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*nchanted1
writes:me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 months and hes going to finger me like really soon. and i ahvent done anything like that so im nervous on like what to do. like what do i do while hes fingering me? after do i give gim something? any help would be great. thanks.
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reader, Reine +, writes (18 April 2013):
Just let go and have fun!!! Be yourself and tell him what spots hurt and what spots don't. Just have fun and be wild:) sometimes it turns the guy more on if you are moaning as he fingers you:) Good luck and Have fun3
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reader, surferchick0427 +, writes (31 December 2009):
just go with his movements, when he pushes go down, tell him how hard how soft, ect. and what u do after ward is ur choice. just always make sure that he cleans his hands before and always stay clean. cause thats a good way of getting UTI. but if u love him and everyhting like that u should be fine.
urs truly,
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reader, uthra  +, writes (10 April 2009):
 even i was on my first dating very nervous...but enjoy every moment of it..
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2008): I've fingered my gf a few times and the biggest thing is to communicate. Tell him if it hurts or how it feels in general and dont think about it too much, go with your gut reaction
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2008): The first time I was fingered I already knew what I wanted. Try to kiss and maybe rub a bit ti get your pussy wet otherwise it wont feel good. I even sucked his dick afterwords to give him relief
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2008): Look, i have been in this situation before..if you don't want him to go further let him know. You will enjoy it - either just kiss him and relax. Hope this kinda helps.Xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2008): DONT JUST DIVE IN!! why not let him touch you through ur knickers first, rub you, and if it feels good then let him slip a finger inside ur panties and progress form there,if ur wet enough , ur pussy will open enough fro him to inch his finger in, it will be very enjoyable if your close and connceted to each other, about himself, why not let him masturbate afterwards?
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reader, PsyCookie +, writes (18 July 2008):
 I assure you that your reaction will come REALLY naturally. Don't really worry about how to act. Just enjoy the moment, because it will be VERY enjoyable.
Now, if you don't want to do anything, then don't do it. Never do something you feel uncomfortable. But usually after he has fingered you, he will be really turned on and he'll want to relieve himself. If you want, you could help him by giving him a hand job or a blow job, your choice. I assure you that he'll be glad of it and that he'll be really grateful for it.
Good luck and have fun!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2008): Well if you are asking a question like that are you even ready? I mean even though its not like you are having sex its still an intamate part of a relationship. When he is doing it tell him the truth if something feels good let him know if something hurts or you just dont like it let him know, he should understand and communication is key.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2008): Make sure you have fingered yourself first so you know what feels good and maybe you can give him pointers so it is a good experience for you. Most of the girls I've known are so nervous about how 'he' will react that they get all worked up and then it isn't good for either of you. ie you don't get off, and he feels like a jackass for not being able to please you. I'd say just close your eyes and enjoy the experience as much as you want to. It's going to be all about you so he'll feel happy just knowing he's done a good job.
Most of all, USE YOUR WORDS. Guys don't have psychic powers and probably never will so if it doesn't feel good don't expect him to know it, just tell him. He'll appreciate your honesty and be willing to work with you.
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