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My GF hits me constantly, she told me I'm the only one that makes her mad and her ex's were better!...
Q. Ok.. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 3 months,i love her to death she knows it,BUT She thinks all i want is sex and she tells all her friends... she always hits me approximately she has hit me 7-9 times in the face (closed fist) a...
A. 16 August 2008: Get rid of her. This is not a NORMAL relationship. Men dont hit girls and girls dont hit men. Find a girl who really loves you and wouldnt dream of hurting you x ... (read in full...)
I thought he was rude to ask me to swallow so soon!
Q. i just started dating this 23 year old guy about a month ago..I'm 20..we became physical fairly quickly, but no sex...however the 2nd time i gave him oral sex he asked me to swallow...i thought that was very rude and being a big mouthed girl i ...
A. 16 August 2008: What difference does it make? If you are prepared to do this to him so soon why shouldnt you swallow. Bit of a double standard going on here!!! x... (read in full...)
I really need some advice about my husband who has not worked in a almost a year.
Q. i really need some advice about my husband who has not worked in a almost a year. i met him in august 2006 and we got married december 2007 after he lost all his money in the stock market. he inherited his money from his mother who passed away ...
A. 16 August 2008: If you leave him why would you be stuck in limbo??? Tell him to get off his arse and find ANY work. My husband would sweep the roads rather than be unemployed and at least he would have his self-respect. Get yours back and tell him to stop being a ... (read in full...)
My fiancee is making me sick with anxiety!
Q. I feel like i want to die, i can't sleep, i can't eat. I regret my abortion now because i only did because i loved my boyfriend and he wasn't ready to be a dad, but it wanted it so much. Now he says he wants time apart, or to stop living together, ...
A. 16 August 2008: Look you must have discussed the abortion and it sounds to me as though it was really against your wishes and you did it for him. Please get help and talk to someone about this as it wont get any easier. I truly think he is being an absolute prat ... (read in full...)
Why did he ejaculate in seconds after I initiated fellatio?
Q. Ok so i was giving my boyfriend a bj..and he cummed like after just afew seconds...is there anyway that can stop?...
A. 16 August 2008: Because he is a child, as are you and he cannot possibly control it yet!!!! Why oh why does your generation think oral is ok, its still sex. Wait until you are both 18, please x... (read in full...)
Do my parents have a right to dictate what are healthy/unhealthy boundaries between myself and someone I'm dating?
Q. About 10 weeks ago I met a woman through a mutual friend. We've officially been dating for about 8 weeks now. Averaging around 1.7 dates per week. We talk on the phone quite regularly. I'm 25 years old, responsible, and feel fortunate t...
A. 16 August 2008: No they dont sweetheart. Its time you moved out maybe and moved on with your life. If they want you to remain at home they have to respect that you have a life to lead that does not concern them. If they cant then its time for you to get your own ... (read in full...)
We are both 16, and all we want to do is cuddle in my bed, my parents absolutely won't allow it, how do I get them to understand that we are not going to have sex, we only want to hold each other?
Q. im 16 and my gf is the same we want to cuddle in my bed but my parents wont even let her set foot in my room do u have any advice on how i can convince them dat we will jus be cudlin and not goin to have sex...
A. 14 August 2008: Your parents are just doing their duty. No self respecting parents are going to allow underage children to get into bed together for any reason. Its not worth the risk. They cant encourage any behaviour that is inappropriate. Its not about trust, ... (read in full...)
I want to sleep with my boss
Q. I fancy my boss like crazy and i WANT to sleep with him, even though hes married and got kids? how do i get him 2 want me too? how shall i act? dress? make up? perfume? hair? ...
A. 14 August 2008: You just want sex but dont want to ruin anything? Not possible. What about if his wife finds out, ruined - 1 marriage, ruined - your job, ruined - his life, his wifes life and his kids lives.
What if you fall in love and he doesnt and you have to l... (read in full...)
Has anybody been rejected by their partner when they have dressed in sexy lingerie?
