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All the answers for "I don't know what to do when I'm on top".... Well they're not working for me! Help!
Q. Okay, I know there's loads of questions from girls out there asking "I don't know what to do when I'm on top", and theoretically the answers are pretty good. But they don't seem to be working for me. My boyfriend doesn't really mind, but he still ...
A. 8 August 2008: If you're young enough with strong legs, then get him to lay flat, sit on top with your knees bent and your feet flat on the bed and lift yourself up and down, you can either face him or face away from him. If youre a bit older like me and your ... (read in full...)
I'm cheating and feel stuck in this situation, what should I do?
Q. First of all, I know that it is wrong for a spouse to cheat. But that is what I am doing. I feel bad but I also feel that the person that I have met is more like me. He is 10 years younger than I and I thought it would be a problem to really be with ...
A. 8 August 2008: Work out what you want. If you love your husband try nd make it work. If not move on, you are responsible for your own happiness in life. If it means you have to be alone for a while then so be it. Dont leave your hubbie for your lover if he is ... (read in full...)
You think I could change my feelings towards large women or should I try and cool things down before I hurt her feelings?
Q. I met a girl online a couple of months ago and we have met a few times since then. We get on really well and she is one if the few girls that I've met that I can talk with for hours on end and forget what the time is. We appear to have so much in ...
A. 8 August 2008: I had the same problem when I met my husband. He was bigger than any other guy I had ever been with in my life (I was 36, he was 32). He is good looking and VERY well endowed but his weight put me off a little bit, ex was
very very very slim, skin... (read in full...)
Can he really fancy me if I am 10 years older?
Q. I am 33 and have recently become very good friends with a 23 yr old guy who calls and texts me all the time and I am attracted to him but he is really good looking and cannnot imagine that he would fancy me but am getting mixed messages.how do I ...
A. 8 August 2008: Youger men LOVE older women. When I was single at 32 I used to meet a lot of my friends sons when out (most of my friends older) and apparantly I was milf. Mum Id like to f**k!!!!! Wow makes you feel good when a young lad interested.!!!!!... (read in full...)
I'm so scared that I don't look right "down there".
Q. So I'm in a relationship right now and it's likely that I'm going to engage in intercourse in the near future. My problem is that I'm panicking about my appearance down there... I mean, what do guys expect? I'm scared that I'll have done something ...
A. 8 August 2008: Clean and trimmed. Doesnt have to be drastic just neat and tidy x... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't want me to talk to my mum! What do I do?
Q. this is a very long story but ill give you the shortened version. I have been with my boyfriend for about 2 years now. He moved in about 10 months ago with me and my two children. When we first met I told him alot of lies and he only found out ...
A. 7 August 2008: My husbands ex wife tore him and his family apart because she didnt get on with them, made things up about them and he wasnt allowed to see them. He was a fool and listened to her, she was very manipulative and he wasnt sure where his loyalty shoud ... (read in full...)
How long do you think it will be before I get my braces?
Q. tomorrow I am going to the orthodontist about braces. As i live in the uk the treatment is free and the orthodontist told my mom I will be put at the top of the waiting list and that my treatment starts in august. I have already had x-rays and ...
A. 7 August 2008: You are very lucky my daughter was put on the waiting list and was told it was a four year wait in our area, I paid privately as it meant she would be getting them at the time she would be starting uni - it cost me £2000 but her teeth are beautiful ... (read in full...)
No PMS this month. Could I be pregnant?
Q. This may seem like a silly question, but I can't find the information anywhere else! Okay, so I'm supposed to start my period sometime within the next week or so. I usually start anywhere from the 9th-13th of each month. However, two weeks in adv...
A. 7 August 2008: If you are pregnant you would normally have had other signs like nausea, boobs tingling, strange metallic taste in mouth (although my boobs tingle when Im due on too). If you are due on any day then take a pregnancy test it should show up already x ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to be engaged before divorce is finalised?
Q. Hi, I am 41 and in a relationship for over three years with an Irish man who is legally separated. He will be separated 4 years at the end of this year and will be applying for his divorce at that time, as is the Irish Law. I myself am divorced ...
A. 5 August 2008: If your partner and you are both comfortable with it then its fine and down to personal opinion.
Me and and my hubbie were trying for a baby before we married and he took me to paris for valentines weekend. I really expected a proposal and wait... (read in full...)
Pain while urinating since I first slept with my boyfriend (I wasn't a virgin) - what to do?
Q. I slept with my boyfriend of 2 years on friday 1st august. It wasnt my first time. But since then when i go to the toilet it hurts a bit whilst i pee, is this normal? i dont no what to do, and i dont want to tell my mum about it. I dont want to go ...
