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Location: Texas, USA
Favorite color: purple
Favorite food: anything sweet.
Least favorite food: spicy foods.
Relationship status: In a relationship
Ticks: annoying/bratty people. I will usually tell them to just shut up. Also, rude people tick me off a lot.
Likes to: Laugh, smile, and just have great time.
Doesn't like: The rain; I can feel it comming and usually it's not a good feeling.. Stuff that makes me sad. Spicy foods.
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My first love broke my heart but I continue to have sex with him! How do I let go?
Q. Back in December my first love broke my heart. I didn't want to date for a long time. But, I met this boy in school and automatically fell for him. We only dated for little over a month but were together every waking second. Once we broke up we ...
A. 27 August 2008: Well, at least you're happy.
Hopefully he'll be a nice boyfriend to you.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is a bad boy in public, but a sweetheart with me. His drinking habits make me worry... how do I deal with this?
Q. Hello My boyfriend, (only just started daring him) - He's a bit wreckless and... well I guess you could call him a "bad boy". He told me that he uses this "bad boy image" as a kind of protective shield because he feels that everyone around him that...
A. 9 August 2008: You're welcome. I'm so happy this helped you.... (read in full...)
I'm a teen girl, how can I feel better about my body?
Q. okay so this isnt a relationship question but im a 16 year old, im not exactly slim, im a size 14/16 clothes, im a 38D bra, although i am happy with my body, do get attention from boys etc, im not comfortable with my boobs, they arent small, well ...
A. 8 August 2008: The best way to get a great cleavage is to get a great bra.
The reason why your boobs are sagging is becase your bra is not fitting you right. Go to a store where they sell good bras (I recommend Victoria Secret, but there are many other places) ... (read in full...)
I need help sorting out my friends and life
Q. hi my name is tom and i have started hanging about with this boy i know and he does care bout me and i thought he was my mate but i have true mates but i need help sorting my life out and i let my true mates go what do i do help me please ...
A. 8 August 2008: Sorry dear, but please be more specific, as I really don't know what's your problem yet. Please tell me what's wrong about your new friend and why you want to let go of your "true" friends, why you want help to sort out your life and your friend's ... (read in full...)
I would like to give my girl oral but not sure how to do it?
Q. Hi there. I'm an 18 year old guy and i'm in a serious relationship. Me and my girlfriend are really comfortable with sex and foreplay, but there is one thing i am a bit unsure about. My girlfriend gives me amazing blowjobs and handjobs all the...
A. 8 August 2008: Read this website:
http://www.ehow.com/how_1000251_give-oral-sex.html
They give you tips on how to perform good oral sex.
and this one:
http://www.askmen.com/love/player/28_love_games.html
It gives you a good pep-talk along with tip... (read in full...)
He never gave me his number... Is this a lost cause?
Q. I like this guy. We just recently got to know eachother, but we've known about eachother for a long time. He opened up to me more than he has with most people, especially about his past. I gave him my number, but he lost it and asked for it again ...
A. 8 August 2008: Probably he thought he was going too strong with you when he started talking to you very in depth when you were starting to know him.
Or probably he isn't a phone person. He may prefer the convenience of the computer (which is almost faceless... (read in full...)
He has a bad reputation but I like him, what can I do so that he feels the same?
Q. okay well i'm fourteen and i really like a guy named Andrew but he has a rep. he has gone out with alot of girls, including my bestfriend. but i still lik him lots. i dont know why. and he said he liked me, but then he changed his mind. right before ...
A. 5 August 2008: The simple thing is for you to not answer his messages.
It seems to me that you like the attention but you're aggrevated that he isn't being forward as you like. Many told you, stop talking to him. You're playing with fire here.... (read in full...)
I'm too scared to talk to my mum about periods/boobs and so on. Help!!
Q. I am 11, and 2 of my friends have started ther periods, the say that they asked their mum's about gettin boob's, problems 'down below' and all that.. but i feel i cant! I want to ask her about why I fancie like 5 boys in my class, and about periods ...
