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Age: 19

Location: Texas, USA

Favorite color: purple

Favorite food: anything sweet.

Least favorite food: spicy foods.

Relationship status: In a relationship

Ticks: annoying/bratty people. I will usually tell them to just shut up. Also, rude people tick me off a lot.

Likes to: Laugh, smile, and just have great time.

Doesn't like: The rain; I can feel it comming and usually it's not a good feeling.. Stuff that makes me sad. Spicy foods.

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I was so mad I slapped her across the face!

Q.   My brother died couple of weeks ago because he had canner. I even missied a week of school because of it. When I told my best friend say I'm "obsessed" with him and need to forget about him. I was so mad I slapped her across the face1!! Why would ...

A.   13 August 2008: Oh, sorry, I didn't read the part of what she did with your boyfriend. I'm really sorry and I know see what she did to you. I would like to think that she was sincere, but a part of me tells me she wasn't. I'm sorry that your friend came out to be a ... (read in full...)

My BEAUTIFUL girl and I are not accepted by others...yet we love each other. What to do?

Q.   Hi all. This is my first question so I hope it's good. See, about two months ago, this girl and I (who have known each other all our lives) confessed our love for each other at the exact same time. We have a great relationship and have never ...

A.   31 July 2008: masterofdestiny, I know that the annonymous comment is just thoughtless and airheaded, but my guess here is that he's surprised by the "luck" you had here. The poster is only thinking of the money you got and how you can solve more problems... (read in full...)

He swears he has feelings for me. Why do I find it so hard to believe him?

Q.   This is a kind of complicated problem, but please try to understand it. Ok, so my problem is with a lad who Im good friends with. Im 15 and he's 17. We've always been good friends, but recently Ive developed much, much stronger feelings for him (not ...

A.   25 July 2008: It can be two things: your own gut instincts tell you that this guy is no good OR that you find yourself so "underneath" him that you don't want to get your own hopes up with him. It can be either one of them, but you should try to see what it is. ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend just said hi and then walked away. Should I be worried?

Q.   Today i was going meeet my friend and i saw my boyfriend i screamed hey brandon and he said hey back and then just walked away it was like it wasnt even him what should do now iam worried....

A.   25 July 2008: Were you with your friends? Was he with his friends? Was anyone in the place that your boyfriend doesn't like? There are many factors that may have caused him from just leaving. Guys at your age are still trying to develop socializing skills. ... (read in full...)

Since I got a job, everyone is begging me for money!!

Q.   I got a job last month and I recently got paid for the first time. Since I got paid (200 dollars) everyone has been breathing down my neck and begging for money. I got two pay checks and with the first I paid for food for the house which cost ($ ...

A.   25 July 2008: You have to put your foot down and tell them "NO!". I know this may sound hard and you may fear on hurting them, but they're really just abusing/hurting you already. You have to make yourself respected. Whenever they ask you for money, stand tal... (read in full...)

Is it my pride or something else that's making me leave her?

Q.   i met this girl 4 months before i had to go study over seas. I was everything in her life. Her first proper boyfriend. I ws gone for 15 months. We always talked on the phone and internet. I cheated on her couple of times when i was gone. When i came ...

A.   24 July 2008: I think that it is your pride that's making you leave her. You fooled her once, but she has fooled you twice and this is just bothering you because she has hurt you twice already, and the way for you to get revenge is by leaving her. Now if ... (read in full...)

How can I make either of these relationships go to the next level?

Q.   I work at a theme park as a summer job. I like it a lot. The park empoyees about 1,500 workers and most of us are between 16 and 19! It's my first year at the park.That is a lot of hormones and time for us to meet. I meet new people on break almost ...

A.   23 July 2008: You could start by flirting a lot with either one of them. Try to chose which guy you like the most so that the other guy won't be confused (or hurt) if you reject him. Try to get to know them. Ask them questions like "so what kind of music yo... (read in full...)

Do I tell my date that I may not be ready to date him just yet?

Q.   I have a date this weekend with a great guy (an acquaintance, not a friend), but I realize that I may not be quite ready to date anyone after ending a very serious relationship that lasted 5 years (my ex and I were both civilized about it, but there ...

A.   23 July 2008: I agree with you. I think you should hang out together, have a good time, and have no pressure. You could do this by being honest with him. Tell him that you're still trying to get over your previous relationship, but that you would like to know him ... (read in full...)

Do you think her male friend is jealous of our relationship?

Q.   Today my girlfriend(call her jessica) went out with her friend (call her sara).I didnt mind that i wasnt going because it was just her and her really close friend so i am fine with just the two of them. So im talking to her on msn and i find out ...