Q. I want to dress up this evening for my partner in some nicec lingerie, it is something he loves. However, he has had a period of no libido as he was on medication. We were intimate last week for the first time in months and nothing this week. ...
A. 14 August 2008: Why dont you put the sexy lingerie on underneath your clothes. Have a nice meal ready for him, a bottle of wine etc, dim the lights, offer him a massage, set the scene and see how receptive he is. If he shows interest, show him the underwear, if ... (read in full...)
I don't want a huge fuss with my mom, will this blow over?
Q. hi again i recently did a post saying that i was worried about telling my mum about my periods. i did tell her and after i got over the slight embarassment i was releived. im not too fussed about having my periods as everyone has to but she acts lik...
A. 14 August 2008: Its a strange feeling for a mum when her daughter starts her period. You feel sympathy as you know what she's going through, you feel protective as she is closer to becoming a young woman, you feel you need to tell her everything about it and you ... (read in full...)
What are your thoughts on why teenagers want to have sex before 18 years of age?
Q. Okay okay, I've been reading a lot of the questions lately and i keep wondering why teengers under the age of 18 want to have sex soo badly? Hey im 13 has a 14yo bf that wants to have sex he understands the wait.....but still, WHY HAVE SEX BEFORE 18 ...
A. 14 August 2008: I think when you are young you mistake sex for love and maybe some young girls dont have a lot of caring and respect and love in their lives, they think by giving themselves to someone in this way they are getting the love they crave. They soon ... (read in full...)
What does it feel like to have a partner with a higher sex drive?
Q. Can someone tell me what it feels like to have a partner with a much higher sex drive / interest in sex, preferably from someone who has been in such a position. I have a higher sex drive than my bf. For the first 18 months I thought we had v...
A. 13 August 2008: I have been at both sides of this.
Sex drives do change, sometimes naturally and other times due to things going on in your life. My ex hubbie used to hit me and obviously I stopped loving him and I NEVER wanted sex the last 4 years of our marr... (read in full...)
Do you believe in fate?
Q. When we were together, things just too strange would happen. We would think of each other at the exact same time, reach for the phone and get a text or phone call from each other. I would think of him and our song would play. The same thing happened ...
A. 13 August 2008: If I think of my husband he phone's me or texts me. Same the other way round. We know what the other is thinking and will finish each other's sentences some times as we wree thinking the same thing. If I get a thought to do something, like go ... (read in full...)
Is there any chance to get pregnant when he has a low sperm count?
Q. hi i got married 10 months back. Me and my husband plan to get a baby but initially my husband had ED problem and we undergone sex therapy and it was cured,and at that time my husband sperm count was 25 million /ml and 40 % motile in 1/2 hr and 20 ...
A. 13 August 2008: My husband had a low sperm count and we took 6 months to get pregnant with our son, we then tried for a further 2 years for another but it didnt happen. As I already had 2 kids from a previous marriage it wasnt the end of the world but we would have ... (read in full...)
He wants kids, I want a career, we are very much in love but at the moment, want different things, should I stick by him or do my own thing?
Q. My boyfriend and i have recently decided to end things cos he is ready to have kids and i want a career.hes 40 and im 20 but thats the only problem with our age gap that we are wanting different things in life at the moment.apart from that we are so ...
A. 11 August 2008: What about having a baby, returning to work and let him be the one who stays at home with the baby! x... (read in full...)
Was it my fault? And is it ever O.K. for a man to hit, push, and rough-house a woman?
Q. Hi, Is it ever O.K. for a man to hit, push, and rough-house a woman? My boyfriend of three years bruised me up pretty bad a few weeks ago, but claims he had the right to do it, saying he was defending himself. What happened was, I ended up slap...
A. 11 August 2008: You shouldnt have slapped him but that doesnt give him the right to hit you back, be careful as he may do it again now that he has crossed that line x... (read in full...)
Will I not enjoy it because they're big?!
Q. Hiya everyone I know this is a really random question but i would like some advice please. I have pretty big breast (34ff), and i have heard someone that the bigger they are the less feeling you will have due to nerves or something. I wa...
