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writes:hey im 13 and i really like this guy who is 16 and i have been french kissing him for a bit but were not going out together.i txt him all of the time and he told me he loves me and i said it back and he has complemented me a few times now.but my friends txt him to and my best friend really likes him to and he is her ex.and the other day he went awasy on holidays and his friend told me he tells every girls he loves them and he said to his friend that he has all the girls and who will i pick.when i heard that i was heart broken. but i really like him. is he just playin me. or is real that he really likes me please help thanks appreciated.?
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reader, PsyCookie  +, writes (17 July 2008):
 I would suggest you to just be careful with this guy.
It is not sometimes recommended for people to listen to rumors because most of them are lies, but there are some that are truthful. Because of this, just stay on your guard.
Don't immedeately believe this guy, specially when you have barely hanged out with him and you barely know him and he barely knows you. In my opinion, this guy sounds like a player and he's playing with you and you're falling for him, because of the reason above.
Another option, on which I wouldn't really think might be true, is that your friends are jealous and that they want to crush your hopes with this guy. Like I said, I don't think it's true because my gut feeling tells me this guy is the bad apple here.
Another thing, you have to take things slow with this guy. You have made out with him and you're not even going out with him! so how can he take you seriously? I have heard my father so many times telling me this. He used to be a player when he was younger and he liked it when a girl would put out early on the relationship or when the girl would rush things for him, but he never took her seriously and when he got what he wanted (a kiss or something else), he would not feel anything when he broke up with her. It's still true to this time, so just be careful with this guy. Get to know him first and him to know you first more in depth.
Trust your instincts. Learn to think on your head than your heart. Learn to make a difference between your urges than your feelings. And have I forgoten? Be careful around this guy.
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reader, HannARGH! (:  +, writes (17 July 2008):
 hey,,i think this guy that you like maybe messing you around a bit, i think he likes the attention and satisfaction he gets from other girls aswell as you who tell him that they like him. when you say you 'love' him maybe you just strongly like him, dont assume this guy that told you that he tells other girls his likes them is telling the absolute truth, at the end of the day it all comes down to trust, do you trust him? dont go jumping to conclusions unless you actually know hes been saying stuff to other girls. also take into consideration that you guys arnt exactly going out with eachother so i suppose that gives him a right to say what he wants to other people since nothing is happening between you both. Have an honest conversation with him, find out where you stand and if you can take your friendship further? tell your friends your feeling for him they might back off if they are good mates.
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