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He won't go down on me anymore, he says we are too old, what gives?
Q. My husband wont go down on me anymore. We have been together for 14 yrs. He says we are not kids any more, he is 32 i am 35. I would be willing to give him a bj but he has never liked them. I dont orgasm from intercourse only clitoral stimulation. ...
A. 30 April 2008: That would explain why he doesnt want it - I know where hes coming from. That could explain why he doesnt want to give you oral sex too as its the same thing to him really just with a woman but it must still bring back those memories. Try a small ... (read in full...)
Is it weird to want children at 17?
Q. I find myself really wanting to be a mother, but I'm seventeen. I have names picked out, even. Is it weird to want kids so badly at my age?...
A. 30 April 2008: It's not weird and many women want babies throughout their lives at odd times. My mother craved a baby in her 40's. The reality though is that it is real hard work, children are rewarding at times but it's not an easy ride. I have a 3 year old ... (read in full...)
He won't go down on me anymore, he says we are too old, what gives?
Q. My husband wont go down on me anymore. We have been together for 14 yrs. He says we are not kids any more, he is 32 i am 35. I would be willing to give him a bj but he has never liked them. I dont orgasm from intercourse only clitoral stimulation. ...
A. 30 April 2008: My husband loves giving and receiving, I only like giving but let him every now and again to keep him happy. Sex is about give and take and shouldnt be one sided. In my case its due to a very unpleasant personal situation in the past but he knows if ... (read in full...)
Difference between a fuck buddy and a friend with benefits and what do you think of the whole thing?
Q. My friends and I were talking and she said she had "a friend with benefits". I said "So you have a fuck buddy?" And she said, they were different things? Cant someone explain the difference to me between a fuck buddy and a friend with benefits ...
A. 29 April 2008: I've had two and they were both different. (Not at the same time and only when I was single). The first one was more than sex and although we never fell in love I will always have a lot of affection for him. He was my rock when I needed a cuddle ... (read in full...)
Should I risk friendship if there is the chance of a relationship?
Q. Hi guys hope that your advices help me to take a decision. I really like my flatmate. I'm 30 and she is 29. We live together for 3 months now. We get along very well and I really enjoyed her company. I'm trying to decide if I tell her what I'm fee...
A. 29 April 2008: I wouldnt tell her before as if she doesnt feel the same way she will spend her time away worrying about facing you!! I would tell her how surprised you are that you missed her so much when she was away. Maybe suggest a night out together as you'd ... (read in full...)
I know it's weird, but I am in love with a stranger!
Q. This may sound weird, but I don't know of any other way to describe it other than the fact that I'm in love with a man I've never met. The other problem is that he's much older than me. I'm 17, but I'll be 18 the next time I see him, which if I'm ...
A. 29 April 2008: Its part of his act to make eye contact and it could be he doesnt remember you from one year to the next. Hang around after the show and chat to him if you really want to but dont worry if he's not the man you've imagined all this time. I'm a firm ... (read in full...)
I want him back, but can we make it work?
Q. My ex and I broke up a month ago, which I know is not a long time to let it heal, but the problem is that I don't want to move on and get over him - I want him back! When we broke up he told me it was because he needed time and space to sort ou...
A. 29 April 2008: I think you have to just give him this space and see what happens. He will feel jealous if he sees you with another man for a while thats normal. He could just feel that you are going to grow apart anyway so wants to end it now. Time will tell ... (read in full...)
After 4 years of not having sex my bf has difficuilty in maintaining an erection-any tips?
Q. my boyfriend is 37 years old.he has not had sex in 4 years.we just started seeing one another and he cant keep his penus hard.whats wrong...
A. 29 April 2008: There are different reasons for this happening but its probably not because he hasnt had sex for 4 years. Some men cant get an erection at all and others cannot sustain it. He needs to go the doctors and get to the route of the problem it may be ... (read in full...)
How do I tell her I love her?
Q. i am in love with a girl in my class.ispeak to her.but i cannot express this in front of her.plz help me...
A. 29 April 2008: I assume you are not actually dating yet. If you are not then dont tell her you love her - you will frighten her away! You need to get to know each other first. Can you ask her to meet you out of school to watch a movie or something and find out ... (read in full...)
I'm the perfect guy for her, but she thinks she doesn't deserve me!
Q. hey to all.. Im a bit down. Yesterday i asked a question on how to ak a girl out to be my girlfriend.. Well thanks for all the advice i got from my family.. Thats now you guys!!!! Uhm i did ask her out, although i didnt the answer thati wanted but ...
A. 29 April 2008: Tricky one this!! It could be that she is letting you down gently. I have male friends that I love to bits but would never want a relationship with and I would hate to hurt them so I would say something similar to them. Dont be a bad ass guy but ... (read in full...)