A. 11 August 2008: I was 32A at 32 years old, I turned 40 a few weeks ago and my boobs are currently a 34E and they are just as sensitive as they always were!! x... (read in full...)
Should I ask her to wait for the wedding?
Q. So My fiance is probably pregnant as you probably heard in the last question, sorry if i bug you guys. But she says that if shes pregnant she wants to get married before we have the baby. I would marry her tommorow if i could, but id rathernot have ...
A. 11 August 2008: Well as someone who got married whilst pregnant I wouldnt recommend it. I felt enormous (24 weeks pregnant), I didnt look or feel my best, it was a very long tiring day and the honeymoon was too hot (45 degrees on a good day) and not what I would ... (read in full...)
My husband cheated--is there any hope for us to move forward?
Q. My husband cheated on me. I am heartbroken, but still in love with him. He loves me too, I know this for certain. Has anyone out there had a spouse cheat, then eventually move forward into a loving and faithful relationship with that spouse? I need ...
A. 11 August 2008: If you want to stay together you just have to accept that it will take a long time to heal. After the anger, denial, hurt, grief and sheer frustration you may go through a bit of a honeymoon period again where you are truly in love and feel like ... (read in full...)
What do men really mean when they say they "can't be in a relationship"?
Q. A question for men: What do you realy mean when you tell a woman you cant be in a "relationship"?...
A. 10 August 2008: I think justaguy999 has it about right. Everyone has their own reasons. Im a woman not a man and Ive used that line before for these different reasons:-
a) I dont actually want a relationship with you
b) I am on my own for the first time i... (read in full...)
Is it true that larger girls are better in bed that skinny girls?
Q. A friend of mine (male) told me tonight that larger ladies are really good in bed, i've always been big and it's kinda made me feel good, haha.. His girlfriend is a larger girl although she is absolutly beautiful, he says they have the best sex life...
A. 10 August 2008: Well youre not even large then, isnt the uk average 16 now?? So youre below average and have nothing to worry about x... (read in full...)
Is there an alternative?
Q. I am suffering from premature ejaculation and because of this ,I cannot satisfy my wife. So she wants to go out and have sex with someone else to get satisfied. Is that an alternative?...
A. 9 August 2008: Have you been to the doctors to see if they can do anything?
If you have and they cant then there are lots of other ways you can satisfy her, with your hands, tongue, sex toys etc. Or she can satisfy herself, surely you dont want her to resort to h... (read in full...)
Has anyone ever heard of a father being jealous of his infant son, so he cheats on his wife?!
Q. Has anyone ever heard of a father being jealous of his infant son, and because he's not getting enough attention from wife he goes out and cheats on her? Does anyone out there know someone like this? It sounds like it's quite common among husb...
A. 9 August 2008: Its very normal for men to be jealous of their baby sons as they get all the love and attention (in their eyes). If he uses it as an excuse to cheat he is the lowest of the low, he should talk to his wife and resolve the situation not blame a small ... (read in full...)
Should I ask my doctor if he's married or let him keep flirting?
Q. To make a long story short. My doctor and I are attracted to one another. I notice everytime he examies me he takes his strong hands and rub up and down my arm four to five times and it feels so damn good. Another thing I notice was the strong ...
A. 9 August 2008: You report him as his behaviour is unethical, I suggest you change your doctor x... (read in full...)
Can he really want me even though I'm fat?
Q. Hi Im 21 and iv got a dilema! Im thinking of loosing my virginity to a person i trust 100% although i trust him i cant help thinking about how turned off he will be when he see's the fat. Yes im a big girl and its not as if he doesnt know but he ...
A. 9 August 2008: If he thought you were fat or disgusting in anyway he wouldnt want sex with you would he!! Just relax and be yourself and enjoy it. It took me a long time to understand that most men see past all that, its about more than just your body x ... (read in full...)
Is it true that larger girls are better in bed that skinny girls?
