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| | *lovebowsandcherries's profile:Hi i'm 20 years old i live in the united kingdom. i'm straight.
i am currently single.
i love giving advice to people and trying to make a difference in peoples lives i've helped alot of people before on a website similar to this. i also go on some of my past experience in life and hope to make other peoples lives different i also want to make the realise and hope they don't make the same mistakes i did.
so if anyone needs any help just pop me a message or something. :)
i'm a friendly person i'm a good friend loyal and i am generally lovely :) i also have facebook.
i love listening to music and i love driving it's great!!! hanging out with my friends is the best!
i love random things i love pointless drives.
If you need any advice give me a shout :) i'm easy to talk too :) and very understanding.
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Sent my ex pictures and love songs, now worried I shouldn't have done it, what do you think?
Q. I recently wrote a post about my ex and I breaking up due to me saying some things to himas he had frustrated me so bad and I had tolerated for so long though I kept apologising to him for long. It's been about a month now though. I sent him some...
A. 26 May 2009: aw hun don't be silly i amsure the pictures were beautiful and he obviously thought you were beautiful to him and probably still does.
and as you say you've sent them now.
but don't feel down about it just learn from it and leave it now for... (read in full...)
Sent my ex pictures and love songs, now worried I shouldn't have done it, what do you think?
Q. I recently wrote a post about my ex and I breaking up due to me saying some things to himas he had frustrated me so bad and I had tolerated for so long though I kept apologising to him for long. It's been about a month now though. I sent him some...
A. 26 May 2009: the thing is you don't want to flood him with love songs and pictures.
that'll just annoy him and he won't want to talk to you because he will want his space.
all i can suggest if leave him be for a while let him think things over in his head... (read in full...)
Broke up, back together, he is distant and non-responsive, did he stop caring for me?
Q. We broke up. I asked for him back because i still loved him. Then we got back together. But he never calls me. Only I call him. He never tells me that he misses me anymore. What does this mean? i don't wanna be annoying so I would let a week go by ...
A. 26 May 2009: he clearly seems still angry at why you guys broke up the first time whatever that reason was.
have you tried asking him what's wrong and why he's being so distant with you?
i mean you're not to know if he's not telling you.
give him a call... (read in full...)
Met a guy over World of Warcraft while yet in another relationship, things got confusing, what is your opinion of the state of affairs?
Q. I met a guy over World of Warcraft....he was amazing. He became my best friend and in no time we fell for each other. Well at the point in time, he was in a three year relationship, where I was in a one year. We still continued to flirt, until ...
A. 26 May 2009: i don't think you were at all stupid for doing this i mean he clearly loves you spending 4 days sleep in a car park waiting to greet you not just any guy would do that.
you shouldn't have stayed in the past relationship as you clearly wanted t... (read in full...)
Is being kissed when you didnt want to be cheating?
Q. Cutting a long story short, i was in a strip club on a stag do recently when a stripper kissed me on the mouth. It was for no longer than 2 or 3 seconds maximum (and probably less). She didn't put her tounge in my mouth and i certainly did not kiss ...
A. 22 May 2009: hun definately tell her it'll stop you feeling so guilty as you'll know it's off your chest rather than hiding it.
i mean she surely knows you love her and clearly you feel extremley disgusted by what happend and if you've never really been to ... (read in full...)
After 10 years and two kids together, he still doesn't want to marry me. Should I stick with it or move on?
Q. First of all, I thought that at this stage of my life things wouldn't seem so bad. But Then again, maybe I'm just looking for problems like my bf says to all the time....that and I'm wrong!!! We've been together for almost a decade and have two kids ...
A. 22 May 2009: don't give it up
i mean he's been faithful and you've got 2 kids together that shows a sterdy ground there i mean you've been together 10 years!!!!
that is pretty damn amazing!
why would you waste all that time to try and find someone else wh... (read in full...)
She's got a b/f, but I really want her
Q. Moderator's note: Two questions from the same sender were combined 15 nearly 16. I only know one girl that'll give me a chance and she already has a bf... What should I do?!... I'm 15 nearly 16. There's only one girl that I want to lose my virgi...
A. 22 May 2009: Afraid to say but she's off limits hun.
she's already with someone and you can't do anything really at the moment.
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Is he with her for revenge?
