him and need to forget about him. I was so mad I slapped her across the face1!! Why would ...
A. 18 July 2008: Oh wow I was so wrong about her. I really thought she would come through after she said that to you.
Like the others said, you have to leave this girl. She's not your friend and what she just said is even more terrible. I really hope you slapped ... (read in full...)
Intelligence is something I highly prize in a partner but he's not the brightest crayon in the box!
Q. So, I'm between a rock and a hard place. Not to blow my own horn, but I'm one of those annoying smart people; I consider myself well read, knowledgeable, and (I'll admit it) I'm a pain in the ass when it comes to debating. I thrive on informat...
A. 13 July 2008: FinnMcCool, I have to disagree with you.
A person in a relationship that only cares what they want and never what the person wants, then the person is utterly selfish and not worth the time. Compromising is vital in a ralationship because ... (read in full...)
I was so mad I slapped her across the face!
Q. My brother died couple of weeks ago because he had canner. I even missied a week of school because of it. When I told my best friend say I'm "obsessed" with him and need to forget about him. I was so mad I slapped her across the face1!! Why would ...
A. 13 July 2008: Well people change with a person if that said person has experienced a loss.
For example, one of my closest friend was diagnosed with cancer. Before this, many people ignored her or just didn't pay attention to her. After she was diagnose... (read in full...)
My husband has started to cheat. What should I do?
Q. Hi i have been married since 3 years and have 2 months baby boy.my problem is tht my husband has started cheating me without any general reason .i m 23 and he is 24.i cant stand this as he does not love me and care for me any more.he doesnt even ...
A. 13 July 2008: First I want to tell you I'm sorry your marriage is not a happy one.
You're not happy and this is affecting you a lot. And he is not willing to change for you and doesn't even care for you. You already know the answer! You have to end the relation... (read in full...)
My boyfriend seems to think it's all about things. How can I tell him I need his LOVE too?
Q. Well ive been with my boyfreind for a year.. And he loves me very much and i love him to. He buys me everything i want but my boyfriend thinks its all about thingz he thinks that if he buys me things i'll stay happy but no... I need his love too.. ...
A. 13 July 2008: Well, have you tried to tell him this? Most people cannot read minds and some people are clueless when some people try to imply something (I find myself guilty here).
Why don't you try to make a nice conversation with him and tell him how you ... (read in full...)
I'm really scared that I might be pregnant
Q. Dear ________, I see my boyfriend almost everyday, or at least talk to him but, when he told me he was going away for a week to a town 2 hours away and I couldn't talk to him at all, I knew I had to do something to let him know that I really l...
A. 13 July 2008: Like O'Connor said, it's very unlikely you're pregnant, but things like this do happen. The only way to make sure is to get a pregnancy test of go to your doctor and get checked.
Also think about when he fingered you. Did he go into the vagina w... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's ex is a good friend of mine and now he has gone really jealous, the whole situation is totally awkward now, Iove her, what do I do??
Q. Ok, so i fell in love with this girl and she is currently my girlfriend , but her ex who is also a good friend of mine seems to be jealous and stil in love with her. I asked him if it was ok to go out with her and he plainly said said no. Also, he ...
A. 13 July 2008: I can't really help much here because I was in the same situation (My boyfriend is the ex of an ex-close friend of mine) but one thing you should do is listen to your heart. My ex-friend told me it was ok to be with him (I never told her I liked him ... (read in full...)
I like this lad and he likes me - but he has a girlfriend and I don't know what to do.
Q. i really really like a lad at school who i think likes me aswell cos he flirts with me nearly as much as i do with him, and that is a lot! the only problem is that he has got a girlfriend and i dont know what to do! he probably knows that i like him ...
A. 13 July 2008: I don't have a good image of this guy. You say he gets along with his girlfriend and flirts a LOT with you. Now, if he were to leave his girlfriend and you got ahold of him somehow, would you stand him flirting with another girl as much as he di... (read in full...)
I have a crush on my physical therapist.
Q. I have a crush on my physical therapist....I am certainly not going to act on it, i.e. ask her out or anything like that but I now feel very uncomfortable around her. She is so nice to me...and she is a great therapist but I dont k now what to do....