How long should I wait before I give up?
Q. ive been working with a guy since last october, im really into him and i was unsure whether he felt the same, the people we work with tell me he talks about me, saying how nice i am and that he'd love to take me out. But yesterday was my last day ...
A. 29 April 2008: If he is as shy as you it could take a week or two. Why dont you contact him - if you do it by phone and he says no thanks then its not like you have to work with him again. You could just say now youre not working together you'd like to get to ... (read in full...)
Was he cheating in the photo?
Q. Just seen a photo on bebo of my boyfriend on a nite out with his friends. In the photo he has a girl (his friends friend - to him a stranger) wrapped around his neck - both her arms locked around the back of his neck and his arm around the back of ...
A. 29 April 2008: I dont think its anything to worry about. I hug my male friends all the time and often I'm photographed with them rather than next to my hubbie. If someone throws their arms round your neck its natural to grab on to them somewhere otherwise you'd ... (read in full...)
I'm so worried he doesn't really love me now. Is it me?
Q. i am generally a very pesemistic person and ive been with my boyfriend now for a 19 months and i love him to pieces. he has watched me go through a really depressed anti social stage, hes always stayed around when i push him away when im stressed ...
A. 29 April 2008: It could be that he feels its his time now as he has been there for you in the past but maybe dont need him so much. Give him the space he needs but dont let him forget about you and this might work out okay. Dont let him take you for a mug by ... (read in full...)
He is unappreciative and seems to call only when he needs me - why do I feel I can be so easily swayed by him?
Q. Ughhh ok I am so frustrated... it honestly is an emotional roller coaster with this guy.. I talked about him earlier and I honestly thought it would be over with him- what with him not calling and all- so last night I get a call from him saying he's ...
A. 29 April 2008: Cut your losses and delete this guy out of your phone and out of your life. He is a player and loves the attention. You might find he wont leave you alone for a while when he realises you dont want him anymore but just ignore him or be firm about ... (read in full...)
I know it was wrong but I looked in my girlfriend's phone and I felt destroyed!!
Q. My girlfriend and I have have been having the time of our lives over the past 8 months. I'm 48 and she's 45. We're both very much in love, and then last week I saw a dramatic change in her. Even in the bedroom she was cold. Something she has alwa...
A. 29 April 2008: She's making you feel bad for something she has done wrong. You both need to decide if you really want this relationship to work as it does sound as though she is telling a few lies. If you really love her and can forgive her then you have to try ... (read in full...)
Can you just stop loving someone?
Q. Is it possible to just stop loving someone??? can trust be regained for keeping a secret for a long time if the secret was not your fault??? ...
A. 29 April 2008: It depends what theyve done or what secret they've kept. My ex beat me up but it took a long time for the love to end, I didnt just wake up and think I dont love you - love faded to resentment then hatred. As for the secret it depends what it is, ... (read in full...)
Can I really move on from this betrayal?
Q. My husband (then 32) and I (then 35) met 5 years ago when he was at a very low point in his life and had recently left his mentally and physically abusive first wife. It really was love at first sight for both of us and we have had what I thought ...
A. 29 April 2008: It does sound as though he's got off lightly but I cant walk away from 3 children and I want to work this out without family knowing. We went away for a weekend to be alone and had some serious heart to hearts. In some ways I love him more because ... (read in full...)
Why are my boyfriend's friends so harsh on women needing to fit a certain prototype? I don't understand.
Q. I think I may have a problem with self-image. The thing is, of late, I've more been around more people who really take into account appearences before they get to know people. They are my boyfriend's friends and they are often discussing and deba...
A. 29 April 2008: Your with your bodyfriend not them so it doesnt matter what they think. To your bodyfiend you are beautiful. They may 'date' beautiful girls but are they in love with them or are they dating new girls every week. At then end of the day you fall in ... (read in full...)
In love with my married teacher, and I'm going to tell him, will it work?
Q. I'm 17 years old and I'm completely in love with my super-awesome chorus teacher who's 32 and married. I was planning on telling him the very last day I'd see him (I'm graduating soon), but I'm not anticipating any kind of reply or ...
A. 29 April 2008: Do not tell him!! Keep it your secret and its something you will laugh at when you are older. Telling him will hurt you if he laughs or looks horrified. If he tells you he loves you too then he isnt the kind of person you want to be in love with ... (read in full...)
Help! I lost my erection!
Q. I have recently started seeing a girl, this is the first girl i have been dating for several months now. She is extremely nice and sexually stunning. After seeing her a few times we decided to make the next step to the bedroom. Unfortunately ha...
A. 29 April 2008: I think you've answered your own question by saying she's sexually stunning!! There is obviously some anxiety caused by this, maybe the first time you were worried about pleasing her as she is so stunning, even though there was no reason to think ... (read in full...)
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