A.   22 July 2008: This sounds like the "over-protective brother/friend syndrome". You mentioned that John and Jessica were really close before and were like best-friends. Some friends get so well along that they consider each other like family, even when they don... (read in full...)

I'm worried about getting cervical cancer by having sex.

Q.   I am afraid of having sex again because of thinking about cerival cancer what can i do? ...

A.   22 July 2008: Not have sex? Also you could go to your doctor and ask for the vaccine that prevents it. You could ask your mom to take you. But seriously, not having sex is the best thing to do, specially at your age.... (read in full...)

I lost my girlfriend to a computer game, what should I do?

Q.   I think i may have lost my girlfriend to a computer game called second life. we just broke up about a month ago. I didn't think anything of it until about two weeks ago. She spends every waking moment on the game for the last three months, ignoring ...

A.   22 July 2008: If you live with her, it's a bit easier to do. You could: -Cancel your internet subscription -There are ways to block computer access to certain people or block internet access. You just have to figure out how to do it. -Sell, loan, or let som... (read in full...)

How can I stop being so needy?

Q.   my boyfriend of nearly 3 years said to me today, "if you don't stop being so needy i'm not going to want to be with you anymore".. he has a point i am very needy and if he doesnt reply to my texts i call him asking why, and i'm constantly fussing ...

A.   22 July 2008: I understand why you feel that way. My boyfriend lives 3 hours away and I sometimes have the need to call him a lot, but I have to understand that he needs time for himself and his job since he comes tired from it. There are times I don't talk to ... (read in full...)

Should I tell my best friend I love him?

Q.   My friend is 15 n im 13 now, we had a thing for each other last year but when be asked me out, i got nervous and said 'no' i feel really bad cuz i loved him and said no. We still love each other he has told me that he does and i'd love to be able to ...

A.   22 July 2008: If you really think you love him, then the first thing to do is to break up with your boyfriend because it wouldn't be fair for him for you to double play him. Wait a while then, like two weeks. Then tell him. Pour your heart to tell him and tell... (read in full...)

How did you meet your partner?

Q.   Hi everyone, I've had a lot on my mind today so to lighten the mood I wanted to find out somthing dreamy. You see, every guy I have ever been with I have met after a big night at a party or the pub/club. Im not an alco or anything I just like (well ...

A.   22 July 2008: The first time I saw him was in my dreams. There was this guy that kept on appearing on my dreams since I was a child. I remember his physical characteristics well: Dark skinned, curly, brown hair, tall, but whenever I saw his face, I would fo... (read in full...)

We're going to different colleges and I'm afraid of what it will do to our relationship. Should I visit a palm reader?

Q.   I have been in a relationship since fresham year of high school. We've been on/off, but everytime we get back we both feel like our relatioship is better and stronger. We both learned (at least i know i did) from our mistakes. We're both going to ...

A.   22 July 2008: Wait, your colleges are an hour away? I thought you were going to different states! There are so many people who live 1, 2, 3 hours apart from each other but that doesn't stop them from seeing each other and still being together. I can attest t... (read in full...)

Help! I have a week to choose between two girls.

Q.   I am currently Dating 2 girls at once, I hate this situation..It's kind of complicated...I only want 1 GF but I can't decide between the 2...Here's the background: I dated gf1 for 8 months (pretty decent relationship) She cooled off and she brok...

A.   22 July 2008: I(we) can't really chose for you. It's a decision that only YOU can take and that nobody can't do for you. What you're doing here is just trying to lower your responsibility with what you have done. Now the reason for being with only one shouldn'... (read in full...)

How can I stop being so needy?

Q.   my boyfriend of nearly 3 years said to me today, "if you don't stop being so needy i'm not going to want to be with you anymore".. he has a point i am very needy and if he doesnt reply to my texts i call him asking why, and i'm constantly fussing ...

A.   22 July 2008: It would help a lot if you explained the things that you think makes you needy. But for now, I think the reason why you're needy is because you don't keep yourself occupied with other things and you're pretty doing nothing in the house. (remembe... (read in full...)

When will my shy boyfriend ever kiss me?

Q.   Im a 14 year old girl and i have been going out with my boyfriend for exactly a month. the problem is he is really shy. he tells me he wants to kiss me but any time we have a chance he doesn't. we went to the movies last we and kissed me on the head ...

A.   22 July 2008: Yes it is! But if you want to share your first kiss in the relationship, why don't you do it? This is the 21st century and it's ok to see girls do the first step. No one would critisize you for it and you probably would find it as romantic... (read in full...)

My BEAUTIFUL girl and I are not accepted by others...yet we love each other. What to do?