Q. My ex boyfriend and I were together for a year and a half the first time. We broke up, he got a new girlfriend 3 days later, I knew that she was just a rebound. Well they broke up after 7 months because she didn't want to be with him anymore and ...
A. 22 May 2009: i don't see it as revenge
he obviously knows what he wants in life and that he wants to marry and settle down with a family which is refreshing i mean he got with that girl pretty quick so i mean may not last that long but maybe it'll last for... (read in full...)
Why can't he be happy just having sex with me?
Q. Okay well i guess this is a really common topic but.. ive been dating my boyfriend for 3 years now and ive always been pretty self concious about myself but after being with him for so long i just feel like dirt. hes been cheating on me a...
A. 22 May 2009: man!
that guy is horrible!!
he shouldn't tell you that you're worthless or ugly
he should love you for whom you are!
i mean he's obviously wrapped up in himself wishing to get an uber thin model porn star girlfriend who like hardly e... (read in full...)
How to sort it out with sponging friend?
Q. I've been best friends with my bestie for about five years and we've had our fall outs, for like three months at a time sometimes, but always made up. We've had some really great times together and i am forever grateful for how hes always been there ...
A. 22 May 2009: oh really good news hun glad to hear it :)
you look towards the future and your family!
:)
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Football idol!
Q. Is it normal to favour a certain football player, is it like normal to have them as your idol? or am I weird?...
A. 21 May 2009: course it's not weird just means you admire them and hope to be somewhat like them some day
you want to be like them and follow there footsteps in some ways you look up to them to show you the way of your life.
definately not weird.
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How can I tell my kids I am divorcing their dad?
Q. Hi like your views please I am in the prosses of leaving my h/b as i cant forget him cheating and lying,my 21 years of marriage has been a sham. I hate myself for arranging all what i am doing behind his back as i feel like i am no different to him...
A. 21 May 2009: i am like you i take things to heart.
and of course after all these lies makes you wonder what else he's been lying about...
and when he goes out you think hmmm whose he with whats he doing?
and everything i completely understand al... (read in full...)
Seeing ex and her new b/f made me very angry!
Q. I went out to a bar last night, where some friends were playing in a band. I had a few drinks before I came out. Whenever I arrived, I found my ex girlfriend and her new boyfriend were there as well. At first it didn't bother me, but as the night ...
A. 21 May 2009: hun of course you do!
and you don't sound like a bad guy you sound like a lovely guy and are just really gutted that your ex whom you've said was a rubbish girlfriend has gotten someone where as you are so nice and stuff and you've not gotten some... (read in full...)
Falling for a girl that is taken
Q. i dont think im a bad guy, i help out my friends when they have problems comfort people so on, i'd never beat up a woman or anything, ect ect However i find my falling for a girl in my year that is taken, we've been friends for about 3 months b...
A. 21 May 2009: why don't you tell her to think about what is best for her?
tell her to do whatever she thinks will make her happy.
and love-strucko is right if she talks to you like this while she is with someone then how do you know she won't be like th... (read in full...)
How to sort it out with sponging friend?
Q. I've been best friends with my bestie for about five years and we've had our fall outs, for like three months at a time sometimes, but always made up. We've had some really great times together and i am forever grateful for how hes always been there ...
A. 21 May 2009: hun don't be his friend he's just using you and if he says fine don't invite me anywhere you're not willing to pay then say fine by me! save my money.
you don't need a worthless loser like that and you don't need this stress especially if you're p... (read in full...)
Should I bow out, until he decides who he wants to be with?
Q. Ok so here it is. I met a guy and I started to like him alot. I am older than he is by 4 years. I am 29, he is 23 going on 24. It took him awhile to figure out that I liked him. I finally had to tell him. We were just friends for about a month until ...
A. 21 May 2009: well hun this is very confusing i mean i don't think you're foolish at all for sleeping with him.
but the fact he's saying he thinks she's the one he's going to end up being with is unfair because it's like he's just reliving the past and not thin... (read in full...)
Had a crush on him in school, found him again, he has a girlfriend and a daughter, is there a chance for me?
Q. Please help !.I'm 25 years old, and i have recently found my high school crush on Facebook !.He hasn't changed abit in ten years !.He is a year older than me, so he left the year before i did. Just to tell you abit about it, he found out i like...