A. 5 August 2008: I was in the same situation. Even though I trusted my mom, I couldn't bring myself to ask her this type of questions because they embarrased me. My mom was the one who seeked me for this, but instead of talking to me (I guess she felt the same way), ... (read in full...)
He has a bad reputation but I like him, what can I do so that he feels the same?
Q. okay well i'm fourteen and i really like a guy named Andrew but he has a rep. he has gone out with alot of girls, including my bestfriend. but i still lik him lots. i dont know why. and he said he liked me, but then he changed his mind. right before ...
A. 5 August 2008: I don't know if your phone has this feature, but you can block phone numbers from calling you or texting you. See your manual if you still have it or try to do so yourself.
When he calls or texts you, just don't answer back. He has to learn he... (read in full...)
Do you know how to say 'a good looking guy' in french?
Q. do you know how to say a good looking guy in french? when i went to quebec with my school, i learned it but didnt know how to spell it. me and my friend tried to spell it, so maybe you can get it with this. we spelled it mesho pater'?...
A. 5 August 2008: I think it is:
"Vous êtes un garçon beau"
(You are a handsome guy)
... (read in full...)
We have been together 4 months, when is the right time to have sex?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for about 4 months now and I was wondering when is the right moment to have sex or if we should wait a little bit longer?...
A. 5 August 2008: The right time to have sex with him is when you two are comfortable with each other.
And to me, by you asking this question, it seems that you're probably not ready to start having sex yet since you're not even sure when to start.
To know when ... (read in full...)
I really, really like this girl, but I am unable to speak up and ask her out, please tell me how to go about it?
Q. This is a bit long, sorry. So, there's this girl I know, and I really, -really- like her. We first started talking in one of our classes that was had together for half a school year. So each day, for a period in the day, we would sit together an...
A. 5 August 2008: You could go straightfoward towards where she is and say "Can I please have a few moments with _____? I want to tell her something." Although her friends will probably respond with some "ooohs! and aaahs!" which probably make you feel embarrased, ... (read in full...)
Are there any Agony Aunts who speak French and wish to practice Spanish?
Q. This is not a relationship question. I was just wondering if there's an agony aunt who speaks French as a native speaker and wishes to practice Spanish. If there is anyone, would that person be willing to receive messages off and on, so that we ...
A. 4 August 2008: Thanks Danielepew for your help! I wish I had actually lived in Mexico since most of my hispanic friends are from Mexico.
At least I'm considered a Mexican in their hearts!... (read in full...)
Are there any Agony Aunts who speak French and wish to practice Spanish?
Q. This is not a relationship question. I was just wondering if there's an agony aunt who speaks French as a native speaker and wishes to practice Spanish. If there is anyone, would that person be willing to receive messages off and on, so that we ...
A. 4 August 2008: I know Spanish and English perfectly, but my French would need help. I can read some of it now, but I have forgotten most of it because I don't even practice it with anyone.
If you know a lot of French, I would like you to help me practice... (read in full...)
When will I find a true love?
Q. When will I find a true love?...
A. 4 August 2008: Try, see, and never give up.
You'll "find" it.... (read in full...)
Poll: When did you have your first kiss and the first relationship?
Q. Hey just a quick thing. Can you guys/girls tell me when you had your first kiss and when you first had a boyfriend/girlfriend? I'm 16 and never been kissed, never had a boyfriend, nothing. Just wanna know when you guys/girls had your f...
A. 4 August 2008: I was 15 and it was a kiss on the cheek. I don't exactly know where, but I think it was on the hallway of my highschool. The relationship lasted two months and it was my first relationship.
But with my current boyfriend (who I consider the love... (read in full...)
He says he hasn't done anything with other girls, yet people are telling me different. Who do I believe?
Q. i was seeing a guy for a while fairly seriously..and then it all went a bit wrong. we are now no longer anything serious but i will occasionally speak to him or see him on a level that is more than just friends. but i know he is no good for me and i ...
A. 4 August 2008: You said so yourself that he's no good for you and that he's messing you around, so why do you need to know if other people are telling the truth or not? You decided he's not good, so that's the reason for you breaking up.
