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| | *lovebowsandcherries's profile:Hi i'm 20 years old i live in the united kingdom. i'm straight.
i am currently single.
i love giving advice to people and trying to make a difference in peoples lives i've helped alot of people before on a website similar to this. i also go on some of my past experience in life and hope to make other peoples lives different i also want to make the realise and hope they don't make the same mistakes i did.
so if anyone needs any help just pop me a message or something. :)
i'm a friendly person i'm a good friend loyal and i am generally lovely :) i also have facebook.
i love listening to music and i love driving it's great!!! hanging out with my friends is the best!
i love random things i love pointless drives.
If you need any advice give me a shout :) i'm easy to talk too :) and very understanding.
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I call him sometimes up to 16 times in an hour or send 60 text message...could I lose him because of this?
Q. Hi, this is my short story... I have been seeing this guy for about 11 months now, we get along and like being with each other, we spend a lot time together, even in his busy schedule he puts time a side for me, he has his own business and is ...
A. 7 April 2009: congratulations!!!
you got a great guy there too hun!
well done for fiding ways to control yourself :)
you should be so very proud!!!
i applaud you!
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I call him sometimes up to 16 times in an hour or send 60 text message...could I lose him because of this?
Q. Hi, this is my short story... I have been seeing this guy for about 11 months now, we get along and like being with each other, we spend a lot time together, even in his busy schedule he puts time a side for me, he has his own business and is ...
A. 2 April 2009: yeah you will push him away with all this pressure of calling and texting him like hundreds of times. just ring him before he goes to work or goes to see clients and say look when you get there just ring me so i know you're ok. or pop me a text ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend gay? He's got me wondering
Q. Is he gay? My boyfriend wants anal sex a lot, but I don't want to give it to him. He has a lot of male friends but is a "guy's guy" - athletic, sociable. But, he spends a lot of time with a particular friend behind closed doors and has even made ...
A. 2 April 2009: i think you are being paranoid hun! some guys just act like that because it's like a jokey way with them like some girls can be like that with there girl friends doesn't make them lesbian. just a jokey way and as for the anal don't worry all guys w... (read in full...)
Do normal couples have private social networking profiles? (Facebook, myspace)
Q. Privacy or secrecy?? Just wondering in a normal relationship (married or long-term) do partners have private or secret emails or profiles? I have been with my partner for almost three years and he is adament that it is okay for him to have a ...
A. 2 April 2009: everyone has facebook or myspace that's nothing to worry about. just keeping in contact with people. so yeah i guess it is normal really. facebook is just like catching up with people same as myspace. its like a personal blog in a way just to le... (read in full...)
I really like my best friend what should I do?
Q. i like him i really like my best mate and we do nearlly everything together. he is there when i need him, he likes the same music as me and will go out of his way to help me i really realy like him and eveyone is saying we ae going out, which...
A. 2 April 2009: well best thing is either ask him if he likes you or ask someone else to ask him and if not then just be grateful you guys are friends hun sometimes it's better to be friends with a guy rather than nothing at all. i mean can you imagine if you guys... (read in full...)
I went over to talk to my sister's boyfriend and now I am pregnant with his child!
Q. I know this may be long, but I need to tell you the whole story, because if I just say my problem you'll think I'm like all those other young teen "whores". my sister was dating this guy who is 24 and she is 23. she always uses me to bring up things ...
A. 2 April 2009: omg! hun you need to tell your parents what has happend this isn't at all your fault and no you shouldn't be with him! he's 24 and your still young! he shouldn't have done something so crude to you! that is wrong! it's rape!! you need to tell ... (read in full...)
He doesn't see me as his girlfriend
Q. Hi, i was just wondering, this guy i have been seeing, he is the best ever. He has been married although his wife left 3 years ago.... We would go away on weekends alone and so, although he does not see me as his girlfriend, he says 'you are my ...
A. 2 April 2009: he doesn't feel the same because he just wants to fullfill his sexual needs until he does find someone he wants to be with, i'd get out there and put your love to someone who you know will deserve it because he clearly doesn't don't waste yo... (read in full...)
