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Why is he trying to hide the fact that he is with a new girl even though he knows I know!?
Q. Hello everyone! I have an ex-boyfriend that is really confusing me. We broke up about 2 years ago because he didn't want to do a long distance relationship. He recently moved back but he brought a girlfriend! About a month before he moved back he ...
A. 24 June 2008: We werent trying to be hostile, as you say its always difficult because we dont know the full story. I think you should maybe ask him outright what is going on here not just because you could end up getting hurt if you think its leading somewhere ... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant? Or am I one of those people who can't?
Q. I am fifteen years old, and my ex boyfriend and I we're dating for around seven months. October 12 07 - May 9th 08. We had alot of unprotected sex, and it started in febuary and ended early June. I never have got pregnant but I've had alot of ...
A. 22 June 2008: No you've just been incredibly lucky. Get some condoms or other form of birth control you really dont want a baby at 15 x... (read in full...)
Is it possible to have an orgasm before ever having a period?
Q. Is it possible for a girl to have an orgasm before she's ever had a period?...
A. 22 June 2008: Oh yes!! I knew my body and how to pleasure myself long before my periods started which was 15 and a half. My mum was 19 so it is not uncommon to start later, if it is yourself you are talking about then pop to docs if you are concerned about not ... (read in full...)
How can she relax so I can give her oral sex?
Q. Okay so my Lady is great and she does it all for me. What I really want is to do it for her. I want to give her great Oral sex but she is to tickleish down there. When I try and go down on her she squeezes her thighs on my head and screams due to ...
A. 22 June 2008: Its not so much she is ticklish it is more likely due to being oversensitive. I have the same problem and add that to an incident when I was younger involving oral sex and what would now be considered date rape means my poor hubby rarely gets to ... (read in full...)
Why won't he let me do this one thing?
Q. My boyfriend and I are very comfortable with each other. We've been together for 4 years. We have a healthy sex life. I have one question though, he's seen every part of me, we've experimented with different things and positions... and yet he still ...
A. 22 June 2008: Some people are just uncomfortable about anything that involves bodily functions. I would never lick my hubbies anus or let him lick mine yet we are adventurous in other ways. Its just down to personal choice and I doubt he will change his mind so I ... (read in full...)
I think he's coming round and wants to do stuff, what do I do?
Q. i met this boy called dillon 2day and he seems ded nice but he came my house while i got a drink we went up to the water dispencer in my room coz it ice cold anywayyzz we ended up play fighting messin about he through me on the bed and sed nothin ...
A. 21 June 2008: Yes tell your parents and lock the door. You are far too young to be in this situation, he may force himself on you thinking its what you want. Learn to say no if something doesnt feel right and dont invite boys into your home unless you know them ... (read in full...)
Is this acid reflex or something else?
Q. Ok I have a health question. I have been diagnosed with acid reflex. I got diagnosed with it in September of 2006 so almost two years ago. I had a colonoscopy and an endoscopy. I didn’t have any ulcers but I did have a polyp which is what they said ...
A. 21 June 2008: Gallbladder stones do cause pain so it could be that or it could just be that you just think your ill, it sounds to me you have a lot going on and maybe need to talk to your doctor about why you feel you are ill all the time x... (read in full...)
What should I do, stay with my boyfriend? Or get back together with my ex and get an abortion?
Q. I'm 19 years old, I meet my boyfriend in collage who i've been dateing for 5 months, and i'm between 4-5 months pregneat with his baby. I jumped into this relationship too quick, and i just got out of one with my ex, who i was dateing for 4-5 year...
A. 21 June 2008: You cant abort the baby just because you no longer love his or her daddy especially at this late stage. If the child is unwanted then there are thousands of women out there desperate to adopt or maybe the baby's dad or family would like to bring the ... (read in full...)
How can I tell if he's lying or not?
Q. ive just started talking to this guy, he tells me that he has already gone off 2 other guys that he's known for months and is hooked on me. he's constantly busy with work its like a week job and only gets around 3 hours to talk. so yeah we t...