I suggest you to read ... (read in full...)
We're total opposites. Can it ever work?
Q. I'm afraid it's another one of those opposite attraction questions. I don't really drink, smoke, swear, or get wasted too often, in fact, seldom ever; My interests include politics and history (boring I know). Yet I am completely transfixed by a ...
A. 4 August 2008: Nobody really knows. It may work, it may not work. But this will mainly depend on both of your levels of maturity and willingness to stay in the relationship.
Like many will tell you, give it a shot and don't worry, but hope for a bright future. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is a bad boy in public, but a sweetheart with me. His drinking habits make me worry... how do I deal with this?
Q. Hello My boyfriend, (only just started daring him) - He's a bit wreckless and... well I guess you could call him a "bad boy". He told me that he uses this "bad boy image" as a kind of protective shield because he feels that everyone around him that...
A. 4 August 2008: Go talk to your boyfriend and express your concern about what he did. Tell him what you wrote here and express sincerity in his words.
When you do this, try to choose your words wisely. Try to be careful to not sound like you're accusing him of a... (read in full...)
I had to open my big mouth, now I don't know if he's losing interest!
Q. hello, i know this is lond and im sorry but ur advice is greatly needed and thanked! i have a question about this guy we will call him "jay"! well hes my ex boyfriend but im still in love with him and he says he feels the same way but i feel like ...
A. 3 August 2008: Oh, that's a good option. Good luck and I hope this boy realizes you still love him and that he asks you out!... (read in full...)
I'm flirting with a boy, but I really want a girl.
Q. WHY DO I ALWAYS DO THIS :(!!.... I have been flirting with this boy i know for a while, and he thinks i really like him, which i do. hes sweet and kind....but its not him i really i want. really im falling for a girl from work (who is so straight). ...
A. 3 August 2008: Awww, well, I'm sure this happened for your own good. At least you know when to back off and not try to persue something that will never happen.
The good thing is that many hot girls are bisexual for some reason.
Good luck in a future relations... (read in full...)
Are women typically interested in one night stands as much as men?
Q. Simple question: Are women typically interested in one night stands as much as men? Just curious....
A. 3 August 2008: Most women think that one-night stands mean "We'll have sex this night, tomorrow I'll call you and we'll start a relationship soon after that."
Or at least this is what they expect. You see, many MANY women confuse sex with love, so they often th... (read in full...)
Not sure if I could have gotten pregnant, should I resort to plan B?
Q. okay so i am 16, and i was fooling around with my boyfriend, as far as i know he did not bust. He was about to put his penis in my, and it was about a few cm in, is there any chance that i could have gotten pregnant? should i take plan b?...
A. 3 August 2008: There is a chance that you might have gotten pregnat, but it's very very slim.
I suggest for you to go get a pregnancy test if you're too worried. You really aren't sure that you're pregnant and nobody can tell you, so that's the best option y... (read in full...)
My girlfriend accuses me of cheating, I haven't, I just flirt, how do I get her to trust me?
Q. my girlfriend thinks 'I'm cheating which I'm not (also because its wrong) all because most of my friend are girls. I admit we can get a little flirty. But I'm trying to tune that down a bit. Why doesn't she trust me? I'm a not a two timer....
A. 3 August 2008: She probably has low self-esteem issues and sees your female friends as better rivals that can steal your love from her. She probably feels less than them and feel also inadequate as they may know you more than she does. She may think of them as way ... (read in full...)
I just want to say 'hey' and sorry for not dating him, but he ignores my myspace messages and comments! What to do?
Q. Alright this has been on my mind sort of like crazy, but before i started dating my boyfriend there was this guy that i was really good friends with and he liked me. but when i started dating my boyfriend he really didnt like the fact i talked to ...
A. 3 August 2008: Are you sure that he ignores your myspace comments and messages and not because he hasn't signed in for a long time?
I'm sorry that your boyfriend tells you this, but tell him that you wish to keep a friendship with the guy because he's a good per... (read in full...)
My girlfriend ended things with me because she's ill, I'm worried that she won't come back to me when she's feeling better!