A. 13 July 2008: So if you're question is how to act around her, then what you could do is think on how you used to act with her before you got a crush on her. Write this down in paper and memorize the list. Then when you're with her try to remember how you used to ... (read in full...)
How could I have been taken in by such a gigalo?
Q. I have been married for 3 yrs (was together 2 yrs before). I have 2 children from a previous relationship. I came out of my last relationship with a good settlement and my partner at that time is now my husband. Its been a hard year. My husband ...
A. 13 July 2008: Well, gigolos put a front face of being charming and nice and you surely fell for the trap. But the most foolish thing here is that you still let him control you for everything. He hasn't taken any penny from you, you have given it to him! I bet... (read in full...)
How do I get over my husband's brother?
Q. I have found myself in a very difficult situation and do not know how to deal with it. I met my hubby when I was 12 and he was 14 - and have been together since then. I married him at 18 and he is pretty much a nice guy. He has a brother who is 2 ...
A. 13 July 2008: What I noticed in your whole description is that rarely mentioned your husband. It seems that you have focused yourself on thinking about his brother so much that you forget about your own feelings for your husband. Now, don't get me wrong, I know ... (read in full...)
Are all of my positive qualities "outweighed" by the way I look?
Q. I am 6 foot 18 years old dark haired. Unfortunately I am very overweight. My looks aren't bad for my weight, and I have good posture and can generally hold in my stomach. But it doesn't hide my weight. I have been told that I am a really sweet guy...
A. 13 July 2008: Oh, you just made an almost exact description of my brother!
Like hlskitten said, some people will be put off by your weight and not even consider your other qualities. But you know what? Those people are not even worht it because they were sha... (read in full...)
What do you, the agony aunt, think of my situation?
Q. I must be crazy... I very recently decided that I should move in with my boyfriend of a year and a bit. He's not that financially stable, but he loves me, and I love him... But I've recently come across my oldest friend. We knew each othe...
A. 13 July 2008: I think you should give it time to make sure of your feelings. Many people feel sparks at first with some friends they have when they first meet them for a long time, and you may be in the same situation. Don't really do something impulsive, like ... (read in full...)
Intelligence is something I highly prize in a partner but he's not the brightest crayon in the box!
Q. So, I'm between a rock and a hard place. Not to blow my own horn, but I'm one of those annoying smart people; I consider myself well read, knowledgeable, and (I'll admit it) I'm a pain in the ass when it comes to debating. I thrive on informat...
A. 13 July 2008: I know many people would like an intelligent person to be with, but intelligence shouldn't be the top aspect of that person. Kindness, communication, and understanding should be, and your boyfriend is kind and at least tries to communicate and ... (read in full...)
Both girls want a relationship with me and I'm to blame. How do I go about this without using them?
Q. Hi lately I have been going on dates... Basically theres two girls which I like, at the weekend me and one of the girls went on a camping weekend, at end of night we ending up having sex together. The other girl I havent met yet but she's ...
A. 13 July 2008: Well, you really can't date them both because at the end you'll end up hurting both of them. You have to choose, and the seemingly best choice is the girl you went to camp with since you know her and trust her. And what does it matter if she lives ... (read in full...)
How do you act graceful in the midst of a former flame?
Q. How do you act graceful in the midst of a former flame? There was a man I was in love with a couple of years ago and now we will have to confront each other at an professional event. I know when we see each other there will be sparks again but...
A. 13 July 2008: Try to remind yourself that he's just another person that you might do business with. Try to keep the same proffesional distance you have with other people with him. To make this easy for you, try to take time and think about your behavior, speech ... (read in full...)
Would he love me more if I was in a porn film?
Q. If your boyfriend watches Internet porn should you film an internet porn film of yourself? My boyfriend watches porn, even though he thinks I don't know it. He goes on the internet, and he consistently lies about going on the porn sites, even thou...
A. 13 July 2008: No, he would not. If a guy asks you to do something like this to prove your love, then this guy doesn't love you. This is just like the equivalent for a 15-year-old to ask his 13-year-old girlfriend to sleep with him so she can "prove" him she loves ... (read in full...)
I'm worried about my cousin touching me inappropriately...what should I do?
Q. I'm 14, almost 15. I'm very close to my cousins, and I often go to their house and spend the night. I usually stay in the same room with 2 of them cause theirs not enough space. In the beginning of this year, one cousin thats my age started touching ...