Q. A friend of mine (male) told me tonight that larger ladies are really good in bed, i've always been big and it's kinda made me feel good, haha.. His girlfriend is a larger girl although she is absolutly beautiful, he says they have the best sex life...
A. 9 August 2008: Of course its not true. We are all individual and it makes no difference really, well I suppose if you were really really really really really large you wouldnt be able to move about!! Your friend just obvioulsy likes larger ladies so his ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid that this girl is going to ruin my life, and there doesn't seem anything I can do to stop it! Please help.
Q. Hey all! Me and my girlfriend were going out for three months when i found out she was cheating on me. We talked it over and decided to stay together. We continued going out for another three months and then she dumped me for a different guy (not ...
A. 9 August 2008: Get the restraining order, she is a bunny boiler and who knows what she will resort to. Do it before anyone gets hurt, you cant live like this and it doesnt sound like she will stop anytime soon x ... (read in full...)
Who should I believe? My BF who says he loves me or his friend who said he's been cheating on me?
Q. alright so i have been on here in a while so i have one huge question .... about a week ago my bf was gone for a week and he barely calld me he called me probably twice a day and when he came back thngs were fine we had a great time i made him ...
A. 9 August 2008: So he cheated on you with a different girl every day?? That sounds highly unlikely, what is he a super stud that girls cant resist so they throw themselves at his feet!!!! I think she is telling you lies and you shouldnt let her split you up x... (read in full...)
If anything were to happen it would have to be initiated on my side, as he has a GF. What do I do?
Q. So, I've been working alongside my colleague for a year. He has a lovely girlfriend and I'm sure he's very happy with her. However recently I have come to realise that there is something more there. He knows everything about me, and I about him ...
A. 9 August 2008: If he was decent he would knock you back, if he doesnt does that mean he is not a decent bloke?? Would you ever be able to trust a man that got with you by cheating, what would stop him cheating on you in a few years.
Leave him alone, as hard as i... (read in full...)
Have strong feelings for a married women, her husband knows we hang out and "do stuff together." What do I do?
Q. Hello All, I am a single male and have been for several years and enjoy being single. Howwever, someone (a female of 25) has come into my life. We have a lot of things in common.We have been friends for 10 months. The problem is she is 'married...
A. 9 August 2008: Why split up the marriage if you enjoy being single and dont want the baggage that comes with her divorce. You are being unfair if you start something with this woman as you dont seem to want a relationship anyway, leave them be and stop hanging ... (read in full...)
I'm thinking about a baby. If I just stopped taking my pills without telling my boyfriend...?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years I am 22 and he's 21. We live together as well as his brother in a 2 bedroom apartment, but in about 2 months we will have an actual home. Their dad is buying it and we are renting it from him. my guy ...
A. 9 August 2008: If you get pregnant on purpose without telling him then you risk losing him. If he finds out you lied then you will have destroyed all the trust he ever had in you and how will you know if he is only staying with you for the baby or not?
He coul... (read in full...)
What options do I have without feeling like I'm ripping her heart out?
Q. I have been dating my girlfriend for about 6 months now and she recently told me that she's feels that she's falling in love. This would usually be a positive thing in a relationship but I have been here before. All of my past girlfriends gave me t...
A. 9 August 2008: Why is it going down the toilet? What has happened in your past that mkes you unabe to commit?
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My girl has an odor down there, is it normal?
Q. Hi, uhm, this a kind of embaressing question, or rather problem. When i lick her "you know what/where" it kinda smells, realy bad, its a kinda anticlimax and sometimes i cant stand it. I have seen porn videos with guys licking girls without ...
A. 8 August 2008: It shouldnt smell bad, if its fishy or foul smelling she could have BV or an std. If it just smells of stale sex then she's not washing herself properly! BV is actually caused by a girl being too clean and stripping her vagina of the good bacteria ... (read in full...)
I have been seeing my boyfirend for six months, I have financial problems, I needed expensive medical help, he did not even ask if I needed help, never tries to come to see me, should I confront him about the situation?
Q. I have been dating this guy for 6 months. He knows I barely survive and have hard times to fill up gas in my car, even though I face that situation, I always make the effort to see him at his place, because as he does not have a car he never visits ...