Q. My girlfriend and I broke up the other night. She says she does still love me, and her feelings for me have not changed at all. She has a very serious medical condition, and at the minute she is very ill. She does not have the energy for a relation...
A. 3 August 2008: What you should try to worry right now is about her and her health. Take care of her. Be there for her, even when you two aren't together. Your ex needs suppor for her health condition and the reason why she ended things with you is that she may not ... (read in full...)
I had to open my big mouth, now I don't know if he's losing interest!
Q. hello, i know this is lond and im sorry but ur advice is greatly needed and thanked! i have a question about this guy we will call him "jay"! well hes my ex boyfriend but im still in love with him and he says he feels the same way but i feel like ...
A. 3 August 2008: Probably he is.
You two are not together and he's probably just moving on. Remember that people change and their feelings too. He may have loved you in the past, but since now you two aren't together and he just wants to move on. If you two love... (read in full...)
I've been dialing my ex's new girlfriend while drunk and leaving nasty messages about him cheating on her with me!
Q. I started seeing my ex boyfriend in september, we finally tied the knot in october and lasted until may, that was when we both finally had enough. It was a long and hard eight months to get through. All though we've been through alot of ups and ...
A. 3 August 2008: What do you do? The answer is infron of your eyes. YOU know it but don't want to accept it. GET OVER HIM.
What you did wrong here is that you kept a physical relationship with him after you broke up. And how did he respond to that? He went out... (read in full...)
Teacher help--does he fancy me too?
Q. hiya guys! a year ago now a teacher joined my school. (not teaching me though) as soon as we got talking we automatically had some heat between us. i know girl's have crushes on teachers all the time. but he is differnt. everything we say turns in...
A. 3 August 2008: Before anything, first read these articles:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/a-student-is-in-love-with-me-how.html
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-falling-for-your-teacher-is-never-good.html
http://www.de... (read in full...)
His best friend is a girl and I feel they are too close...
Q. I've been going out with my boyfriend for 4 months and we are so close! but lately i feel as if he's getting taken away from me, his best friend is a girl and he is so close to her maybe a bit too close. he promises me nothing will ever happen ...
A. 3 August 2008: How close is close?
You have to realize that she's his best friend and the only thing that worries you is that she's a girl. If you think there's something between them, then why the hell is he with you? You're already 4 months with him, so it mu... (read in full...)
I feel like I can't compete with the girls of his past
Q. Hey im aiming for a guy i really like we dont really know each other but ive heard a lot about him (im not a stalker lol) but yer ive heard hes got with and laid quite a few stunning girls, hes very handsome himself. how can i compete with these ...
A. 3 August 2008: Well, the first step on competing with someone else is to NOT compare yourself with these same people.
Now, in reality, beauty isn't everything. Yes, it's an important aspect of our lives (sadly), but it isn't a deffinite in a relation... (read in full...)
He's got a rep of a player but he says he's not, do I believe him?
Q. rite well theres this guy i hav known on and off for over 2 years. hes 15 (im only 13) and is a bit of a scally and is associated with a few dodgy people in the area. i hadnt seen him 4 ages until wednesday when he saw me washing cars and came ove...
A. 3 August 2008: I'd say follow your instincts and go out with him, but still keep a watchful eye. Don't let him take you for a fool.
Now, he may have as well been redeemed for his past actions. Age hits well with these kind of people, but also experience too. You... (read in full...)
I'm flirting with a boy, but I really want a girl.
Q. WHY DO I ALWAYS DO THIS :(!!.... I have been flirting with this boy i know for a while, and he thinks i really like him, which i do. hes sweet and kind....but its not him i really i want. really im falling for a girl from work (who is so straight). ...
A. 3 August 2008: I'm so glad! Like I said it before, that seriously ticks me off. Those kind of people put a bad name on (us) good bisexuals!
But you haven't told us if you followed any of the advises and what has happened to you lately. At least I would like to ... (read in full...)
What should I do? Wait around for graduation and see if I "run into" him again, or just completely get over him?