Q.   Hi all. This is my first question so I hope it's good. See, about two months ago, this girl and I (who have known each other all our lives) confessed our love for each other at the exact same time. We have a great relationship and have never ...

A.   22 July 2008: Love is indeed found in the weirdest places. Now I realize why you say your love will not be accepted. I found this shoking too as MANY would, but I try to accept it as much as I can. I won't preach you on how "bad it is to do it with your sis... (read in full...)

I dumped my girlfriend and feel really guilty. Why?

Q.   i left my g/f of 3 yrs because she would not give more in the relationship, she said just having her was enough. the more i gave the less she gave. she had the addatude that guys do and will do what she says. she was rude, controlling, abuvise,a ...

A.   22 July 2008: You stayed with her for 3 years. The reason you may feel guilty is because you may feel that you could have made this relationship work since you had been with her for so long. In 3 years you developed deeper feelings for her than most people would ... (read in full...)

I'm attracted to famous women... am I bisexual?

Q.   I am very confused and believe i may be bi sexual i find some girls atractive but none of my friends or girls my age it is mostly famous women im not sure if it is because i admire them n i am confusin it or if i fancy them how can i recognis...

A.   22 July 2008: Do you feel a sexual attraction to women? Do you see yourself in a relationship with a woman? Do you have similar urges with women as you have with men? This are some clues to see if you're lesbian or bi-sexual, but they really don't prove anything. ... (read in full...)

He likes "happy endings" but how can I get mine?

Q.   my boy friend would rather me give him, massages and happy endings! he works hard at hes job he works for a steel company and loads steel 10 hours a day so i rub him down and that doesnt bother me at all i like doing that for him but he w...

A.   22 July 2008: Why don't you try to turn him on more? When he comes after work, dress really sexy or on something that he would think would be sexy. I assume you have your own way to turn him on, but since you said that he comes tired and you massage him, try... (read in full...)

Is it me or the porn that keeps him going longer?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now. We just graduated high school and I have lived with him for almost a year now. I spend every other weekend at my aunt's house and when I come home I find that he has spent most of the time ...

A.   22 July 2008: To be honest, I(we) don't know what's on his mind either. There are people who are too complex to know what is going around with them, but also there are some people who are pretty straightforward. Now what you could do is ASK HIM what's going on ... (read in full...)

I've never had a boyfriend of my own age. What do boys of my age look for in a girl?

Q.   Hey everyone! Thanks to those who answered my other question but I've got another one... so I've never had a boyfriend who was my age. Okay so I've only had a boyfriend that was 18.. and I'm 15. I always attract people who are 18-26 but never ...

A.   21 July 2008: Are you told that you're more mature than your age? Or that you look like you are? Or has anyone used the word "mature" to describe you? If the answers are "yes", this is probably why you are attracted to older guys and why they might be attract... (read in full...)

How can I hint to my friend that I feel... depressed?

Q.   i have been kinda depressed lately about the way my body looks. i think my friend kinda knows but not really. how can i let her know im depressed without her realy knowing? if you know what i mean lol......

A.   21 July 2008: When a person is depressed, there are certain behavioral changes that some people that know you would notice, like family and friends. This are subtle changes, but are noticeable in this people and will create a sense of worryness in them. At first, ... (read in full...)

What can we do about my grandma?

Q.   I'm so scared right now. My grandmother is very ill at the moment! She has severe memory loss, rarely knows what she's doing and basically has lost her mind. All the family are so concerned about her, she lives with my grandad who tries his best to ...

A.   21 July 2008: First of all I want to say that I feel for you. I don't have my grandparents anymore and I know the feeling of seeing them suffering (my grandma had breast cancer and my grandad burst his liver). Although I'm no doctor, what I think that your ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend seems to think it's all about things. How can I tell him I need his LOVE too?

Q.   Well ive been with my boyfreind for a year.. And he loves me very much and i love him to. He buys me everything i want but my boyfriend thinks its all about thingz he thinks that if he buys me things i'll stay happy but no... I need his love too.. ...

A.   20 July 2008: I apologize for the message before. I got kind of confused :/ I know it's cliched, but love does conquer all. Good luck and I hope you have prosperity in your relationship with your boyfriend!... (read in full...)

I was so mad I slapped her across the face!

Q.   My brother died couple of weeks ago because he had canner. I even missied a week of school because of it. When I told my best friend say I'm "obsessed" with him and need to forget about him. I was so mad I slapped her across the face1!! Why would ...

A.   20 July 2008: You didn't do anything to her, and if you did actually hurt her feelings somehow, she still crossed way over the line. But if you she finnally sees her stupidity and she comes and tries to ask for forgiveness and she looks truely sorry, I hope y... (read in full...)