A. 5 August 2008: Sounds like cystitis. If you dont want to go to the docs or tell your mum then drink fresh cranberry juice, lots of it, it works everytime for me. Your local shop should have it in the chiller section. I also think boots have a drink you take to ... (read in full...)
Can a girl get pregnant with the withdrawal method?
Q. Hi! I recently had sex with an older guy. I know pulling out is not good so we used a condom. Can a girl get pregnant if he takes it off at the end and lets his sperm out on her stomach? This is what he did with me. I'm pretty sure none of it got in ...
A. 5 August 2008: Its too risky to be doing this as one time he might slip it off too early and could get you pregnant. Your right the withdrawal method without a condom is not a good idea either, my daughter is proof of that, but I was in my twenties and married so ... (read in full...)
Can you lose your virginity masturbating?
Q. I only have this question, does masturbation take your virginity?...
A. 5 August 2008: No losing your virginity means having full penetrative sex x... (read in full...)
Is anal sex always painful?
Q. My husband and I have a great sex life, however in the 4 years that I've known we've only had anal intercourse, successfully, twice. I consider myself sexually adventurous, but I am absolutely terrified about this for 2 reasons. M husband is VERY ...
A. 5 August 2008: I tried unsuccessfully with my first husband for years and he was actually quite small. I finally managed to do it with a man who was built like your husband, and I too am small, my first instinct was no way uh uh you aint putting that in there, but ... (read in full...)
Is he becoming bored? After two years of sex with just me, is he losing interest?
Q. I have tons of questions going through my head! Ok, maybe just three or four, but it's driving me mad, I need guys help... So, me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years. He's been my first. I was his second, but almost like his firs...
A. 5 August 2008: Its normal, sometimes my hubbie can have another orgasm 5 mins later by carrying on as soon as he has come (didnt even know it was possible until I met him!),other times he can want to start all over again ten mins later or sometimes he cant get ... (read in full...)
I love being sexually active but my husband is the opposite, although he tries to keep up with me!
Q. My husband and i have been married 10 months, and the biggest problem so far in the relationship is our sex life. i love being sexually active but my husband is the opposite. sometimes we dont have sex in a week or more and when we finally do, he r...
A. 5 August 2008: We have different sex drives at different stages of life and men and women dont always peak at the same time. Let him know you would like more sex but dont pressure him, that is the fastest way to get less sex. As a compromise suggest that when he ... (read in full...)
I have been seeing this guy for eight years, now we broke up once, got back together, he will not take me around our town, if we go out, what is the problem?
Q. Ive been seeing a guy for 8 years now, we've had our ups and downs as all couples do. He did cheat on me once and I broke it off but we got back together. Why after all this time wont he been seen with me around town, when I mention it he kicks off ...
A. 5 August 2008: Well I had a guy who would only take me out on fridays, he was always either busy saturdays or would ask me to have dinner at his house or mine, he never once took me out on a saturday night into town. You know whats coming next, he had another ... (read in full...)
Love my boyfriend, yet feel like I need time away to party and meet others, BUT what if he finds someone else in the meantime?
Q. Hi All. i just need some help. i am 19, and for the last 3 years i have been in a relationship with a WONDERFUL man who i love to pieces. lately i feel like i want to go out and meet new people and just have fun and be 'single' i have been in this ...
A. 5 August 2008: I was with my first hubbie from 15 to 32 and I didnt really get the chance to live my life. Maybe a break would be a good idea you may find you never go back to him but if you feel this way already then dont waste your time with him as you will ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my step brother that I love him? Would it ruin everything? Our parents are by now divorced.
Q. OK... here goes nothing... When I was little, my mother began dating a man who was about 12 years older than her. Her being 30, and him in his 40's, the difference in age wasn't that bad. I was three when they really got together and he's slowly ...
A. 5 August 2008: Well to him you may always be his little sister and he may not be able to think of you that way at all, it may really screw him up. On the otherhand you will never know unless you talk to him but I really dont know how you could do it with out ... (read in full...)
Will I ever have good sex ever again? None of my other lovers have stacked up to him!
Q. Can I ever have really good sex again? I had sex with a younger guy I was 29 he was 18 and we would have wild sex for 2 or 3 hours each night. It was the most physical connection I ever felt with a man but we weren't dating. Just having sex ever...
A. 5 August 2008: When you meet someone you truly love the sex will be amazing x... (read in full...)
Is it weird that I fantasize about my best friends cousin who I don't 'like'?
Q. Hey. I liked this girl in primary/junior school for about two years. It just so happens that I became best friends with her cousin (a boy) by pure coinsidence a few years back and still are. Now, I stayed around his house last night where she also ...
A. 5 August 2008: I used to have sexual dreams about a boy in my class I couldnt stand the sight of, so I guess its normal x... (read in full...)