Q. I have a slight dilemma. I've recently developed a rather large crush on a teacher at school. He's never actually taught me but I see him around all the time, he's so young that the first time I saw him I thought he was a student. He'd be in his ...
A. 2 August 2008: Just completely get over him. You know the law and everything, so no preaching here.
But it seems he's not really interested in you, or probably is straining himself because you're just a student.
You really don't know the guy and it's just a ... (read in full...)
I'm flirting with a boy, but I really want a girl.
Q. WHY DO I ALWAYS DO THIS :(!!.... I have been flirting with this boy i know for a while, and he thinks i really like him, which i do. hes sweet and kind....but its not him i really i want. really im falling for a girl from work (who is so straight). ...
A. 2 August 2008: That's great! But did our suggestions help you in any way? I hope they did. Please update us!
Now, I just hope you're not like other bisexuals I know that think that being bi means they can be in a relationship with two people at the same time (wh... (read in full...)
I don't know how to get rid of my ex without hurting his feelings
Q. alright, so about a week ago, i broke up with my boyfriend of a year and four months. he is still insanely obsessed with me though! he calls me all the time, still tells me he loves me, and asks me to hang out with him constantly. it's like we never ...
A. 2 August 2008: Other people's answers were great, so I will give you some things to read that will help you in your situation:
http://www.wikihow.com/Get-Rid-of-an-Obsessive-Ex-Girlfriend
http://www.wikihow.com/Show-Your-Ex-You%27ve-Moved-On
Please read... (read in full...)
He wrote notes to other girls in school!
Q. how can i trust and get over my boyfriend writting other girls notes at school.like he was emontionly cheating. We been dating for 3 yrs 1 month. Well basicly after 2 years together he had doubts and last winter is when i found some notes( 2) and ...
A. 2 August 2008: Thanks and I wish the best for your relationship as well.
To what happened to me happened a long time ago and I have end up in terms with him too, but I still remember everything. That's how I could connect to your situation! But I also feel you... (read in full...)
We broke up over me not getting naked on webcam! Did I do the right thing?
Q. Ok, so i met this reaaaaaally cute guy on the net, he is a one-of-a-kind boy, he even says he believes in true love and happily ever after, and we have like a week talking everyday like 5-8 hours about everything, i really like him, and he says that ...
A. 2 August 2008: I don't agree that this person deserves a second chance. I mean, you barely know him! And he's really REALLY scaring you.
What cupidguy suggested you is a great idea. Also, if you don't have any help at all, just delete your email account for all.... (read in full...)
We broke up over me not getting naked on webcam! Did I do the right thing?
Q. Ok, so i met this reaaaaaally cute guy on the net, he is a one-of-a-kind boy, he even says he believes in true love and happily ever after, and we have like a week talking everyday like 5-8 hours about everything, i really like him, and he says that ...
A. 2 August 2008: I'm so glad that you feel better and that the articles helped you!
And of course you were right about your decision. Actually, not many girls do what you did and end up regretting it terribly. You just did great.
... (read in full...)
He wrote notes to other girls in school!
Q. how can i trust and get over my boyfriend writting other girls notes at school.like he was emontionly cheating. We been dating for 3 yrs 1 month. Well basicly after 2 years together he had doubts and last winter is when i found some notes( 2) and ...
A. 2 August 2008: Ok, thanks for clearing that up.
Now I do see where you come from and I'm able to understand what you're saying and I can understand why you feel so much pain.
Now, if you want to forgive him, try to see if he's truthful first. Being with him f... (read in full...)
Could he just want me for sex or does he want a relationship?
Q. Okay, so there is this guy... I've known him for a long time, we just recently started hanging out more though. I have hung out with him a couple of times in the past couple weeks, i really like him. hes really sweet, and he seems like the kind ...
A. 2 August 2008: He's asking sex at such early stage of your relationship? Tsk tsk tsk.
This guy sounds like he just wants you for sex. I mean, you really haven't even been dating, but he wants to have sex with you? And he gets upset when you say no and puts bla... (read in full...)
