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Location: Texas, USA
Favorite color: purple
Favorite food: anything sweet.
Least favorite food: spicy foods.
Relationship status: In a relationship
Ticks: annoying/bratty people. I will usually tell them to just shut up. Also, rude people tick me off a lot.
Likes to: Laugh, smile, and just have great time.
Doesn't like: The rain; I can feel it comming and usually it's not a good feeling.. Stuff that makes me sad. Spicy foods.
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Do guys care how a vagina looks like?
Q. okay so ive just been watchin this documentry called the perfect vagina and baslicly its a woman makin a documenntry goin round and explorin vaginas lol, shes been askin men if the way a vagina looks puts them off sex and the amount that have said ...
A. 4 September 2008: Thanks Emilyanswers for explaining.
Now I want to watch that! I also want to know why in the world this woman would even do that? AHH!
I used to think that a woman would cut the hair for aesthetic/hygene reasons, but this woman got TOOOOOOOOO... (read in full...)
Is it possible to lose your virginity with your clothes on?
Q. I was wondering if I have on my clothes and I come into contact with a male who has on clothes as well and I feel his penis kind of touch my vagina is that losing the virginity?I was in pain afterwards but there was no bleeding.I was emotional and ...
A. 4 September 2008: To anonymous poster below me:
Yes, sex-ed is really bad in United States. I didn't even have that class.
As for the O.P, like many have pointed out, you lose your virginity when the penis enters your vagina, no matter how far or for how long ... (read in full...)
Do guys care how a vagina looks like?
Q. okay so ive just been watchin this documentry called the perfect vagina and baslicly its a woman makin a documenntry goin round and explorin vaginas lol, shes been askin men if the way a vagina looks puts them off sex and the amount that have said ...
A. 4 September 2008: No, I think that guys are more interested in getting one.
"Tucked in vagina"? And please, explain yourself by "getting vagina stuffed" and having "private parts cut off?... (read in full...)
Why would she have sex with someone else the day after she had sex with me?
Q. befor me and my girl friend whent out we were haveing sex one day we had sex the next day she had sex with some oneelce then she came back an had sex with me. why would she have sex with some one else the day after we did? she said she liked me an ...
A. 4 September 2008: Are you sure this wasn't an open relationship... or better, are you sure you were in a relationship?
From what you described, to me your relationship sounds just purely casual and only around sex. If you got attached, it's your problem, and if y... (read in full...)
Is it normal to fantasize about other men when you're in a healthy relationship?
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend for 3 1/2 years and he treats me really well. Im 21 and he is 25. The only problem is that i sometimes dream and think about having sex with other men, i really dont know why this is. We have a healthy sex life so its not ...
A. 4 September 2008: Do you have these fantasies while you're alone or wilst you're having sex with your boyfriend?
If it's the latter, then it might become a problem eventually as you might start comparng your current boyfrien with your ex. If this happens, try to t... (read in full...)
How do I get over the fact that my boyfriend is best friends with his ex?
Q. Hi, I am into a relationship with someone. I am madly in love with him and so does he love me. The problem is my bfs ex. They were into a relationship for quite a long while. This was long ago. Later they got over it and became good friends ...
A. 4 September 2008: You know he's *madly* (put more emphasizing in madly) in love with you and you're madly in love with him, so what's to worry? Why worry that she might (wich I doubt because she would have made the move a long time ago) steal your boyfriend away when ... (read in full...)
Do you think my friend and I should confront him about him going red etc.?
Q. I'm 14 and i really like this guy who is 15 and is in the year above at school. I've known him since we were in primary school. I've liked him for a few years now and i think i love him. ( Do not say that because im 14 i can't be in love) Last S...
A. 3 September 2008: So, if you know that he will deny everything about going red, then why do it? It will be a waste of your time then.
And him talking bad about his ex doesn't sound like a good character from him. He basically used her and then dumps her for unkn... (read in full...)
Is it worth keeping in touch with her although she seems to have lost the initial interest? In terms of pain, which is the easiest road out of here?
Q. I'm a little bit confused. I met a girl a few months back whom I care for a lot! I'm never happier than when I'm around her. The mere thought of her makes my heart rate triple. The problem is she is very popular and has a lot of friends. At first ...
A. 3 September 2008: I think the easies, according to pain, would be if you take time off without her to get over her.
I agree with the anonymous poster and the sayings she put.
You're still hanging around this girl hoping if you can get back together when yo... (read in full...)
Does he like me or not?! Why won't he talk to me?!