A. 21 May 2009: i think in high school he did like you i mean pulling of your hair him sticking up for you.
but at the moment as you've said he's got a kid and he's with a girl.
i mean you can arrange to meet up with him as friends and see what happens lik... (read in full...)
He spends the night at his ex's home, and tells me to deal with it. Not sure that I want to?
Q. I started seeing my bf about 2yrs ago, after getting comfortable in the relationship he confides in me that he and his ex-wife were swingers. Not only were they swingers but he had sex with almost every cousin she had (she was involved in the acts ...
A. 21 May 2009: oh my word! you are definately better off out of it to be honest seems dodgey that he always goes back to her?
especially after he admitted they were swingers?
and she has a key to your HOUSE!!! that is absurd!
you are better off out of th... (read in full...)
My mate's girl is always trying to get my attention
Q. My mates girl, well he aint much of a mates, fancy's me, she's always flirting and touching her breasts in front of me, keeps hugging my everytime she see's me, and i dont know what to do, i mean she is attractive and such, but i aint some dick that ...
A. 20 May 2009: well you seem decent so why not just like ignore her
pretend you don't care.
if she asks you for a hug say nah i'm good or something.
if she plays with her boobs infront of you she doesn't really have a high self esteem if she feels that... (read in full...)
Why am I not over him yet??
Q. Ok so the guy who I crushed on in 3rd 4th and 5th grade came back to school after Christmas. He is really hot and he was like amazing! ok so I totally picked up where I left off (totally in love with him!) every time he was around I would get really ...
A. 20 May 2009: hun you did the best thing i mean no guy is worth your time really if he is mean to your friends and he started smoking pot.
you're probably not over him because you really liked him and probably wonders why he changed so quickly...
you wil... (read in full...)
I really need to get over him. Help!
Q. I need help, I really need to get over a guy I like, I don’t know if he likes me back and I can’t keep making myself high hopes. And I don’t want to keep waiting for something that might never happen, I thought I was over him, but whenever I see him ...
A. 20 May 2009: why don't you ask him whether or not he likes you?
if he does then there is a chance if not then you can give yourself closure and move on to find someone else whom will like you and create a relationship with them.
the only way really you c... (read in full...)
Could my past be getting in the way of the present?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have been seeing this guy for about 3 months(talking for 4). We talk every day and send each other cute messages quite often. We get together about once a week or so since it's kind of a long distance thing. We recently had a l...
A. 20 May 2009: to be honest hun yes it does seem to be affecting you and you shouldn't not all guys will be like the last that's how you need to think of it.
i mean you're already getting paranoid thinking why's he not called? is he with someone?
maybe i... (read in full...)
Will I ever find someone to love?
Q. Is there something wrong with me? Every time I fall in love, I do it with the wrong person, the one that does not love me back. For the first time I found someone (one of my best friends) who i thought felt the same for me, but he's been in a c...
A. 19 May 2009: hun everyone gets stages like this. you will find someone to love. just need to keep getting out there show them all what they're missing out on with you enjoy yourself have a laugh with mates guys like to see a girl smiling and having a laugh ... (read in full...)
What is foreplay?
Q. I have been having sex for a while but I am not sure what forplay is, I need help with this. ...
A. 19 May 2009: Foreplay is the build up before actually having sex it gets both partners excited and turned on. These things involve oral sex tocuhing etc to get you both really excited before actually performing sex. Hope this helps. ... (read in full...)
I couldn't trust him before, should I give him another go?
Q. hey there, im having some boy troubles and well i need some advice please. i dated this guy a few months ago, and well he lives 2 hours away but now hes moving down 5 min away from me and he is living with his cousin, so he went down this weekend ...
A. 19 May 2009: hun in your heart of hearts do you really honestly think he has changed? do you really think he isn't a player any more? i mean he was before why does that mean he's not still? only you can really tell whether or not he has changed. it... (read in full...)
Does he like me?
Q. okayy does he like me? 1. he sent me a pic of him and was like send one to me now:] [not a provocative pic, just a normal pic]. so i did and he was like Thank You:].. 2. everytime he texts me hes always like hey beautiful(__then whats u...
A. 19 May 2009: hun he defo likes you!!! he calls you hey beautiful and sexxy and asked you for a picture! my guess is he wanted it for the background of his phone. or wanted it so he can see your pretty face more often :) definately go for it. he clear... (read in full...)