What does"take care"mean?
Q. I got in a lil argument with my bf he txt me 10 min later and said sorry i meant not disrespect take care.. does the "take care" mean hes breaking up with me?...
A. 2 April 2009: i duno some people use take care like if they're like upset and know they upset someone else they said like take care like they want you to know they are sorry and didn't mean to upset you and that they won't bother texting you like every 5 mins to ... (read in full...)
How do I put my family back together after all the heartache this girl has caused?
Q. Hi this is going to be an essay sorry. My son met a girl in Aug 2007 just before he joined the army, then in March 2008 she said she was pregnant,twins they got engaged and we had a family celibration party all was well baby due Nov 28, she was ...
A. 1 April 2009: oo she sounds a nasty piece of work! maybe she never told you because she had misscarried and was feeling you all maybe disappointed but then again as your son is in the army who knows maybe she has cheated and realizes the child isn't his? yo... (read in full...)
Do younger guys like older girls?
Q. is wrong to fancy a guy of 27 yaers old and i am 29 years old.its just a question.do younger guys like older girls.2 years is probably a huge age gap. i suppose younger guys don,t like older girls....
A. 1 April 2009: mmmmmm i'm not too sure!!!
i mean some guys are different some guys do like older women as they feel they are more experienced.
but you never know until you find out.
as i say guys vary and like different things.
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At 27, I like girls but I'm also scared of them
Q. i am 27 and i am a virgin, this is not a religon thing its a scared thing, in fact i have never even kissed a girl. i dont know why i like girls alot but im afraid of the reaction im gonna get. i have good looks and a great job and have probably ...
A. 1 April 2009: hun i am 20 not been kissed by a guy or slept with one! i am pretty much scared too i am scared of the relationship and where it'll lead too! all you need to do is just think! life is too short and just go for it! let yourself go! see what ha... (read in full...)
My sister betrayed me!
Q. I'm going to try keep this as short as possible. Basically i've liked this guy (i'll call him james)for a while now. I've not told anyone apart from my sister as we're very close. Last week we all went out (me, james my sister and a few other ...
A. 1 April 2009: hun talk to James about it maybe he's being like this because he didn't realize you liked him and maybe he does genuinely like you as well, as for your sister well sisters are mean! i know!
just talk to her and tell her about it just tell her how ... (read in full...)
My parents are religious anti-lifestyle nuts who looked down on my deceased beloved sister
Q. My best friend committed suicide two days ago and in her note, she said it's because she was in love with me but she knew I came from a Christian family and she didn't want to create a rift between my parents and I. So she kept quiet about even ...
A. 1 April 2009: hun i am sickened by what your parents said! shouldn't matter what way she was whether straight gay bisexual it's the person who she was who counts! they shouldn't be so crude to you they should be there for you and know that you had no intention... (read in full...)
I need advice please. She is the one that I need!
Q. Alright, my name is "D". Me and this girl used to date a long time ago back when we first started talking everything seemed to be going fine and it was. After maybe a month of getting to know each other we started dating and i thought that she woul...
A. 1 April 2009: yeah i agree with Rob you're not that into her at all.
you want her now only because she has called it all off you want something you can't have.
she isn't the one you NEED! at all otherwise you wouldn't have been so mean to her.
you didn't want ... (read in full...)
What should I do? Stay away from guys for a little bit, or continue this one?
Q. hey people. so... I'm just barly getting over this guy after 2 and a half years of crying over him. I know pretty pathetic right? but he was my first love so I guess I have a good reason. or maybe not. anyways. I've been through ALOT in the past two ...
A. 1 April 2009: hun you don't seem like you're ready for this relationship.
i'd back away for a bit and gather yourself together you need to have some you time and be by yourself for a while and endulge on checking out guys and just not having the strings of a rela... (read in full...)
Is it ok to be selfish in a relationship every once in a while?
Q. hi guys just need some feedback to this question. Is it ok to be selfish in a relationship every once in a while?. Meaning that is it ok and normal to think about my needs and not just my partner's needs all the time....
