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I'm Michelle and I'm 17 and I'm dating the most amazing girl I've met

I'm very open minded person. I think I have a lot of common sense and can help people. I'll give my straight up opinion and try and help give examples on whatever is bothering you.

I just kissed my best friend, who is also a girl! I'm really worried right now...

Q.   Hi, I have a little problem... I just kissed my best friend, who is a girl... and I'm really confused because i thought i liked boys but i'm not sure, and i know no one else saw, but i love my best friend like a sister but i don't know what to do no...

A.   25 June 2008: Your still young and you dont have to pick a label. Kissing a girl doesnt make you a lesbian or even bi, your body is going through some changes and so are your hormones, so theres no worry. its perfectly natural to have feelings for the same sex, ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with one of my friends, I want to tell her, but don't know where to start!

Q.   Hi everyone I'm gonna get straight to the point I'm in love with one of my friends, and she's the same sex as me I have been for about a year now, but I can't tell her I really want to, I just dont know where to start Can anyone help me, give ...

A.   12 May 2008: well do you now if shes ok with gay people? cuz it will make it a lot easier to tell her if shes ok with them. you can start by saying you have feeling for girls and slowly tell her you like her or you can write her a note explaining it, its a lot ... (read in full...)

I think I'm bi, but I feel I have no way to know

Q.   This sounds so silly, but to put it bluntly, I am a sexually confused teenage girl. I have never been in a relationship, never actually done anything, shit, i haven't even had my first kiss yet.(can you say doofus?) But still I think I'm a sexual ...

A.   4 May 2008: You dont have to be with a girl to find out if if you like them, i personally think that your born with it. ask yourself this do you see yourself with a girl? or a guy? or both? I t6hink you should experiment date some girls and guys and find out ... (read in full...)

Is it wrong to fall in love with your best friend?

Q.   is it wrong to fall in love with your best friend- or have a crush on them? by the way i am a girl and my best friend is a girl. help!...

A.   3 May 2008: yes its very possible to fall in love with your best friend. Im in love with my best friend (were both girls) and i liked her before we became best friends. and theres nothing wrong about it. i told my best friend that i love her and shes cool with ... (read in full...)

Am I too young to be bisexual?

Q.   Heya, im 12 years old. I just wanted to know... Am i too young to decide to be bi-sexual? Because i like watching lesbian porn and, i know it semi-normal at my age to feel like this but as i said, do you guys think im too young to decide to be bi? ...

A.   24 April 2008: i dont think your too young to decide. some people know at a very young age, but i dont think it will be a good idea to tell everyone that you think your bi. enjoy the time you have now and explore your sexuality and find out for sure what you ... (read in full...)

I fancy a girl I know, I like guys also. I feel so confused!

Q.   Im 13 and i have a huge crush on a girl and shes not the only one ive liked i think i might be falling in love with her but im not sure ive liked plenty of guys but because of this crush i think im gay but how do i know for sure? she already knows i ...

A.   22 April 2008: what your going through might be a phase thing but you never know it might not be. ask yourself this question do you see yourself with a girl or a guy. i know your only 13 but ask yourself questions like that it will help short thing out in your ... (read in full...)

When is the right time to discuss my sexual orientation with my parents? I hate lying to them.

Q.   I need advice, bad! I've just started accepting that I'm a lesbian, but I don't know when I should tell my mom or dad. Please help me! I don't want to lie to my mom and dad anymore, I know I'm only 12, but I've known that I'm a lesbian for a ye...

A.   21 April 2008: Well you dont have to tell them right now. im bi and i also hate lying to my parents but i think they dont need to know right now. Im wait to tell them if and when im getting a girl friend cuz then theres a reason to tell them but till then in not ... (read in full...)

One of my questions is - will my brother mind me dating his friend?.....

Q.   Hi, i'm a 14 year old female and got two problems. Problem number 1 I got a big secret and i told my mate, my brother 15 and sister 16 know i am hiding something from them. How can i make them stop pestering me? and how can i make them stop watchi...

A.   15 April 2008: Well for problem 1 you could just tell them but i know might be hard but it will make them stop or just plain out tell them to stop pestering you cuz its really annoying you but they might not cuz i too have a older bother and sister and they barely ... (read in full...)

Dating guys but attracted to girls. Am I bisexual?

Q.   I'm 20 going 21 this december. I've been dating Guys all this while.. but I find myself always attracted to girls. i tends to be shy when am with guys, but i'll become touchy with the girls. am i a bisexual, lesbian or something? ...

A.   14 April 2008: You can be anything you want to be. im bi but im more attracted to girls but i still like guys. like its 85% girls and 15% guys if i were to put it into numbers. In your mind do you see yourself with a girl or a guy. or like when you see a girl do y... (read in full...)

Could you help me find a good way to tell my parents of my homosexuality?

Q.   i am gay, but my parents do not know this. i want to tell them the truth.. but i do not know how! can you help me to find a good way to talk with my parents?...

A.   10 April 2008: you know what you can is have a close friend or relative that is gay/lesbian/bi to help you explain it more (i know i would do that if i ever told my parent i was bi) and then your not going it alone.... (read in full...)