Q. Hey i wrote up about 5ish days ago with this extremely long question: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-am-so-confused-whether-he-likes-me.html thanks for the 2 replys that i got, if you answered that question could you please have ago at this...
A. 3 September 2008: Is there any way for you to talk to him in person about all of this?
And, does he know it's YOU who's adding him to msn? I know there have been times that I have rejected friend requests from people who came out to be friends because I didn't k... (read in full...)
Homeschooled and having trouble talking to girls...
Q. i have trouble talking to girls and im homeschooled so its not like i have a wide selection...
A. 3 September 2008: First, make sure you follow all hygene codes. Most girls at your age are more into looks than anything, so this is a big one.
Next, try to dress good. Look at magazine catalogs for references for buying clothes.
Next, don't try to be anyting yo... (read in full...)
I have fallen for my best friend. I know I'll never be with him, so how do I get over him?
Q. i really like by best guy friend but he doesn't like me. i have liked him for a few months well maybe 6 months now. and i told him about 1 month ago, (nothing is or feels different) but just today i found out he has a girlfriend and he never told me ...
A. 3 September 2008: This is completely normal, don't worry. Best friends are best friends for a reason. They will almost never let you down. They will ALWAYS be for you when you have a problem. They will be nice to you most of the time. And when you two get into a ... (read in full...)
Are there any signs I can pick up to know if a girl would like me back?
Q. I'm not too sure whats going on... before i had told a friend and i said she hadn't accpeted me well we had a long talk and everythings okay..but that was a while I finally had come out to my best friend he had freaked out and said he doesnt h...
A. 3 September 2008: You're pretty young and as you said yourself, not many people are going to come out as you did.
So my guess is that you will probably have to wait a couple of years to get a girlfriend. The reasons is one: the stigma against homosexuals (it's of... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he talk to me anymore?
Q. why dosent he talk to me? ive been seeing this guy for about 7 months through college. we have recently got back together after i dumped him becuse i wasnt happy. when we are together he dosent no what to say and we never talk, i no hardly anything...
A. 3 September 2008: Original Poster:
My boyfriend's the same way, though he tries his best to talk to me. He was like that in the beginning of our relationship (except the flirting). The thing is that he's a man of few words and likes listening more than talking.... (read in full...)
Do you think she would change after telling me this?
Q. Hey, I'm the 15 years old guy with the immature girlfriend. Ok well, I'm sorry if this is too fast but I had to write this because I'm running out of time. She sent me an email and tomorrow I don't know if I shoul talk to her or ignore her. Here is ...
A. 3 September 2008: I agree with the other poster. You're too young to be stressing all about this. Now, don't get me wrong, people at your age DO fall in love, just very few, but it's SO bad for your health to be stressing like this.
I think you should talk with you... (read in full...)
Why does she do this? Why after being so nice to her does she treat me like garbage?
Q. She uses her friend to talk to me. Hi, you may have heard of me in previous posts. The 15 years old boy with the not so nice girlfriend. First of all, I would like to thank the people who have supported me and answered my previous questions, ...
A. 3 September 2008: I'm following your problems and I'm sorry I didn't come earlier.
The first thing I thought after I read all of this was "He's angry". In your two previous questions, you mainted some level-headedness, but in this one...I find a lot of emotion.... (read in full...)
Can it ever work with a guy who's best friend with his ex?
Q. The guy Im seeing still meets up with his ex girlfriend - they are really good friends. I think I mind a little bit deep deep down but purely based on my own insecurities and because I like him. Can smoeone who has been in this situation tell me ...
A. 3 September 2008: I'm with all the other aunts, sure it can work.
My boyfriend is close friends with one of his ex's, they have even hanged out alone. Of course, I did feel kind of bad at firs, but I trust them both and I know that my boyfriend will be loyal. A... (read in full...)
My friend is ignoring me since I told her about her boyfriend's cheating. Wouldn't she want to know?
Q. I tried to tell a friend that her man had cheated on her and going around town trying to talk to everyone. She wanted me to tell her at first then said she didn't want to know then told me who ever he is sleeping with it won't be for long because ...
A. 3 September 2008: I feel for you! I seriously do. I have had friends who I've given serious advise (I tend to let them do whatever they want and only intervene when it's serious) and they're so hard headed and end up not listening to me!
But please, one big thin... (read in full...)
Does this guy have any respect for me or is he going to sleep with me then never speak to me again?
Q. I like this guy alot i know him from online and we text each other we've been talking for about 2 and half years. We have cyber sex and text sex all the time but i have feelings for him, and i told him this about a year ago and he didnt seem to ca...
A. 2 September 2008: He told you he wants to make you yours slut and that wanted to meet with you ONLY for sex.... and youstill ask if he has any respect for you?