A. 8 August 2008: I dont think after 6 months you should expect him to pay or even talk about your finances with him, maybe thats just me but I was brought up to be independant and rely on no-one. x... (read in full...)
If you have sex in a pool, without ejaculation, can you still get a girl pregnant?
Q. is it possible when having sex in a pool and not coming, to still get the girl pregnant?...
A. 8 August 2008: Yes because you could have had a little bit of pre-cum and she could still get pregnant. Be more careful next time and get her to take the morning after pill this time x... (read in full...)
After seven plus years of marriage, my husband cheated, I don't know for how long, no details, I am deeply hurt, but still love him, he wants to repair the damage, I don't know that we can, what should I do?
Q. we've been together for almost 8 years, i can't believe that he can do that to me... he cheated, i don't know how long because until now he can't explain, he can't detail what happened and why he did it, i love him... very much and trusted him... ...
A. 8 August 2008: He needs to tell you all the details as there will be a million questions going through your head and you probably feel like you are going mad. Its part of getting closure to know every little thing they did and every little detail about her.
T... (read in full...)
My girlfriend enjoys oral sex, but her pubic hair is a turnoff for me, I've talked to her about it, but so far it is still the same, what do I do now?
Q. My girl says she really enjoys guys giving her oral sex. I really want to but im put off by her pubes. I don't want her pubes in my mouth. I've talked to her about it and she says she might get it waxed but that was months ago and still the bush ...
A. 8 August 2008: A lot of ladies dont like the bare look I dont personally think its very attractive, Im a grown woman not a child. I keep my 'undercarriage' hair free and bikini line is trimmed too. Doublem has given some good tips try them out.
And Miss Wend... (read in full...)
Can one take a fertility test to see who is the father during pregnancy?...
Q. I has sex today and my boyfriend came over and I decided to take a pregnancy test like an hour or two after the test and it came back positive. I am late on my period and I keep getting ill and my boobs are hurting. I don't want to go to the ...
A. 8 August 2008: You cant test for the father until after the baby is born as you need a dna swab from the baby. As for having sex i dont think that would have any bearing on the pregnancy test. Wait a couple of days and test again, maybe buy a different brand. ... (read in full...)
We have been together for four years, married one, lately I have become dissatisfied with our sex life, I want more with intensity, he cannot last long enough to satisfy me, I love him, he is caring, but I need more from him, what to do?
Q. i am 22 years old. i met my husband when i was 18 and he was 27. he was my first in everything. we've been together for 4 years and married 1 out of those 4yrs. i love him with all my heart, but lately i started noticing changes in myself. it's kind ...
A. 8 August 2008: I agree maybe he is feeling a little bit pressured, you are obviously at a sexual peek at the moment and he is not. There are so many things you can do to spice up your sex life, act out fantasies etc.
If you do go out looking for a bigger one who ... (read in full...)
I get pre-ejaculation when we are just hanging out or talking - can I control this?
Q. Hey Guys! Uhm I have a question.. Well I had my other one answered but its not solved.. So me and my girlfriend had sex and its great and all but like I said, what I hate is that sometimes when were just talking or just hanging out doing nothing ...
A. 8 August 2008: I think doublem's suggestion is good prior to meeting up with her. My hubbie gets a bit of pre cum when we have sex but he also gets very horny if I just look at him sometimes or give him a cuddle. He'll often say dont stop cuddling me just yet so ... (read in full...)
All the answers for "I don't know what to do when I'm on top".... Well they're not working for me! Help!
Q. Okay, I know there's loads of questions from girls out there asking "I don't know what to do when I'm on top", and theoretically the answers are pretty good. But they don't seem to be working for me. My boyfriend doesn't really mind, but he still ...
A. 8 August 2008: If you're young enough with strong legs, then get him to lay flat, sit on top with your knees bent and your feet flat on the bed and lift yourself up and down, you can either face him or face away from him. If youre a bit older like me and your ... (read in full...)
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