A. 1 April 2009: yeah i don't see why that is a problem everyone has needs as long as you don't think on your needs too much then i'm sure it's ok. if you feel your needs aren't being met then talk to your partner about it and see if you guys can do anything to a... (read in full...)
I'm not IN love with my boyfriend anymore & Not fully over my ex either...
Q. I and 22 and I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. However I have been confused about my feelings for him. I feel that I love him, but im not IN love any more. I have wanted to break up many times but have never found the courage to do i...
A. 1 April 2009: hun you need to just tell him you don't have the same feelings any more and sure ok he helped you through your mums tough time (glad to hear she's ok :)) but you can't keep living in denial you need to just say that your not longer in the loving ... (read in full...)
I hate having stretch marks!
Q. i hate having stretch marks... i'm a little overweight and have always had these stretch marks, i've lost quite a lot of weight now but i've still got them, they are all over my tummy, hips and my arms... does anyone have any suggestions about how ...
A. 27 March 2009: they never go completely they just fade away.
but honestly don't worry alot of girls have them
i still got them but they are faded a bit.
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I hate having stretch marks!
Q. i hate having stretch marks... i'm a little overweight and have always had these stretch marks, i've lost quite a lot of weight now but i've still got them, they are all over my tummy, hips and my arms... does anyone have any suggestions about how ...
A. 26 March 2009: hun i got them too!
use bio oil but they'll always be there they jut make them fade
or if you find it doesn't work there is coco butter.
Hope this helps :)
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I have never been unfaithful but he is constantly assuming I am!
Q. I'll just lay it all out on the table. He and I have been together for over one year. I have never been unfaithful to ANYone in my past, I know the pain of infidelity and I would never do that to someone else. For eight months now, I have h...
A. 26 March 2009: woah that is alot of stress on you!
heck no your not the crazy one he clearly has this mad paranoia!!
youm really need to get him help he should be with the therapist not you!
he needs to see a shrink!!
you need to make him realise he is be... (read in full...)
I keep dreaming of my ex!
Q. I always see my ex in my dreams and I do not know why. Apparently he was holding me tight close to him and then we started kissing. I really want to stop dreaming about him since it is always delaying me from moving on completely with my life.. ...
A. 26 March 2009: hun you're probably dreaming of him because you miss him and miss being with him and probably regret cheating on him. i don't think it would work because he probably can't trust you now as you've cheated so many times but he was in your dreams ... (read in full...)
Is this guy playing me? Or what?
Q. hey people..can you help me with this please.. My question is, is this guy playing me? Basically, have known him for a couple of years, liked him for all of it...but it is only recently that he has come to find this out. We were at a houseparty whe...
A. 24 March 2009: not alot of people get guys lol hun if you want to know then just tell him in a text how you feel if your too shy to do it in person and see how he feels. tell him you've liked him for ages and take it from there other wise you'll never kn... (read in full...)
I'm afraid I had my chance with him and wasted it.
Q. Hi, I really like this guy I met in college and I was trying to flirt with him at our end of year party because he seemed interested too but we didn't hook up in any way and now the semesters nearly over and I'm afraid I had my chance with him and ...
A. 24 March 2009: just grab the chance hun!
it's now or never!
who knows when you'l see him again
if your shy then email him or text him and ask him like just say your interested in him and wonders how he feels or something.
the worst he can say is no
at leas... (read in full...)
Boyfriend doesn't get it..I feel like I am suffocating
Q. Im 20 but by now I had 3 serious relationships and the last one was very difficult to get over. I loved him and I still do, he is the guy you write books about hes everything every girl can dream of. But for me most importantly he loved me and hes ...
A. 24 March 2009: you need to get out there he clearly doesn't really love you hun sorry to say but if he did he would talk to you about it and not shut you out
and he would do romantic things for you because he want too.
you clearly deserve better than this... (read in full...)
Why would she get back in touch? Am I reading too much into it?
Q. Here's a bit of background before I ask the questions: I started going out with this girl after she expressed interest in me and asked me, 2 and a half years ago. We were only together 2 months, as she cheated on me with another bloke. We kept ...