My boyfriend seems to think it's all about things. How can I tell him I need his LOVE too?

Q.   Well ive been with my boyfreind for a year.. And he loves me very much and i love him to. He buys me everything i want but my boyfriend thinks its all about thingz he thinks that if he buys me things i'll stay happy but no... I need his love too.. ...

A.   20 July 2008: Did you want an advise or just someone to agree with you? Remember that there's more wisdom in acting selfless than in thinking only about yourself.... (read in full...)

I lied to my friend. How do I make it better?

Q.   well this year i made a new bestfriend. lets call her "shelly". anyway she already ahd another bestfriend, who we will call " jane". anyway i has the myspace of this girl (call her claire) who was the prettiest person ever, a few years older than ...

A.   20 July 2008: The most precious a guy loves in a girl is self-confidence. If someone sees that you're trying to act exactly like someone else, he will realize you have BIG confidense issues and probably back off. Actually, people in general would back off. ... (read in full...)

What pet names can you call a guy?

Q.   A guy calls you 'baby, huni, sexy.' But what can you call a guy? ...

A.   19 July 2008: I think you could call a guy any pet name as long as they like it. Me and my boyfriend we call each other "cookie", even in public! We have gotten used to it so much that when we call each other by our given names, we think the other one is mad... (read in full...)

Wanted to share this joke with everyone, does anyone find it as funny as I do?

Q.   A duck walks into a bar and says to the barman, "Got any bread?" Barman says: "No" Duck says: "Got any Bread?" Barman says: "No" Duck says: "Got any Bread?" Barman says: "No, we have no bread." Duck says: "Got any bread" Barman says: "No, ...

A.   19 July 2008: You made a funny! I laughed. Good joke... (read in full...)

Did my sister and mum overreact to my jokey comment?...

Q.   i have a problem with my sister .. well before two days i was eating dinner with my friend then my sister walked in and said yay i want some i winked to my friend and said to my sister there is a little you can't eat -i was kidding- then she got mad ...

A.   19 July 2008: Does your sister have a history of being oversensitive? If she does you have to start acting more serious with her. Those kind of people are very hard to joke with and some jokes will likely offend them. Also, not trying to be sexist, but was ... (read in full...)

Am I in love or just obsessed?

Q.   im 16 years old and i think im in love but im not sure, whenever im with him i dont want him to leave my side . im always thinking about him and he always calling me to tell me he loves me and when im lonely and sad i just call on him and he talks...

A.   19 July 2008: Whenever you think of him, do you feel this happiness that envolves your body and mind? Do you feel happy around him? Do you wish to be with him because he makes you happy and not because you feel needy(sexually)? On what you described, it seems... (read in full...)

Can I love him even though it's over the internet and he's older?

Q.   I pretty sure I'm in love with an amazing guy I know from the internet, he is three years older then me, and I always have to reasure him it doesn't matter how old he is because three years is nothing really. The question is, can I love him? Id it ...

A.   19 July 2008: You're asking us to tell you if you can love him or not? Love is NOT something someone else can tell you to feel or not, it's something you feel yourself only and that only yourself can know what if it's real. Many girls confuse love with lust a ... (read in full...)

Is he holding back and being distant because of my race?

Q.   Hey, Well I'm 15 and I'm dating this guy who is 16. We both really like each other. However, he is a bit distant with me. I know he's only 16 but he has slept with a few girls in the past, and it doesn't bother me because that's his past and I'...

A.   19 July 2008: I think he's seems more distant with you because he respects you more than others. Many people see Indian girls as smart, reserved, pure, and loving. Maybe he sees this qualities in you as well, something that probably he never saw in the other ... (read in full...)

Is anyone on here a Godmother who can give me some good advice?

Q.   Hello, I'm a 15-year-old girl and my big brother and his wife asked me to be the godmother of their future child,few months ago.The little boy will born in September (probably 20th according to the doctor).The baby will be their first child.I ne...

A.   19 July 2008: The big responsibility of a godmother is that they will take care of the children if in any case the parents are gone. If your brother and his wife put this honor on you, it means they trust you enough that you will love and care for their children ... (read in full...)

Do I tell her I like her or just keep it to myself?...

Q.   Okay, so I've been best friends with a girl for nearly a year. I've always been attracted to her, but not until we started to be good friends did I feel a strong attraction. But now she's one of my best friends, and I really like her, but I'm afraid ...

A.   18 July 2008: First try to make sure that she feels the same about you. Try to see for hints about her behavior around you. Try not to confuse her friendly behavior or special behavior towards you (since you're her best friend) with romantic feelings. A goo... (read in full...)