We love each other, but she still won't date me!!
Q. well im in love with this girl. and she loves me too she says. and well we do everything together and we do everything, like we are going out, we hold hands and cuddle and make love to each other. but she wont date me. she says the time isnt right ...
A. 19 May 2009: she wants all the relationship stuff but not the tie down of a relationship you're better off with out her really. i mean she tells you she loves you but how can she if she doesn't date you? you seem a decent enough guy cut her off as mp... (read in full...)
Married woman who loves two men. Should I leave my husband?
Q. I have been married to my husband for three years now during the course of our relationship he has cheated on me several times, some I can prove and some I just have a strong feeling about. Example after being married for three months I found out ...
A. 19 May 2009: hun if you can't trust him which clearly you can't then leave him. do what you feel is best for you!!! i mean can you see yourself EVER trusting him again after all these lies and things you've found out? you've put up with it this long so i... (read in full...)
My fiancee broke it off and I want her back. Maybe send a birthday card?
Q. Hello, My fiancee broke up with me a few weeks ago for reasons i have no clue. Her birthday is next week and i was wondering if i should send her a card? I still love her and care about her and i really do want her back, everyone is telling me...
A. 19 May 2009: sure you can send a card it'll be thoughtful and she'll know you care enough to remember and send a card but as Emilysanswers says don't wait until then!!! you can do that too. try talking to her or her friends to see if she's said anything to... (read in full...)
Long distance relationship - I need help
Q. This might take a little bit but I'm going crazy over here and I need to know what to do. I've been dating this guy for months now, we met offline, he lives 5 hours away from me. We see each other a lot, so it's really neat, I like the distanc...
A. 19 May 2009: Perhaps he does feel he makes all of the effort by coming up to see you alot and you never really go to see him and surprise him. I think if you did surprise him it would be a really nice treat for him and he'll know you're wanting to make ... (read in full...)
What should I do I'm in love with my cousin!
Q. I'm in love with my cousin sister since a year now. I like her a lot and want to spend the rest of my life with her. What should i do coz i can't live my life without her and she stays far away from me. I'm not going to forget her if u think i...
A. 19 May 2009: I wasn't being rude i was merely asking because you seemed to rebel against what advice we gave you. I apologize it came across as rude i really do as i never meant it too i was merely commenting back to what you said. ... (read in full...)
What should I do I'm in love with my cousin!
Q. I'm in love with my cousin sister since a year now. I like her a lot and want to spend the rest of my life with her. What should i do coz i can't live my life without her and she stays far away from me. I'm not going to forget her if u think i...
A. 18 May 2009: how can we support you?
it's family...
it's a bit twisted.
i mean you could tell her sure but what are the chances she feels the same?
i reckon extremley slim to be honest.
if you didn't like the advice then why ask for advice?
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Why doesn't he get it that I don't want to talk to him?
Q. i'm so confused with guys right now. a while ago i went to a party, drank and hooked up with this boy i met. after that night he kept texting me nonstop. at first he only bothered me by texting twice if i didnt text back within a certain amount of ...
A. 18 May 2009: perhaps he just really likes you as more than just a friend and really wants to give you guys a go.
i mean fair enough you've told him he's not getting it,
maybe talk to him on the phone and just say look you're really lovely but i really wou... (read in full...)
Cheated on b/f with best friend
Q. i cheated on my bf with my best friend......... now i don know how to tell him as i reli jus don wanna lose him at any cost.. i love my bf a lot... should i tell him...???? if yes, how????? plz help........
A. 18 May 2009: but that's the point isn't it?
you ARE going to lose him.
you chose to cheat on him and make him feel like a fool so eitehr way you're going to lose him.
i mean you do HAVE to tell him.
and perhaps if he is forgiving enough you guys may... (read in full...)
Why am I having trouble leaving him?
Q. I've been seeing this guy for about a month and a half, and at first he was really great, but now I have noticed somethings that don't set right with me. I keep thinking that it would be good for me to get away from him but again I hate to leave hi...
A. 18 May 2009: well perhaps because you do actually want to give it ago without picking at little things?
maybe you're afraid that if you do leave him you won't find anyone else to settle down with you?
or maybe you do feel you're judging a bit too quickly?... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he get it that I don't want to talk to him?