A. 24 March 2009: no its because you told her wah she wants to hear and now she's trying to act like you're trying to get back with her but she doesn't want to know because you've told her why you liked her she feels better now and she doesn't want a coffee because ... (read in full...)
I don’t understand why he won’t grab the chance with me
Q. Hi Does anyone have any advice please on emotionally distant or emotionally unavailable people? I am certain that my man is one of these people. We have known each other for 18 years (we met when we were 18 and are now 36) and during that time...
A. 23 March 2009: maybe he is too afraid to get into a relationship with you because he is worried that if you guys do get together in a relationship then things go wrong and you don't like him for whatever reason maybe he has changed or vice versa the he is worried ... (read in full...)
My friend seems to have got very distant with me.
Q. My friend and I have known each other since we were about 8-9, we have been close since we met each other. Used to have a right laugh, tell each other everything. Obviously we used to have loads of other friends. But just recently she seems to be ...
A. 23 March 2009: Eugh I been through the same sort of thing just make some new friends yourself maybe she's getting a bit distant because she wants to have her freedom and like meet new and other people? I'm not saying she don't want to be your friend but sometimes ... (read in full...)
Would you want to know if I masturbate?
Q. There is this boy i really like that constantly asks me if i masturbate in a jokey but serious way...well i do a lot for a girl of my age (i think) but i awlays say i don't. I just wanted a males opinion or anyones opinion actually, to know if i ...
A. 22 March 2009: hun for some reason guys do find it a turn on
but if your embarressed then don't tell him i mean it's none of his business!
but up to you
but yeah guys do find it hott.
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He was so keen to start with, now he is blatently ignoring me... why?
Q. Help, I have been dating a guy who I just clicked with for the past 6 weeks and we have had a lot of fun. He was calling me all last week saying he could not wait to see me and that he smiles just thinking about me, to letting me down on a date as ...
A. 20 March 2009: i've been there he is probably ignoring you until you get the message which is unfair i've had that done!
your right in deleteing him number good on you!
just leave it for now if he wants to contact you fine but don't contact back!!
you wa... (read in full...)
My adopted sister & I love each other!
Q. i was adopted when i was a teenager. two years later my parents adopted a girl in her teens. we have fallen for eachother and share a very strong relationship. we tell eachother everything, we care for one another, we love each other. She is the ...
A. 20 March 2009: hun you guys are not related go for it!!!
if you guys really love each other
your parents shouldn't really mind i mean you guys are not even related both adopted like
Best of luck hun
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Too shy to ask me out?
Q. If a guy likes you and he is a few years younge than you. say you are 23 and he is 19, would he be too shy to ask you out?...
A. 20 March 2009: hyeah probably because you're a bit older than him he may think it's a silly crush and may feel embarressed by asking you out.
prehaps hint to him
or ask him out yourself if you like him.
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Why would she get back in touch? Am I reading too much into it?
Q. Here's a bit of background before I ask the questions: I started going out with this girl after she expressed interest in me and asked me, 2 and a half years ago. We were only together 2 months, as she cheated on me with another bloke. We kept ...
A. 20 March 2009: well yeah she probably is unhappy because as you said about her msn screen name about not coming back now or whichever it was but why she got back with an ex i don;t know because its the same with you
the relationship ended for a reason and what... (read in full...)
Why would she get back in touch? Am I reading too much into it?
Q. Here's a bit of background before I ask the questions: I started going out with this girl after she expressed interest in me and asked me, 2 and a half years ago. We were only together 2 months, as she cheated on me with another bloke. We kept ...
A. 20 March 2009: hun! just ask her if she wants to grab a coffee to have a catch up and talk about her problems. i'd really not go there to be honest don't build your hopes up. she's probably just using you like the other guy said until she gets someone be... (read in full...)
Why does the cheating partner turn it around like its the other person's fault?
Q. I in need of advice. I spend every day from the time i wake up around 7.30am when i know my husband gone to work, just sat in a chair i go on the computer just browsing when i am not doing this i cry i am crying now as i trying to write what i a...