I lied and cheated on her, but she is still with me after 3 years, does this mean she really loves me?

Q.   a friend of mine told me about someone he was so crazy about but he was too scared to make the first move, so when i saw that i just went to her to propose love,my point at that time i was having a girlfriend but couldn't miss someone so cool and ...

A.   18 July 2008: It's so sad that a woman who loves this uncondicionally is still with a kind of guy who is too blind to see this. After cheating, lying, and making her suffer and seeing no reaction from her besides unconditional love, you worry that she will che... (read in full...)

How do I tell my parents that I am gay?

Q.   I am a 15 year old gay who has no idea when or how to tell my parents I'm gay. When should I tell them and how. All of my close friends know so I have something to fall back on if they don't take it well. Thanks to anyone who has any ideas....

A.   18 July 2008: I think you should read this websites: http://www.outproud.org/brochure_coming_out.html http://www.wikihow.com/Tell-Your-Family-That-You-Are-Gay Please read both of them thoroughly. The first website will tell you what to expect and what ... (read in full...)

I worry about shaving my pubic area... how can my friends do it?

Q.   Basically, 1. I am 16 and a 32D. All my friends are sizes 30F or 32F etc. I am scared i don't get any bigger because i haven't changed in a year. I am really worried. 2. Recently my friends have been speaking about shaving their pubic hair and o...

A.   18 July 2008: Oh my! Why would you wish for bigger breasts when yours are already considered, by many, a gift?! And like Uncle Phil said, I really think your friends fill the bras because having all your friends having bigger breasts than yours is statistically ... (read in full...)

I was so mad I slapped her across the face!

Q.   My brother died couple of weeks ago because he had canner. I even missied a week of school because of it. When I told my best friend say I'm "obsessed" with him and need to forget about him. I was so mad I slapped her across the face1!! Why would ...

A.   18 July 2008: Oh wow I was so wrong about her. I really thought she would come through after she said that to you. Like the others said, you have to leave this girl. She's not your friend and what she just said is even more terrible. I really hope you slapped ... (read in full...)

How can I make my brother's girlfriend show herself in her true colour?

Q.   My brother has a girlfriend who I can't stand because she calls me names (like, tramp,slut and many more) and makes of fun my friends. I did nothing to her cause by bro would kill me if found mistreat her but give her the right to treat me like ...

A.   18 July 2008: All that I wanted to say was told by all the aunties here, but I want to add something else. If you want a way to prove your brother his girlfriend's true colors, a good way is to buy/get a recorder and record her abuse towards you. Before doin... (read in full...)

My BEAUTIFUL girl and I are not accepted by others...yet we love each other. What to do?

Q.   Hi all. This is my first question so I hope it's good. See, about two months ago, this girl and I (who have known each other all our lives) confessed our love for each other at the exact same time. We have a great relationship and have never ...

A.   18 July 2008: Oh my, me and my boyfriend were in a similar situation. A lot of people didn't like me being with my boyfriend. I never found out the reasons, but I think it was mostly jealousy. We never gave in into those people's comments. The only thin... (read in full...)

I was so mad I slapped her across the face!

Q.   My brother died couple of weeks ago because he had canner. I even missied a week of school because of it. When I told my best friend say I'm "obsessed" with him and need to forget about him. I was so mad I slapped her across the face1!! Why would ...

A.   13 July 2008: Well people change with a person if that said person has experienced a loss. For example, one of my closest friend was diagnosed with cancer. Before this, many people ignored her or just didn't pay attention to her. After she was diagnose... (read in full...)

My boyfriend seems to think it's all about things. How can I tell him I need his LOVE too?

Q.   Well ive been with my boyfreind for a year.. And he loves me very much and i love him to. He buys me everything i want but my boyfriend thinks its all about thingz he thinks that if he buys me things i'll stay happy but no... I need his love too.. ...

A.   13 July 2008: Well, have you tried to tell him this? Most people cannot read minds and some people are clueless when some people try to imply something (I find myself guilty here). Why don't you try to make a nice conversation with him and tell him how you ... (read in full...)

I was so mad I slapped her across the face!

Q.   My brother died couple of weeks ago because he had canner. I even missied a week of school because of it. When I told my best friend say I'm "obsessed" with him and need to forget about him. I was so mad I slapped her across the face1!! Why would ...

A.   13 July 2008: I know some people really can't deal with the whole death situation but what she did was extremely innapropiate. I understand your reaction completely (although I don't resource to physical action, but this is just over the line). What you shou... (read in full...)

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