Are you seriously that gullible?
Well, the logical answer is that he will only use you for sex. I'v... (read in full...)
Could I just give him a "sensual massage" through his boxers?
Q. Hi so last night me and my bf were making out and well it just naturally progressed to my hand being down his shorts, but still outside his boxers/briefs. Well while I was there (this is gonna sound extremely embarrassing and stupid)I wasn't really ...
A. 2 September 2008: You know, you could try it and I could tell you how to do it, but your boyfriend will NOT be too pleased! Seriously, you WON'T be doing him favor doing that... he'll want to release his fluids and he might not like it when you tell him you won't do ... (read in full...)
How can I make my birthday party amazing?
Q. okay well i found this site and thought maybe you guys could help me out a little?! soo im 16, i was meant to have my 16th birthday party back in may but my mum ended up in hospital so it never came off, which i wasnt too upset about as my mums...
A. 2 September 2008: Oh, first thing, DON'T GET CAUGHT!
I don't know if you would be into this, but I remember that I ended up having LOTS of fun at this small party I attended once.
Well, you could start by having a scavenger hunt. Depending in your neighborhoo... (read in full...)
I have some questions about sex for the first time.
Q. hello i'm 17 teen right know and i was talking to my mother about sex cuz i was inrested and i was just wondering if it really hurts the first time? and if you can really bleed? i didnt want to belive my mom a whole lot cuz i was just thinking she ...
A. 2 September 2008: Yes, what :):):) said is true. Every girl's first time is different for each one.
To me, it really didn't hurt, but I know a lot of girls whos first time hurt a lot and to others who describe their pain as a litte pinch.
If you're afraid it... (read in full...)
Is it me or is this getting worse?
Q. Is it me, or is she getting worse? I'm the 15 year old boy who wrote a post recently about his girlfriend's behavior. To read the past question, please click the link at the end of this post. Yesterday we had a fight, again. First we were joki...
A. 2 September 2008: Anonymous poster, I'm incredibly flattered by your kind words. Specially coming from such a man. I remember I once babysat a kid like you, I'm not lying to you, but he was the best kid I ever babysat. He was 11.
I'm so glad I was some help to ... (read in full...)
Would my boyfriend go to jail if I had a baby?
Q. my boyfriend is 16 and im only 15. would he go to jail if i had a baby? (but i would be 16 when the baby arrives)....
A. 2 September 2008: I've been reading a lot of confusion from a lot of aunts that are not from United States.
The thing is that the age of conscent varies from state. For example, in my state, Texas, the age of coscent it 17. While in California is 18. And in Ohio ... (read in full...)
My heart says take him back and use this experience to make the relationship stronger. My head says run. Which should I listen to?
Q. Recently my boyfriend cheated on me while very drunk. I haven't forgiven him or taking him back at this point. Right now I have told him I need time to myself. I've asked him to move out of our apartment and leave me alone for awhile. I am really ...
A. 1 September 2008: Chloe,
I think he might be telling the truth, but what would I know.
Look into his eyes when he talks to you in the event, does he look sincere?
But please, follow what I told you about, have with him a heart to heart about the event. I... (read in full...)
Do you think I'm spending too much on her so soon?
Q. My girl's bday is coming up. We've been together for a little under a year. I was thinking of taking her to a $$$$ place for dinner(est $300 for 2), I'm wondering if that is too much too soon. I also bought her a gift that cost $100. Should I take ...
A. 1 September 2008: It depends for a lot of things:
Do you earn a lot in your job? If you don't, then you're spending too much.
Is this a pattern you two have? Like, does she ask for expensive gifts or do you give her expensive gifts to her very often? If you do... (read in full...)
My heart says take him back and use this experience to make the relationship stronger. My head says run. Which should I listen to?
Q. Recently my boyfriend cheated on me while very drunk. I haven't forgiven him or taking him back at this point. Right now I have told him I need time to myself. I've asked him to move out of our apartment and leave me alone for awhile. I am really ...
A. 1 September 2008: Chloe191:
I understand were you come from, but I will disagree in you with one thing: A cheater is NOT always cheater.
You said you did something drunk too and you regretted it terribly. I guess it was cheating too. It doesn't matter if it was... (read in full...)
How can I ask this girl out who seems more interested on guys that are the opposite of me?
Q. ok the same girl that i creeped out by the exaggerated attention, i wanna make a move on her but shes into the more skinny popular guys, and she sees me as a nice and funny guy, soo is there anyway for me to land her no matter how big i am and how ...