Will he like me for who I am even though we are so different?
Q. Im 20 years old and recently a guy who I went to high school contacted me via facebook. We have been chatting a bit and we asked for my number. Then on the phone he asked me out on a date for next week. I said yes. But I am so worried that he ...
A. 2 August 2008: Have you heard the term "opposites attract"?
This guy went all the way to look for you at Facebook, talk to you, and even phone you and ask you on a date. Well, this seems to me that he's very interested in you!
And don't give up hope when he ... (read in full...)
My first love broke my heart but I continue to have sex with him! How do I let go?
Q. Back in December my first love broke my heart. I didn't want to date for a long time. But, I met this boy in school and automatically fell for him. We only dated for little over a month but were together every waking second. Once we broke up we ...
A. 2 August 2008: You think he's just playing you? You're his violing and he's scratching your strings just for fun!
He's obviously using you for sex, nothing more. He KNOWS you have lingering feelings for him and he's toying with those feelings so he can satisfy ... (read in full...)
We broke up over me not getting naked on webcam! Did I do the right thing?
Q. Ok, so i met this reaaaaaally cute guy on the net, he is a one-of-a-kind boy, he even says he believes in true love and happily ever after, and we have like a week talking everyday like 5-8 hours about everything, i really like him, and he says that ...
A. 2 August 2008: YOU DID THE RIGHT THING!
Now, I give you some recommended reading:
-http://www.dearcupid.org/question/dating-red-flags.html
-http://www.dearcupid.org/question/warning-signs-youre-dating-a-loser.html
Now, how can you say he's a "one of a kin... (read in full...)
He wrote notes to other girls in school!
Q. how can i trust and get over my boyfriend writting other girls notes at school.like he was emontionly cheating. We been dating for 3 yrs 1 month. Well basicly after 2 years together he had doubts and last winter is when i found some notes( 2) and ...
A. 2 August 2008: What was in the content of the letters? Did they specifically say he wanted the girl to be with hiM? Did he flatter her constantly? How many letters did he send?
You haven't given so much information, and the letters are the MacGuffin in your sto... (read in full...)
He never gave me his number... Is this a lost cause?
Q. I like this guy. We just recently got to know eachother, but we've known about eachother for a long time. He opened up to me more than he has with most people, especially about his past. I gave him my number, but he lost it and asked for it again ...
A. 2 August 2008: He doesn't mention what?
I don't think it is. There are no signs that show he is not interested in you. He even asked you for your number and he just probably forgot to give you his. MANY people just have bad memory or forget to do things when the... (read in full...)
I'm flirting with a boy, but I really want a girl.
Q. WHY DO I ALWAYS DO THIS :(!!.... I have been flirting with this boy i know for a while, and he thinks i really like him, which i do. hes sweet and kind....but its not him i really i want. really im falling for a girl from work (who is so straight). ...
A. 1 August 2008: I agree. You have to evaluate yourself and see what your preferences are. Don't worry if you don't do it in a day or a week. This process of finding and knowing yourself will probably take a while, so don't try to rush it.
It's perfectly ok if yo... (read in full...)
He has a bad reputation but I like him, what can I do so that he feels the same?
Q. okay well i'm fourteen and i really like a guy named Andrew but he has a rep. he has gone out with alot of girls, including my bestfriend. but i still lik him lots. i dont know why. and he said he liked me, but then he changed his mind. right before ...
A. 31 July 2008: Oh my, that boy is such a loser. I'm so glad you made a decision that seems smart. I bet you'll find a boy that will be just great for you.... (read in full...)
He has a bad reputation but I like him, what can I do so that he feels the same?
Q. okay well i'm fourteen and i really like a guy named Andrew but he has a rep. he has gone out with alot of girls, including my bestfriend. but i still lik him lots. i dont know why. and he said he liked me, but then he changed his mind. right before ...
A. 31 July 2008: If you do actually get to go out with him, you will get your little heart broken.
Red light here: How can he just suddenly "change" his mind on not liking you? I think he's just trying to toy with your feelings. Guys like this are everywhe... (read in full...)
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