A. 21 June 2008: I dont think you can know as you dont really know him well enough yet.
Try a little bit of trust and see what develops, if he constantly ignores you or lets you down then decide if the relationship is really worth it. It could just be work but unti... (read in full...)
Did she lose her virginity or not?
Q. okay i have this best friend and she dosen't know if she really lost her virginity or not because she said they were in the bathroom she was sitting on the bathroom counter top and he asked her if she wan't to feel what it would be like when she ...
A. 21 June 2008: No I dont think this could be classed as losing her virginity. She must not do this again she could still get pregnant if the boy is producing sperm as a little can leak out even if he doesnt have full sex. So if its anywhere near her vaginal area ... (read in full...)
How do I figure out who is the father of my baby?
Q. my last period was on the 15th may ithink ,i just found out im pregnant bout 4 to 5 weeks gone and baby due around feb 22 2009 ,but on the 8th june i started sleeping behind my bf back ,im not sure who the father would be ,i dunt no if i was ...
A. 21 June 2008: Because of when most women ovulate you were probably all ready pregnant before you slept with ex but as all woman are different and some ovulate earlier or later than average the only sure way would be a DNA test once baby is born.
Smiles is righ... (read in full...)
Can a relationship with a much older guy work?
Q. i have a very deep attraction towards a boy. and i feel he too have an attraction for me. but i am 14 and he may be 24-26.is this relation possible?...
A. 21 June 2008: No it wont work you are not in the same place in your lives right now. You will want different things and it will cause friction.
Is he prepared to wait until you are old enough to have sex, if not he can get into serious trouble
Are you prepared... (read in full...)
Do I have any rights with regard to her selling the ring before divorce?
Q. My wife has sold her engagement ring and has left the state, she even had a change of address 3 weeks ago, then, this week I filed for divorce. Do I have any rights with regard to her selling the ring before divorce? ...
A. 21 June 2008: It is classed as a gift so no you have no rights, unless it was your family's heirloom and the will states it has to remain in the family, then you might have had some rights but if she has already sold it I dont know what could be done x... (read in full...)
I have not told my mum that I started my periods and I've a school trip soon...
Q. ok so i need a bit of understandment help, a few months ago i started my periods and i never told my mum, because i just couldnt say anything really. but i am going on a school trip soon which includes an overnight stay...she has got my washbag ...
A. 21 June 2008: Yes talk to your mum. It may be she is being cautious or she may know it has already started. I am so lucky that i grew up in a very opem minded household and actually told my dad first (25+ years ago mind!) but its not always so easy discussing ... (read in full...)
Do you think it's the right decision/necessary for me to know details of his affair?
Q. I've been very contemplative about this question. I have so many questions in my head all the time that all I do is just think about them. A part of me says that I do want to know EVERYTHING (times, places, who they were with, who knew, what i...
A. 21 June 2008: Im not even going to read what the other aunties have said I am just going to say, absolutely yes you need ALL the answers to all your questions and dont be surprised if new questions arise from the answers you receive.
Some may say stay in the dark... (read in full...)
Why do women like to tease men about sex??
Q. Why do women like to tease men about sex? Why not just be open to their needs instead of making it such a big deal!!!...
A. 21 June 2008: Power. Its that simple. If a woman wants sex she is likely to get it, if a bloke wants it, who stops him. The woman.
So if you are referring to a specific woman in your life who is playing mind games then make her want you as much as you want her.... (read in full...)
My partner has a split personality, will he ever change?? What should I do??
Q. My partner of 5 years has a split personality. He is a paranoid, possessive boozer. I love him to bits when he is Hyde. He is the most kind, loveable, generous, entertaining, knowledgeable man. Whan he is Jeckel I hate him with a vengence. If he ...
A. 21 June 2008: Been there and that is exactly how I describe my ex husband, jekyl and hyde. Dont think he will ever change, mine didnt, except to get worse. Sorry if that not what you wanted to hear. Id love to know when his birthday is x... (read in full...)
How wet is normal?
Q. Hi, I'm a 17 year old lesbian girl. And I am madly in love with my girlfriend. She's amazing and I can't wait to finaly make love with her. We talk about sex alot and tonight she asked me if the wetness I get in vagina is excessive or normal. I ...