Do you know how to say 'a good looking guy' in french?
Q. do you know how to say a good looking guy in french? when i went to quebec with my school, i learned it but didnt know how to spell it. me and my friend tried to spell it, so maybe you can get it with this. we spelled it mesho pater'?...
A. 5 August 2008: SHit there goes my french degree... (read in full...)
How do you convince someone you're being honest if they refuse to believe it?
Q. So i split from someone months ago, my choice. Wasn't working, very dysfuncional relationship, split, get back together, split get back together, you get the picture. Anyway, been a bit of a struggle since, but managed to keep it on civil terms, and ...
A. 5 August 2008: You dont owe him any explanations. He just doesnt want you to move on and be happy. Maybe he is still carrying a torch for you and is a bit jealous. Let him go you are worth more, dont even bother trying to convince him x ... (read in full...)
Does it mean that he really wants to let me go if it didnt bother him that I was going on a date with a guy?
Q. I'm Desperate for advice. My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year and 8 months. Lately we have been arguing and I dont have sex with him very much anymore, and It has kinda gotten to the point where I want to start talking about a future ...
A. 5 August 2008: I think sappygirl has it wrapped up really. I think I would move on, you dont need to be tied down yet with marriage etc but you at least deserve monogamy x ... (read in full...)
How do I find out if she likes me?
Q. We have a lot in common,music,sports,general hobbies. she gives me harmless insults randomly, she plays catch with me a lot with a tennis ball.She's always talking to me on MSN till late/early morning on the phone thing .I don't want to ask her out ...
A. 5 August 2008: Random insults, thats the biggest give away. She likes you, go for it x ... (read in full...)
She keeps taking her friend's advice, what should I do?
Q. Me and my girl friend have been friends for like 3 months before we got together. When we got together we were really happy until she told her friend about us, an she kept on talkin about our problems. My girl never came to me with any of the ques...
A. 5 August 2008: The tests mean nothing!!! real life is what counts, if she cant talk to you but confides in her best friend maybe she needs to mature a little bit. Talk to her about this and tell her you want to be the one to talk things through and that she ... (read in full...)
We have been together 4 months, when is the right time to have sex?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for about 4 months now and I was wondering when is the right moment to have sex or if we should wait a little bit longer?...
A. 5 August 2008: When it seems to happen naturally, not easy when you are both young and live with parents. I will say though be careful, think about protection and the fact that as you are in the usa its not legal yet for you x ... (read in full...)
I've cheated on my wife three times. I haven't told her and I feel terrible. Help!
Q. I have been in a up and down marriage for about 5 years. We have 2 young children. We have tried counseling, only has helped some. Over the 5 years, I have had 3 one-night stands due to a lack of physicalness from my partner. I have not told ...
A. 5 August 2008: If you felt that bad why did you do it twice more after the first time. Think long and hard about your marriage, if you want to make it work then you have to put some effort in too. Dont expect your wife to want sex all the time if you are not ... (read in full...)
I've been seeing a married man for 6 years and I think he's talking to other girls online!
Q. Hi: I have been seeing a married man for 6 years now, he tells me he loves me but he keeps chatting with women on line and wanting to get to know them better. When I ask him about he says it is not true but I know otherwise, what should I do?...
A. 5 August 2008: Move on and realise that he will never change. If he could cheat on his wife with you for 6 years without actually leaving her then what is to stop him cheating on you??? You are wasting your time with him x ... (read in full...)
My aunt got my crush's number for herself, after I told her I liked him!!
Q. I have been crushing over this guy that i work with and told my aunt, and she went to him and got his number for herself! That really made me mad, what should i do?...
A. 5 August 2008: Beat her to it and ask him out!!! x... (read in full...)
I wish to turn this "gorgeous" guy from a total stranger into a "boyfriend", only I'm not confident at all!
Q. soo here goes....well ive seen this guy around my local village he doesnt know me i dont know him but i know where he hangs out with his group of friends and i do recognize him as he has very goood looks! anway im not confident at all and his ...
A. 5 August 2008: Start by smiling at him when you see him. Gradually build this up to saying hi and take it from there. If he blanks you completely then just move on. If he returns your smile and hi's then build up to talking to him. If its a small village you ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 years old, going to have sex for the first time. What position is best?
Q. I am 13 and me and My And My Boyfriend have been together for nearly 3 months now and i no he wants too have sex and so do i but i am a virgin so he will be my first. i am really scared.! What position is best for the first time? Everyone says ...
A. 5 August 2008: Well 13 is a bit young, I wouldnt give my own daughter advice at your age about which position so I feel I have to say the best position for you for a few more years is knickers on and legs shut x... (read in full...)
My sister had a bad experience, with a guy from an on-line dating service, how do I protect my self, if I decide to meet this man?