A. 13 July 2008: You really really have to tell someone about this behavior. Tell both your aunt and uncle and your parents. This is a serious thing that is bothering you and it's affecting you gravely. I know this sounds weird to do but it's for YOUR benefit and ... (read in full...)
My ex stood me up...does he miss me and feel something for me?
Q. my ex and i dated twice now i broke up with him the first time and then he broke up with me the second time. i never really got over him. i am alwayas thinking about him wondering should i just talk and tell him how i feel. then out of the blue he ...
A. 13 July 2008: Well, many factors could have played in him stooding(sp?) you up. Maybe you went to the wrong cinema, or the wrong time, or the wrong day. Maybe there was traffic or his friends were being lazy and didn't get ready fast. Or the simple fact that he ... (read in full...)
I was so mad I slapped her across the face!
Q. My brother died couple of weeks ago because he had canner. I even missied a week of school because of it. When I told my best friend say I'm "obsessed" with him and need to forget about him. I was so mad I slapped her across the face1!! Why would ...
A. 13 July 2008: I know some people really can't deal with the whole death situation but what she did was extremely innapropiate. I understand your reaction completely (although I don't resource to physical action, but this is just over the line).
What you shou... (read in full...)
How pathetic am I?
Q. I've been friends with this girl for a year now and after falling in love with her, she didn't want to hurt my feelings because she knew how I felt. So she wouldn't go out with anyone for a while as she just wanted to be friends with me, which I put ...
A. 13 July 2008: You're not pathetic at all. This is just life and life sometimes sucks big time. I'm sorry your friend didn't return your feelings and feeling rejected by someone whom you strongly feel something is terrible.
Now, you may just ask what to do to ge... (read in full...)
When will I get my boobs?!
Q. im 12, nearly 13, im a girl and i have pubes and armpit hair and all of that, but what i wanted to know is when will i start getting boobs? and how will i know im developing? and what age did you have them at? thanks :)...
A. 13 July 2008: You shouldn't really worry about the growth of your boobs. Focus on developing a nice personality and a big intelligence because that's what's worth. Although the size of your boobs DO give you a status, they don't necessarily mean beauty.
Now, ... (read in full...)
I lied about my age so it only lasted 2 days! I was in love so how do I recover?
Q. Okay...here it is.. i know im young,but im positive i fell in love last year. i lied about my age, it lasted 2 days and he hates me now. i can't stop thinking about him and it hurts so much. i can't go on without closure. i miss so much it makes me ...
A. 13 July 2008: What Secret Teller said is right. Love isn't built on lies, it's built in trust, compromise, relience. Why did you lied to him about your age? Probably because you knew you wouldn't get him if you had lied some things about you. I'm sorry if this ... (read in full...)
How can anyone throw insults like that with no reason? What did I do to deserve it?
Q. I have always been a very out going confident person. I was popular in my first high school and was in the popular group of girls and we had a really chilled out friendship group it was really nice. Then in my last year of high school my family m...
A. 13 July 2008: Sorry if this is too long but I would like you to read it all. "Why did they say that to me?" -They said that to you because they're souless assholes who have no mind of their own. Those kind of people try to look for "perfection" in everythi... (read in full...)
Am I unable to have intimacy?
Q. Hello. I have been doing some serious thinking about relationships and my habits towards them in general and also the opposite sex. I suppose I have to give those of you reading this a little background on myself: Well, I am an only ch...
A. 12 July 2008: A mature man would probably be more experienced than a guy your age. The good thing about your age is that age-range of men you like will most likely see a more deeper relationship since you're already an adult and you would have so much more in ... (read in full...)
We are best friends, don't want to ruin that, but I've started to like her as more than a friend, how do I tell her without messing up the friendship?
Q. Hi, I kind of like this girl, we've known each other for 2 or so years and we're just starting to be best friends now, but like I don't want to ruin anything between us but at the same time I want to tell her that I like her and I have done for a ...
A. 12 July 2008: What you could do first is verify your feelings for her. Try to see if what you feel now is what you will feel later. After much pondering if your answer is "yes", then you should tell her your feelings
I had this same situation happen to me, but ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend tells me how beautiful I am to him, I think otherwise, please help me, how do I see myself in a positive way?