A. 20 June 2008: Everyone is different. Just tell her thats something she will have to discover for herself. Generally the more turned on you are the wetter you get but some women are very dry and need lubricants no matter how turned on they are.
Dont worry abou... (read in full...)
Is it weird that he has so many different fetishes?
Q. I have an ex boyfriend who I see every now and again. He and I are very comfortable with each other, especially in a sexual sense, and have discussed the possibility getting back together in the future. Recently he's confessed that he wants to try ...
A. 20 June 2008: I find the only problem with having too many weird sexual things is that it becomes very hard for one or more partner to enjoy regular sex anymore. Its ok when its just once in a blue moon but when it becomes a regular part of sex then often the ... (read in full...)
I don't feel comfortable using new sex positions yet - How can I make him understand?
Q. My name is Amanda and me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 almost 4 momths. Everything is going really good we have alot in common but we recently chose to become intimate with one another and all he ever talkes about are these different ...
A. 20 June 2008: Hi Amanda
You are young and just starting out sexually. Explain to him that you are still not comfortable enough about this to try new things for now. Its normal when you first start having sex to be shy about doing things, showing your body, doin... (read in full...)
How can I get my parents to trust us?
Q. Me and my boyfriend, we were planning to stay at the chalet for a few nights. we're going to share a bed but my parents were afraid that we would have sex. how can i persuade them?...
A. 20 June 2008: I dont think you can and I wouldnt allow my 16 year old duaghter or my 14 old year son to share a bed at their age with their boyfriend of girlfriend. It would be very easy to be tempted and then you have all the legal implications of underage sex ... (read in full...)
My friend found out her boyfriend has an STD, and she was ready for sex with him. What should she do?
Q. My friend has this major problem. She has not being dating for five years until last summer, with this guys she met at the lake. They are very happy together. It is seriously true love. But she found out that he has an STD. She has never had sex ...
A. 19 June 2008: What is the STD he has??
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When I go down on my girl she gets all wet and sticky!
Q. This is quite disgusting, but however much I love my girlfriend very much - and so on and so forth, but everytime I go down on her this sticky foul stuff just comes out and it's eugh. I looked it up and I think it's discharge by why is there so ...
A. 19 June 2008: You need to tell her although it is isnt going to be easy bringing this up.
A woman should get wet and sticky when you go down but if it smells or tastes foul then that is not normal.
I have been told by many guys before I married (well not that... (read in full...)
Can't cope with his colourful ex girl/boyfriend!
Q. i am in a new relationship.my dude and i have been together for 2 months and he just revealed to me that he was with a transexual. im so very disgusted and i cant even look at him in the face anymore. should i try to get pass it becus it was in his ...
A. 19 June 2008: You shouldnt judge him on his past, we all have one, good or bad but if this goes against your morals in anyway then you have to end it now as it wont get any better. Im not sure how I would feel in your shoes to be honest but I do try to be ... (read in full...)
Am I nuts for staying with this little boy for security?
Q. Ok. Here is my deal now. I have a 12 year old and her father and me usto fight like crazy when she was little so we broke up. I didn't date seriously for 7 seven years. I finally let someone love me and this kid is a bastard. My daughter has alre...
A. 19 June 2008: Chuck him out now!!!
You HAVE beome his mum in this relationship and you wouldnt put up with this behaviour from your daughter now would you?
He is never going to change in this relationship as it is too late for that now. Im not sure on the lega... (read in full...)
Why is he trying to hide the fact that he is with a new girl even though he knows I know!?
Q. Hello everyone! I have an ex-boyfriend that is really confusing me. We broke up about 2 years ago because he didn't want to do a long distance relationship. He recently moved back but he brought a girlfriend! About a month before he moved back he ...
A. 19 June 2008: Maybe he feels it is not right to discuss her with you and is actually showing her loyalty here. If thats the case then he truly loves her. I assume she is ok with him taking you out now and again? I wouldnt stop my husband meeting up with an old ... (read in full...)
How do I get through to him? Or should I just let him be?