I just want to be accepted by them...

Q.   Ugh, this is so unfair. Bascially I'm 16 and I'm not a loser or anything. I do have friends and I'm socially accepted. I just don't hangout with anyone much. whyyyyyyy?? I try to initiate a time where we can hangout but really it doesn't ...

A.   29 March 2008: I know what you mean, im like the same way. It sucks cuz im always home alone behind a computer all day talk to people online, it not the same cuz your not there wit them. Wat i did was join drama club and we would there for like 3 hours and then... (read in full...)

Should I explore this side to discover what I truly like?

Q.   hey..i have a major problem.. i think i am bi..i love watching lesbian porn..i had boyfriends and i also have crushes on guys but deep indise i want to make out with a girl..do u think its k for me to see a girl..i am askin this because i am in the ...

A.   29 March 2008: In my opinion you should see where it goes with that girl. Theres no need to take a step back always go forward. See where life takes you, you just might like it. If that guy likes you back he going to like all of you that includes you liking other ... (read in full...)

I'm a girl and have this huge crush on another girl...how can I tell if she likes me?

Q.   I have this huge crush on a girl, but I'm also a girl. By her signs, I think she might of liked me too. I think about her like all the time. This might be kinda stupid but is their any way to find out if shes thinking about me too? I mean, i ...

A.   26 March 2008: Theres no sure fire way of knowing if shes thinking of you. You should just talk to her and get to know her really well. I have a crush on my best friend for the longest time and still do but when i told her i was bi i asked her if shes ever like... (read in full...)

I'm female and I love my bisexual best friend...

Q.   Dear Cupid, I am 15 years and bisexual. Around this time last year I told my close friend this and she told me she was too. For neither of us this isn't just a fase. She is the only one who knows about my sexuality. Anyway, over the summer we got r...

A.   24 March 2008: I think you should tell her. I mean if your that close you wont loose her. and she told you once that she liked you and as you said she still might have feeling for you. so just give it a shot and tell her. Good Luck!!! if you even want to talk im h... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my (probably straight) best friend, should I tell her? Or not?

Q.   Ok... the question is should I say anything or not?? I shall tell you about it: I've fallen really badly for my best friend, who I think is straight (although I very occasionally have my doubts), and I mean REALLY badly, I can't stop thinking...

A.   21 March 2008: I know exactly where your coming from. I have fallen hard for my best friend and shes straight but i haven't told her i really really like her. But any way you should ask her if shes straight. I mean get a better feel on how to ask her. if she says... (read in full...)

Should I tell her how I feel and risk our friendship or just leave it as it is?

Q.   Ok this is like really long. Sorry So theres this girl. Annie, And we've been friends for about 8 months I met her threw my ex boyfriends friend. we both go to the same school. and im really starting to like her we have made out about 10 time...

A.   17 March 2008: Im almost in the same position. I really like my best friend but she doesn't know that. but i finally told her i was bi but haven't told her that i like yet... but anyways are you sure shes straight? i mean she could like you and maybe thats why ... (read in full...)

Do you think I'm gay? I have also liked boys, but have not imagined going further than kissing.

Q.   hiya, i have a big problem.. since i was young i've suspected that i may like the same sex, and i've liked a few guys but couldn't possibly imagine goin any further than a kiss. I've liked a few girls over the years but at the moment, i think i cud ...

A.   13 March 2008: I'm the same way I knew at a young age that i like the same sex. I also like guys but imagine going further than a kiss. You might be bisexual so you might feel that you like guys only 20% and girls 80%. and thats perfectly fine. it what you pref... (read in full...)

I like my best friend too (I'm bisexual), although I have a BF, what now?

Q.   so first off i am bisexual but i would never sleep with any girl but i do like them.My best friend is also bisexual and i just found out she likes me but i have a boyfriend and i like him to but i also like her..so what do i do??.....

A.   13 March 2008: first of all how strong are your attractions to girls? And would you ever see your self in a relationship with one? if not then you might not bi you just like how they look. Who are you more attracted to your boyfriend or your best friend? If your... (read in full...)

Should I go for this girl even if my friends call me a freak?

Q.   ok im bi but if i say it the girl i like will she will think im copying her and i really like her but she is going out with a diffrent girl but if i tell my other friends they call my a freak and never talk to me again please help...

A.   13 March 2008: Well if your friends call you a freak then their not your real friends. You can start by telling your closest best friends that your bi and you like this one girl and if their your best friends they should support you. If the girl you like alre... (read in full...)

I have sexual fantasies with a girl friend, am I bi and should I act upon my feelings, given that I am committed?

Q.   I Think I'm Bi, Theres This Girl, And We Are Quite Close Friends [Not Best Friends] But We Have Laughs And Spend Alot Of Time Together. Well I Think I Really Like Her, I've Had This Feeling For Nearly A Year Now, I Find My Self Having Sexua...

A.   11 March 2008: Well if had the feelings for almost a year i doubt that the feeling will go away so its going to be really hard to try and forget about her. I know I'm bi and my best friend always makes me happy and i also find myself having sexual fantasies abou... (read in full...)

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