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I want to blow his mind - among other things! Tips, please.

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Question - (15 July 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 31 July 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *ilmiissjem writes:

Does anyone have any sure fire tips to giving the perfect blowjob?

I want to blow my bf's mind!

Cheers

x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2008):

I do agree with mulattoman that you need to be 100% sure but its your choice if you wanna do it then do jsut be carefuly but back to the matter lol,

when I give my bf a blowjob he likes it wen i run my tounge on the under side of him (because its more sensitive apperently)also try it slowly with a hard suck and massarge his balls and that will make him blow

It will also help him get a bit more excited if you tie him up and blindfold him or try the 69 position

Enjoy yourself as well if he knows your enjoying it he will for defo enjoy it more!

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A male reader, longandsmooth87 Algeria +, writes (16 July 2008):

LEARN TO DEEP-THROAT. and once you learn to deep-throat. learn how to stimulate his co** WITH YOUR THROAT MUSCLES. idk about him. but it drives me wild!!!!

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (15 July 2008):

TasteofIndia agony auntA helpful hint - start out nice and slow and teasing. Tease him for awhile - like 5-7 minutes (doesn't look like very long on paper, but it feels like forever!).

Switch between your hand and your mouth. Switch up your speed. Play with his "boys" at the same time.

But, the most important thing is enjoying yourself. Trust me, even if the blow job is technically amazing, if you're not having fun - he won't have fun. So tease him until he's begging for it and then give him the thrill of his life!

(Really looking to be SUPER wild? Blindfold him and let the rest of his senses take reign!)

Have a blast (and he will too)!

xx India

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A female reader, jessica_04 United States +, writes (15 July 2008):

i agree with cookie being playfull is a realy great thing!lol follow her advice....

GOOD LUCK!

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A female reader, PsyCookie United States +, writes (15 July 2008):

PsyCookie agony auntWell, here are a few tips.

You have to really show that you're into it. When you're doing your job, look at him at the eyes. He will love that. Also show that you're enjoying it too because if you show any sign of uncomfortableness, he will feel the same way. Rmember to stay relaxed and playful. Try to explore him while you're at it. Don't hesitate on doing something that you think he'll like.

Dress sexy for him and make him feel relaxed. In a relaxed setting, your boyfriend will get a better sensation of what you're doing and probably enjoy the job more. And dressing sexy is just explanatory ;).

Oh, also remember to kiss him lots before you do your job, just to get him turned on.

Now for when you're doing your job:

Well, this thing comes kind of naturally. But a few things I have learned by doing is that guys like it when you go deep throat... a lot. You could also, while having the penis inserted in your mouth, to roll your tongue around the tip of his penis. My boyfriend loves that. But don't worry, he will still love the sensation even when you think you did a bad job.

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A male reader, mulattoman United States +, writes (15 July 2008):

mulattoman agony auntWell, it bothers me that you are so young and yet you want to engage in such a act already. I hope you are 100% mature enough to even handle a sexual relationship. Teenagers your age usually THINK they are ready, when you aren't. Do yourself a favor and don't convince yourself you love somebody just so you can have a sexual relationship.

So, my suggestion to someone that isn't even an adult is: search for blow job "tutorials" on Google. You will find plenty there.

Speaking from personal experience, I suppose it’s a good thing that you are one of the few females in the world that are so eager and willing to provide such a emotionally, mentally, and physically pleasing sexual act.

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