Q. I dated a guy for a short time several months ago. We've known eachother for three years or so, but were never very close. However, while we dated we grew very close and told eachother everything. I found out he is very depressed. He's a freshman in ...
A. 19 June 2008: Whilst you cant be accountable for his life he is sending you a cry for help here by texting you about this when he is out of it.
All you can do is try to help him by asking him to get help but only he can decide to do it, you cannot force him.... (read in full...)
Is this his problem or my problem?
Q. I am 58 and a female. I dated a gentleman for a year and ask him for a little more time along and more efection.we always had to have friends around.I own my home, he rents. He would never spent the night, but I would stay at his home on Fri.and ...
A. 19 June 2008: I think this gentlemand doesnt really know what he wants. I dont think he will be able to commit to you so you need to decide if you WANT to stay friends and do the things you do for him or if you will eventually want more.
Do whatever feels righ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says my vagina is loose and that he does not feel a thing... what can I do? How do I fix it?
Q. I have not cheated why does my vagina feel loose... my boyfriend thinks that I've cheated... before he even mentioned it, I have been noticing a diffrence with our sex life... when we have sex my vagina has no tightness to it.. I try and ...
A. 19 June 2008: Every woman is different and just like penises and breasts, vaginas come in all shapes and sizes. It could also be you are getting very wet down there, thats as common as not being wet enough, easy to fix, keep a towel by the bed and have a wipe ... (read in full...)
Does this make me a bad person?
Q. hey, this is kinda an oqurid topic for me. ok here it goes... i have alot of guy friends and we all hang out alot, well one day we were hangin out and i said "im really bored" and being my guy friends they all said something dirty....but one or t...
A. 19 June 2008: Not a bad person just a confused teenager who feels that by giving this pleasure she is getting something in return. You are not, you will not gain anyone's respect this way and potential (decent) boyfriends will find this off putting if you are too ... (read in full...)
Should I forgive her or stay mad at her for kissing my boyfriend while we were drunk?
Q. my friend and i were at this party, with my boyfriend( but he wasnt my boyfriend at the time) and we all ended up getting really drunk with this other guy. and we all ended up making out with eachother. my friend had a boyfriend at the time, and i ...
A. 19 June 2008: Let it go. It was in the past and had no bearing on your relationship then or now. x... (read in full...)
Has the way your orgams felt ever changed?
Q. i'd always had short and intense orgams, well the last 3 orgasm I've had changed, like the way an orgasm feels changed, i dont like them as much, now they are longer... it use to go up up up and then all the pleasure gets realised... well now its ...
A. 19 June 2008: I find that if I orgasm on top it feels like that as it goes right up my spine and sort of out the top of my head and afterwards I feel strange (that sounds so weird). So I prefer not to come that way and will switch to missionary or anther position ... (read in full...)
Is it okay to date your sister's boyfriend's sister?
Q. Is it okay to date your sisters boyfriends sister...
A. 19 June 2008: Yes nothing wrong there.
My brother in law has 6 brothers, 1 of them met a new girl and then introduced her and her sister to his family. Another brother then started dating the sister. Eventually they all got got married on the same day and now ... (read in full...)
Talking to him is like talking to a wall... and these bitter feelings burst out every other month.
Q. I'm having more bumps in this relationship. Every other month all these bitter feelings burst out. Again I'm telling him that I want romanticism. I had to beg him today to cuddle with me. He knows i'm jealous of his female friends so he sneaks out ...
A. 19 June 2008: There are two sides to every story. If he is sneaking out of the house maybe he feels you are smothering him a little bit it doesnt mean he is definately cheating. But the jealousy and constant demands for romance could easily push him into the ... (read in full...)
I'm confused that he likes to kiss me and touch me like he is my boyfriend? Can this FWB relationship actually be something else?
Q. I know this guy for about 3 months. We saw each other mostly in our university class, and then decided to hang out, which by the way only happened twice.The 1st day, we hung for a long time,then at the end of the day, he wanted to do it to me, and ...
A. 19 June 2008: He will do anything to get you to agree so he can get in your knickers but that doesnt mean he will ever want a serious relationship.