A. 1 September 2008: Yeah, sure, nothing is impossible!
You just gotta play your game right.
Make sure you flirt a lot with her, to both let her know you like her and for the possibility for her to fall for you.
Another thing is to be confident and always be... (read in full...)
Is it me or is this getting worse?
Q. Is it me, or is she getting worse? I'm the 15 year old boy who wrote a post recently about his girlfriend's behavior. To read the past question, please click the link at the end of this post. Yesterday we had a fight, again. First we were joki...
A. 1 September 2008: I answered your first question, so I know what's going on with you.
Well, in my honest opinion, I don't think she's sad. She's mad, because she has lost her power. You see, she has control over you. You come up to her to talk, or else she wont. Yo... (read in full...)
I'm 5 weeks late, could I be pregnant?
Q. hi im 13 i am 5 weeks late on my periods .. i have done stuff in the past and have been on my periods since then but a just cant sp beeing worrried and can u get pregnant if the boyfirends like has sperm on his hand and then poked you and you didnt ...
A. 1 September 2008: I don't know, it could be stress, but what you should do is go to the pharmacy and buy a pregnancy test. It's the only way you will be sure that you're pregnant or not. And oh, buy a reliable brand.
You don't like the feeling or horror of wonderin... (read in full...)
Whenever we fight, I'm always the one that apologizes even though I've done nothing wrong. Is this worth it?
Q. What to do with my girlfriend? I am a 15 years old boy and I've been going out with my girlfriend for about 6 months now. Still, I loved her longer than that. It's been four years that I've fallen in love with her and I've stayed devoted to her e...
A. 1 September 2008: You do sound like a very mature guy who truely loves your girlgfriend.
But sadly, it doesn't seem that she loves you.
And sorry to tell you, JEALOUSY does NOT equal LOVE. Loving someone is trusting the person in ANY situation. Yes, a person mi... (read in full...)
I need a way to look older. It's ridiculous everyone who sees me thinks I'm between 12 and 14
Q. So in the past year or so i have been constintaly mistaken as a being between the ages of 12 and 14. I am now 18 and about to start college. I find this so frustrating because i am convinced that this is keeping guys from talking to me. I sometimes ...
A. 1 September 2008: Glad you found a guy who loves your height!
I don't know if someone has told you this, but a lot of my friends told me that shortness was something cute that they found in a girl.... (read in full...)
Why boys are interested in breasts so much
Q. People wonder why boys are so facinated with girls' breasts. One reason is the peek-a-boo or hide and seek faxctor. In our culture, breasts are almost always covered, even with the skimpiest bathing suit. This doesn't prevent girls from teasing ...
A. 1 September 2008: Haruka62442, I don't know why you're answering for guys. Unless you have an attraction to breasts, I think you shouldn't say that it's about "survival of the fittest".
Yes, that was a long time ago, but it's not the same thing anymore.
But if ... (read in full...)
We want to have sex but we know nothing about it and are both 13!
Q. my bf and i have been dating for a year and we both wanna have sex but we can't because a: my hymen hasn't broken and b: we are both 13. what do we do?...
A. 31 August 2008: You don't know how many teenagers your age have come here asking for that same advise. THOUSANDS! "Should we have sex?" "What tips would you give us for our first time?" "Does it matter we're only 12-15?"
You come here asking because you know it'... (read in full...)
We had rough sex, and I was hurt a bit, but not so bad, my boyfriend feels terrible, how can I convince him it wasn't that bad?
Q. Several days ago, i had sex with my boyfriend. He went very rough. I told him it hurt, surprizingly it did. He pulled out, we had notice i bled a bit. He thinks im still in pain, and still bleeding but im not. Vincent wont believe that im fine, he ...
A. 31 August 2008: Oops, didn't see ChiRaven's advise. It's similar to mine... just more detailed.
Original poster, I wasn't kidding about the "harder!" thing. If you keep on telling him that you like it like that (like ChiRaven suggested), his confidense will boo... (read in full...)
We had rough sex, and I was hurt a bit, but not so bad, my boyfriend feels terrible, how can I convince him it wasn't that bad?
Q. Several days ago, i had sex with my boyfriend. He went very rough. I told him it hurt, surprizingly it did. He pulled out, we had notice i bled a bit. He thinks im still in pain, and still bleeding but im not. Vincent wont believe that im fine, he ...
A. 31 August 2008: Just2love, if your boyfriend just came in rough like just suddenly (like a jerking move, this is the best way I can explain it) because he was too exited, then I can connect with you.
I had a similar experience. During the "session", my boyfrien... (read in full...)