Q. hi evryone ok i need guys opinions and possibly girls my bf tells me i have a amazing body but i dont see it i have no hips no curves no waist no boobs its very boyish and athletic more athletic i just dont understand y he loves my body so much ...
A. 12 July 2008: You know, not ALL guys like big boobs and skinny girls. Some of them like them big boned, some others liked them with small boobs. It's a guys preference and to actually tell you, most people who think a girl is beautiful usually look up to your ... (read in full...)
What can I do to not be such a party pooper?
Q. This may be a stupid thing to ask, since most of the questions are about relationships, but this does have to do with my relationships with other people. For the past few years, I've been living in London (recently moved to UK). The whole partyi...
A. 12 July 2008: Hey, you're not the only one, I have the same thing you do. I also hate going out to parties or clubs because for the same reasons you do. Yes, I love my friends and I DO hang out with them in private "parties" (where it's just me and my friends) ... (read in full...)
When is a good time to give a hand job?
Q. when is a good time to give a hand job when you two are lying down? or when your both sitting up and any tips?...
A. 12 July 2008: The good time to give a hand job is not at your age
Please ask this question again when you're of legal conscent.... (read in full...)
What do I do when the love of my life won't give me the time of day?
Q. me and my girlfriend have been going out for 5 months. during that time she ignored me the second week we were going out she cheated on me she has lied to me about many thing and last of all she is very aloof and rarely thinks bout peoples feelings ...
A. 12 July 2008: The sad thing here is that she doesn't think you're the love of her life. It may hurt and I think you know it but you are denying this because you love her.
In truth, you deserve better. You deserve someone who isn't self centered or spoiled ... (read in full...)
Sex.. is it all right to turn him down during that one week of the month?
Q. im sorry if this is innapropriate but am i right in this? ive been with my boyfriend for just over 8 months now, we started going out in december and we lost our virginities to each other in march. we both felt we were ready and it was the right ...
A. 11 July 2008: It's true what the other aunties say, if you don't feel right about doing something, then don't do it.
What I also suggest you to do is to talk to your boyfriend about this. Tell him that you're on your period and that you don't feel comforta... (read in full...)
Every lad thinks I'm ugly and its really getting me down. Will I ever find a boyfriend??
Q. Ok, so Im 15 and every lad I know thinks Im ugly. Even the ones who, themselves never get girlfriends, call me ugly. It really, really gets me down. They dont count my personality or how well we get on for anything. I DO have a nice body and my ...
A. 11 July 2008: If a guy tells you you're ugly it means that they're not meant for you. And also, you're looking here at 15-year olds. Teenagers who don't even have an idea about life and have a shallow sense of beauty. I bet that when you grow up and go to college ... (read in full...)
I promised my girlfriend a great gift, for her birthday, but I have no idea what to get her, please help me with suggestions?
Q. Its my girlfriends birthday coming up and we have been together what will be 2years in November. Stupidly I said to her that I will get her something really good for her birthday, now as it's getting closer she is starting to get excited by what I ...
A. 11 July 2008: A simple thing you could do is make a list of the things she likes and then think of something associated with the like. For example, if she likes candy, you could give her chocolate. But most girls go for the romantic. What you could do is plan... (read in full...)
Can I be a player and possibly cheat, without hurting anyone?
Q. when i was growing up i had the status. of getting with girls. ppl called me a player but i wasnt like a slut.. i finally settled down and i got a lil soft but just not really a player anymore. now finally i have girls in my life.. and i kind of ...
A. 11 July 2008: Well, tell right away to the girls you want an open relationship. Be honest of your intentions to them but be prepared to see some girls reject you. At least this option will make you free of persuing other girls while in a relationship.
I hop... (read in full...)
I have multiple girls in my life, and I am confused, please help me?
Q. once a maid told me that i should have 5 girlfriends and i should pick which one i want to marry.. 1 is my first love . ex girlfriend . a lot of drama . she got wit my one of my bestfriends after i hooked up wit her friend. ive hit her before w...
A. 11 July 2008: I think you should take a break from relationships. Being in so many has made you stressed and they're really not making you any good. You could still stay friends with those girls, but no more than that.
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