Q. i'm so confused with guys right now. a while ago i went to a party, drank and hooked up with this boy i met. after that night he kept texting me nonstop. at first he only bothered me by texting twice if i didnt text back within a certain amount of ...
A. 18 May 2009: why not just tell him you don't see anything happening with you guys and to you it was just a bit of fun, nothing more.
perhaps then he'll get the message and leave you alone :)
hope this helps.
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She's trying to keep me as a backup, what should I do?
Q. I know that by now I should be completely over her. Hell Have been going out, was seeing somebody else the whole deal. But for some reason I just can't get her out of my mind. It's been almost six months. After the break up she still came to my ...
A. 18 May 2009: well really you don't want to be treated as just a back up surely?
i mean it's unfair on you because it's like you'll build yourself up for more than just a back up until someone else comes along and then you're back to where you started.... (read in full...)
What should I do I'm in love with my cousin!
Q. I'm in love with my cousin sister since a year now. I like her a lot and want to spend the rest of my life with her. What should i do coz i can't live my life without her and she stays far away from me. I'm not going to forget her if u think i...
A. 18 May 2009: hun what can you do?
she's your cousin?
she's not going to feel the same you're family like!
nothing more.
you can find yourself a really decent girl one you'll fall head over heels with im sure with your cousin it's because you know her... (read in full...)
How can he be so heartless?
Q. I dont know what to do. I had a guy play with my head and heart for 2 years. He never said he didn't care about me but he never said he did. God I can almost say i love him. Anyway, after 2 years of being "friends with benefits" (i never wanted ...
A. 18 May 2009: thats the thing friends with benefits to guys it's nothing and girls it gets to be a little more and the guy knows that if he doesn't keep you sweet enough you'll not want to give him what he wants...
you're better off without him that's all i ca... (read in full...)
He won't speak to me! How do I get closure and move on?
Q. I was dating this guy for 5 months and then suddenly he stopped talking to me. I had asked him if we were in a relationship and he said he didn't want to be pushed into one, i said that was ok we could carry on getting to know each other. We went on ...
A. 14 May 2009: you need to be firm with him and just say to him look tell me straight why all of a sudden he's stopped talking to you because you've not recollection of what you've done to him.
i mean he may be like a guy i used to know and trying to ignore y... (read in full...)
Frightened of my boyfriend and possibly pregnant
Q. Hi I am 16years old and my boyfriend is 19. We have been going out for a little over a year a recently he has been getting angry towards me such as when i have been text ed by a friend he will ask me who it is and if i do not say then he will squ...
A. 13 May 2009: take your mum with you for support if you tell him face to face i'd personally be home with your mum call him and tell him over the phone and if he threatens you or anything ring the police PRONTO!
then he won't be able to come near you somethin... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my second cousin... she's getting married but I promised myself I would tell her
Q. I know I will be judged for this, and I know that it will be difficult for some to try and think of this in an unbiased manner. But I wish to say in my defense three things: 1.) There is no law against a relationship of this type. 2.) The...
A. 13 May 2009: why ruin her relationship by teling her? she's pregnant with this mans child getting married to him she obviously loves him. she's not going to suddenly stop the marriage for you. you probably don't even love her that way just loved the fa... (read in full...)
Frightened of my boyfriend and possibly pregnant
Q. Hi I am 16years old and my boyfriend is 19. We have been going out for a little over a year a recently he has been getting angry towards me such as when i have been text ed by a friend he will ask me who it is and if i do not say then he will squ...
A. 13 May 2009: get the police involved ring them up and tell them what he's been doing and that you want him out of your life for good. because he's just making you miserable and you're pregnant and not sure what he will do next. because i'm sure even if ... (read in full...)
Frightened of my boyfriend and possibly pregnant
Q. Hi I am 16years old and my boyfriend is 19. We have been going out for a little over a year a recently he has been getting angry towards me such as when i have been text ed by a friend he will ask me who it is and if i do not say then he will squ...
A. 12 May 2009: hun i think you ar definately pregnant!!
you need to leave this guy he don't know what love it.
and he tricked you to sleep with him because of course you can get pregnant jut after your period!
how would he know he's a guy!!
he was j... (read in full...)
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