I have had 2 fwb's (at different times!) who were extremely loving and tender and we had hugs and cuddles and some... (read in full...)
Why can't I enjoy sex with my boyfriend, I'm bi-sexual
Q. well i'm a bisexual girl very much in love with my boyfriend but i'm having severe sexual problems. we been together for over 2 years and only had sex about 5 times. he is frustrated, i am frustrated. i only had sex with one other guy before my ...
A. 19 June 2008: I agree you need to talk to someone. You may think there is nothing in your life that could have caused this but there could be a deep underlying reason, rejection by a male figure, fear of losing a male figure, being told sex is dirty as a young ... (read in full...)
He prefers his work buddies , some are girls, over me, is something up?
Q. I have a small issue. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. A short time compared to other people. Almost six months into our relationship i pretty much moved into his townhouse with him. Then in may his lease was up and had to ...
A. 19 June 2008: I cant say for sure that he is seeing someone else but there is definately something wrong here.
By choosing them he is sending you a big message, he doesnt really see you as a serious relationship and for some reason prefers to drop everything for ... (read in full...)
She's 21 and wants to party alone before the ring...
Q. Ok, I was 21 she was 17, everything was happy. Fast foward 4 years and some and now I'm 25 and she's 21 we've been living together for 2 years and she's just perfect for me. I tell her I want to get engaged just a week or two after her 21st bi...
A. 19 June 2008: You have to let her do this, she is obviously not ready to settle down. It may be that she will have her year of partying and never return but if you are willing to wait for her then that is your choice. Or she may come back to you in a few months ... (read in full...)
Should the child always come first before a relationship?
Q. Should the child always come first before a relationship? I am dating a widowed guy with a kid who prefers to give up sex with me if his daughter (seven) wants to sleep in bed with us that night. He doesn't ask me if I mind first. Every major li...
A. 19 June 2008: I cant believe this is still going on! We obviously havent given you the answer you wanted to hear and maybe we are never going to, thats the beauty of this site a lot of people give honest answers based on experience or opinion, you dont have to ... (read in full...)
Meeting this guy just reminded me of how good I could feel. I really miss feeling loved.
Q. Okay so my boyfriend and I have been together a year and a month. He is depressed a lot and isn't at all affectionate (sp?), but I love being all cuddly and kissy. Sometimes I will ask him to kiss me and he says "no" or he "feels like i'm forcing ...
A. 19 June 2008: You feel like you owe it to your boyfriend to try and make this work but you deserve happiness too. if it is not working then you have to decide to really make the effort to change things or leave. A lot of people may say stay as he is depressed ... (read in full...)
Will my Internet 'boyfriend' change his mind once we meet in person?
Q. Please comments, advise, help. What should I do? I have been talking to this guy online for about 3 months, we say we like each other and that we are deeply in love. We wanted to meet and we had set up to meet in December but I was able to get the ...
A. 19 June 2008: The only way to find out is to meet up. Ignore everyone else, if its right then all will be fine.
Its no different to meeting a guy in a club or pub or anywhere. You meet and you are attracted and you make a date. Half way through the date you ... (read in full...)
Is he a player or is he just not the guy for me?
Q. hey, well i met this guy a while ago and we've just started going out,he's 18 and im 13 and we live quite far apart from each other,he treats me really well and everything, but sometimes he tells me that girls at his college come on to him sit on h...
A. 19 June 2008: He's bascially trying to get YOU to sit on his lap and kiss him and maybe wants to go a bit further and thinks by making you jealous he can pressure you into something you are not ready for. If he ever says if you loved me you would..... run a ... (read in full...)
Should the child always come first before a relationship?
Q. Should the child always come first before a relationship? I am dating a widowed guy with a kid who prefers to give up sex with me if his daughter (seven) wants to sleep in bed with us that night. He doesn't ask me if I mind first. Every major li...
A. 14 June 2008: This girl has lost her mother and I am afraid she will always come first as he doesnt want her to ever feel pain like that again. yes he has probably over indulged her but what a lot she must have been through. If you cant strike a happy balance, ... (read in full...)
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