Q. I've recently joined an on-line dating site and have started chatting to this guy who lives in the same area as me. We haven't been chatting too long, but I rather like the guy so far. He recently asked me if I wanted to meet up for a drink or a...
A. 5 August 2008: You do have to be careful but I think your sister was just unlucky. Arrange for some of your friends or even your sister and her friends to go to the same meeting place, dont pick a restaurant as you are stuck all night if he is a waste of time! ... (read in full...)
My question is more for my mother than me,please read.
Q. Hello My question is more for my mother then me. She has dating 2`men for over 2 almost 3 years and now it is starting to come apart on her and she is really depressed and she dont know what to do. /One of her bfs is 65 and he is financially stable ...
A. 5 August 2008: I understand why you are concerned and this is no example for a mum to set her teenage daughter. If she is dating both then she doesnt really love either of them enough to stay faithfull so you are actually right, she should dump them both, gain ... (read in full...)
Do you know how to say 'a good looking guy' in french?
Q. do you know how to say a good looking guy in french? when i went to quebec with my school, i learned it but didnt know how to spell it. me and my friend tried to spell it, so maybe you can get it with this. we spelled it mesho pater'?...
A. 5 August 2008:
C'est un tres bel garcon, he is a handsome boy x ... (read in full...)
I want to tell her how I feel, but I'm worried I will end up pushing her away and end up without a drinking buddy!
Q. I've recently moved to a small village in the middle of nowhere and I really really like the barmaid who works in the local. After she finishes her shift she will sit with me and some of the others and have a laugh and get drunk together. I wa...
A. 4 August 2008: Why not just suggest going out together for a drink alone when she has a night off. You dont have to make it sound like a play for her and if she agrees you will soon get to know each other better and find out if she feels the same way. If she says ... (read in full...)
How do I communicate to the my new guy that I need more time to reach climax?
Q. I have a question about how to approach an issue - I recently started dating this guy that I'm not sure if I like or not, but I want to give him a chance. The problem is that it usually takes about 30 or so minutes for me to climax. My previ...
A. 4 August 2008: 30 mins is a lot to ask a guy and requires quite a bit of stamina!! Try talking to him about it though but not in a way that makes him feel useless, after all some women would love a guy to do it for 10-15, my friend says all she gets is three ... (read in full...)
I'm just not coming on my period! Am I pregnant or not?
Q. hello i really need help im a 15 year old girl and i had sex on the 10th of july and me and my boyriend never used a condom,i was due on on the 27th of july but still havent come on!i have all the period pains but im just not coming on my period!am ...
A. 4 August 2008: It sounds like you could be, you had unprotected sex right in the middle of your cycle when you are likely to be more fertile. Get a test or go to your doctors, a lot of them in uk have a drop in womens clinic in the early evening. If you are not ... (read in full...)
Is she being too flirty with my hubby?
Q. I found an e-mail from my husband's receptionist saying 'Could you sign these reports or you won't get any chocolate cake'. I just found this to be very flirty. Would you agree or do you think I'm being paranoid?...
A. 4 August 2008: Not flirty, cheeky and its great if she gets on well with your husband. The work place should have a bit of fun in it sometimes and its obviously an 'in' office joke. Dont worry about unless she starts sending more offering anything else!... (read in full...)
Do guys like short girls?
Q. do guys like short girls? im only 5ft but the guy i like is about 6ft, do you think he would like me even though im small?...
A. 4 August 2008: I love tall men and Im only 5ft 3 and 3/4. The tallest I have dated was 6ft 5, me ex hubbie was 6ft 1, new hubbie is only 5ft 10 so I wear flats a lot now as I like to see my man towering over me! One friend of mine is 4ft 11 and her bloke is 6ft 3. ... (read in full...)
I do not like alcohol, she drinks, and it bothers me, I want her to stop, if she doesn't, should that be the end of our relationship?
Q. So I am in a great relationship right now and have been for almost 7 months now. We get along great and love each other dearly, and it is very happy relationship. However, we recently came to a rather large bump in the road, and I don't think it is ...
A. 4 August 2008: What about a compromise. SHe can drink in moderation say one or two glasses of wine or even none at all when you are out together but if she is out on her own then its up to her x... (read in full...)
Laid my soul bare, told him I love him, he is not sure he loves me, should I continue in this relationship, when he doesn't love me back?
Q. I told my boyfriend of a year and half that I loved him the other night. We have always got along very well and I thought he felt the same way too. But he replied that he doesn't know if he loves me or not. I don't really know what to make of it....
A. 4 August 2008: Wow its taken a whole 18 months for you to say I love you and after a whole 18 months he says he's not sure if he loves you?????????
Why are you wasting your time with this guy!? x... (read in full...)
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