He got drunk and kissed another girl. Should I risk giving him my whole heart again?
Q. I've been in a relationship with a guy for 2.5 years now. This is my first relationship, but not his. Lately we've been fighting a bit, but nothing spectacular. Everything has been getting resolved within hours of the argument. A couple of days a...
A. 31 August 2008: I think he just wants to forget about the whole episode. He may have fet guilty for having even suggested you to take a break and may feel just the same about you.
But this is just an assumption.
Next time he comes to your house, ask him w... (read in full...)
I am 2 months pregnant and I find out he has another girl! What now?
Q. I just found out that my boyfriend has another girl...... he told me this right after I told him I am 2 months pregnant. I really don't know what to do. We were "high school sweet hearts" and now that I found out im pregnant, with his baby makes ...
A. 31 August 2008: Oh my dear.... what a jerk!
I really don't think moving to another state will make things better. Actually, I think it will make things worse. Because you will have possibly no support as your family and friends, the people who will be able to ... (read in full...)
Confused about pornography. Is it cheating?
Q. I'm 20 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. He's my first boyfriend and we plan to get married after college. I have never watched porn videos, but as a young girl (9-13 years old) I looked at a lot of pictures of naked women. ...
A. 31 August 2008: I understand you, to some level.
When I was younger, I also felt INCREDIBLY guilty after I masturbated. I was raised on a religion where masturbation is frowned against (I'm agnostic now, but that wasn't a reason to stop believing). I felt tha... (read in full...)
General question about breaking up/ getting back together?
Q. what do you guys think...Someone once told me that if you break up with someone even if you come back together...things are never the same...and the same problems are gonna surface....I know that even if my ex asked me back...now id be kinda afraid ...
A. 31 August 2008: I know my relationship right now is still pretty young (just 3 years) and not many people might think of a valid answer for this.
I broke up once with him, for 3 days. They were one of the hardest days of my life, and I still remember them.
... (read in full...)
How can I initiate a friendship after the break up?
Q. I was communicating with a man from an online-dating site for a few weeks. After our first date, we mutually agreed to meet-up again. The conversation flowed really well and we were both excited about seeing one another again. However, hours before ...
A. 31 August 2008: I also wouldn't think that it would be out of line.
Basically, you two got along very well together and enjoyed your time. Also, the two of you got off on VERY good terms, which makes your situation easier. Als, don't forget you only went out with... (read in full...)
I said some mean things and my boyfriend and I broke up, I am getting confusing signals from him, does he still care?
Q. My ex-boyfriend and i broke up a month and a half ago and the reason why we broke up was because i said i was thinking maybe we're better off as friends and he took it wrong, i was jus tellin him i was startin to think that, but we stayed friends ...
A. 31 August 2008: Ok, first of all, quit all your texting and email/messaging. That is SO informal and, practically, very rude when dealing with this situations. You can clearly just talk to him in person, or in the phone! So why not do that?
The main problem ... (read in full...)
We broke up in February, when he gave me a letter, stating he wanted to start up again in a year with me, have not seen him since we broke up, now I get a voice mail, that he wants to drop over, what could he want?
Q. Hello Everyone, I need some advice regarding my ex... We broke up in Feb this year and haven't seen him since. I have recieved a voice mail message and messages stating that if I am home so he can pop over??? What does this mean? What could...
A. 31 August 2008: I think you should just ignore him. You have zero feelings for him and no interest to be around him, so just express that through your actions.
Now, if you actually see him, then just tell him you don't want anything to do with him and to stop ask... (read in full...)
I need a way to look older. It's ridiculous everyone who sees me thinks I'm between 12 and 14
Q. So in the past year or so i have been constintaly mistaken as a being between the ages of 12 and 14. I am now 18 and about to start college. I find this so frustrating because i am convinced that this is keeping guys from talking to me. I sometimes ...
A. 2 August 2008: I don't think the artsy style will not make you look like a child unless you wear tye-dye shirts, because this will make you look tacky and people will probably not take you seriously. You could try to find more arquitectural (as in, asymetrical, ... (read in full...)
I need a way to look older. It's ridiculous everyone who sees me thinks I'm between 12 and 14
Q. So in the past year or so i have been constintaly mistaken as a being between the ages of 12 and 14. I am now 18 and about to start college. I find this so frustrating because i am convinced that this is keeping guys from talking to me. I sometimes ...
A. 1 August 2008: I have the same problem! I'm almost 20, but I look like a 13 year old. I'm also very short (5'2") for my age, which makes people think I'm younger. But instead of getting worried about it, I just find it funny.
I don't know if you're the same per... (read in full...)
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