A. 20 March 2009: aw hunny!!
the reason why they turn it around on you when they have been unfaithful is because they want to make it feel like it is your fault they don't want to admitt that what they have done is wrong so they turn it around on you so it makes yo... (read in full...)
Why would she get back in touch? Am I reading too much into it?
Q. Here's a bit of background before I ask the questions: I started going out with this girl after she expressed interest in me and asked me, 2 and a half years ago. We were only together 2 months, as she cheated on me with another bloke. We kept ...
A. 20 March 2009: Hun she is obviously having problems with her ex so maybe she's feeling a little low and wants some sort of a boost up from you. she's probably trying to reassure herself and wants to know why you liked her because maybe her ex whom she is back... (read in full...)
Stretch marks on my breasts. is this normal and how can I get rid of them?
Q. I have recently noticed that i have now got stretch marks on my breasts. im 15 and only have 34B boobs so i don't know if it's because there big because there not? :S i really want to get rid of them because its preventing me from being able to ...
A. 20 March 2009: hun it's probably because they are still growing don't worry you can use a cream called coco butter that's meant to be good for strech marks and they never go tehy just fade they fade the strech marks so you can't really see them
or there is somet... (read in full...)
He's with me yet he has a dating profile and a lot more besides going on!
Q. I dated this guy for about a year and a half and then we broke up. However, we still talked every day, saw each other and did basically everything people in a relationship do. I never thought for a second that he was looking for other people. I ...
A. 20 March 2009: eugh he's a trollop!
he knows how to work your buttons he knows how to make you feel bad about yourself when you have NOTHING! to feel bad about he's flirting with other girls to keep them all on their toes and then when he finds somethin... (read in full...)
I can't stop calling or checking my EX's myspace
Q. I need help I keep calling my Ex and I think he knows. I broke up with him about a year ago, any normal person would prob get over their EX. I guess that I never had closure at all, he broke up with me through a text/phone call. I asked him for a ...
A. 20 March 2009: yeah hun this is not good or healthy at all you need to move on delete his number off dialled numbers off your phone book so you have no way of calling him. as for his myspace maybe you should delete him off your friends there as well it's not ge... (read in full...)
Should we get back together?
Q. so blah blah blah this is nothing original, my boyfriend cheated on me last year and I'd always kinda kept my emotions wrapped up and stayed strong through it all. However on Saturday i was at a party and he was sayin how sorry he was and it all ...
A. 20 March 2009: hi i would get to know him again and see for yourself whether you feel he has changed or not.
but if you still feel paranoid thinking is he with someone at the moment why isn't he replying?
then i'd possibly give it up but... you never know thi... (read in full...)
Is he jealous that I'm with his friend now?
Q. I met this guy one night and we ended up getting into a makeout session lol He was really horny but I didnt do anything with him. I found out that he was a major player and he sleeps around a lot. My friend lives with him and he tells me that he ...
A. 20 March 2009: haha he totally wants you only because he was soo horny and you knocked him back which is very well done i may say!
so he wants you more now because you knocked him back and now because your with his mate he wants to try and ruin it because he didn... (read in full...)
I'm embarrassed about the size of my breasts
Q. Hi, im 14 years old and have just started high school. I look mature for my age so people usually don't believe me that im 14. I have really big boobs im a DD 36 even though i dont wear revealing clothes guys still notice them and comment which ma...
A. 19 March 2009: hunny don't you worry!!! you'll grow into them!!
boys are silly because they think boobs are funny! they are just being really immature!!!
try not to let it make you feel uncomfortable trust me alot of people out there would KILL to have tho... (read in full...)
I'm a 20 year old male, and have fallen in love with a 14 year old female.
Q. Ok, the short end of the story is that I'm a 20 year old male, and have fallen in love with a 14 year old female. I didn't realise she was 14 when I met her, I honestly thought she was 18 because she could easily have passed for a university stu...
A. 19 March 2009: hun i wouldn't go down this road to be honest it'll cause too much hassel yeah she probably does seem mature but she's only 14 she's too young for love she has her whole life ahead of her she's only just in year 9 not even close to her GCSE's she ... (read in full...)
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